Toks2008:


Many of them who troll my thread do desire me and I Appreciate that though.

One certain saffi was clear about that.

sacramento1212:


And ishiloove

Toks2008:


Ishi is my padi for life.

Teespice:


A post that pits women against each other is what you want to "manage".

Have a nice day abeg.

djoe21:


No, not at all. That is not the essence of the post. If you you would be objective and remove any preconceived notion you have about the op and his posts you would see that this very post tells more of the weakness of the male being when it comes to sexual matters.

okoroemeka:
ola otu,ikpu,ohu,otele,ha Nile dicha uto

lefulefu:
. Toks2008 be putting fear for babe's mind. Ladies in da house make una no fear.as long as una guys love una and they are attracted to u they wont cheat.

lefulefu:
. Toks2008 be putting fear for babe's mind. Ladies in da house make una no fear.as long as una guys love una and they are attracted to u they wont cheat.

Sparro:


I love your logical standpoint. Let's tow the logic line then.

Any data or information aimed at creating knowledge for public use is very useful. If not for you, then there are people who have learnt not to trust any woman with their male partner just by reading through the article.

My friend, please go and kill a full grown lion with your bare hand for me. I know you can do it. After all, Samson did it in the Bible. Was it only Samson that killed a lion with his bare hand? No. Even David did it. So, I believe you can do it too.

I came back home, upon my arrival, my wife whom I love so much offered me something to eat, Something we were both warned not to eat o. This is the woman I love. We share same blood and same vein. Now, upon her offering me whatever it was, you now expect me to reject it. If that was to be the case, you will be the first to shout 'men are scum. They are selfish, they are unromantic.'

If you don't know, Adam acted out of love and trust.

Men have natural instinct to procreate for the sake of continuity. Count love out of it. Nature must win. Any available female can fertilize a man's egg.

Using Joseph and Adam's case as an analogy to demonstrate your stance is not really logical. Why? Because you omitted the circumstances relating to their respective cases.

That said, Any man or woman who thinks he/she can keep his/her partner to him/her self alone is foolish. You can't just tie a full man to yourself alone hoping that he will never admire, mate or sex any other female all his life. That is foolishness in the highest order. Are you the one that created him?

Toks2008:


You just got it twisted bro. Fleeing from a married woman is not the same as having passion for a single lady.

lexy2014:


Am not getting it twisted. From d bible u quoted Proverbs 30 and Genesis, did d Bible distinguish sexual sin based on married women & single ladies? Or is it just a case of convenience? As a man, what does d Bible expect of u?


Like i said earlier, what I expected from ur thread was to challenge men based on who we are, not 2c unfaithfulness as a norm. But ur thread hasnt done that

Toks2008:


How old are you? No pun intended but you don't sound mature in age.

lexy2014:


Oga, address d issues I raised and leave my age out of d discussion. Someone has been questioning ur marital status, u got offended. now u are asking my age. It clearly confirms what I said earlier. When its convenient 4u its right. When its not convenient 4u, it is wrong

lexy2014:



If u say Adam ate d Apple Eve gave him out of love, then y didn't he take responsibility & defend his wife? Y did he blame her&God? Is that ur definition of love? If he loved his wife, he would have defended her b4 God which he didn't and that is d pattern this write up is encouraging. Which is, d woman is d problem 4 ur indiscretion as a man.

When u talk about logic, I clearly don't c how ur own analogy of Samson& David killing a lion has any bearing 2d points I raised. D crux of my argument is simple. as a man and as d head that we claim that we are, we are supposed 2 lead by example, in dignity, self control and self discipline. So it is convenient 4u to call urself d head but when it comes to self control, u now put that responsibility on ur partner. There are temptations all around us but u as a man have a responsibility to resist such not 2b giving excuses. U don't want ur wife 2 tie u to herself but at d same am sure u will clap 4 her when she goes out with other men right under ur nose

Toks2008:


As i wrote..no pun intended but I had to ask cos you kept twisting my write up.

Even the proverbs I quoted stated clearly "young" and in other translations maid was used meaning unmarried young lady but you kept making reference to Joseph fleeing from a married woman.

Is it not even odd by your own reckoning to juxtapose this to joseph fleeing from a married woman? How many married men even get lured by a married woman to start with?

Sometimes I could just keep mum without responding to some off point comments but I just feel it's not the ideal thing to do..

Sparro:


My borrowing the story of Samson, David and lion is a misfit but the story of Joseph and his master's wife is a perfect example abi? Weldone

Did you say as a man, as in, as the head of the home, u are supposed to be a role model to answering nature's call? Lolss.

