Good day nairalanders. i have been in a relationship with my girl for the past 8 months. on several occation we do have misunderstanding sometimes the one that makes me feel heartbroken and when that happen i just terminate communication with her by deleting her phone number from my phone, i will only get the phone number back when ever she call me after weeks of not calling each other. most times during this long break my conscience start flogging me for not calling her because i do most of the calling. on the last one that happen, she have decisided not to call me i even appologies to her for not calling her when ever i meet her in her work place because she is still living with her perents and had to be open to her that i deleted he number because i can no longer use that "i lost my phone" lines; u know. none of her close friends are around now, i dont know any person now i can meet for her number. Brethren am loosing my mind now in regret, i know i deserve the treatment am getting from her because is not the first time i have deleted her phone number is just that this is the first time i am admitting that i deleted it intensionally. what will i do now to appease her. I love her so mush despite that the fact that am always in a hast to conclude.

U carry same anger problem with me, someone will end up enjoying the fruit of your labor....




From experience bro

OP you need work on your tempers as it seems you are always over reacting to issues with her......you have to go tell her the truth about losing her number

Your reversed psychological approach backfired.....
You need to be strong to handle the approach you employed....
As a psychologist, i can tell you that the love is one sided. You only tried to see if you can stay without her but unfortunately the reverse is the case.

What i will advice you is to try and make peace with her but if you meet a brick wall give her sometimes, if things remind unchanged then move on.

This is a vicious circle you are in. It could take some 5-6 years to learn the lessons being shown them and grow or forever be PeterPan.

Nacoss25:
Good day nairalanders. i have been in a relationship with my girl for the past 8 months. on several occation we do have misunderstanding sometimes the one that makes me feel heartbroken and when that happen i just terminate communication with her by deleting her phone number from my phone, i will only get the phone number back when ever she call me after weeks of not calling each other. most times during this long break my conscience start flogging me for not calling her because i do most of the calling. on the last one that happen, she have decisided not to call me i even appologies to her for not calling her when ever i meet her in her work place because she is still living with her perents and had to be open to her that i deleted he number because i can no longer use that "i lost my phone" lines; u know. none of her close friends are around now, i dont know any person now i can meet for her number. Brethren am loosing my mind now in regret, i know i deserve the treatment am getting from her because is not the first time i have deleted her phone number is just that this is the first time i am admitting that i deleted it intensionally. what will i do now to appease her. I love her so mush despite that the fact that am always in a hast to conclude.

I humbly advise you to forget about the girl because by the time she is done dealing with you, you’ll probably become suicidal. Besides, I don’t think you’re mentally and emotional mature for a relationship now, so focus on your personal development.

op can u get out of here and grow up. U are soo dull and childish. U dated a girl for 8months and u still don't know how number by heart. You are just too dull to have a girlfriend, u are so unromantic,unentertaining,unreasonable,unExciting, unserrious, senile, ..may God forgive you for treating that girl so bad.while men form anger sharp guys like me are busy smashing their bae. Urs will be with a guy like me now. Maybe kissing, smooching or doing different styles of fu. Cking the type u have not done bf sef.

Your game backfired. She's probably tired of your repeat childish performance whenever you two quarrel and wants to give you a wide berth until you grow up.

Go to her parents if possible, find her, settle your matter and then grow up. Leave stupid childish anger alone. Discuss, forgive and forget immediately there is a problem. If you can't win her back, learn from you mistake and be a better person in your next relationship.

So we all the stress in Nigeria na this your yeye story you wan take disturb us? Abeg park well

You both had a misunderstanding, you always delete her number and not talk to her for weeks, what will you do when you're married and you have a misunderstanding with your wife you'll leave the house for weeks or probably never come back I guess, you need to develop yourself, you're not matured emotionally.

Na so so love stories I just dey read today, when I go find guy wey go love me like mumu ?

thanks fellows. i have always counted on you guys

madone:
op can u get out of here and grow up. U are soo dull and childish. U dated a girl for 8months and u still don't know how number by heart. You are just too dull to have a girlfriend, u are so unromantic,unentertaining,unreasonable,unExciting, unserrious, senile, ..may God forgive you for treating that girl so bad.while men form anger sharp guys like me are busy smashing their bae. Urs will be with a guy like me now. Maybe kissing, smooching or doing different styles of fu. Cking the type u have not done bf sef.

thank you sir

Valerie47:
Na so so love stories I just dey read today, when I go find guy wey go love me like mumu ?

