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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by pek(m): 10:01am On Feb 05, 2019
Germanpoison1:
and no woman menstruates while pregnant.
Let me overlook that cause I am sure it was borne out of nothing else but ignorance. FYI, some women menstruate in the first four months of pregnancy. Telling I have some seen two personal cases.
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:02am On Feb 05, 2019
SEX IS FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY;
SEX IS MEANT FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY, IF YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED FORGET ABOUT SEX. SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS A CURSE TO ANYONE WHO INDULGE IN IT.
BUT REMEMBER: WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF SEX, THEN GET MARRIED.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by enemyofprogress: 10:03am On Feb 05, 2019
AdaAde:
This generation and sex....smh
So many illegal babies scattered everywhere. angry
walahi to use you do ritual just dey hungry me
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by BareFacedLies(m): 10:04am On Feb 05, 2019
SmellingAnus:
True talk... I know two of my married friends wey dey Bleep as if the world wan end soon... Both no dey use condoms even with oloshos/stripers... And they say it with boldness... Some guys get mind Sha...

Truth be told banging without condom is much sweeter but you need to be very selective
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by peteruuu(m): 10:04am On Feb 05, 2019
Germanpoison1:
no woman menstruates while pregnant.

It does happens sometimes.
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:05am On Feb 05, 2019
LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND; LOVE DOES NOT ENVY OR BOAST; IT IS NOT ARROGANT OR RUDE. IT DOES NOT REJOICE AT WRONGDOING, BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Ajuma002(f): 10:06am On Feb 05, 2019
grin grin
AdaAde:
This generation and sex....smh
So many illegal babies scattered everywhere. angry
Lmao see ur mouth[i][/i]
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:07am On Feb 05, 2019
DON'T PARTICIPATE IN WIDE PARTIES AND GETTING DRUNK, OR IN ADULTERY AND IMMORAL LIVING, OR IN FIGHTING AND JEALOUSY. BUT LET THE LORD JESUS CHRIST TAKE CONTROL OF YOU, AND DON'T THINK OF WAYS TO INDULGE YOUR EVIL DESIRES.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by LINTUNE(m): 10:10am On Feb 05, 2019
AdaAde:
This generation and sex....smh
So many illegal babies scattered everywhere. angry
i can see u are not among this generation undecided
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:10am On Feb 05, 2019
PONDER ON THIS...
LADIES,
Don't think having sex with a guy will make him love you. You will only get confused with your feelings. Learn to draw the line between love and sex. A man's emotion is not connected with sex but yours is associated with your feelings. Men can have sex with many ladies without having any feelings for any of them. But a woman finds it difficult to let go of a man who disvirgined her or whom she enjoys sex with.
GENTLEMEN,
Don't pressure ladies for sex when you are not ready to take up its responsibility. Being a man is not about how many ladies you have slept with, it is more of how many ladies you've helped to become better. Not by making them a mother by circumstance, abort a pregnancy or delaying their progress in life. But by bringing out the best in their career, ambitions or virtues in life

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by LINTUNE(m): 10:11am On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
I want to ask eh, is being in a relationship an avenue to have unprotected sex?
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Mystick: 10:12am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.
I had a similar experience sometime ago, though mine is slightly different because I used condom but babe insisted I was responsible for her pregnancy. I didn't argue much, I just said okay. I will foot your medical and upkeep bills from now on until the baby is burn, then thereafter we will do a DNA on that baby. Heaven help both of us, let the baby be truly mine, else both of us will regret what will happen to us. I told her, that was a promise.
The following week, I called her to move into my apartment if she wants, same week I booked an appointment with my doctor to run a pregnancy test on her to ascertain how old the pregnancy is at least to confirm that it happened around when we met. She refused to go for the test, even when I proposed we do it in a public hospital away from our state of residence if my doctor was her reason for refusal. She still refused.
It was then I pressured her into telling me the whole truth, which turned out to be that I'm not truly responsible for the pregnancy.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by LINTUNE(m): 10:12am On Feb 05, 2019
Speedyconnect15:
lol

Go to ashi joints and see guys doing it raw with ashi.

Almost all guys get bj from ashi too.

They feel it's normal and sweeter.

People get mind shaa!
for real kiss
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by LINTUNE(m): 10:13am On Feb 05, 2019
grin
ednut1:
yes. What else are they supposed to be doing Read book grin
this one weak me
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:15am On Feb 05, 2019
THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF LOVE: KIND LOVE AND FLESH LOVE.
KIND LOVE IS A TYPE OF LOVE EVERYBODY SHOULD PRACTICE ON DAY TO DAY BASIS. BE KIND TO PEOPLE ALWAYS, LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF.
FLESH LOVE OR CANAL LOVE IS THE TYPE OF LOVE I HATE SO MUCH, IT'S ALSO REFERS TO LUST, IT'S INCLUDE SEXUAL LUST, IMPURITY, SENSUALITY, WHICH IS NOT GOOD FOR BELIEVERS.
I DETEST THIS TYPE. . . .

