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Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:44pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Slap mother in law that was wrong, very very wrong of her, even if the husband allow her back into the house, how will things be in the home?? Some women sef smh!!! |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Michelle55: 8:44pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:Mothers tends to act differently when faced with issues but that doesn't give the lady the right to slap her MIL back... That was the only way she could show her displeasure concerning what the DIL did, trust me if her son was the one that did such, he would have received same treatment as well. She slapped her not because she hated her but because that's the way that came to her mind to reprimand her not minding who's involved. MIL are just like our mothers at home, are you trying to say that had it been it was her mom that slapped her, she would have retaliated in same measure? The way mother A handles issues is totally different from the way mother B will react. Let's keep in mind that mothers are human and are bound to make mistakes as well, the best she should have done is to let it go, then talk to her MIL calmly after the issue must have died down.. Believe me, the MIL will apologize for the slap and further advice her on how to run her home. Where I'm having issues with the man is sending her outta the house. I'm not in support of that atall. 4 Likes |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Rubbiish(m): 8:47pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Where do u stay, so i can come to your house and give u a kiss... |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Rubbiish: |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Michelle55:that you can be violent to your daughter doesn't mean you should extend that to other peoples children. Simple 5 Likes |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
teresafaith:why will you insult someone because of her choice of stand? |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by bdchange(m): 8:58pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Michelle55:I don't think they will agree with you because some of these ladies are wired in a different way. Just ask her if the husband is allowed to slap her mum no matter the situation and read what she will say. Ishilove was saying 98% of the guys will do same if put in that shoe. I don't care if 99% will do it. As long as the 1% will not do it bearing it in mind that if it happens to me I won't take it, so I dare not do it. I am the change I preach.... Not the useless change the govt is dishing out.. |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Michelle55: |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ElsonMorali: 9:03pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: You don't know the meaning of self defense woman. |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
ElsonMorali:who is this one |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ImaIma1(f): 9:09pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
jakandeola: Wrong!! Your mum is a human being and can do wrong and make mistakes. Some people put their mums on a pedestal like they are gods and allow their mums manipulate them as adults. Your mum was once a young girl who made mistakes before she had you. Seeing her as a never do wrong is unrealistic. 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ElsonMorali: 9:10pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
This can never happen in my home anyway. I would have warned my wife that whatever my folks do to her she must never show displeasure or anger. She should just wait patiently for me to come back from work and transfer the aggression and anger on me instead. I wouldn't mind one bit. That way she'll continue to command the respect she deserves with her in-laws. We can settle our own issues amicably in the privacy of our bedroom. 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ImaIma1(f): 9:11pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ElsonMorali: 9:12pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Obinrin sowa nu o loun o lori oko. Anytime i see your posts this Yoruba saying comes to my mind. I hope you can read Yoruba. |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Michelle55: 9:14pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:Then there's no point getting married to her son.. Know the family you are being married into to avoid issues like this. The lady should exhibit patient... She clearly lacks it! If you can't raise your hands to slap your mother who birthed you no matter her offence.. You clearly have no right to raise it on your MIL as well 1 Like |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ImaIma1(f): 9:15pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Michelle55: She is not her daughter and she doesn't have the right to interfere in their issues and even slap her. She overstepped her boundaries and got what she deserved. I am not saying the lady should have slapped back. But the if mama had respected herself and butted out, she would have been respected too. 1 Like |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Michelle55:extend this train of thought to your mother and MIL 1 Like |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
ImaIma1:GBAM. |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Michelle55: 9:19pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:No point bickering words with you.. It clearly shows you will beat up your whole generation if provoked. Enjoy your myopic way of reasoning! It sure looks good on you. Namaste! 1 Like |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by ImaIma1(f): 9:19pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Camshaft5677(m): 9:24pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
teresafaith:Olosho you’re seriously mad for this nonsense. How i wish i know you, i for give you 1 dirty resounding reloadble slap i swear |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:25pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
ImaIma1:There's no point twisting words na... @the bolded answers it all.. 1 Like |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Michelle55: 9:26pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Like I said earlier on.. Mothers react differently and since that's the type of MIL she has.. She Shouldn't have slapped her back.. The son would have definitely spoken to the mom and apology would have been made and in double fold. You know how elders behaves even when the issue being discussed doesn't concern them. The MIL was wrong( mothers ain't perfect so they are bound to make mistakes as well) DIL was super wrong(she could have been the sane person here but her temper spoilt everything) you don't solve anything by having flaring tempers here and there 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:26pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Camshaft5677:Most of them say things they wouldn't do in real life... On social media, everyone is a "boss" "commando" 2 Likes |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Jagaban880: 9:27pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
teresafaith: mehn u harsh na..... if i get ur type as a wife ....u get mind lite ..my mama.... just kil urself |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Camshaft5677(m): 9:28pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss:Don’t mind that stupid girl. Imagine her saying such nonsense online because she dey use techno with free mode 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Some men are such a dissapointment |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Michelle55:what is this one saying aren't you the one supporting violence |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:43pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
Mother in law na amebo woman. How can you slap a grown adult. The man self is silly who even owns the house that he has the audacity to send the woman packing.That is why I must have my own house or we both own it so that nonsense like sending anybody out would not see the light of the day. The mother in law got what she deserve for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. The daughter in law slapping her was the reaction she asked for. 1 Like |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Camshaft5677(m): 9:45pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:You don’t have sense |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by Camshaft5677(m): 9:49pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:Stay online be forming hard woman. If your husband beat you for such act, you go come online dey form victim whereas you don form hard woman already mumu 1 Like |
Re: Was My Mother Justified To Slap My Wife? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:49pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:No be only "pray" for them, Asin because of "slap", Your aunty is a traditionalist... |
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