DanDeeBoss:
Another angle though.... I respect your opinion too.... BTW you know women na... If she sees the post now, chances are that she would believe that's what he did.... Even if she doesn't leave the marriage,it's threatened already....

eyinjuege:
We will soon hear wife stabs husband to death while asleep.
Anyway, na your family problem be that

kunleweb:



Women don't leave marriages just like that o. She would have gotten more.perks that'll have renewed her psyche. I.e the joy pf just having hubby all.to.hinself and having the same.money she could have made thri sweat. Getting the money for free without the worries of if he provides I'm threatened. Knowing he can provide without threatening that'll have made her.confortable,peaceful with almost no needs to worry or flinvh about.



Women are easy. Never forget this. Infact life ought to be easy,its our.selfishnessness and selfcenteredness that brings cconplexities. She now understands and appreciates simplicity

I get your point already bro....you mean The Money will keep her....some women head dey touch Oooooo

DanDeeBoss:
I get your point already bro....you mean The Money will keep her....some women head dey touch Oooooo .

MariaLavina:
Why are most men selfish? So self-centered!
He wants a submissive wife yet he is keeping different ladies? So he expects the wife to still be submissive, caring , loyal and attentive? Lol believe me, any lady that does that has interior motive. It is either she's dependent, or planning his best punishment. No lady can stand sharing her Man!


His prayers should be she doesn't find out because believe me, He is dead already! Either as a walking dead or ghost dead.

I dunno, but from the post, they should be fine now... The koko now is "she shouldn't see the post"......but as social media Don carry am put for head.... I fear...

kunleweb:


Which.goes bacl tp say if poverty or wealth can.determines an individuals character, then that petson has petsonality issues

DanDeeBoss:
This is so true...unfortunately money determines some individuals character, especially in relationships these days..... God help us

DanDeeBoss:
I dunno, but from the post, they should be fine now... The koko now is "she shouldn't see the post"......but as social media Don carry am put for head.... I fear...

kunleweb:


Anyone that an.abundance or a.lavk of.money changes them.in a rather.much.significant way has been unstable.before that.moment


Character development is key,but people don't pay attention to.it

.......@the bolded, only few people do....

DanDeeBoss:
.......@the bolded, only few people do....

MariaLavina:
I no pity am one bit


I no dey get pity for selfish and wicked people. Chai! and the woman landed for hospital! what if she had died? hain that man fit kill! just to prove a point? shuu? He could have just brought in another lady and watch if she won't return from her one week hotel holiday nah, the man went too far!

@the bolded is a logical way of dealing with the issue.... Plus other ones,

MariaLavina:
I no pity am one bit


I no dey get pity for selfish and wicked people. Chai! and the woman landed for hospital! what if she had died? hain that man fit kill! just to prove a point? shuu? He could have just brought in another lady and watch if she won't return from her one week hotel holiday nah, the man went too far!

DanDeeBoss:
@the bolded is a logical way of dealing with the issue.... Plus other ones,

kunleweb:



Stuff for the matured. Brewed only for the strong

Yeah... Love the way you reason too... Bless up bro...

sacramento1212:


I'm afraid, I don't think so. She was already forming boss in the house and sounding it to the husband's ears that she's an independent woman already and can damn any consequences. Moreover, bringing in another woman would have aggravated another problem.

Marialavina, you see una life?? Another problem.... Though there are still logical ways of dealing with same issue

DanDeeBoss:
@the bolded is a logical way of dealing with the issue.... Plus other ones,

DanDeeBoss:
Yeah... Love the way you reason too... Bless up bro...

MariaLavina:
I concur ! No time Her brain go restore factory setting.

The problem with guys these days is that they think they have all women figured out. lol, if only they know. . Anyways sha may God see them through.

I do.....i studied "womanology" ....i am in for PhD now.... Lol...

sacramento1212:


It was a temporary shock. That's all

DanDeeBoss:
Marial avina, you see una life?? Another problem.... Though there are still logical ways of dealing with same issue

sacramento1212:


It was a temporary shock. That's all

DanDeeBoss:
I do.....i studied "womanology" ....i am in for PhD now.... Lol...

