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Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by cococandy(f): 9:14am On Jan 09, 2019
Nobody with sense is supposed to be on this thread supporting the man, that’s why Feminists won’t be around it like you people

Omnipresent:
Feminist will avoid this thread like plague. Nice one from the man.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by ibkayee(f): 9:17am On Jan 09, 2019
Raalsalghul:
Ah, you've finally arrived. Welcome aboard! cheesy cheesy cheesy
Lol arrived where? cheesy
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by cococandy(f): 9:17am On Jan 09, 2019
Apt

Surprisingly the doofuses commenting on here did not seem to notice that part about small girls around him. To them it’s normal
bukatyne:
Hmmmmmmmmmmm.

Husbandman wants a submissive wife (don't know his own definition) and married a lady X who seemed submissive because she had no money/dependent on her husband.

He finally decides to make her a boss so that she's independent (no such thing in marriage: we are at best interdependent) and madam brought out the unsubmissiveness in her.

Oga doesn't like what he sees and decides to 'clip' her wings.

Now madam is back to default setting with a defect: insecurity.

The problem is that the man married a poor woman and not a submissive one hence the change when she changed status.

I suspect the husband is cheating which wife was fine with till she had money and decided to take it no more. Unfortunately, oga is used to her acceptance and is wondering where the accepting wife went.

Madam no longer has money however is using the resource she has (time) to fight him.

She is also very smart and knows her leverage.

Let the husband stop following small girls and see madam's reaction to know next steps.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by cococandy(f): 9:22am On Jan 09, 2019
I bet you he cheated and that’s why she left. But he won’t say that part

You people should endeavor to use your god-given senses more often



degamemaster:
My friend read the post again and this time around slowly and more attentively.
She threatened several times to leave him, saying after all, she can take care of herself.
As a matter of seriousness, she left their matrimonial home to go stay in a hotel for a week and the man had to go beg and apologise to the hoe to come back home.
The man could've given her allegation of going yo sleep with another in a hotel let's see how she can prove otherwise.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by cococandy(f): 9:33am On Jan 09, 2019
Ziggylady:
There is no tagging anywhere,the males here are too anti-female its scary and yes i hate them..I hate wickedness to the core and that is a disease affecting 99% of nairaland males...

Males like you who enjoy castigating women needlessly without reason are the ones who dont do well in life.,especially when they find themselves abroad..That is why many of you get into trouble with the law when you leave this ountry...I am only doing you a favour by pointing out how irrational most of you are.
thank you
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Ziggylady(f): 10:06am On Jan 09, 2019
cococandy:
thank you
You are welcome.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by jakandeola(m): 10:36am On Jan 09, 2019
cococandy:
thank you
cocobeauty my darling . merry Christmas and happy new year I miss u a lot in rooms. were have you been dear
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by princfred(m): 11:09am On Jan 09, 2019
kunleweb:
Shut your dirty fingers up
Ah ah..Her fingers dirty ?
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by princfred(m): 11:12am On Jan 09, 2019
Ziggylady:
There is no tagging anywhere,the males here are too anti-female its scary and yes i hate them..I hate wickedness to the core and that is a disease affecting 99% of nairaland males...

Males like you who enjoy castigating women needlessly without reason are the ones who dont do well in life.,especially when they find themselves abroad..That is why many of you get into trouble with the law when you leave this ountry...I am only doing you a favour by pointing out how irrational most of you are.
Which kian logic be this na.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:13am On Jan 09, 2019
mechanics:
I have read the story.
If starting a business for her is not enough to make her know he is the man of the house then she should sit at home and let's sèe if that will help her know.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by princfred(m): 11:18am On Jan 09, 2019
kamez:
I don't know why most women suddenly loose their senses once they start making money.

but the guy went too far with his actions.... in a sane country, he would be in jail after his confession..


