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Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by COOL10(m): 2:33pm On Feb 12, 2019
All these evil plots to turn men into 'better men' which in a more realistic term is 'wussies' bore the hell outta me. Cut the crap. No real MAN will listen to the bullshitt written up there. Y'all be trying to cut off and redefine masculinity yet will be the first ones to complain when it's only asslickers approaching you for intimate relationships. Jokers undecided
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Nobody: 2:52pm On Feb 12, 2019
Franzinni:
my sister I don't support the bad thing done by men or women and I can't paint women black... My mama nah woman o... But the psychology of putting a name to everything is what I won't agree with.... There is nothing like toxic masculinity.... No way!
I hear u
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Nobody: 2:58pm On Feb 12, 2019
marvinsync:
which men act like uve described ? pls don't use nairaland men to judge men because they even embarrass me


I'm all for gender fairaness and all , men who attack women and women who attack men are both wrong , and like u've said those men who attack women are hypocrites


let's all just have peace
Thanks, Nairaland really is a joke
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 3:12pm On Feb 12, 2019
gloria34:
Thanks, Nairaland really is a joke
a joke you spend the whole day enjoying
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op):
ubunja:
I'm yet to see women talk abortion.
As it is milions of babies a year never see the light of day. Wonder what those babies think of women... Mhmmm
No one said abortion is right. its not us vs them or toxic masculinity vs abortion. Bear in mind you could be shot dead by a SARS operative, Herdsman or kidnapper sometime this year so keep defending men! All women are saying is there are better ways to resolve conflict than violence. Thats the message. So keep defending men. Once SARS shoot you, hail men more - herdsmen are so great!!! How come the herdswomen in Nigeria did not get involved in all that murder. Again dont worry, in your lifetime, you will be affected by toxic masculinity, once you are affected - hope you will sing the praises of men! You are travelling one day, a police MAN(protector indeed) stops your car and demands N200 bribe; you refuse, he fires shots at your leg, you are rushed to hospital and in a coma - men are so great!

It would have garnered more respect if you came out and admitted fault on the side of men on why they are so violent and then start amending your ways.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 10:21pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
No one said abortion is right. its not us vs them or toxic masculinity vs abortion. Bear in mind you could be shot dead by a SARS operative, Herdsman or kidnapper sometime this year so keep defending men! All women are saying is there are better ways to resolve conflict than violence. Thats the message. So keep defending men. Once SARS shoot you, hail men more - herdsmen are so great!!! How come the herdswomen in Nigeria did not get involved in all that murder. Again dont worry, in your lifetime, you will be affected by toxic masculinity, once you are affected - hope you will sing the praises of men! You are travelling one day, a police MAN(protector indeed) stops your car and demands N200 bribe; you refuse, he fires shots at your leg, you are rushed to hospital and in a coma - men are so great!

It would have garnered more respect if you came out and admitted fault on the side of men on why they are so violent and then start amending your ways.
get the fvck out...
Killing a grown person is better than killing a defenseless baby who can't even beg for her life. Murderers. Just coz you can't see the babies doesn't make it better smh
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 10:22pm On Feb 12, 2019
Cc. Ubunja, BigBashiru

COUNTESS ELIZABETH BATHORY (1560 - 1614)
A brutal case of toxic femininity. Here are the fact about this woman :
*) She is named in the Guinness world record as the most prolific female serial killer.
*) She killed and tortured over 650 girls.
*) Her initial victims were 10 to 14 year old girls whom she lured with the promise of better lives as well paid maids. Sometimes, abduction were used.
*) Her treatment of these girls involved severe beating; burning and mutilation of hands; biting the flesh off the faces, arms and other body parts; freezing and starving to death. Sometimes, needles were used in torture.
*) According to the Budapest City Archives, girls were burned with hot tongs and then placed in freezing cold water. They were also covered with honey and live ants. Traces of tortures were seen on the dead body.
*) She also used tortures and bloody orgies to accompany celebrations eg. her daughter's wedding and other family celebrations.
*) She was later arrested and jailed for life.

The brutal and sadistic nature of toxic femininity.

Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by phaphyz05(m): 10:32pm On Feb 12, 2019
Op is an impostor. More of a feminist hiding behind the guise of a man. Moreover this thread lacks content if u ask me it's just a rant of a feminist with complex issues.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 10:46pm On Feb 12, 2019
ubunja:
get the fvck out...
Killing a grown person is better than killing a defenseless baby who can't even beg for her life. Murderers. Just coz you can't see the babies doesn't make it better smh
Abortion most times is encouraged by men who aren't man enough to take care of their kids.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 10:47pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
Cc. Ubunja, BigBashiru

COUNTESS ELIZABETH BATHORY (1560 - 1614)
A brutal case of toxic femininity. Here are the fact about this woman :
*) She is named in the Guinness world record as the most prolific female serial killer.
*) She killed and tortured over 650 girls.
*) Her initial victims were 10 to 14 year old girls whom she lured with the promise of better lives as well paid maids. Sometimes, abduction were used.
*) Her treatment of these girls involved severe beating; burning and mutilation of hands; biting the flesh off the faces, arms and other body parts; freezing and starving to death. Sometimes, needles were used in torture.
*) According to the Budapest City Archives, girls were burned with hot tongs and then placed in freezing cold water. They were also covered with honey and live ants. Traces of tortures were seen on the dead body.
*) She also used tortures and bloody orgies to accompany celebrations eg. her daughter's wedding and other family celebrations.
*) She was later arrested and jailed for life.

The brutal and sadistic nature of toxic femininity.
This is 1560 - have any more recent examples?
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 10:50pm On Feb 12, 2019
Funny thing about men; they claim they are such rational thinkers yet wen I give them facts about male behaviour they get so defensive. Not one man has admitted guilt they are all just defensive cos their egos won't let them accept fact. Smh.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 10:55pm On Feb 12, 2019
phaphyz05:
Op is an impostor. More of a feminist hiding behind the guise of a man. Moreover this thread lacks content if u ask me it's just a rant of a feminist with complex issues.
You now want to shut down the thread because hard uncomfortable truths have been presented about male behaviour that for centuries have been hidden by the partriarchy?
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 10:58pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
This is 1560 - have any more recent examples?
1560 or 2019, what difference does it make? Don't worry, I am preparing more cases. undecided
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:07pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
1560 or 2019, what difference does it make? Don't worry, I am preparing more cases. undecided
Like o have said before, men commit shooting and killing every day this is in addition to the male serial killers. You have just presented one female serial killer. Like I said earlier women aren't angels there are outlier cases of serial killers from both genders. Way you need to address is herdsmen, kidnapper, rituals, shooting, mass shooting, brutality that occur DAILY aside the serial killer example you have mentioned. Though there are serial killer from both genders, 98% of US mass shootings have been committed by men - this included secondary school shootings.

I can understand not wanting to accept the truth.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:18pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Like o have said before, men commit shooting and killing every day this is in addition to the male serial killers. You have just presented one female serial killer. Like I said earlier women aren't angels there are outlier cases of serial killers from both genders. Way you need to address is herdsmen, kidnapper, rituals, shooting, mass shooting, brutality that occur DAILY aside the serial killer example you have mentioned. Though there are serial killer from both genders, 98% of US mass shootings have been committed by men - this included secondary school shootings.

I can understand not wanting to accept the truth.
SMH. Women who purposely and falsely accuse men of rape and have sent men to jail for many years? Women who are gold diggers and commit paternal fraud? Women who use marriage opportunities so that they can divorce and collect money from their spouse? Women who are serial killers? Women who are involved in kidnapping and prostitution rings? As I have said, I will give you more cases. undecided
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:22pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
SMH. Women who purposely and falsely accuse men of rape and have sent men to jail for many years? Women who are gold diggers and commit paternal fraud? Women who use marriage opportunities so that they can divorce and collect money from their spouse? Women who are serial killers? Women who are involved in kidnapping and prostitution rings? As I have said, I will give you more cases. undecided
It's not a battle please calm down. Men have their strengths and weaknesses so do women. It is possible however for men to live violence free.... don't start trying to bring up female atrocities in self defence we know they are there. When I sat why dontherdswomen murder don't get defensive. It's a scientific question. Maybemen are missing something they need to learn from the ladies? I'm not insulting men.

