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Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 4:08am On Jan 13, 2019 |
She must be advanced in age for her to have fibroid. Fibroid happens to women in their late 20s and early 30s. That's why it good to have children when you are still young. |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by martyns303(m): 5:48am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cooljuman: You gave her half the money, is she capable of raising the remaining half? Is she based in PH? attended UST? from BY? |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by martyns303(m): 5:49am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Valerie47: Not necessarily, I have seen a 22yr old with fibroid.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 7:23am On Jan 13, 2019 |
You are ignorant |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Franceez(m): 7:38am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Paxie55: He should give her reasons? Are you for real? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 7:46am On Jan 13, 2019 |
PenlsCaP:have you had major surgery before? |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 7:48am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Valerie47:it happens to even 20 yr olds 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 7:48am On Jan 13, 2019 |
martyns303:m Yes, she's capable of raising the remaining half, cos she working. Yes, we're both based in ph 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Yohh: 7:49am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cooljuman:First, why did she go for a scan in d first place before the fibroid was discovered Secondly, a scan won't reveal hormonal imbalance and there's nothing in ur story that is an indication for hormonal assay. Thirdly, having fibroid doesn't mean she cannot conceive. There are different types of fibroid actually Abd none require treatment except if symptomatic. The truth is most women u see out there have forbids but are just not big. In conclusion, I think u have been misinformed and probably deceived coz I'm not comfortable with the view u have about fibroid, hormonal imbalance didn't even fit into ur story at all. She needs to see a gynecologist. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Hisduchess(f): 7:52am On Jan 13, 2019 |
marvin906: you and this picture though |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 7:55am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Yohh: She did hormonal profile test too. The reason she went for the scan was because we had unprotected sex and she said she was in her ovulation when we had the test, when she didn't get pregnant she insisted we go for testing, that was when we discovered this whole thing. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Yohh: 8:08am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cooljuman:Then if that's d case, u are just unnecessary anxious. The fact that she was ovulating doesn't give 100% assurance she would pregnant if she has sex besides many think they know their fertile period but don't really know. Even World health organization sets a period of one year before diagnosis of infertility can be made. Both of u were just misinformed Funny enough, if she gets pregnant now, she will think it's the herbs that worked whereas she might even not have fertility problem in d first place. Pls who ordered for hormonal assay and why? There's no indication for that in ur story. |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by marvin906(m): 8:13am On Jan 13, 2019 |
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Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 8:15am On Jan 13, 2019 |
If you are earning well, pregnancy would never be an issue. Women with hormonal imbalances and fibroid still get pregnant. Shey she is seeing her menses, right? Even if she isn't, there are plenty of treatment for her whenever she wants to have a baby like taking drugs for ovulation induction or just doing IVF... If you love her, you will marry her.. And please, she should stop taking those herbal concoction.... PS: I am in your shoes ... Almost the same thing. Hers is even a more serious condition with the possibility of her not getting pregnant. But all things being equal, we are working towards getting a solution ... Modified: what's her reason for not going for surgery? |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 8:23am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Yohh: We met a gynaecologist after examining her ordered for the various tests including hsg. Doctors are of the opinion that if she goes ahead with pregnancy without surgery, she might have ectopic pregnancy. I advised she go for the surgery but she insisted that she's not going for surgery and opted for herbal medicine.now she said she's ok and all she wants is marriage. So I said let her get pregnant before marriage but she insisted on no marriage no pregnancy. Am so confused. |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 8:30am On Jan 13, 2019 |
1Ronaldo: Except she gets married she's not going for surgery. To her marriage is an assurance that I'll not leave her no matter the situation. For me I just want to know that everything is OK before marriage, cos marriage comes with its own challenge and adding fertility to it might just be too much for me. |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by chloride6: 8:36am On Jan 13, 2019 |
bigpicture001: Stop saying nonsense |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Yohh: 8:42am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cooljuman:If that's d case, she needs the surgery. Don't get deceived with herbal medicine pls. I'm sure it's the HSG result that made them decide about surgery, she did d HSG right? The fibroid might delay conception, there's higher chance of ectopic pregnancy if she conceives. if she conceives normally, there's higher chance of miscarriage too. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Biodun2013: 8:47am On Jan 13, 2019 |
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Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 8:52am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cooljuman: OK.. You guys should talk it over again. Let her see reasons with you... Marriage most times is all about understanding and compromise too. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by oluwafreshkid(m): 9:13am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Kelklein: Please explain What procedure the she undergo? What's the name of the hospital you went? Please what type of fibroid did she have? Please quote me with your answers Sorry if I'm asking too much |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by kemejack: 9:22am On Jan 13, 2019 |
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Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by theapeman4: 9:45am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cooljuman:useless girl! she most have been doing abortion before she meet you! make sure you impregnate that piece of shiit and see the kind of child you will born before going into marriage. just as how second hand product is to be tested before use so do women. |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Konki: 9:51am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Paxie55: Best advise so far. |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 13, 2019 |
martyns303:She is saying the right thing but not ABSOLUTE. The 22yr old you found may be obese as she may have started seeing her menses so early in life....like the GERMAN GIRLS |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by jakandeola(m): 11:42am On Jan 13, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:no wonder ur shakara plenty u be doctor but na for ur pocket. let see were ur gragra will lead u |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Omoge87(f): 12:10pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
Hi all. I joined this forum because as a Qualified Midwife I can say that the Poster is a bit misinformed and I just had to say my bit. Having Fibroids does not mean she will not be able to have children. I have seen and cared for many clients that conceived with ease and they have fibroids. In most cases Fibroids shrinks in pregnancy as it gets starved of oxygen so it cannot grow. The women just have regular scans to assess throughout the pregnancy. Some have normal delivery, whilst some end up with c-section- it just depends where the Fibroid/Fibroids are. Personally I don’t agree that she should get pregnant for you before marriage. I don’t think you are ready to marry her anyway. The fact is whoever you marry it is for better for worse. Your marriage appears to come with conditions and nobody knows their tomorrow. We only walk in Faith that our tomorrow will be ok. If you leave her today because of what you think she can or cannot do, what goes to say the ‘healthy’ woman you marry will be able to conceive. What if you may eventually be the problem? I have heard of many couples who have had unexplained infertility and these couples have remained together through it all. What if tomorrow you developed a medical condition- does it mean your girlfriend should also give you similar conditions ? You don’t have sex with someone on Monday and expect them to get pregnant on Tuesday. Infertility is diagnosed after one year of a couple trying - before then they won’t even qualify for IVF. If she does the surgery and they spoil her womb - will you marry her after that? Are you aware that even after surgery - Fibroids can grow back? Her choice to do the surgery or not and it is your choice to remain with her or not. Everything is a choice - but all choices have their consequences - good and bad. Even if you choose to not marry your girlfriend- my advice to you for the future is you don’t just write someone off - you don’t know what your own situation is going to be like tomorrow. My advice free her and let her go. Marriage is for better for worse - and right now she is in her worst and you appear to not be able to handle what may follow. Let her go. 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
Paxie55:Any woman that has fibroid and get pregnant most time always miscarry, that is what she is afraid of. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Seandisputed(m): 12:52pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
ValCon888: Until you stop placing women's pvssy on a pedestal and thinking with your dick you won't stop being lsick in the head. |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by Paxie55: 1:00pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
Valerie47:Yeah. And she no wan miscarriage. Surgery is good if she can do it. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by rame18(f): 1:03pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
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Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by faithfull18(f): 1:05pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
Omoge87:God bless you for this. |
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