It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them " No " in a public space.

Usually it requires some courage to approach anyone, but twice more for the same sex. I would be honest I have kissed a girl before, but I am straight and didn't really enjoyed the activity or idea and was coerced .

Mine happen that one time I had Pharm-Lab orals in the University, quite early in the morning so invited my study partner to my place overnight ( had a room off campus )

Some how we got bored around 2/3am so she suggested we chatted instead of sleep. Hence, we started talking about TV shows, then romance, love, then sex and it got steamy too quickly ( I guess that was her intention )

She walks off suddenly to the bathroom, spends a few minutes and returned half nude with only a blue short ; her Bra was gone, with her breast fully aroused. She explians it because of the heat, asks for a shirt but before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs hard and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )

It was so surreal: I was on my back, with her left hand pulling down my jeans and her right cupping my breast. She gives up on the jeans as I resisted her hands-- still grappling, and struggling with the new person on top of me --- quickly she pulls up my top and took one of my breast in her mouth.

Thoughts run through my mind. I was too shocked to react , and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one of the best in the class, outside nobody would believe me ) I was getting raped by a girl.

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her with " leave me now or I will scream " You should see her face. But Reading that morning was weird, I didn't sleep again out of the fear she might complete her planned rape of me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place. After begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me and told me all she had done to get close to me. It was so bizarre. She asked us to be just Bleep buddies, and keep it down low, and she will love me more than any man would.

I couldn't even laugh. I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !

I have never been approached by a fellow man before.
But if any man tries rubbish with me, na yo tear am slap sure pass.
I don't condone nonsense.

I have been approached thrice.....Me always ask myself what dey see in me self. The first one was while i was still in sec sch, a good friend of mine but much older than i am. Immediately he brings out his intension, I just ignore and stopped talking to d baba totally.

The other one was in the Uni, as a guy wey dey hustle to feed and pay for sch fee and other bills for sch na, I need find something wey go give me money. It happened that i was a ticketter in a cafeteria and as such attend to people first b4 dey get their food.

Naso this guy go come and be acting all nice and cool, gives me tips at times, d day bros ask for my number, na dat day i know wadup, he kept asking me to be his bf, asking for my naked pics for some cash. Me just ignore him and his chat totally, till i misplaced my phone thats wen he stopped Pestering my life with pleads.

The current one is a guy that helps me handle expatriate files at immigration office, tho he hasnt asked me abt it but he has started showing triats of what others shows...I hope God gives me wisdom to handle his matter cus his is dicey as it affect my work.

Just once i was even angry ...me way like woman

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Some times ago, during my IJMB days, I was a new student in the school, during my hostel registration I applied for one of the rooms upstairs, even though everyone else were applying for rooms downstairs, school resumed and it turnee out just few of us were living at the top of the building,so I decided to visit guys at one of the rooms downwatairs as I was always getting lonely and bored ,with time we became friends with guys in the room, unknown to me there's this gay guy in the room sizing me, so anytime I visit them ,the gay dude always give me extra attention and engage me with talks most times, me thinking he was just a normal friend started moving with him, next thing he started sitting very close to me and getting touchy touchy, then I stopped going to the room altogether ,next two days guy climbed all the way to my room asking me for a copy of my assignment,told him I don't have any with a vexed look on my face, he still hung around my bed touching my legs every opportunity he gets, so I had to tell him there's heat in the room that we should go outside.
next day,this dude brought up the courage to tell me he likes me same time trying to touch my back, and that he is getting hard already , I just kuku arrange the hostel boys to warn him, and them reported him to the school management,haba!
I was just imagining why would a boy be attracted to his same sex when especially there are very beautiful girls around the school

Amakavula:
It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them " No " in a public space.



Mine happen that one time I had Pharm-Lab orals in the University, quite early in the morning so invited my study partner to my place overnight ( had a room off campus )

Some how we got bored around 2/3am so she suggested we chatted instead of sleep. Hence, we started talking about TV shows, then romance, love, then sex and it got steamy too quickly ( I guess that was her intention )

She walks off suddenly to the bathroom, spends a few minutes and returned half nude with only a blue short ; her Bra was gone, with her breast fully aroused. She explians it because of the heat, asks for a shirt but before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs hard and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )



Thoughts run through my mind. I was too shocked to react , and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one of the best in the class, outside nobody would believe me ) I was getting raped by a girl.

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her with " leave me now or I will scream " You should see her face. But Reading that morning was weird, I didn't sleep again out of the fear she might complete her planned rape of me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place. After begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me and told me all she had done to get close to me. It was so bizarre. She asked us to be just Bleep buddies, and keep it down low, and she will love me more than any man would.

I couldn't even laugh. I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !

