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Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by sacramento1212: 10:49am On Jan 07, 2019 |
Toks2008: And ishiloove |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Toks2008(m): 10:53am On Jan 07, 2019 |
sacramento1212: Ishi is my padi for life. |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 07, 2019 |
The real guys don't talk but rather read to add to their knowledge. There are Men, and there are Boys. We believe that all lies on God's Grace, but as humans we ought to have "self control." Trust me, if I love a certain girl, that girl alone I stick with. Unless, if I found her in wrong paths many times, I walk away(not to cheat but stay single). Meanwhile before you be my one & only girl, I must have analyse you in most aspect of life known to me. In summary, not to boast but guys like we/me are hard to find. Only pray & be jovial to people around you, one may come your way. But you must give yourself time to study guys, pretend to flow with the rhythm & always know what you want. Always be Real!!! 2 Likes |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by sacramento1212: 10:55am On Jan 07, 2019 |
Toks2008: I know na. e don tey no be today. Make una do enter registry this year oooo |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by djoe21(m): 10:59am On Jan 07, 2019 |
Teespice: No, not at all. That is not the essence of the post. If you you would be objective and remove any preconceived notion you have about the op and his posts you would see that this very post tells more of the weakness of the male being when it comes to sexual matters. |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Mysociallife: 11:05am On Jan 07, 2019 |
djoe21:oga it is not all male beings. Stop generalising. That you are weak when it comes to sexual matters does not mean all men are.... Capichè? |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by happydavies(f): 11:28am On Jan 07, 2019 |
okoroemeka:just negodi comment |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Nobody: 11:44am On Jan 07, 2019 |
[quote author=Judybash93 post=74519407][/quote] . Toks2008 be putting fear for babe's mind. Ladies in da house make una no fear.as long as una guys love una and they are attracted to u they wont cheat. |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Judybash93(m): 11:49am On Jan 07, 2019 |
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Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Toks2008(m): 11:49am On Jan 07, 2019 |
lefulefu: More like aligning them with the stark reality of life. Any lady who hinges her marital happiness on her man's faithfulness towards her should start rehearsals on how to shed tears....O YES I know there are faithful guys out there....but this is just a fact every lady should prepare for. |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by lexy2014: 12:59pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Sparro: If u say Adam ate d Apple Eve gave him out of love, then y didn't he take responsibility & defend his wife? Y did he blame her&God? Is that ur definition of love? If he loved his wife, he would have defended her b4 God which he didn't and that is d pattern this write up is encouraging. Which is, d woman is d problem 4 ur indiscretion as a man. When u talk about logic, I clearly don't c how ur own analogy of Samson& David killing a lion has any bearing 2d points I raised. D crux of my argument is simple. as a man and as d head that we claim that we are, we are supposed 2 lead by example, in dignity, self control and self discipline. So it is convenient 4u to call urself d head but when it comes to self control, u now put that responsibility on ur partner. There are temptations all around us but u as a man have a responsibility to resist such not 2b giving excuses. U don't want ur wife 2 tie u to herself but at d same am sure u will clap 4 her when she goes out with other men right under ur nose |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by lexy2014: 1:06pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Toks2008: Am not getting it twisted. From d bible u quoted Proverbs 30 and Genesis, did d Bible distinguish sexual sin based on married women & single ladies? Or is it just a case of convenience? As a man, what does d Bible expect of u? Like i said earlier, what I expected from ur thread was to challenge men based on who we are, not 2c unfaithfulness as a norm. But ur thread hasnt done that 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Toks2008(m): 1:28pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: How old are you? No pun intended but you don't sound mature in age. Some things only make sense when you attain certain level of maturity. |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by lexy2014: 1:33pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Toks2008: Oga, address d issues I raised and leave my age out of d discussion. Someone has been questioning ur marital status, u got offended. now u are asking my age. It clearly confirms what I said earlier. When its convenient 4u its right. When its not convenient 4u, it is wrong 2 Likes |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Toks2008(m): 1:41pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: As i wrote..no pun intended but I had to ask cos you kept twisting my write up. Even the proverbs I quoted stated clearly "young" and in other translations maid was used meaning unmarried young lady but you kept making reference to Joseph fleeing from a married woman. Is it not even odd by your own reckoning to juxtapose this to joseph fleeing from a married woman?How on earth will Solomon refer to a married woman in that verse when adultery was a clear sin?, How many married men even get lured by a married woman to start with? Sometimes I could just keep mum without responding to some off point comments but I just feel it's not the ideal thing to do.. |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: My borrowing the story of Samson, David and lion is a misfit but the story of Joseph and his master's wife is a perfect example abi? Weldone Did you say as a man, as in, as the head of the home, u are supposed to be a role model to answering nature's call? Lolss. Are you saying you can stop your heart from racing and pumping when you see a beautiful woman at the same time you are Hot? Are you saying you can stop your spermatozoa from secreting gametes and/or you can prevent them from wanting to meet an egg? Are you saying you can stop yourself from having what they call wet dreams where you will find yourself making love to strange demonic women in your dreams. Because if you don't air out those pent up feelings physically, they will