Why are men soviolent? That's an academic question. Don't now ask why are women so this or that in retaliation. That's toxic and doesn't address the questiin.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:30pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
It's not a battle please calm down. Men have their strengths and weaknesses so do women. It is possible however for men to live violence free.... don't start trying to bring up female atrocities in self defence we know they are there. When I sat why dontherdswomen murder don't get defensive. It's a scientific question. Maybemen are missing something they need to learn from the ladies? I'm not insulting men.
Lol. Maybe women are not violent because they don't have the strength. Maybe that explains why majority of our soldiers are men. The same soldiers that gave their lives building and defending western values. The same soldiers that gave away their lives so you can have peace. Mtewwwww.

Even if some men are violent, would you generalize that to all men and hate on all men? undecided
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:34pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
It's not a battle please calm down. Men have their strengths and weaknesses so do women. It is possible however for men to live violence free.... don't start trying to bring up female atrocities in self defence we know they are there. When I sat why dontherdswomen murder don't get defensive. It's a scientific question. Maybemen are missing something they need to learn from the ladies? I'm not insulting men.

Why are men so violent ? That's an academic question. Don't now ask why are women so this or that in retaliation. That's toxic and doesn't address the questiin.
Why are some men violent? Stop the irrational generalisation.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:36pm On Feb 12, 2019
Martinez39:
Why are some men violent? Stop the irrational generalisation.
Yes it's a generalization based on empirical crime data. You can generalize a population based on appreciable sample size.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 11:40pm On Feb 12, 2019
Lemme help you a bit grin

https://www.nairaland.com/5019408/female-kidnapper-stripped-unclad-ibadan

But these incidents are much fewer
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 11:42pm On Feb 12, 2019
BigBashiru:
Yes it's a generalization based on empirical crime data. You can generalize a population based on appreciable sample size.
grin grin

Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 12:28am On Feb 13, 2019
BigBashiru:
Abortion most times is encouraged by men who aren't man enough to take care of their kids.
you are drunk on your period blood.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 12:39am On Feb 13, 2019
Martinez39:
Cc. Ubunja, BigBashiru

COUNTESS ELIZABETH BATHORY (1560 - 1614)
A brutal case of toxic femininity. Here are the fact about this woman :
*) She is named in the Guinness world record as the most prolific female serial killer.
*) She killed and tortured over 650 girls.
*) Her initial victims were 10 to 14 year old girls whom she lured with the promise of better lives as well paid maids. Sometimes, abduction were used.
*) Her treatment of these girls involved severe beating; burning and mutilation of hands; biting the flesh off the faces, arms and other body parts; freezing and starving to death. Sometimes, needles were used in torture.
*) According to the Budapest City Archives, girls were burned with hot tongs and then placed in freezing cold water. They were also covered with honey and live ants. Traces of tortures were seen on the dead body.
*) She also used tortures and bloody orgies to accompany celebrations eg. her daughter's wedding and other family celebrations.
*) She was later arrested and jailed for life.

The brutal and sadistic nature of toxic femininity.
bro can you stop tagging me on this post.
I have had enough of this sewage.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 1:26am On Feb 13, 2019
ubunja:
you are drunk on your period blood.
You are drunk on your masturbation sperm.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by ubunja(m): 3:43am On Feb 13, 2019
BigBashiru:
You are drunk on your masturbation sperm.
sperm is life.
In any case farewell
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by Martinez39(m): 7:43am On Feb 13, 2019
ubunja:
bro can you stop tagging me on this post.
I have had enough of this sewage.
I was planning on bringing more cases but on seeing that the op is an epitome of irrationality, I have distanced myself from this thread. I can understand your annoyance.
Re: What Exactly Is TOXIC MASCULINITY by BigBashiru(op): 9:42am On Feb 13, 2019
When women are criticised it's very rational. When men are criticised, it becomes irrational.

You are all still drunk with partriarchal privileges.
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