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Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Uglymugg: 5:36pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
baralatie:I don't know that a marriage contract can be terminated on account of lack of sex. She can consult with a marriage lawyer. She's probably in Britain where the law works. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by baralatie(m): 5:37pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Uglymugg:it is called irreconcilable differences in Nigerian terms |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 5:38pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
baralatie: Always close next to one another when I try cuddle him says I'm tired got work in the morning turns over and sleeps. Sometimes this happens after I put candles on dressed up for him. He says I look nice but he is tired. Like shall I give him energy pills or I just need to wake up and accept he isn't interested in me? |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 5:41pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
baralatie: I really wanted the marriage to work Why can't he just be a normal man? He will then try saying I beg you , I will change once home office sends him a letter stating he must now leave the country. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by baralatie(m): 5:43pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Nene05:you need to have some advanced seduction skillz but what exactly is the nature of his job (physical or mentally engrossing ) |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by iboboyswag(m): 5:44pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Funny but if true... Then there is an inherent sexual problem with the man. Did you guys have sex during the relationship? If say yes, what would say about it? |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by baralatie(m): 5:47pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Nene05:it is either you nag it out of him,seduce him or you get a good job that pays in seven digits thereby making you have control over you life. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Uglymugg: 5:48pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
baralatie:lol |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Next2Bezee(m): 5:56pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Nene05: Well there's a possibility he is seeing someone else, or he just does not find you sexually appealing anyone. Furthermore, you are too submissive and cater to his every need, and because of that, he now looks down on you totally. Apart from the sex issue, I don't know how the rest of your relationship is, but I can take a guess that it's not as it once was. Leave him. You have only 1 life to live. Don't let someone that does not appreciate you waste more months of your life. Happiness is free. Leave him. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Totopounder: 6:03pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Nene05: *drink his beer*.....smh He values his beer than fulfilling his manly duties in bed Either he has a low testosterone which is influenced by his high beer intake or he is knacking another lady outside |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 6:26pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
baralatie: Don't know if to scream or cry I have even said I can move out or have an open marriage. Yes I do want to start a family if he wants to wait needs to speak with me and we use condoms have no problem but don't deny me sex or may not be around when you get home. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 6:31pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Totopounder: he doesn't stay out etc. . asked him already if he's sleeping with someone else. He's never late home don't think it's this he just wants me miserable. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 6:35pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
baralatie: No heavy lifting Job -no warehouse. Light work Customer service care |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Daviddson(m): 6:44pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
It seems like there's more to this story than you have said, I'm very sure. But then, you'll not want to reel out all the details for the sake of privacy. There has to be what begun this whole coldness. Do you mind saying what it's? I suppose you were the one who coerced him into marrying you. Good men usually find it difficult sustaining feelings for ladies they didn't chase after before getting. The bad ones will continue to sleep with you deceiving you that they love you while keeping girlfriends outside. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 6:44pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
iboboyswag: The sex is good when we have it but hardly ever. We both enjoy. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Totopounder: 6:46pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Nene05: Either he wants you miserable or he has a low libido.....7months is fvcking too long,mhen you have really tried whilst still being submissive and staying respectful to him |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Twoclans(f): 6:47pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Nene05: What is the age difference between you guys ? I ask because if he is within the age bracket where men begin to decline in sexual urge and you are in the age bracket where u are still sexually active then you have a huge problem in your hands . Regardless ,its your call sit down and think of how best to resolve your problem. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Totopounder: 6:48pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Daviddson: This assumption is totally wrong and false,don't pass a wrong info out there,speak for yourself bro |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 6:49pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Uglymugg: He gives me compliments how I look and gets jealous and annoyed if I say think of finding a real man who desires me. Sometimes I feel he wants to be the female In the relationship. But don't allow this to happen. If I express my feelings with him on this topic he thinks I'm bullying him WTF ?? Before he got his visa was affectionate responsible man now it's all about him doesn't care about my feelings etc. ., |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 6:53pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Twoclans: He's 41 |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 6:59pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
donkilidon: He's a type of guy who keeps himself to himself. Most of his friends and family are in Nigeria. And yes no sex or affection in 7 months. I'm affectionate person even hugs and kisses like from my parents. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by 2buffagain(m): 7:03pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Does your pussy stink tho? (Big factor that) Have you been letting yourself go tho? Answer these and we go from there. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 7:07pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
lefulefu: I'm younger than him I'm 32 he's 40 Also I'm house wife although thinks he would prefer me to work. He refused to help me with the house so left my job stay home cook African food and other delicious dishes. He likes the food etc just too tired to satisfy me |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Ginomel(m): 7:08pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
2buffagain: Must you ask that?That is not enough reason. Poor advice. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by 2buffagain(m): 7:11pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Nene05: Sorry that you're going through this. If a man changes as soon as he gets his visa, then it is clear what game he was playing. EDIT: OP is at fault. Keep reading thread. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Ginomel(m): 7:21pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
My dear OP, Don't be deceived by that his work work pressure excuses. Apart from sex, is he romantic to you. I am sure the answer is no. The only thing that could kill a man's libido for a woman is lack of love for the woman in question. Or he is seeing another woman. Confront him and ask him if he wants you or not. That you can't cope with the loneliness again. I feel for you and the condition you are, nothing pains a woman like not being valued that's the only reason women are tempted to do some undesirable. Simple truth to you. Don't be deceived by queer answers here. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 7:36pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
baralatie: He works prefer the man the head and works and I stay home and iron cook clean etc. .. I'm his full time helper. He likes me been submissive -I can't be submissive if a man expects me to go out and work like a man. Our living costs are low and things better this way. When you have less appreciate things more , plan things and know where every penny goes. No spare money for another woman etc. .. Only our household and we spoke about having a family and planning before hand. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 7:39pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Ginomel: No he is not romantic -I find him exhausting |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Twoclans(f): 8:02pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
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Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 8:22pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
lefulefu: He's got a long way to go as only temporary visa. So I'm not worried about been used. |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 8:22pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Twoclans:32 |
Re: Husbands Lack Of Sex And Intimacy In Our Marriage by Nene05: 8:25pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
lefulefu: I'm a stay at home wife- cook clean and serve him. |
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