I hate idle women..God knows that I can never marry an idle woman and even if I do, then I will definitely start up a. business for her..
That's is why its best for a man to marry a lady richer than him as that's the surest way to be sure of her true colors towards him. Otherwise maybe ok but not the best.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by princfred(m): 11:23am On Jan 09, 2019
Valerie47:
This man is a bastard, I just pray she finds out and cut his dic.k
Lol . Wetin concern the mans innocent rod of office with the matter at hand?
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 12:17pm On Jan 09, 2019
princfred:
Ah ah..Her fingers dirty ?
cheesy
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 12:19pm On Jan 09, 2019
cococandy:
I bet you he cheated and that’s why she left. But he won’t say that part

You people should endeavor to use your god-given senses more often
You keep misleading the young ladies astray while you live a life pf decorum privately. With that your shiny scalp.if i hit that ya scalp.with stone eh. Wo.bo she rii
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by sacramento1212: 12:21pm On Jan 09, 2019
kunleweb:
You keep misleading the young ladies astray while you live a life pf decorum privately. With that your shiny scalp.if i hit that ya scalp.with stone eh. Wo.bo she rii
grin grin you dey find trouble oooo
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 12:21pm On Jan 09, 2019
cococandy:
I bet you he cheated and that’s why she left. But he won’t say that part

You people should endeavor to use your god-given senses more often
I bet your scalp blocked your.mind from.wrppibg aroubd the logic that sheshe's overbearing with a stibkig characyer which changed with just common.lack and opportunity the husband provides.any human male.or.female moved by lack.or abundance vacullates which iis the point here. You're leaving ib America hasnt improved you one bit. Tueh
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by bayulll011(m): 12:21pm On Jan 09, 2019
sacramento1212:
Atleast everything is back to normal as it should be between husband and wife. But the woman didn’t do well because if she was still loyal as she was before the husband setup a business for her, i don’t think the husband would have gone that far to break her wings
boss very eye opening occurrence there,i totally enjoyed what the man did,but me i no get heart to do it.
the thing about women is,they are inbuilt to be rebellious and proud most especially if they have all things going there way,they are many here around me,single working class all they say is they don't need a man lol but seriously dying to get laid with.
women generally cannot control success,its take grace to see the like of alakija still cooking for his husband,those one out there lol if you give them a yard they will take miles and take the city.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 12:23pm On Jan 09, 2019
sacramento1212:
grin grin you dey find trouble oooo
She's annoying. How can a thirty sumhin woman take sides in issues than address.tins objectively irrespective of sides.shes blind to see she has econe an anti-mqrriage warrior. What a fool of a human.beong,if America can't improve them,i.wonder where would... WWhat an annoyi peasant she is
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by bayulll011(m): 12:23pm On Jan 09, 2019
sacramento1212:
How’s the man a bastard? On top his investment and the wife was already an authority to the extent of moving out of the house to an hotel when there’s a misunderstanding until the husband will go and beg? What kind of nonsense is that huh
why replying that mooroon lo that one wey no sabi wash her pant
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by bayulll011(m): 12:24pm On Jan 09, 2019
Tamarapetty:
na this type fit begin control man if he loses his job.. .. The matter tire me
control man kee,he will show the man pepper.
God bless him
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by sacramento1212: 12:27pm On Jan 09, 2019
bayulll011:
boss very eye opening occurrence there,i totally enjoyed what the man did,but me i no get heart to do it.
the thing about women is,they are inbuilt to be rebellious and proud most especially if they have all things going there way,they are many here around me,single working class all they say is they don't need a man lol but seriously dying to get laid with.
women generally cannot control success,its take grace to see the like of alakija still cooking for his husband,those one out there lol if you give them a yard they will take miles and take the city.
If you are street smart and in position, you may even do more than the man. One just needs to be careful to avoid situations like that. Like one tamarapetty(the sensible lady here) posted , if that one happens to be the bread provider in the house temporarily, na serious problem be that for that man.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 12:36pm On Jan 09, 2019
bukatyne:
Hmmmmmmmmmmm.

Husbandman wants a submissive wife (don't know his own definition) and married a lady X who seemed submissive because she had no money/dependent on her husband.

He finally decides to make her a boss so that she's independent (no such thing in marriage: we are at best interdependent) and madam brought out the unsubmissiveness in her.

Oga doesn't like what he sees and decides to 'clip' her wings.

Now madam is back to default setting with a defect: insecurity.

The problem is that the man married a poor woman and not a submissive one hence the change when she changed status.

I suspect the husband is cheating which wife was fine with till she had money and decided to take it no more. Unfortunately, oga is used to her acceptance and is wondering where the accepting wife went.

Madam no longer has money however is using the resource she has (time) to fight him.

She is also very smart and knows her leverage.

Let the husband stop following small girls and see madam's reaction to know next steps.
Your brilliance I've always admired.always wished i cpuld kiss.your brain from.day.one. but could you please follow the narrative here with fewer assumptions?

