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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Sultty(m): 9:24am On Feb 05, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin This can only come from an irresponsible yahoo boy. When u were hitting hard u forgot protection now she's pregnant my guy is asking for opinions on nl. Anyways congrats in advance

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Lexusgs430: 9:24am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.


State ur reservations and run DNA afterwards.......
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by dante0147: 9:26am On Feb 05, 2019
Germanpoison1:
Has she done pregnancy test to confirm she is truly pregnant, or is she assuming she is based on "ceasation or delay" of her menstrual flow? Because, the story doesn't really add up. If she was ovulating by 20th of December, she was supposed to menstruate by first week of January which she did and no woman menstruates while pregnant. So, if she is truly pregnant after menstruating in January, then someone else should be held responsible.
But, I advise you take her for a pregnancy test to ascertain if she is even pregnant cos women can just miss their period for even up to six months for no just cause.
Perhaps, you said the last menstrual flow came earlier than expected, so its possible the stuff is just being irregular.


Things have really changed a woman can be 3 months old pregnant and still be menstruating...
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Neddyned(m): 9:26am On Feb 05, 2019
Congrats you are now a father
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Nobody: 9:28am On Feb 05, 2019
carry your cross, when you were doing it did you tell us
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by 1zynnvn(m): 9:30am On Feb 05, 2019
Germanpoison1:
Has she done pregnancy test to confirm she is truly pregnant, or is she assuming she is based on "ceasation or delay" of her menstrual flow? Because, the story doesn't really add up. If she was ovulating by 20th of December, she was supposed to menstruate by first week of January which she did and no woman menstruates while pregnant. So, if she is truly pregnant after menstruating in January, then someone else should be held responsible.
But, I advise you take her for a pregnancy test to ascertain if she is even pregnant cos women can just miss their period for even up to six months for no just cause.
Perhaps, you said the last menstrual flow came earlier than expected, so its possible the stuff is just being irregular.

There is something called implantation bleeding.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by technicallyrich(m): 9:30am On Feb 05, 2019
women use abortion as bussiness,they will purposely get pregnant so that you will give them money expecailly when the man is married or rich.
They might collect 50k,claiming a proffessional will do it.later they wiil use highest 5k for the abortion,and make gain of 45 k.imagine doing these to atleast one of their numerious boyfriend every month.
2nd scenerio
women have natural calculator that they use to calculate men future,if he is going to be rich,famous rtc.and travelling out of the zoo to europe is a sure banker because the zoo currency is useless like shit paper compaired to dollars.
Final verdict
if you dont want the baby,or like her just give her 30k and tell her that you are not ready.afterall apart from opening their leg like scissiors, and moaning baby please cum inside,looking for free food,always farting(mess) and doing abortion,what else do the zoo girls know how to do.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Nobody: 9:31am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.
You are responsible..

What she saw was not menstruation, it was implantation bleeding. Occurs close to the menstrual cycle.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by kingharzy: 9:31am On Feb 05, 2019
ValCon888:
Just here to read comments from the sexperts on this thread.
undecided

Shift make i siddon

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by firstolalekan(m): 9:31am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.
You are not responsible
DO NOT BE FOOLED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by mrkings84(m): 9:31am On Feb 05, 2019
Bros you are likely to be one of the conjoined fathers..... Accept ur responsibility, cheers
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by viralgarage: 9:31am On Feb 05, 2019
See how wizkid drags Tony elumelu on stage at his first 2019 show


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugzodt42xs0
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Nobody: 9:31am On Feb 05, 2019
Bros. Leave her here in Nigeria to give birth. Afterwards conduct a DNA test and verify that the baby is yours. You have no idea what Nigerian girls are capable of. This is the best advise anyone can give you, anything other than this is falling into her scheme (if any).

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by tintingz(m): 9:32am On Feb 05, 2019
Oh my, wait for the delivery of the baby and do a DNA test.
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 9:33am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.
if u had abstained or used a condom it would have saved you the stress of becoming an emergency statistician grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by pocohantas(f): 9:34am On Feb 05, 2019
MannieA:
So you both had unprotected sex and she didn't take contraceptive pills to avoid pregnancy or find another way to avoid getting pregnant??

Hope you are ready for fatherhood??

E clear say una want pikin.

Lmao cheesy
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Jeremy1234: 9:35am On Feb 05, 2019
Lightangel65:


He should tell her he has the money and is going to do the DNA test and see her reaction.
If it's really his child she would agree with hesitation.
If not she would be hesitant


She may be in nairaland o

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by airsaylongcon: 9:36am On Feb 05, 2019
SmellingAnus:
True talk... I know two of my married friends wey dey Bleep as if the world wan end soon... Both no dey use condoms even with oloshos/stripers... And they say it with boldness... Some guys get mind Sha...

These guys don sign their death warrant and stand ready to die by firing squad. Which is fine as every adult is entitled to making their choices. But why dem dey sign their wives death warrant? E good?

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by chibowobbed(m): 9:37am On Feb 05, 2019
femi4:
Yes it's quite possible. In fact, some goes as far as 4-5months before their menses stopped. Intending baby daddy.....fatherhood don catch you!
No one menstruates after conceiving.
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by clive2u(m): 9:37am On Feb 05, 2019
where are you traveling to? hope u no dey leave nigeria
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by firstolalekan(m): 9:39am On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
I want to ask eh, is being in a relationship an avenue to have unprotected sex?
I bet you are a virgin, if not, FUUUUUCCCCCKKKKK you!