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:18am On Feb 05, 2019
YOUR BODY IS NOT THE TEMPLE OF BOYS AND GIRLS, OR MEN AND WOMEN;
YOUR BODY IS THE TEMPLE OF "GOD"
THE CREATOR OF THE HEAVEN AND EARTH.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by LINTUNE(m): 10:19am On Feb 05, 2019
BareFacedLies:


Truth be told banging without condom isuch sweeter but you need to be very selective
ave only banged only one girl raw.. Cos I trust her, and know her type very rare, not some sex maniacs I know.. Have refused to sex so many times, because condom is unavailable.. I pity guys that take this kind of risk
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Maximumheight6(m): 10:20am On Feb 05, 2019
Congratulations. Welcome to fatherhood

Check my signature to migrate to Canada
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:21am On Feb 05, 2019
THE WAY YOU DRESS IS THE WAY YOU ARE ADDRESSED.
ALWAYS WEAR CLOTHES THAT COVER THE SENSITIVE PARTS OF YOUR BODY.
WHENEVER YOU PUT ON CLOTH, MAKE SURE YOU WEAR SOMETHING THAT COVERS YOUR BREAST. DO NOT DRESS LIKE A PROSTITUTE WHEN YOU ARE NOT A RUNS GIRL.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Hotzone(m): 10:22am On Feb 05, 2019
Hmmm

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Dinho20(m): 10:23am On Feb 05, 2019
MARRIAGE IS NOT A UNION, MERELY BETWEEN TWO CREATURES, IT IS A UNION BETWEEN TWO SPIRITS; AND THE INTENTION OF THAT BOND IS TO PERFECT THE NATURE OF BOTH, BY SUPPLEMENTING THEIR DEFICIENCIES WITH THE FORCE OF CONTRAST, GIVING TO EACH SEX THOSE EXCELLENCES IN WHICH IT IS NATURALLY DEFICIENT.

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Nobody: 10:28am On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
I want to ask eh, is being in a relationship an avenue to have unprotected sex?


Yes,raw is law
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Enitxt(m): 10:28am On Feb 05, 2019
grin
U have jam grin
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Tobidinho1: 10:29am On Feb 05, 2019
grin

Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 05, 2019
OP, your inability to think with your brain over pleasure of less than 30 mins have put you in a trap.

Prolly tying you down as you are about to travel.

The chances of you being responsible is 50/50 but that's your cross to bear.

Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by Raylight2(m): 10:30am On Feb 05, 2019
are you really sure you are traveling? you are a father now o. congratulations o
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by AngelAhnie(f): 10:30am On Feb 05, 2019
technicallyrich:
women use abortion as bussiness,they will purposely get pregnant so that you will give them money expecailly when the man is married or rich.
They might collect 50k,claiming a proffessional will do it.later they wiil use highest 5k for the abortion,and make gain of 45 k.imagine doing these to atleast one of their numerious boyfriend every month.
2nd scenerio
women have natural calculator that they use to calculate men future,if he is going to be rich,famous rtc.and travelling out of the zoo to europe is a sure banker because the zoo currency is useless like shit paper compaired to dollars.
Final verdict
if you dont want the baby,or like her just give her 30k and tell her that you are not ready.afterall apart from opening their leg like scissiors, and moaning baby please cum inside,looking for free food,always farting(mess) and doing abortion,what else do the zoo girls know how to do.
Keep quiet! Reasonable people are talking

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by janejive(f): 10:30am On Feb 05, 2019
YOU ARE THE FATHER!!!!

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Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by IDEKEALUMONA(m): 10:35am On Feb 05, 2019
Take her to ultrasound scan centre, if the gestational age corresponds with (or close to) the first day of her period in December,you may be responsible, but if the gestational age corresponds with (or close to ) the first day of her period in January,you are not responsible.

NOTE: This advice is based on the assumption that she left your house almost immediately after her period in Jan.

It will be nice if you also furnish us with exact dates regarding her periods in Dec and Jan, and when she left your house in Jan.
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by veneza(f): 10:36am On Feb 05, 2019
Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Am sorry to say this; that's not your baby.
She actually had a period before leaving your house,what are you thinking?
Seeing are period earlier is either her hormone change or she has been lying with dates.
Re: Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? by technicallyrich(m): 10:42am On Feb 05, 2019
AngelAhnie:
Keep quiet! Reasonable people are talking
if not to beg me money for food,house rent,money for pad and for aportion,pant etc never mention me again.
Prostetudee.

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