lemme love you baby

Nacoss25:
Good day nairalanders. i have been in a relationship with my girl for the past 8 months. on several occation we do have misunderstanding sometimes the one that makes me feel heartbroken and when that happen i just terminate communication with her by deleting her phone number from my phone, i will only get the phone number back when ever she call me after weeks of not calling each other. most times during this long break my conscience start flogging me for not calling her because i do most of the calling. on the last one that happen, she have decisided not to call me i even appologies to her for not calling her when ever i meet her in her work place because she is still living with her perents and had to be open to her that i deleted he number because i can no longer use that "i lost my phone" lines; u know. none of her close friends are around now, i dont know any person now i can meet for her number. Brethren am loosing my mind now in regret, i know i deserve the treatment am getting from her because is not the first time i have deleted her phone number is just that this is the first time i am admitting that i deleted it intensionally. what will i do now to appease her. I love her so mush despite that the fact that am always in a hast to conclude.

madone:
op can u get out of here and grow up. U are soo dull and childish. U dated a girl for 8months and u still don't know how number by heart. You are just too dull to have a girlfriend, u are so unromantic,unentertaining,unreasonable,unExciting, unserrious, senile, ..may God forgive you for treating that girl so bad.

@OP, Seriously i am also surprised as number shouldn't cause any issue, for 8 months without knowing the number is an unpunishable sin, who does that! I don't think you love her, if you do you will still know the number.

The first thing is to try cram the number till you can say it while asleep, then go to her and start reciting her number, she will forgive and forget.

But if for 8 months only you guys have had several issues i think both of you still need to work on yourselves, you are still being immature. Work also on tolerance, it will go a long way.

Valerie47:
Na so so love stories I just dey read today, when I go find guy wey go love me like mumu ?

Lol, with time everything wil fall in the right place. But use the right word, mumu is completely wrong, don't curse yourself please.

Zendinho:
Your reversed psychological approach backfired.....
You need to be strong to handle the approach you employed....
As a psychologist, i can tell you that the love is one sided. You only tried to see if you can stay without her but unfortunately the reverse is the case.

What i will advice you is to try and make peace with her but if you meet a brick wall give her sometimes, if things remind unchanged then move on.

you get brain bro

Iamtosignno:
lemme love you baby

Really, awww *so touching, I almost cried*

Olalan:
OP you need work on your tempers as it seems you are always over reacting to issues with her......you have to go tell her the truth about losing her number

i did that. i had to summon so much courage to do that

Valerie47:
Really, awww *so touching, I almost cried*

it would be wonderful so baby don't cry

[quote author=Nacoss25 post=74986267] you get brain bro

One love brotherly.....

Nacoss25:
Good day nairalanders. i have been in a relationship with my girl for the past 8 months. on several occation we do have misunderstanding sometimes the one that makes me feel heartbroken and when that happen i just terminate communication with her by deleting her phone number from my phone, i will only get the phone number back when ever she call me after weeks of not calling each other. most times during this long break my conscience start flogging me for not calling her because i do most of the calling. on the last one that happen, she have decisided not to call me i even appologies to her for not calling her when ever i meet her in her work place because she is still living with her perents and had to be open to her that i deleted he number because i can no longer use that "i lost my phone" lines; u know. none of her close friends are around now, i dont know any person now i can meet for her number. Brethren am loosing my mind now in regret, i know i deserve the treatment am getting from her because is not the first time i have deleted her phone number is just that this is the first time i am admitting that i deleted it intensionally. what will i do now to appease her. I love her so mush despite that the fact that am always in a hast to conclude.

What's all these rubbish na
Kini gbogbo kantankantan yi naaaa
Are u a man at all

Iamtosignno:
it would be wonderful so baby don't cry

The tears are almost dropping, I'm holding it back..

was in the same boat about 17 years ago

all I can say is, let nature take its course

Valerie47:
Na so so love stories I just dey read today, when I go find guy wey go love me like mumu ?

are you beautiful? do you have a fat ass and big breast? can you speak latina, french, and German?

BornagainThief:
are you beautiful? do you have a fat ass and big breast? can you speak latina, french, and German?

Let's talk allowances, how much will I be getting every month?...

Valerie47:
Let's talk allowances, how much will I be getting every month?...

common,I thought love don't cost a thing.

BornagainThief:
common,I thought love don't cost a thing.

I thought you are supposed to love me for who I am and not what I carry or languages I speak?

Valerie47:
I thought you are supposed to love me for who I am and not what I carry or languages I speak?

True. but sometimes these things are necessary ooo especially the breast and ass part

BornagainThief:
True. but sometimes these things are necessary ooo especially the breast and ass part

Money is also necessary, na love we go chop?

Valerie47:
Money is also necessary, na love we go chop?

loz of course it is, , good Night dear.

Work on your anger issues before working on your relationship. I had a relationship that ended exactly the same way yours is headed now. She had a habit of deleting my number at any slightest misunderstanding and I kept on warning her that a day would come when she would wait to get it back but she never listened and the last time she did, I never called back and that was it. She sent some emails asking for the number later on but it was too late, I had a lot going on to accommodate such stress at that moment.