lefulefu:
many benin boys don dey bring their maga come home for christmas.there was one i see last wk for one bar to close to my side.na so d oyibo woman jus large full everywhere.she jus dey down bottles of beer .i come count about 8 empty bottles near her.dem say d owner of d bar im pickin from austria na im carry her come asper na im wife.i jus dey wonder why our brothers overseas no dey ever date or marry attractive or even average looking oyibo girls.either they must marry grandmoms or obese ugly white women.

y3mi:
Following your posts led me to this thread.
I kind of agree with you, you made good points, but why then don't we see young white males for whatever ulterior motives targeting older African women with fat bank accounts, if we can answer that, therefore I think the root of this matter can be identified.


It is obvious, the induced immense poverty that continues to be sustained by successive corrupt administration from the days of the military junta to this so-believed democratic era have led the intentionally pauperized and impoverished-minded Nigerian male-folks from the previous generation passing on to those, you've deduced based on your statistically observed majority by random occurrence, a mentality that presuppose every white women falls into elderly age bracket, obese, ugly or not would go to any length to finance their social need in exchange for love, feigned or real.
Would be back to read response already submitted by others.

MissRaine69:

You think this does not happen to older black women?
The majority of the women offer the younger man what they seek, which is a passport or residency. Now what young white male would want to target rich African women? Especially if she is in Africa and what does he hope to gain? The state looks after these young improvised white males you speak of.Most of these migrant young African men do not have access to any state support nor financial support abroad or their respective countries. These women are a way out. So they seek the women who will give them the best opportunity to stay in that respective country or if in Africa to leave.
That said there are a lot of young men kept by very wealthy Nigerian women abroad and in Nigeria but they are not in need of a Nigerian passport.
Women from all over the world do exactly the same thing with older white men. Nigerian women are no exception.

y3mi:


Agreed, and now we are getting close to the root of the issue why African young men seek not just older foreign women, but older foreign women with cash needing T.L.C. (faked or real), personally..my thoughts have gravitated towards that contemplation in the past, thoughts stirred from the same alternative means common among males who has reached certain level of hardship in this part only to be hardly dismissed by that lingering hope to view it all as a battlefield where only true warriors triumph to become KINGS!

Just to understand you correctly, your last two statements in bold, suggests that women round the world who chose to finance the well being of younger men do so for reasons other than that which makes the males ones here who by desperation of their need seek them out for personal elevation such as green card/passport/visa etc....if yes, then in that case, we are talking of two disparate phenomenon born of various Nigerian factors. One is otherwise known as 'sugar mommy/boy relationship' while the other is, well what we may call...Cougar-Claw complex.

MrBrownJay1:


These old women (who marry these desperate african dudes) come from EVERYWHERE. Many Europeans go to Jamaica/Gambia/Senegal/Morocco for sex vacations where they will meet plenty of these male ashewos on the beach..... Many then Fall in love and bring home to marry these male ashewos who are just seeking for their next meal ticket.

Many african women do exactly the same thing by Marrying old men for green cards... Its called POVERTY!

lefulefu:
many benin boys don dey bring their maga come home for christmas.there was one i see last wk for one bar to close to my side.na so d oyibo woman jus large full everywhere.she jus dey down bottles of beer .i come count about 8 empty bottles near her.dem say d owner of d bar im pickin from austria na im carry her come asper na im wife.i jus dey wonder why our brothers overseas no dey ever date or marry attractive or even average looking oyibo girls.either they must marry grandmoms or obese ugly white women.

ghettochild4u:

May I come in at this junction...
I once married a Californian lady who came down to Nigeria for d wedding in 2015..
I warned her bout not putting our wedding pix on fb.... Been that am a superstitious type n believe all this family curse thingy...
I didn't put our pix on fb...
At a point she started to complain saying that I didn't love her bla bla bla.
Note: she was 38 and I was 34.....
So it was never about chasing green card..
This was someone I met on fb in nov 2014..
And she said d most inspiring word I have ever had....
Why don't u come to America n let me help u achieve ur dreams... My response was that... Its not as easy as it sounds.... And she asked what I needed... And I said money n she promised she was gonna send me $3500
Which she did in march 2015..
Story cut short... She became insecure... Wanted out..
I had to introduce some guy who happened to be a Babcock graduate living in Cali....
Fast forward to April 2016..
These snitch started dating her.... And now he's used her n her eyes son clear...
I'm having d best laugh. I did warn her bout this dude.