MariaLavina:
Forget it! No be woman? Except she doesn't have any feelings or regards for you , believe me as soon as she knows someone is about to take her place she will calm down.


As for aggravating problems, the other woman doesn't have to be someone you are having affair with, maybe a colleague at work or a friend's lady. The point is, there is a knob in a woman's heart that her partner should have the key to.When things aren't going smoothly, you just have to use this key. Shame to those who made money this key because it's fast becoming useless.


cc sacramento1212

Lolzzzz

MariaLavina:
Forget it! No be woman? Except she doesn't have any feelings or regards for you , believe me as soon as she knows someone is about to take her place she will calm down.


As for aggravating problems, the other woman doesn't have to be someone you are having affair with, maybe a colleague at work or a friend's lady. The point is, there is a knob in a woman's heart that her partner should have the key to.When things aren't going smoothly, you just have to use this key. Shame to those who made money this key because it's fast becoming useless.


cc sacramento1212

DanDeeBoss:
Lolzzzz

MariaLavina:
I hear you nah.... You know yourself finish let alone another being?


Oga PhD owner, I hail o!

Homeschooling though

MariaLavina:
You go use money win your babe's heart ooo .

It's best when someone loves you for who you are and not what you have.

That's something I will never do..... Use money to win a lady's heart?? What nonsense.......... Any guy who wins a lady with money is in a deep sh*t.... if money disappear, she go disappear

sacramento1212:


Yes that's a possibility. Any woman that places material things first before her partner has the tendency of not showing any care even if the husband brings in another lady even if it's in disguise. Or do you think many that married their husbands did so because of love and care? Many of them got involved in marriage because they wanted to answer Mrs, have kids because of biological clock and be regarded in the society as being married. Nothing more and nothing less.

So if one is unlucky to have such kind of woman, there's absolutely nothing you do that will move her instead you are only adding pepper and curry to a boiling stew.

So the idea of bringing in another woman would have further made her wild. If she nursed the intent of having a lover, that would be a licence for her to stamp and fully execute that mission.

DanDeeBoss:
That's something I will never do..... Use money to win a lady's heart?? What nonsense.......... Any guy who wins a lady with money is in a deep sh*t.... if money disappear, she go disappear

MariaLavina:
I trust you nah

MariaLavina:
There is of course that possibility.

But there are other possibilities. It is Humane to get carried away, just as a wife may not pay proper attention to the husband as soon as her baby arrives, a man may also forget his wife as soon as money arrives. It's a two way thing and it's natural. Wonder why men finds it easier to cheat on whom they claim to love? Do you mean they never cared about their wives?

You see marriage isn't something you just create and relax, it is something you build. Continuous efforts from BOTH partners, You work together to create, build and establish the home you want. Trust me , there are will be distractions and they can come from anywhere. Arrival of kids, a new job, a better life, a cute or beautiful newly posted colleagues etc. Your determination to build your home is what will keep you in check. The discussed couples failed here. They ruin their marriage first, and now it's almost ruining their lives. And guess what? Money is the cause.


That said, it is wrong to blame a woman for a failed marriage. It takes two to tangle, Marriage is an agreement between TWO people not one. If a woman is desperate to get married, it is the man's fault for not discerning her desperation. If a woman is getting married just to be MRs , it is the man's weakness not to detect this attribute in her. Stop blame, shifting!


I believe a man who is ready to go extreme should be ready to bear extreme results.

sacramento1212:

Well, marriage is an institution that you can never graduate from till the day one dies or on the grounds of divorce. Yes it’s built and that’s the reason the certificate obtained after joining both parties doesn’t mean it ends there. Once the foundation is faulty, it becomes a problem. Any marriage built on selfish grounds will never stand whether as a man or woman.

Any of the parties can be blamed for a failed marriage it’s not a must that the woman must be blamed but it all depends on the circumstances that led to that failed marriage.

Both parties have to strive to make it work and the reason one should endeavor to carry out the checks before committing as it entails a lot.