Camshaft5677:

You don’t have sense

Crankshaft656:

Lol mumu. So you think i would invite you after seeing your ugly picture. I don’t like beautiful black girls not to talk of ugly black girl like you. Post your full picture on nairaland so people would know how ugly you look because that’s why you normally sit down and snap pictures so people won’t know that you’re just an ugly regular dwarf staying in okokomaiko

Crankshaft656:

Lol mumu. So you think i would invite you after seeing your ugly picture. I don’t like beautiful black girls not to talk of ugly black girl like you. Post your full picture on nairaland so people would know how ugly you look because that’s why you normally sit down and snap pictures so people won’t know that you’re just an ugly regular dwarf staying in okokomaiko

Crankshaft656:

Remember you’re short and your head is too big for a woman and you’re fat. I’m sure that’s not the definition of beautiful so don’t let me say much


Check my signature to migrate to Canada

khiaa:


That's all good as long as your folks keep their hands to themselves. Some of you need to love and respect your wives and stop letting people shyt on them even if those people are family members. Stand up for your other half.

khiaa:


If you know they were equally wrong then why would you attack your sil causing more violence. What you should do is be the mediator and break it up.

Crankshaft656:

Lol never stayed in one room. I only sent you a picture which is office pictures. I’m not slim in anyway and I’m fresh like that. You’re the ugly one and short mofo whose family house is in ijora badia claiming lagosian

Check my signature to migrate to Canada

Estellie:
...Yeah the MIL was wrong buh that's not enough reason to retaliate.?.. The wife deserved the slap sef, imagine her garnering debts just to throw a birthday party for a little baby that doesn't even know a thing...What's in her head? brain or sawdust?..

My dear, I'm also surprised at the comments here.. one is suppose to take a MIL as a mother, and I know our mothers have slapped us countless of times and no one retaliates that... Even if a stranger that is old enough to be my mum slaps me, I don't see myself retaliating, how will I sleep that night if I do that?..


I so much respect my mum and that respect goes out to all elderly people I meet..

Crankshaft656:

That’s office. You think I’m doing a single job. So you haven’t seen bed in some offices. After you go Dey claim lagosian. Lagosian my foot

funmisticqueen:
believe what you want. No point arguing over what happened a long time ago.
I have even forgotten some juicy parts of the gist.

By the way, you had a crush on me but never acted on it or made your intentions known. I dont think of u so highly anymore

Ishilove:
But why will your mum slap her?? Violence begat violence. It will take a lot of self restraint not to retaliate in that kind of scenario.

You are a môron. Violence begets violence? Really?. What i know is that when two come as one, their parents are parents to both of them. The impulse from the mother was simply to chide her. This is what a responsible parent would do to a child that is being stupid irrespective of his or her age. I have seen a mother slap his grown up son cos he hit his wife in her presence. What do we call that? Violence begets Violence? Stupid talk.

Never talked down on a mod but you, you are very unbelievable.... Gaddam!

ImaIma1:


Not attack physically ooo. Maybe what I should have said is caution or reproach her.

The truth is that it is a troublesome mother that will slap her DIL especially when she was not provoked and for something that is not her business. A peaceful woman won't do that.

So it would be something she had coming.

ElsonMorali:


Did you read my post at all? Maybe you should read it again. Or maybe you wanted to quote someone else.

Which part of her slapping her mother-in-law equates to her husband standing up for her?

If her own mother slaps her, will she retaliate by punching her in the nose?

If she's slapped by her mother-in-law, she should leave it to the husband to handle it and stand up for her.

Or do you think standing up for herself and fighting her entire husband's family will endear her to her man?

When her husband strays, who will she run to after she's alienated the husband's family by slapping their mother?

funmisticqueen:
that you can be violent to your daughter doesn't mean you should extend that to other peoples children. Simple

Who is this mega dweeb? It is clearly evident that you are unfit under this clime. These THOT be thinking marriage is one fairy tale where little doves sing songs in the morning... She even had to use the word 'violent' like the mother dragged her out and scalded her with hot water... I have been reading your many abhorrent comments on this thread and you are ignoring the obvious (all y'all thots be looking at is the topic- was mum justified?), that the lady in question not only put the husband in a tighter fix by buying on credit (to make it worse, unbeknown to him) she also had a shop owner embarrass her husband in front of his mother.... You had better lay to rest your pompous attitude and see life for what it truly is.... You will tolerate a lot of shits in life... So hush.


You should learn from Michelle55


It's never stupidity to forbear or show respect. A woman who blessed their union... Fvck this shît.. These THOT are making me lose my cool.

emeraldknytt:
Who is this mega dweeb? It is clearly evident that you are unfit under this clime. These THOT be thinking marriage is one fairy tale where little doves sing songs in the morning... She even had to use the word 'violent' like the mother dragged her out and scalded her with hot water... I have been reading your many abhorrent comments on this thread and you are ignoring the obvious (all y'all thots be looking at is the topic- was mum justified?), that the lady in question not only put the husband in a tighter fix by buying on credit (to make it worse, unbeknown to him) she also had a shop owner embarrass her husband in front of his mother.... You had better lay to rest your pompous attitude and see life for what it truly is.... You will tolerate a lot of shits in life... So hush.


