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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacajawea: 7:16pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Tallesty1:I was Confused by the Question, but even more surprised by that lady's response. Leave that immature, i too know girl wey no know life alone. I feel really sad for any Nice young man that would be unfortunate to marry her 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by sacajawea: 7:18pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
lilmax:Hehehehe remember she said she is Not 'emotional' lol
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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by classicalhenry(m): 7:34pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
No mind the mumu JONNYSPUTE: |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by generationz(f): 7:35pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: if she was dangotes daughter or bill gates daughter would you make this statement or expect this nonsense from her I pity any woman who dates a man with primitive mentality and treats him like her alpha and omega Don't you know that its the way you carry your spouse( husband or wife) that your family members will treat her If you don't respect your wife and see her as a glorified house help your family would use her like a slave ( same for husband) If you treat her like a Queen your family and everyone around will respect her No one is chasing anyone out of the house except the man of the house lacks balls and can't put his foot on the ground as to how his wife should be treated. If both parties decide to get a divorce its entirely their decision and shouldn't be because family members are the decision makers. 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by eyinjuege: 7:44pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Is it a crime for a son to wash his mother's clothes? Please, get your mom's clothes out and start washing. Perhaps your girlfriend will join you and both can do it together 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by ecstasy357(m): 7:53pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Madam, there's absolutely nothing wrong for my wife to help out. It is not like it's a everyday thing. If I find myself in a similar position to help out her dad, I would. Let's not let pride fill our heart so much that we no long know the difference between right n wrong. Where is d love that we all keep confessing |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by ecstasy357(m): 7:54pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Khallyella: No, it's not bad. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
77up:There has been a previous post on this matter on family section. So this is a follow up. Try look for it and read then understand the FTC. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by generationz(f): 8:02pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
ShameOnAPC: Your girlfriend was obviously very wrong not to wash the bedsheets and wrapper she used when visiting. In fact as a guest she is expected to do certain chores except your mom tells her to completely hands off from it as her guest that she wants to relax But I'm sorry to tell you that your mom is two faced. You might feel offended but that's the truth ( in fact you and your mom) If she was her daughter wouldn't she have called her and corrected her. I know you will say your sister is well trained and can't do that sort of thing but nobody is a know it all. No one is perfect. Some people aren't very good at social interactions , social intelligence and reading people. For some people yes is yes and no is no. They don't understand that people can be passive aggressive. I'm even surprised that you will just break up with someone you chose to spend the rest of your life with. Is it that you already had many things against her and that was the straw that broke the camels back. Aren't there memories and sacrifices that you both share that will make you think twice or maybe you picked her from among several girlfriends and now you are going back to reshuffle to pick another one. At least she did the washing at the end when she realized she was wrong. This is how you men end up marrying retired slay Queens . If its washing bedsheets, floor, wall , car and cooking for the whole family these girls have a degree until you marry them. They are even fervent n church . The best spouse isn't someone who is perfect but someone who is willing to be corrected and learn from their mistakes. If you have decide to break up with the girl, let her go now instead of wasting her time sleeping with her you don't know the extent she can go to take revenge for deceit and time wasted. I think she's lucky sef 13 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Chizzychinny: 8:22pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
No problem washing ur mother - in-law's laundry(s) but it shouldn't be compulsory. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by XDaBOSS(m): 8:28pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
3 things a lady needs to enjoy and rule her marriage:
1. Win your mother in-law heart
2. Be a good cook
3. Be humble to your husband. And all other thing(s) will be an added bonus. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Slynation(m): 8:29pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
pocohantas:LOL......anyways we all have choices!! |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by omodave(m): 8:32pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Mac12: I wish I can like your comment a thousands time ....not all those one forming washing machine generation ... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by mechanics(m): 8:34pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Not bad, she also regards you and her daughter. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by SURElee(f): 8:36pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Is the husband's mother living with the son and his family? If yes, then they should find a way to do laundry in that home. They can get laundry woman or man to do laundry weekly on weekends or get a washing machine. If the woman can wash her own mum's clothes, then no issues with MIL. Then again, it is depends on the DILs schedule, she can't work in Lagos, go through traffic stress and then come back home to begin laundry of the entire village in ekiti state, she is a wife not a slave in a plantation farm. Get a washing machine, this is 2019 no longer stone age or cave man Era. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Daeylar(f): 8:46pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha:That one is different. At least you'll know that is what she wants you to do since she has asked. And ones she asked you twice,as a smart person,the kitchen is no longer new to you.She believes the kitchen soon will no longer be her issues and you're there to take over. At this point as a new wife,the wife now will decide what to cook for the family and money will be provided. Well since these are her rules and her sons have no issues with it. It's all good. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by mkpurumma090(f): 9:06pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Not really a bad thing... As far as you wash your own mother why wouldn't you do the same to her 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
generationz:if I can like your post a million times, I will certainly do that. you wrote with so much wisdom and maturity. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:28pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Biingoo: I'm not. The truth is, the OP brags about having too much money. Let him get his mama a damn washing machine. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by generationz(f): 9:34pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
queenjuli: thanks dear 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:35pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
sacajawea: Ok. I'm much in a very smooth relationship, and we are good. No hassles. You can't always be right everytime. Everyone can have the same mentality as yours. I hope you have sense in your later years. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:39pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
77up: Hahahahahhaha. Awon werey 100%. Keep them guessing. I'm no frigging feminist! 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:41pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Tallesty1: Hahahahhahahahha. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:43pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Koolking: She's not yet a wife. Still a fiancée. Until he wifes her, no homely responsibilities please. Every body has got their different opinions. Thanks. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:44pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
lilmax: Ok. Ancient of days. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:45pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
sureheaven: Ok sir. |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:47pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
pocohantas: Mehn. Bae. Leave these pained creatures. I find it very hard washing my clothes sef, to top another na hassle on him own. If I will do it, I will. If I won't, you won't force me. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:48pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
sacramento1212: Hahahahahhahaha. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:48pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:49pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Lol. Oga go sleep. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:51pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
nkwuocha: Oil dey your head. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Is It A Bad Thing To Wash For Your Husband's Mother? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:01pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
jakandeola: Lol. Must everyone agree to your 21st slavery incentive? 4 Likes |
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