ghettochild4u:

May I come in at this junction...
I once married a Californian lady who came down to Nigeria for d wedding in 2015..
I warned her bout not putting our wedding pix on fb.... Been that am a superstitious type n believe all this family curse thingy...
I didn't put our pix on fb...
At a point she started to complain saying that I didn't love her bla bla bla.
Note: she was 38 and I was 34.....
So it was never about chasing green card..
This was someone I met on fb in nov 2014..
And she said d most inspiring word I have ever had....
Why don't u come to America n let me help u achieve ur dreams... My response was that... Its not as easy as it sounds.... And she asked what I needed... And I said money n she promised she was gonna send me $3500
Which she did in march 2015..
Story cut short... She became insecure... Wanted out..
I had to introduce some guy who happened to be a Babcock graduate living in Cali....
Fast forward to April 2016..
These snitch started dating her.... And now he's used her n her eyes son clear...
I'm having d best laugh. I did warn her bout this dude.

Ugosample:


yes yes

the pursuit of a better life tho

But some end up being for real.

There is a man from my village who has been married to his older oyibo wife for say 11 years now, this year will make it 12.

So it depends really, these things are not straight forward

lefulefu:
the man probably has a young naija girl.in the village that his parents have married for him and she probably has kids for him.u think he will tell u.

ghettochild4u:

May I come in at this junction...
I once married a Californian lady who came down to Nigeria for d wedding in 2015..
I warned her bout not putting our wedding pix on fb.... Been that am a superstitious type n believe all this family curse thingy...
I didn't put our pix on fb...
At a point she started to complain saying that I didn't love her bla bla bla.
Note: she was 38 and I was 34.....
So it was never about chasing green card..
This was someone I met on fb in nov 2014..
And she said d most inspiring word I have ever had....
Why don't u come to America n let me help u achieve ur dreams... My response was that... Its not as easy as it sounds.... And she asked what I needed... And I said money n she promised she was gonna send me $3500
Which she did in march 2015..
Story cut short... She became insecure... Wanted out..
I had to introduce some guy who happened to be a Babcock graduate living in Cali....
Fast forward to April 2016..
These snitch started dating her.... And now he's used her n her eyes son clear...
I'm having d best laugh. I did warn her bout this dude.

Ugosample:


Funny enough he doesn't o
he has two kids with the woman tho. Twins (fertility treatment I bet)

He is now in his late 30s and she in her late 50s sha (front estimation)

What matters is that is sending money back to his folks back in the east.

If he wanted to divorce her, they would have divorced him since

lefulefu:
its not all that divorce.some naija guys can still be married to their old european wives while they secretly get hooked to one fresh young naija babe probably arranged by his parents.during the christmas.and easter holidays they come back to impregnate their homebased wives and after d holidays they travel back to join their old european wives.a number of nigerian ladies agree to these arrangement cos of the contant dollars and euros their diasporan husbands send to them constantly and also mind u that some of these their homebased wives have secret lovers that lash them regularly.so while the diasporan husband is performin his husband duties to his granny oyibo wife in europe his young wive in nugeria is getting lashed by a homebase lover.its just deciet upon deciet.

lefulefu:
mehn d greatest mistake u made was introducing ur girlfriend to a friend of urs.these days that so called friends hit on even their paddys wives.u ought to have done d tin silently and moved to the US .the era of trusting friends in nigeria is gone.yur friend snatch ur maga.

Angela777:

If she sent you money, why didn't you do the spouse visa and come to live with her?

ghettochild4u:


Well I learnt my lessons sha..
Now he's broken up with her as she stopped giving him money n she's discovered he's been dating another girl while they were together

ghettochild4u:

I sent her back the money to get a passport n we paid a lawyer to help with the visa n finally I paid for her flight one united airline with what's left of the money..
Actually when she went back to USA. She lost her job n shit got hard... And I had to be sending her $100 to pay for her car loan

Angela777:
Why? And they go after women over 50-60 years old. All this lots of love online to foreign much older women. Did you ever see real love in a couple where he is a Nigerian in his 20s or early 30s and she is an American or European white woman over 50-60 years old. Did you ever see this kind of marriage really working with love and respect for years and years?

Why the same guys do not marry a Nigerian old woman as they say age is just a number?