I have four married.females. If any tries this stiff with their hubbies na me.go first vex. No.moropns sjould quote me. Two of.my.sisters are six.digit earners yet aren't overbearing. Boss ladg i can take care of myself,qhi does this? Why didnt she reject it than come up woth this bullcrap ?
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Daeylar(f): 3:37pm On Jan 09, 2019
It's that simple. They enjoy bashing women nonstop
It's enough to hate them.

It's like a sport to them. How much can I insult and degrade Nigerian women.

Bunch of bastards.

The people that supported the man's actions on this thread. Smh.

Ziggylady:
There is no tagging anywhere,the males here are too anti-female its scary and yes i hate them. .I hate wickedness to the core and that is a disease affecting 99% of nairaland males...

Males like you who enjoy castigating women needlessly without reason are the ones who dont do well in life.,especially when they find themselves abroad..That is why many of you get into trouble with the law when you leave this ountry...I am only doing you a favour by pointing out how irrational most of you are.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Daeylar(f): 3:46pm On Jan 09, 2019
Xisnin:
Have you ever met anybody who is wanted because of their poverty?
LMAO grin grin

Even on this same nairaland we keep seeing comments saying. Don't date broke girls.
Even a thread where someone said he doesn't want to marry a lady who is broke.
People were supporting him.

But a woman wants a man who has money and some people start convulsing.
Fools.

But there are some demonic people who may want someone because of their poverty because they feel such a poor person will be easier to control and manipulate.
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 09, 2019
With this post the man can spend years in prison. The wife no get real craze ooo, he will vomit all the money! To hell with marriage. He destroyed it already! .





cc Dandeeboss
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:43pm On Jan 09, 2019
MariaLavina:
With this post the man can spend years in prison. The wife no get real craze ooo, he will vomit all the money! To hell with marriage. He destroyed it already! .





cc Dandeeboss
You're right... The wife might see the post and decide to take legal action on him or leave the marriage ..BTW I don't support what the woman did in the first place..imagine helping my wife set up a shop, she becomes independent, then rub it on my face ..
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 4:43pm On Jan 09, 2019
MariaLavina:
With this post the man can spend years in prison. The wife no get real craze ooo, he will vomit all the money! To hell with marriage. He destroyed it already! .





cc Dandeeboss
Marry first and see if marriage is this disposable. Yeye
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 4:45pm On Jan 09, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
You're right... The wife might see the post and decide to take legal action on him or leave the marriage ....
No she won't. She has come to realization of her.previous.misdeed. Plus.there's no proof. He'll simply say he wrote a fiction. Marriages don't break just like that...Nope. Except fpr youbd girls thay havr no clue about what relationships is about
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jan 09, 2019
kunleweb:
Marry first and see if marriage is this disposable. Yeye
Coming from one who supported the fact that women can't handle success but at the same time gave examples of his two rich sisters who aren't overbearing. grin


You are too confused to give a piece of advice Mister. smiley
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by kunleweb: 4:47pm On Jan 09, 2019
MariaLavina:
Coming from one who supported the fact that women can't handle success but at the same time gave examples of his two rich sisters who aren't overbearing. grin


You are too confused to give a piece of advice Mister. smiley
Walks away. smiley


Not cogent enough to warrant an apt response. Try harder
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:53pm On Jan 09, 2019
kunleweb:
No she won't. She has come to realization of her.previous.misdeed. Plus.there's no proof. He'll simply say he wrote a fiction. Marriages don't break just like that...Nope. Except fpr youbd girls thay havr no clue about what relationships is about
Another angle though.... I respect your opinion too.... BTW you know women na... If she sees the post now, chances are that she would believe that's what he did.... Even if she doesn't leave the marriage,it's threatened already....
Re: Man Reveals The Length He Went To Make His Independent Wife Submissive by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jan 09, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
You're right... The wife might see the post and decide to take legal action on him or leave the marriage ....
Why are most men selfish? So self-centered!
He wants a submissive wife yet he is keeping different ladies? So he expects the wife to still be submissive, caring , loyal and attentive? Lol believe me, any lady that does that has interior motive. It is either she's dependent, or planning his best punishment. No lady can stand sharing her Man!


His prayers should be she doesn't find out because believe me, He is dead already! Either as a walking dead or ghost dead.
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