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by ElPhoche(m): 9:39am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.
There is a phenomenom called 'implantation bleeding' which occurs after the fertilized egg is now attaching to the wall of the womb. Sometimes, this bleeding could be mistaking for menses because it occurs around the time that would expect the next menses.
Congrats in advance...
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by rottennaija(m): 9:40am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

You did the did, you do the time
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:42am On Feb 05, 2019
I still dey learn sha... Lemme sit back and read comments.... cheesycheesy to the Op, well-done
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by firstolalekan(m): 9:42am On Feb 05, 2019
Speedyconnect15:
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A woman can ovulate while menstruating naa.

Welcome to another phase!

Anything sweet is paid for

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lol
Funny nonsense DOCTOR
In your village, normal when ovulate when pregnant abi?
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Yewandequeen(f): 9:43am On Feb 05, 2019
@Evtspez
Why are you agitated? She never told you she is pregnant, she only told you that its delayed. Why worry so much? even her worrying about the delay will affect her cycle.
If she had her period early January say 2/3rd, today is just 5th. Period can be delayed for up till 35/36th day. I am sure by friday she will see her period and if she doesnt by then. Wait one more week and buy #50 test kit for her to check.

Until then relax and stop worrying urself abt DNA stuff.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by viewflux(m): 9:47am On Feb 05, 2019
Brother, use your head before you say, had I know.... Because you want to travel out she is suddenly pregnant, you know how many guys girls don truncate their abroad movement with pregnancy....
Don't argue with her, let her born the child in Nigeria and after you have done DNA and confirm the child to be yours, then move her to abroad as you said... I bet you, if it's not yours, she will terminate the pregnancy before presidential election reach...
No allow emotion deceive you.... She just took her last chance to get you trapped....
No come here come tell us watin happen to you for abroad... Woman right big pass MAN right for Europe.
I dey tell you out of experience...*that pregnancy is not yours*

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 9:54am On Feb 05, 2019
SEX IS SWEET BUT........
Have you ever
wondered why God carefully
positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a tiny membrane that
partially or completely covers the opening of
the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.
Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable
tissue full of blood at the very door of the
sexual opening of the female?
Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance,
like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new
house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away
when it is broken?
Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a
sign and a token of a covenant between the
bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.
Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a
casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant
struck and confirmed by the blood shed on
that day.
This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges
in to this woman shall only be able to do so by
making a blood covenant to be joined to her
for the rest of his life, from that point onward.
Little wonder why sexual intercourse was
designed by God to take place only and only
after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one
who made the body (the hormones, organs,
nerves, tissues, e.tc) God said it in clear terms
, “Now, the body is not for fornication”.
Anyone who chooses to use the body for
fornication must know that he/she is working
directly against God’s plan and there would
definitely be a consequence either now or at
old age!
There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural
process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the
first guy that enters in to her especially at that
particular time when the hymen breaks.
There
is no covenant without blood: this is why the
membrane contains enough of it.
As a matter of fact, what happens the first
time a lady has sex is not just sex but an
immersion and a bathing of the man with her
hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is
highly recognized in the spirit realm of both
light and darkness!
The first time this happens
just marks her opening day covenant ceremony
and each subsequent experience goes on to
further refresh or strengthen that covenant or
establish another version of it with another
person.
Many have washed useless boys with that
hymen-blood.
Many have struck irreversible covenants with
men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual
activity with demon-possessed men while some
others have struck such precious covenants
with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it.
If only they knew,many girls who carelessly
allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid
to be among the so called “big girls” would
never have done so.
The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not
know that he who is joined to a harlot
(through sexual activity) is one with her ?
This is why many girls are not yet married yet
their spiritual composition is already shattered
and imbalanced, because they have mingled
their souls with that of different men.
Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite
proportion of your virtue that leaves you each
time a man enters into you and when that man
leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how
much of yourself would be lost each time a
man enters into you without any properly
signed marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to
another. All of these things have strong and
terrible spiritual implications.
A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of
the man that broke it, any other spirit
whatsoever that may have mingled with that
man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs
with him and the spirit of any other man that
enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that
pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What
happens between the lines could be deadly and
dangerous.
The very first day a lady, or a man does that
there will be spiritual transfer of destiny.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Gaddafi1: 9:58am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Unfortunately you have made the mistake of getting involved in premarital sex which has resulted in a state of confusion. Please don't make the second mistake of abandoning her or aborting the pregnancy as the child may be yours. Give her all the support until the child is born and then go for a DNA. We will talk after the DNA. Cheers
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by frozen70(f): 10:01am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Having read what you posted, I am not sure you know what you are talking about or where you have found your self

Are you desperate to have a baby or you are madly in love with her and you can't leave her behind as you intend travelling

Are you that soft that you accept any thing you are told or are you scared of loosing her

How prepared are you with this adventure you are planning, both emotional and financial

Is it that you will marry her and travel with her.
That means finance is not your problem or are you scared of loosing her to another man

You don't want her to suffer just because she is playing a smart one on you that she is pregnant, let me ask you,
Are you not suffering to be able to stand as a man

Anyway it's your choice, since you lack some experiences, involve your matured elder sisters if you have any and the truth will come out

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