Angela777:
and what about this story? Is it love?
Gabriel Segun Ajayi, a 32-year-old Nigerian married to a 50-year-old resident of the Vologda region, died of a massive heart attack at a dance club Friday night in the city of Cherepovets, about 500 km north of Moscow.

Russian investigators have launched a preliminary probe into reports of Ajayi's death, saying that the cause of death would be determined after a forensic examination.

Earlier, the official portal of the city of Cherepovets, Russia reported that Ajayi had died of a heart attack at a local nightclub. The Nigerian Embassy in Moscow has told Sputnik that it is looking into reports about the Nigerian national's death.

Ajayi and his wife, rural Vologda region resident Natalia Vedenina, had earlier captured the attention of Russian daytime talk shows with their romance, due both to the 18 year age difference between them and the unusual story of a reported Nigerian prince agreeing to move to rural Russia to be with his wife.

A man during Russia Day celebrations on Sobornaya Square, Omsk
© SPUTNIK / ALEXEI MALGAVKO
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The young man met Natalia on the internet in 2012, with neither speaking the other's language; they communicated through an online translator. Natalia's 22-year-old eldest son was apprehensive at first, concerned that the romance may have been some sort of scam. However, Gabriel turned out to be real, and in 2016, Natalia flew to Nigeria, where Ajayi proposed. After marrying, the couple moved to Russia, and in 2017, Natalia gave birth to twin boys. After coming to Russia, Ajayi began learning the language and started working as a tractor driver and local IT specialist.
"I would spend days on the internet, and wasn't phased by the color of his skin or his age, nor the fact that he was from a completely different culture," Natalyia said in a talk show." "The more I got to know him, the more I realized that this was my man, who could feel and understand me, how I feel, even without words."

Natalyia was devastated by the news of her husband's death. "Gabriel had a massive heart attack, he collapsed and died. He wasn't on any medications. My husband didn't have any complaints about his heart. I was informed two hours after it happened…Our children are just babies –they are just a year old, they don't understand anything yet," she said.

Ajayi will be buried in the city of Cherepovets to be closer to his widow and his children. His mother lives with the rest of the family in a nearby village, and is assisting in nursing the children. The rest of Ajayi's family aren't likely to attend the funeral due to the distance and difficulties in obtaining a visa on such a short notice, according to local media.

Nigeria is estimated to have about 2,000 kings, and thousands of princes spread across tribes, villages, towns and rural communities across the country. While these families have no formal authority or role in the government, they do play a role in dispute resolution according to local customs, and some have soft power which allows them to influence local politics.
https://sputniknews.com/russia/201810151068902351-nigerian-prince-dies-in-russia/

wetdick:

it is pure scam, just go to Facebook and see their scamming stories, it is pathetic, i hate those type of guys. these women especially the white women fall for a young white fake guy typing form Nigeria they are too trusting, on the woman part, i think it is loneliness and boredom from the side of the women to fall for silly people like that.
personally, I like matured women and i have dated one before just for sex only(adventure) and nothing more

Angela777:
Sweet Love : Young Nigerian man shows off his old white bride (Photos)
http://www.joeheman.com/sweet-love-young-nigerian-man-shows-off-old-white-bride-photos/

BornagainThief:
Loz .not all of them are scam some of them are into this women, let me say it's kind of a fetish thing..

Angela777:

Yes, you are right. That's why I don't trust any white or American man in Facebook saying I love you and I wish to marry you.
Funny thing after not trusting white men, so many black African men show up saying the same and saying they are real and want to marry for real. I see it as another form of scam. Long distance, online only and a very big difference in age and suddenly big love in 1-2 days and marry me It's not real

wetdick:



always do skype call or some video call, video calls are very important.scammers hate video calls

they know that whites fall in love with whites and they will like to help themselves in distress, so they manipulate that for their gain

any man, the say i love you from the first day and want to marry you on Saturday is a scammer.

Angela777:

In America we have young men with addiction to old women, many of men even prefer older women, less drama and no kids. But African young men? It's not so common

wetdick:

this is cultural, there are very few young men dating older women in nigeria, it is rare

now for that same guy that does not date a older woman in nigeria to go and then date a 50-60 years old white woman just know that the man wants something, he is not there for love.

Angela777:

many African men really hate white women because of inferiority complex

y3mi:

Where did you get that notion from ?