UFEDO95:
Good evening everyone, pls I will need our sincere contributions and ideas about this topic.let's share perceptions, stories and experience to help educate,enlighten and empower our Ladies. thank you my people.

Saffi:
I believe that you’re stupid.

Divay22:

Whatyasay?

Nothing, just wanna start the "bashing"....

chisco82:

Lekwa Eze Ure

Elder0001:



When kids talk it’s not hard to know Cox their words are not always devoid of insults .

DanDeeBoss:
Nothing, just wanna start the "bashing"....

ibkayee:
Can’t emphasise the importance of a woman having her own money enough, even if your husband is ok with fully taking care of you, still have something you can fall back on.

It’s empowering, self fufilling, it brings independence, multiple streams of income won’t hurt the household, you’re less of a liability, if your guy falls on bad times you can step in and help, being entirely reliant on your guy can open doors for misbehaviour (cheating, abuse, etc)

There was a recent story of one peanut head Nigerian man who destroyed a business he helped his wife build because he felt she was becoming ‘too proud’. When you have your own, if things go wrong you will have more options

So many reasons

AirstarKane:
You couldn't have said it any better. I am who I am because of my mom. The patrichal system especially in the west is a failed one.only few men take care of their children without being polygamous. I am tolling my mom's line. Infacr, I have thought of having my own house before getting married anyhow I must be independent so help me God.

Divay22:

Lol
I know you can't, it just wouldn't suit your Mr nice guy profile.

maestroferdi:
Most women have very little emotional quotient/intelligence to control weight and still remain obedient/submissive.

They fair poorly in handling power...

ToyinDipo:

The man is a role model, I heard he was celebrated

Obainoneandonly:
bro,dat man deserves a national award for what he did..... I read d story and I was inspired....... I had to do d same to my girlfriend, but on a smaller scale to his

AirstarKane:
You couldn't have said it any better. I am who I am because of my mom. The patrichal system especially in the west is a failed one.only few men take care of their children without being polygamous. I am tolling my mom's line. Infacr, I have thought of having my own house before getting married anyhow I must be independent so help me God.

Philpham:


Morons like you remain single for life. Too bad women are dumping gold diggers like u

dynamic007:
It is very important for any human being male or female to have some level of financial muscle. Apart of the confidence it confers on the woman, it will also help your peace of mind brother whether she has it before marriage or during. Remember wisdom is a defense and money is a defense. Ecc 7v12.

Olamsoh:
your birth month is what makes you feel better when sad

January – Series
February – Alcohol
March – Money
April – Jogging
May – Food
June – Movies
July – Weed
August – Shopping
September – Cooking
October – Sex
November – Swimming
December – Good Company

WHAT??

ToyinDipo:

Haha, what was the outcome

Obainoneandonly:
got a job for her at sweet sensation, the manager of that branch is my childhood friend.....after some months of working there she started behaving unusual, not picking my calls, rarely comes to my place again. .only comes when she feels like.. ......made some inquiry and found out she's cheating on me, caught her and confronted her only for her to give me some flimsy excuses..... after the heated argument she then dropped the bombshell,that she don't need my money if Dats wat making me to feel I own her,that she's independent now.....what crossed my mind wat was that man did to his wife.....I called my friend and putted enormous pressure on him,he had no oda option but to sack her.... I also transfered some of her money to an account unknown to her.....I know everything about her account (BVN,ATM PIN, LAST FOUR DIGITS NUMBER),.... all I needed was her fone,connived with some guys to get from her at knife point

ToyinDipo:

You are our upcoming hero

On a more serious note, I believe in leaving people to Karma, so we don't take steps we may want to retreat later

Audacious19:
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Nonsense write up every where
Being financially stable before marriage is a lie the society covers so much
Money is never a means to a happy life neither will it not provide you comfort to temporarily happiness
If only these ladies focus on developing thierself not just financially but mentally which to me is more important
Mentality sustains more marriage than money will ever do
Like someone cited money is and will always be a visitor
Many of them are just in need of finances in cash of bad marriage so at the end they are all already planning for bad marriages
No wonder many of them end up prayer warriors