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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 5:58pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Daeylar: Now,that's my mom's yardstick.Every other is secondary. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:Then why don't you wash the clothes yourself, huh? If the only reason you're getting married is to have someone who'll wash your mother's clothes, I suggest you don't marry at all. Doesn't your mom have a daughter? It's all up to your wife sha. If she says no you gotta deal with it or divorce her. Your business. 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by InSanety: 6:02pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:the only animal here is you, a mentally unwell one at that, that is why you resort to creating mundane, mediocre threads on NL. I bet you don't even have a woman to begin with, you wey fit create thread come tag hundred NL females to come and look at it. You obviously live a sad, lonely life and create imaginary women, because no real woman would like you enough to even engage you. Keep creating threads like some psychopath. Loser 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by goodnewscliff(m): 6:03pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
IF SHE CANT!!!! FINE!!! EVERYBODY GO HELP THEMSELVES BE DAT OHH I AM NOT IN ANY WAY RESPONSIBLE FOR BAES FAMILY... i am not married to baes family....am married to bae.... we go dy runnam like dat!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 6:04pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
chiefqueen:my dear I Neva marry for DAT reason but do u think u will enjoy any marriage when ur mum in law is against u? |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:If my mother in-law is against me for not washing her clothes I'll try my best to avoid her. I married her son, not her. If my husband truly loves me he'd explain to her why I refused to do her laundry, and if she's a good person she'd understand. I did not come to this life to die because I'm a woman. I didn't choose my gender. If you say you don't like housemaids, you can always get a houseboy. Case closed. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by hatedisplace: 6:12pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
ShameOnAPC:there is difference between washing the clothes she used and u and ur mother turning ur wife to laundry woman. If i may ask who was washing her clothes b4 the marriage? Is ur mother leaving with u? Does her have the time to do the washing? Is ur wife in good terms with ur mother and so on. Don't be too fast to comdeme people. Some inlaws see themselves as god they always forgot that they have children. My inlaws are an example, always in a hurry to wash ur dirty clothes in puplic. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 6:13pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
chiefqueen:did u want ur mum in law to see u as her daughter then act as her daughter. if u came back and saw ur mum with all her clothes dirty what will u do? we are in Africa don't let dose feminist animals decived u. wen u marry me u also marry my family 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 6:14pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
ShameOnAPC:nice one boss 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Daeylar(f): 6:16pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha: People like me who expect who ever cooks a meal to preserve it nkor?. We don fail test be that. because For me this depends on who cooked. If I'm the one who cooked then I should be able to preserve my food. If I'm not the one who cooked then whoever that cooked should preserve his or her food. As for me I'm going straight to bed. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Anonymous29: 6:18pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
I have helped my in-laws wash clothes... Yes with washing machine and hand. I see them as my parents. Have always thought if my brother(s) gets married, I would be happy seeing their wives helping my parents. So I always think if I want that for my parents, I should do same. Before I always thought couldn't. I understand better now. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by hatedisplace: 6:18pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:Do it if you have time and if she is the type that appreciates. But don't start what u can't finish. I can't sit in the same room with my mother inlaw because she is a 'psyco'. She acts like she is god because she has a son. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 6:20pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
InSanety:how many pole read ur blogs who know you here. my main pple know I mention both guys and girls so dey learn from it and improve my blogs. ur genaration is sad and lonely and DAT why ur pains make u insane. d woman I date in ur life time u can only shake thier hand in ur dream on ur pako bed and dirty house u lived in. I will ignore u 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacramento1212: 6:21pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
ShameOnAPC: @ the emboldened, medicine after death. I thank you for acting as a man that you are. They fail to understand little things matters but you will see them even on Nairaland claiming feminist, boss Lady and with autocratic lifestyle. No form of submission at all. Not all that glitters is gold. Your mum sef na correct woman 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by 0ubenji(m): 6:24pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
InSanety:who will take d clothes to the machine and oversee the operation and drying Definitely not d mother that was hoping someone washed the clothes for her |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:First of all, I'm not an animal. Secondly, you and your Africa need some enlightening on equality. Even my own mother will understand if I can't do her laundry and I explain to her. If she wants to be my mother, let her act like my mother. You'd be 'lucky' if you find a woman who'd lick your ass for you in this century. Don't let your african mentality deceive you. 11 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:No its not a bad thing.. Can I go now 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by holysaint1(m): 6:26pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Mac12: u're beautiful all round. if only you were not married... I would have.......... well..... 1 Like
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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by hatedisplace: 6:27pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
chiefqueen:My sister help me tell them. Who dey wash her clothes b4 the marriage? Some in-law act like god 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 6:29pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Daeylar: Well she will tell you to do it.And ones she asked you twice,as a smart person,the kitchen is no longer new to you.She believes the kitchen soon will no longer be her issues and you're there to take over.At this point as a new wife,the wife now will decide what to cook for the family and money will be provided. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by ibkayee(f): 6:32pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
I don’t think it’s a bad thing, as long as she isn’t obnoxiously expectant. If I saw her doing any kind of domestic work I’d try to take over or at least help out. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 6:32pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
yettymuse:lols dear u are married let here u xpirince. we agree to disagree I think ur opinion. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by GIFTD: 6:33pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
All these feminist wet full nairaland una no get joy at all. What would u not do for love? UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Funky123(f): 6:34pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
InSanety:Uncle no one is bullying anyone here,You see that i can wash my MIL clothes doesn't mean someone else should,And for washing machine if it's available fine and if not it's also fine,My comment is not meant to ridicule any lady,Am running my race alone. Peace 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 6:36pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
hatedisplace: You called your mil a psycho?!? |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 6:36pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nairaland still have girls wit sence and home training. it show not all that make noise in family and romance rooms. God help our girls of today and thier marriage am impress DAT thier still girls who are matured and knew what marriage is all anout |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by jakandeola(m): 6:40pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:is that a wife? God help us not to marry DAT kind of person if u can call her dat if u are not around she can beat ur mum 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by diadem10: 6:41pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola:Buy her a washing machine. Better still, bring in the pile clothes and let your wife launder them in your washing machine and later return them. It's that simple. Why are you bent on wearing out your woman? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 6:42pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Well,any lady that's very comfortable with the family she is about to enter will definitely do everything to be accepted.If a lady is dragging her legs at first,or not trying to do things around the house,there maybe other options she is also contemplating.She may find herself reluctant to wash your mother's clothes but my do same for another person.Are you sure your woman truly care about you?just asking.... 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Mac12(f): 6:42pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
holysaint1: indeed God "nose" best |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by frozen70(f): 6:48pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
There is no big deal about it It depends on your relationship with her |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by nkwuocha: 6:48pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Adeola but you beat your woman na.How do you expect her to wash your mom's clothes when you reveal you often beat her up.Any issues that may arise in future will certainly be biased. I don't think she respects you,since it seems you try to coerce it out of her.When a woman feels she doesn't care about your family members,it's better to stay off. From my experience,anywhere I feel uncomfortable in,I rarely function well.Its a sign that place isn't for me.Let her go, you'd be doing yourselves a huge favour,trust me. |
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