, Hmmmmm. I don dey take style dey like this girl oo!!.

Yes I have. It's just disgusting and disturbing. God will punish anybody that says he's born a gay.

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Yes I have been asked before, I don't want to go into details because I simply do NOT want to go into detalis, all I can say is that, certain things can happen in ones life that'll make you question yourself as a woman, some level of curiosity can be very dangerous so it's better to stay away completely if you know you cant handle it well.

ishilove I believe you've had an awful experience with this, pls common gist us

.Yeah, a lot of times....

One happened last night.. story's too long to share.. Buh I just walked out of the room, out of her and her madness...

Another that left me dumbfounded was when I was coming back from school one day. This mature woman, should be in her late 40s, parked her car, stepped down and was calling me from the other side of the road... I thought she needed direction or something.. I greeted her with respect and all that, then she said she called me to tell me how beautiful I am.. Hiaaan.. I was dumbfounded, surprised, shocked, name it.
. I calmly thanked her and was about to leave when she held my hand and said I should give her my number, that she needs to talk to me later.. I was like "Ahh, auntie". She continued with her flattering, complimenting my boobs. Who does that??.. I kuku left her there. told her I didn't have a phone at the moment.. She asked if I was hungry so she could buy me food. I calmly declined and walked away with lots of curious eyes staring at me... She had this devilish smile on her face.. I walked as fast as my legs could carry me.. I was actually scared that she could be one of these ritualists...

Another happened about two years ago, had this crazy friend. I never knew she was a lez.. She took me to her hostel room one day and damn! play play cat fight start o, the next thing babe was humping me from behind o.. What came over her?. I got up and looked at her surprisingly.. I think she was shy. I simply told her that hope she doesn't do rubbish with those hostel babes cause this period that infections are flying up and down even girl can give you infection. I advised her and left to my house o...


In as much as I try my best not to judge homosexuals, I still find the act very disgusting and boring... I calmly turn down their advances in a way that wouldn't hurt them.. cause I know most of them are really really sensitive...

back then at nsukka.jude was a new tenant at our block. dude was at his mid thirties,good looking and many girls in our street was tripping for him but i always wondered why it is hard to see him with ladies.was sitting close to him viewing arsenal vs chelsea match one afternoon,he became so nice to me,tells people am his younger version.later we became friends ,he slaps my butt and touches my chest(ahbi na breast) and lips and all that but i was quite young and innocent to read between the lines(i was 17).at our street speculations arose that he is gay,and i started avoiding him litle by litle.one day i was at his room playing this sega mortal combact game and i heard this idiot pleading with me to come and touch his errect dick(he don naked and i no know sef). i sprang up and zoomed off,he followed me but i outran him and went downstaires,i kept running until i entered my room.immediately, he sent me a text begging me to keep it to myself and i replied "i cover my butthole with the blood of jesus"

Not really but I have this male friend that is older than me.When ever we have handshake ,he is always reluctant to let go off my hand.I will be struggling to free myself but he will be rubbing my hands just the way you would do to a lady.Though he does not say anything relating to being gay,I find it all weird and odd.

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OdikwaRisky:
ishilove I believe you've had an awful experience with this, pls common gist us

As in ehn, odikwa very risky

yea I have been approached many times. by guys and they are very friendly and helpful. assuming I was gay I would have fallen bcus of how they compliment me and other things. the closest one that ever happened to me was a friend of mine (so I took him)was stylishly asking me out since 2015 but I didn't feel and he knew sometimes in public he touches me always want his body to be close to mine and I still didn't feel because I didn't know shit about them or how they behave. he always comes to my house from then we will go to their house. so a day came he came to my house and we later went to his house. he brought food he pulled his clothes and came with only boxers and that's the day I knew he was gay he started touching me sexually and I told him to stop and that's when he was telling me coldedly that he is gay and he isn't sexually attracted to girls, that he likes the way I behave that am cool and started begging me. and I warned him that am not gay and that was d last time I went to his house. I embarrassed him sometime in 2017 he started crying and begging me. he was stylishly telling me that he would like to date me last year on whatsapp but he isn't gay so it won't happen. that's when I boiled up and he started begging I warned him if he tries it next time I'll block him and if he sees me on d way he should act like he doesn't know me. he begged and I left him

One Gay Once Called Me and Even Sent Me Airtime. Wanted Us To Be Lovers, i Nearly Vomit...

I have never been approached. I have never known any gay man. Nice description, anyway, with how you and Chiamaka went down. This Amakavula has really seen things. Ahhhh! Chiamaka.

Amakavula:
It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them " No " in a public space.



