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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:13am On Jan 11, 2019 |
XDaBOSS:he will still cheat so what is the point 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:39am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Treasuredlove:the way i grew up, everyone washes their clothes, even my dad, unless someone iS ill or busy and asks for your assistance. I didnt grow up with washing machine, but this is the rule. For years my mum pestered my dad about getting a washing machine. When she saw he had a lot of financial responsibilities, she went and got one. That washing machine is 8 years old today with no issues and my dad still washes his clothes himself with the washing machine till today. If your mother in law can wash the clothes herself, then she should. If MIL is ill or old or asks for your help and assistance then you should help. But forcing her or coercing her or using your marriage to blackmail her to wash the clothes is plain wrong, it is a sign of a double minded family. We should learn to respect each other. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by pocohantas(f): 5:41am On Jan 11, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: The question people ask on certain issues will give an insight to how they view that topic. E.g, ...If my sister slaps you, what will you do? ...Can you wash for your MIL? ...What will you do if you find out your husband is cheating? ...Can you resign your job for the marriage? ...Should married women change their number? ...Who should sit in the front seat of a man's car, his wife or mother? ...Who do you love most, your wife or mother? Observe the questions and trend. It will tell you a lot on how they view marriage/wife. Which is why I will always say, if you meet the one that has sense...marry him immediately and respect him. Lots of them do not have sense. 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 5:46am On Jan 11, 2019 |
pocohantas:my dear, it is one thing for the men to talk, it is another thing for them to do what they say. Actions speak louder than words. Have you noticed the threads in romance section calling us recently? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 5:52am On Jan 11, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by pocohantas(f): 5:55am On Jan 11, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Nawa o, this is 2019 and someone is obsessed with who washes clothes. I see them, but I get more serious things to do biko 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Ishilove: 6:34am On Jan 11, 2019 |
pocohantas:You are a very sensible person. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by ShameOnAPC: 7:19am On Jan 11, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:stop quoting me, take your lowlife else where. Evening newspaper in the making 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by SURElee(f): 8:17am On Jan 11, 2019 |
tamethem: I'm very sure because I mentioned washing machine and laundry woman to wash on weekly basis, you rushed to reply me. You didn't read where I said if the wife can wash her own mother's clothes, nothing stops her from her Mother in laws clothes(MIL)? Abi is it the MIL you didn't understand? Now if a wife works and faces Lagos traffic like I said and has weekends to rest, and attend to family chores and kids, so you expect her to use the 48hrs of weekend rest to do laundry? Biko, how much is washing machine on konga, Jiji, and jumia or cash and carry outlet on Allen Avenue? Oh! Na only the one the wife wash with her hand go clean abi? Oh! Till she overwork herself to exhaustion before you know she is a humble and hardworking wife abi? No wonder some wives look like grannies. Call me lazy all you want I'm entitled to my opinion, there are men who know they married a wife and not a slave. And why will you work round the clock year in year out and not even be able to afford simple basic equipment to make life easy for you? As I dey, I'm waiting for oyibo man to invent the machine that will be bathing me sef hahaha. Bottom line is enjoy life, reduce stress and get the basic things to ease stress. So before you call me lazy, know that some people who have equipments at home, have then so that the time spent on those chores can be channeled else where. Have a great day. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by stephnie44(f): 8:20am On Jan 11, 2019 |
nkwuocha:i cant nd wont.my mil is ######.can u imagine after visiting her for class.bought chicken for celebration.was about to fry d chicken during newyr celebration she walked up to me saying her husband counted d chicken.i was like wtf |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by SURElee(f): 8:20am On Jan 11, 2019 |
pocohantas: Are you minding them? Men who ask these questions are control freaks who feel yes, they now have a slave they paid for they can now control, they forget we no longer live in the cave man Era. Las Las they will be alright when reality dawns on them 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 8:20am On Jan 11, 2019 |
ShameOnAPC:coming from a mama's boy who can't think for himself. Lol! 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:44am On Jan 11, 2019 |
NWANZEH:.. Thanks nne.. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 8:57am On Jan 11, 2019 |
SURElee: God go help u |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by ShameOnAPC: 9:14am On Jan 11, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:you'll die of high bp on top my matter ,I don't even know you exist until you mention me, when you marry, be dragging gender equity with your husband .okponu,evening newspaper in the making 1 Like
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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 10:14am On Jan 11, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:dey didnt train u well and I feel pains u are Yoruba. I pray u got a man to marry u with dis ur useless shakara and itk. pocohantas have no hope again but if u join her na u sabi 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by 77up(m): 10:41am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Alero3Arubi:You know that kind of sisy, kid @38 op can actually make you offend the wrong person, i have marked his Monica already though I have retraced back my comment already , i have even editted some of my harsh comments and the beautiful ftc with her forgiven spirit has responded. Thank you ma'am 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by SURElee(f): 11:51am On Jan 11, 2019 |
tamethem: Amem o! |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by ShameOnAPC: 12:32pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:this shows the type of broken home you come from, its a pity your Dad still washes his clothes himself, am sure your mom is the breadwinner 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:exactly..my parents use washing machine till date. They wash themselves and even when you go visiting and you do mistake to remove just one cloth, they will pack everything and wash. Lol. They call it exercise, even me I am not understanding it.if she isn't too strong, sure, help her...it's the human thing to do or get someone to do it....but to be forcing. This op ehn na wa When you marry, na goat them tell u say you buy abi na wife you marry? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
ShameOnAPC:Nope. My dad foots all the bills and trained us all to tetiary level, my mum takes care of miscallenous bills. My dad is just like that, he wont alloow you to wash or iron his clothes. He cooks 3 course breakfast every christmas easter and birthday. Daddy is bae. To top it all. My dad is a highly educated man at the pinnacle of his career who believes wives are meant to be treated like companions, not slaves and taught us to go for men with such qualities. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
jakandeola:Oga. Find your squareroot and mind your business. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 3:21pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by XDaBOSS(m): 9:33pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Only if the love he has for you is not genuine....that's when he may cheat. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Raalsalghul: 10:18pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by lexy2014: 6:35am On Jan 12, 2019 |
hatedisplace: He didnt condemn. He only shared his experience |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by beeijeoma: 1:00am On Jan 13, 2019 |
I am a woman and I have been married for 10years. I personally see nothing wrong in washing my mother-in- law's clothes. If his parents have unwashed clothes I will pack them and wash. I cannot imagine being in a house with them and I see them washing clothes and not help out. I love my husband and so his parents are my parents. I spent a week with my in-laws after my husband and I got married and while I was there my father- in -law asked me to help him with some of his laundry which I did willingly. The idea of being used as a slave didn't even cross my mind. I was not trying to impress them or gain anything material because my parents are quite comfortable financially. I was just raised to value relationships and it has paid off so far. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 11:38am On Jan 13, 2019 |
beeijeoma:sisisioge cococandy funmisticqueen yettymuse pocohantas and other useless feminist see a real woman wit 10ywars marriage. see sence you can learn here. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 11:39am On Jan 13, 2019 |
beeijeoma:God bless u dear when ur husband married you he found a tresure of gold. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sisisioge: 1:54pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
jakandeola: Oloshii alainironu agbalagba akan...stop mentioning me up and down. I am not responsible for your situation! Forkkiiing retardina! Wussssss! Whew! That's sounds like a perfect description of you! |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
jakandeola:This boy! |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sisisioge: 2:16pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
yettymuse: Biko you are encouraging the shittthead too much! I don't want him mentioning me! The irritant irritates the heck outta me! Dang! Warn him biko. |
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