Are you saying you can stop your heart from racing and pumping when you see a beautiful woman at the same time you are Hot?

Are you saying you can stop your spermatozoa from secreting gametes and/or you can prevent them from wanting to meet an egg?

Are you saying you can stop yourself from having what they call wet dreams where you will find yourself making love to strange demonic women in your dreams. Because if you don't air out those pent up feelings physically, they will come out forcefully through wet dreams.

Are you saying you can stop the constant headache, fatigue and unexplainable moody countenance of a man due to his over accumulation of sperm?

If you can't stop all these, ok, maybe you can program the wife to be able to meet his sexual demands *ALL THE TIME*

WOMEN ARE BUILT TO BE SEXED AND REPRODUCE.

LISTEN TO THIS: IF A MAN CAN CONTROL HIMSELF 100% FROM FANTASIZING ON A YOUNG WOMAN, THEN, THE WIFE IS IN TROUBLE. THE WIFE CAN HARDLY BE ADMIRED AND FANTASIZED UPON.

Sparro:


LISTEN TO THIS: IF A MAN CAN CONTROL HIMSELF 100% FROM FANTASIZING ON A YOUNG WOMAN, THEN, THE WIFE IS IN TROUBLE. THE WIFE CAN HARDLY BE ADMIRED AND FANTASIZED UPON.

ednut1:
i have slept on the same bed with ladies and i no try to nack. My future wife is lucky

Michelle55:
My bf doesn't cheat We still have real men with morals and values out there. So I suggest you speak for yourself @Op. Not all men are cheats.. Period!!

ednut1:
i have slept on the same bed with ladies and i no try to nack. My future wife is lucky

lexy2014:


U are d one who said my analogy was illogical. Y are u now feeling uneasy cos I also said yours is illogical.

If u as a man are doing all this, then u don't have self control and u shouldn't expect same from ur wife. U are only holding unto all this as a justification 4 cheating. D problem is that u think its only men who fantasise. U think women don't fantasise. U think women don't have sexual urges just like u. She feels it just like u do. U no y? because she is human just like u. That is y I told u that as u are fantasising & cheating on ur wife& u expect her 2 accept it as d norm, also accept it as d norm if she does same under ur nose.



This is an excuse every man who wants 2 cheat will give. What has fantasizing on a young woman got 2do with ur wife at home? Ur excuse is shallow cos u are saying 4u to admire ur wife ur wife, then u need 2 fantasise about other women. How's that logical? Its even d reverse. D less u spend thinking of other women, d more time u will focus on ur wife at home

Sparro:


If you call those natural occurrences/symptoms weakness, then, I am proud to be a weak man.

Let me also take you somewhere. Every single person on earth has a distinct hormonal traits. Some people have a high libido, others have low libido.

Why do people commits suicide? Killing one self is the height of cheating but people still do it anyway; not to talk of sexing outside a confined arena. What damage does sexing outside the union does compared to people that kills themselves? You can't kill yourself but there are people who sees the opportunity as a privilege. You forget that environment, upbringing and one's lineage contributes to weather they can stick to one spouse or not? Do u want to call people that commit suicide weak too?

If my wife cheats on me, personally, I will be faced with two options . It is either we part ways or we live with it. Simple. All in all, before I start blaming her, I will have to consider a lot of factors like background, upbringing, environment, her lineage.

My dear, life is not a do or die affair na

Sparro:



Are you saying you can stop your heart from racing and pumping when you see a beautiful woman at the same time you are Hot?


Are u saying u can't control urself cos u c a beautiful woman? So if 20 beautiful women pass u at d same time, u loose control?

Are you saying you can stop your spermatozoa from secreting gametes and/or you can prevent them from wanting to meet an egg?


Does ur spermatozoa control ur urge 4 sex? What has spermatozoa got 2do with ur ability to control ur emotions?



Are you saying you can stop yourself from having what they call wet dreams where you will find yourself making love to strange demonic women in your dreams. Because if you don't air out those pent up feelings physically, they will come out forcefully through wet dreams.


Wet dreams are common during adolescence. As u grow older, u outgrow it. If u keep ur mind focused on just sex, ur body will move in that direction.



Are you saying you can stop the constant headache, fatigue and unexplainable moody countenance of a man due to his over accumulation of sperm?


Which biology textbook did u read that accumulation of sperm causes headache, fatigue& unexplainable moody countenance?