You should learn from Michelle55


It's never stupidity to forbear or show respect. A woman who blessed their union... Fvck this shît.. These THOT are making me lose my cool.

emeraldknytt:
Who is this mega dweeb? It is clearly evident that you are unfit under this clime. These THOT be thinking marriage is one fairy tale where little doves sing songs in the morning... She even had to use the word 'violent' like the mother dragged her out and scalded her with hot water... I have been reading your many abhorrent comments on this thread and you are ignoring the obvious (all y'all thots be looking at is the topic- was mum justified?), that the lady in question not only put the husband in a tighter fix by buying on credit (to make it worse, unbeknown to him) she also had a shop owner embarrass her husband in front of his mother.... You had better lay to rest your pompous attitude and see life for what it truly is.... You will tolerate a lot of shits in life... So hush.


You should learn from Michelle55


It's never stupidity to forbear or show respect. A woman who blessed their union... Fvck this shît.. These THOT are making me lose my cool.

funmisticqueen:
you are not the target. Move along you broke wannabe. You clearly lack home training since yo mama thought you to call women thots

You are irrelevant, lady.

funmisticqueen:
you are not the target. Move along you broke wannabe

khiaa:


What gives your family members the right to lay hands on your spouse when the spouse isn't harming them? How are you going to protect your spouse from your family when you are not there. There is only so much a person can take, if this were me and his family thought they could place hands on me they can be ready for a take down. To hell with him if he puts his family above me, I'm out.

JONNYSPUTE:
... Let's be civil here for once. First of all,I will blame the op for not being able to have control over his family. Reason is because as a married man,both his parents and his in-laws should be able to restrict their involvement in his marriage. So he failed on this. Secondly, for his wife to be taking actions without his knowledge also says it all. We should all agree that both his mom and his wife are not in good terms before this particular incident. The op's mother took her anger to the extreme,yes agreed but for his wife to retaliate is also very wrong. I guess she wouldn't have slapped back if its her own mother that slapped her?. The op should put his house in order ASAP. Why do you always call people broke?

ceeroh:
The mother has no right whatsoever to slap the wife. She overdid it.
For those guys ready to tear me apart cos of their mothers, if your father in-law comes into your house and slaps you, even without retaliating, you'd still say you might send his daughter (your wife) away. Spineless bastards!
OP, don't divorce. Try and resolve the issue. The next woman might end up beating up your mom. And your mom should try as much as possible to stay in her husband's house, she should visit you less often. If you guys have any issues at home, DON'T, I repeat DON'T report to any of your in-laws or your own family. They usually complicate things. Then learn to handle your wife, let your NO be NO. She doesn't have to go out of her way to celebrate birthday for the girl. She still got a lot of birthdays to celebrate.

The day your wife, mother and sister become close friends, you're finished as a man.

cooldove8:
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This is one of the reasons why I am never getting married I love and would gladly give my life for my immediate family but I will never allow or stand my wife or gf slap my mum damn na my mumsy be that oh

funmisticqueen:
I posted my full pics years ago when i was still new on Nairaland. Some idiots were using it to masturbate. Never doing that again

ElsonMorali:


Lol. So let's say you slap your husband's mother and his brothers pounce on you and beat the living daylight out of you, what will you do? Turn to Jet Li and beat all of them up?

You are funny dear.

How am I going to protect my spouse when I'm not there? By talking to my family and drawing the boundary MYSELF. Not her.

And your last statement shows you aren't for marriage o. You abandon your marriage because your husband frowns at you for slapping his mother?

Read my first post again and see if it's not a better option.

Of course I left out the fact that after my wife must have transfered her anger on me I'd talk to my family and draw the boundaries to avert future slapping.

See, I didn't even mention the offence of the wife cos I don't believe a woman should be molested by her mother-in-law no matter the offence short of murder attempt.

funmisticqueen:
I posted my full pics years ago when i was still new on Nairaland. Some idiots were using it to masturbate. Never doing that again

1. I am not my husband's mother's punching bag, instinct would be to defend yourself so reflexes happen

2. Once she processes the thought that she is going to slap a grown woman she could get her ratchet azz out of my house and keep it moving.

3. If her sons lay a hand on me they will go to jail and maybe her as well. I don't have any use for someone who doesn't respect me especially in my own home

4.You having to talk to your family about drawing boundaries of abuse toward your wife is not good enough, I don't want such uncivilized people in my life.

5.You don't have to mention the offense of the wife because according to the original op, the matter was between him and his wife not his *Mrs Bad azz Mother*.

6. So you think a wife not putting up with an abusive monster in law is not being serious about her marriage? Listen, the bible says when a man takes a wife he cleaves to that wife, they become as one. Let that Monster In-law concern herself with her marriage and stay out of mine.