Mine happen that one time I had Pharm-Lab orals in the University, quite early in the morning so invited my study partner to my place overnight ( had a room off campus )

Some how we got bored around 2/3am so she suggested we chatted instead of sleep. Hence, we started talking about TV shows, then romance, love, then sex and it got steamy too quickly ( I guess that was her intention )

She walks off suddenly to the bathroom, spends a few minutes and returned half nude with only a blue short ; her Bra was gone, with her breast fully aroused. She explians it because of the heat, asks for a shirt but before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs hard and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )



Thoughts run through my mind. I was too shocked to react , and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one of the best in the class, outside nobody would believe me ) I was getting raped by a girl.

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her with " leave me now or I will scream " You should see her face. But Reading that morning was weird, I didn't sleep again out of the fear she might complete her planned rape of me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place. After begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me and told me all she had done to get close to me. It was so bizarre. She asked us to be just Bleep buddies, and keep it down low, and she will love me more than any man would.

I couldn't even laugh. I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !

You Fvcking Disgusting Lying Bitch!

Yeah by one of my girlfriends lol. It was quite uncomfortable cause I didn’t know she was bisexual and she was more of an acquaintance then. As females we tend to compliment each other a lot, but it got out of hand when she started making compliments that was uncomfortable and I was trying to be in denial with her, out of the blue she asked me out and I was trying to not hurt her feelings and at the same time not trying to do something that was weird to me, but I said No, it wasn’t right.

SheCool:
Yeah by one of my girlfriends lol. It was quite uncomfortable cause I didn’t know she was bisexual and she was more of an acquaintance then. As females we tend to compliment each other a lot, but it got out of hand when she started making compliments that was uncomfortable and I was trying to be in denial with her, out of the blue she asked me out and I was trying to not hurt her feelings and at the same time not trying to do something that was weird to me, but I said No, it wasn’t right.

So you Gonna Lie you did Not feel any attraction to her? Or lust?

I have never been approached by any guy maybe because my face is too tough for such act.
but i hav fccked 2 les in 3some action.
they r sexually hyper active

My married nebor in those days. She told me her husband wass a one minute man and she don't want to cheat on him. All she wanted was an orgasm, a feminine touch. A tender feeling. Aha me give my follow woman orrgasm. I am not judging her o but I am not attracted to her in way. The thought is disgusting to me. Mother of 4kids.

oboy81:

You Fvcking Disgusting Lying Bitch!

Enjoy the attention, the is the last ever reply you would get from me. From this time forth oboy81 you are dead to me.

I have been asked out by a guy plentifullly on social media. I have lost count. I just go straight to the point that I am straight. And I sometimes like to tease them sef.
Only on social media

Katier00:
My married nebor in those days. She told me her husband wass a one minute man and she don't want to cheat on him. All she wanted was an orgasm, a feminine touch. A tender feeling. Aha me give my follow woman orrgasm. I am not judging her o but I am not attracted to her in way. The thought is disgusting to me. Mother of 4kids.

Would you have given it a go if you considered her attractive and she hadn't given birth or gotten married?

Amakavula:
It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them " No " in a public space.



Mine happen that one time I had Pharm-Lab orals in the University, quite early in the morning so invited my study partner to my place overnight ( had a room off campus )

Some how we got bored around 2/3am so she suggested we chatted instead of sleep. Hence, we started talking about TV shows, then romance, love, then sex and it got steamy too quickly ( I guess that was her intention )

She walks off suddenly to the bathroom, spends a few minutes and returned half nude with only a blue short ; her Bra was gone, with her breast fully aroused. She explians it because of the heat, asks for a shirt but before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs hard and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )



Thoughts run through my mind. I was too shocked to react , and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one of the best in the class, outside nobody would believe me ) I was getting raped by a girl.

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her with " leave me now or I will scream " You should see her face. But Reading that morning was weird, I didn't sleep again out of the fear she might complete her planned rape of me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place. After begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me and told me all she had done to get close to me. It was so bizarre. She asked us to be just Bleep buddies, and keep it down low, and she will love me more than any man would.

I couldn't even laugh. I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !

Bisexual girls are hot market.
Every guy wants to lock down a woman who, when he sees something new he likes, he doesn't need to hide or cheat.
He simply tells his wife and they both fukc that biitch to sleep...together.
Beautiful teamwork

It's basically the promise of a 3some for the rest of your life.
Got a nigga feeling like a relatively much poorer king Solomon up in there.

ElsonMorali:


Would you have given it a go if you considered her attractive and she hadn't given birth or gotten married?

this is Nairaland my dear. They will come for my head o. On a serious note, no. Went to a single sex school but that stuff never crossed my mind

kelvinrhs:
I have been asked out by a guy plentifullly on social media. I have lost count. I just go straight to the point that I am straight. And I sometimes like to tease them sef.
Only on social media

Hmmm, how did you tease them ?