come out forcefully through wet dreams. Are you saying you can stop the constant headache, fatigue and unexplainable moody countenance of a man due to his over accumulation of sperm? If you can't stop all these, ok, maybe you can program the wife to be able to meet his sexual demands *ALL THE TIME* WOMEN ARE BUILT TO BE SEXED AND REPRODUCE. LISTEN TO THIS: IF A MAN CAN CONTROL HIMSELF 100% FROM FANTASIZING ON A YOUNG WOMAN, THEN, THE WIFE IS IN TROUBLE. THE WIFE CAN HARDLY BE ADMIRED AND FANTASIZED UPON. |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by lexy2014: 1:51pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Toks2008: Am not twisting ur write up. I am stating d facts. If there's anything I said that isn't true, then prove it. If u ask how many married men are lured by married women? I also ask, how many married men are lured by unmarried women? What u saying is that it is unmarried ladies who LURE married men, right? When u even say lure, in majority of sexual relationships, who does d luring? Isn't it d men? |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by lexy2014: 2:06pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Sparro: U are d one who said my analogy was illogical. Y are u now feeling uneasy cos I also said yours is illogical. If u as a man are doing all this, then u don't have self control and u shouldn't expect same from ur wife. U are only holding unto all this as a justification 4 cheating. D problem is that u think its only men who fantasise. U think women don't fantasise. U think women don't have sexual urges just like u. She feels it just like u do. U no y? because she is human just like u. That is y I told u that as u are fantasising & cheating on ur wife& u expect her 2 accept it as d norm, also accept it as d norm if she does same under ur nose. Sparro: This is an excuse every man who wants 2 cheat will give. What has fantasizing on a young woman got 2do with ur wife at home? Ur excuse is shallow cos u are saying 4u to admire ur wife ur wife, then u need 2 fantasise about other women. How's that logical? Its even d reverse. D less u spend thinking of other women, d more time u will focus on ur wife at home |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by yemicoal(m): 2:31pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
ednut1:smh |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by smat101(m): 2:43pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Michelle55:You say?
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Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by smat101(m): 2:46pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
ednut1:Gay spotted |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: If you call those natural occurrences/symptoms weakness, then, I am proud to be a weak man. Let me also take you somewhere. Every single person on earth has a distinct hormonal traits. Some people have a high libido, others have low libido. Why do people commits suicide? Killing one self is the height of cheating but people still do it anyway; not to talk of sexing outside a confined arena. What damage does sexing outside the union does compared to people that kills themselves? You can't kill yourself but there are people who sees the opportunity as a privilege. You forget that environment, upbringing and one's lineage contributes to weather they can stick to one spouse or not? Do u want to call people that commit suicide weak too? If my wife cheats on me, personally, I will be faced with two options . It is either we part ways or we live with it. Simple. All in all, before I start blaming her, I will have to consider a lot of factors like background, upbringing, environment, her lineage. My dear, life is not a do or die affair na |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by lexy2014: 4:43pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Sparro: No one is saying life is a do or die affair. These are ur natural occurrences, right?: Sparro: How is killing oneself d height of cheating? Sorry bro, but that doesn't fit into d discussion. Like I said earlier, all u are giving are excuses. We all have urges. Not just urge 4 sex. We have urges to steal, urges to lie, urges to do all sorts. But in all of this, we always have a choice. Irrespective of our background, lineage, upbringing, we always have a choice. Its either we choose to cheat or we choose not 2 cheat. In d end, a cheat will never take responsibility. He/she will blame someone or something 4 his/her indiscretion. In this case background, libido, lineage, upbringing e.t.c. A cheat knows what he or she is doing is wrong but will always justify it by saying "its not my fault. Am not responsible 4d act". Indeed, a cheat isn't responsible. Am surprised u have two options in d case of spousal infidelity. Leaving her shouldn't b an option cos I don't think u will want her 2 leave u if u cheat on her. So after assessing her lineage, background & environment, are u going 2 tell her to stop cheating? Based on what u have said, it will b hypocritical to tell her to stop cheating 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Honesty007(m): 8:46am On Jan 09, 2019 |
The reason for such issues of mistrust are lust,seduction,envy and jealousy 1st category:A lady who has a bf or a wife who has a husband would think that she satisfies him in everything ,not until a person who has seducing spirit comes.you would discover that the man or bf is no longer satisfied with any thing his lady or wife does.seducers would make the man insatiable to them only.it means they would be fed up of their wife or gf.consider it vice versa.that is what seducers do! and seducers wax worse because they break homes and break trust between 2 people. whenever 2men or women r fighting over a man,it means he has seducing spirit and vice versa |
Re: This Is Why No woman Should Trust Her Man With Any lady. by Honesty007(m): 8:58am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Lust can make people to be cheaters anyday.lust makes a person desperate to be satisfied once.lust and seduction are like matches and lighter.while seduction is the lighter,lust is a matchstick.a lighter makes insatiable ,matchstick burns out,meaning it is satisfied once. so u c that anyone who has lust would want to have what is not theirs.but in the case of seducers,its automatic.a seductive lady snatches someone instantly upon 1st contact.it is not like lust that takes time to break trust btwn 2 people. envy and jealousy are generally spurred by insecurities of a lady or wife which is not good because it brings unease and makes suspected person actually do what the suspecting person has been thinking. |
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