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victorian:
Hi funmistiqueen, can u imagine what the guy is saying?.

Is this what one will now put up , and bickering all day. He doesn't even know u. He doesn't know your dad . he's just spewing trash.
So many unbalanced peeps on Nairaland.

My dear , you try. I'm done with replying people or contributing any advice on this site

Most people here ain't normal, at all.. I'm off, take care of you dear .

You don't sound normal

Shalomc:
You don't sound normal

Shut da fucvk up!

Asinwi!

victorian:
Shut da fucvk up!

Asinwi!

Come lick my pucci to be alright

Shalomc:
Come lick my pucci to be alright

That your rotten virus decomposed pucci!

God forbid!

Useless waste bin!

*spits*!

victorian:
That your rotten virus decomposed pucci!

God forbid!

Useless waste bin!

*spits*!

You've been eating bread with the juices.... Keep it up ...lick it clean..

funmisticqueen:
so if I am your wife and my father slaps you,will you give him your other cheek? Slapping back was obviously self defense

Sharap, it's insulting and childish

Kobicove:
You can't hit a human being and expect him not to retaliate!

this is a lie oga, unless you don't have self control

naijapikin04:
My name is Chidi-ebere Lewis, I have an issue on my mind which I really need your opinions and not insults. I am a teacher in one of the private schools in my area in Isefun and my wife is a Secretary/PA in a big company and her salary a month is like four times what I receive. We have a daughter of two years old and on the day of her second birthday my wife and I decided to throw her a birthday party because on her first birthday we didn’t do much, we just marked the birthday with family members only since I was not buoyant enough to throw an elaborate party for her so for some weeks my wife was very angry with me and when the issue got to my mum she was furious that she was inconsiderate and heartless.

Now the 2nd birthday was at the corner so she began the preparation without my knowledge, buying things for the celebration and keeping them in her friend’s place. Later, she came and told me our child’s birthday was just a week away what was the plan. In response, I said you know, I haven’t been paid for two months now and you have been given me transport to go to work, so, what is on your mind. She gave me a paper with a list of items needed for the party summing up to N105,000 approximately; I was alarmed. ‘Are we throwing a party for the whole community or what, where do you want me to get such an amount from?’ I yelled at her. That’s how trouble started again? I spoke to her mum about it who told her to cut her coat according to her cloth; likewise my mum was.

Unknown to me, some of the things she bought were on credit from her friend who owns a super-market in our area. After the party, some weeks later, her friend, the owner of the super-market, came to the house on a Sunday evening to ask for her money and my mum came to visit us that same day. As we were seeing my mum off, we met her friend coming in from the gate. She started shouting that we have been avoiding her and that we were not coming to her shop to buy things since then. She also said she has seen my wife go to other shops to buy. I was lost in words and I advised her to calm down so that we could talk. We all went back inside the house to listen to her. She narrated to us the whole story and I asked my wife if what she was saying was true and to my greatest surprise she confirmed. In anger, my mum stood up and slapped her and immediately she slapped my mum back and I was so disappointed with her to the extent that I threw all her belongings out and told her to leave my house without touching her. This led to me filing for divorce, ever since the incidence, I have not had peace of mind because I miss my family but if you were in my shoes; what would you do?

Ade Ayomide, Accountant: “I would get angry obviously, but I would beg my mum and will not slap or beat her in anger but what I would do to the lady ehn…….. She would wish she didn’t slap my mum, and she would be forced to go and beg by herself. To be honest, any lady who can slap her mother-in-law no matter the circumstances is not fit to be called a wife!”


What's your take?

Full Gists: https://nextedition.com.ng/2018/10/28/mother-justified-slap-wife/

Your mum overstepped her boundary and got what she bargained for.

To be frank, your mum doesn't see you as a man. If not she dare not slap ur woman no matter what.

Mancala:
This is absolutely true. But I blame the man and his lack of wisdom and foresight for allowing this to happen. If I were in his shoes, I would have allowed my Mum to depart first, then invite the irate woman in to make her case. What good could have come out of a stranger flinging accusations at your wife in front of your mother who already bears a grudge on the matter at hand? I guess you haven't been married for long huh? An experienced man can smell trouble coming a mile off and change course to avoid it.

The only comment i will reply here. U are a man of manifold wisdom. Keep it up.

Please stop that nonsense....if you are my wife and your father slaps me no matter the condition, I WONT SLAP HIM BACK.because if my own father slaps me, there is nothing in this world that will make me slap him back.
Foolish generation

funmisticqueen:
so if I am your wife and my father slaps you,will you give him your other cheek? Slapping back was obviously self defense

Note: I am not keeping brief for the mother, she was totally wrong to have slapped his wife,in a matter that doesnt concern her at all,the guts though!. This goes to show that the man is a seen or considered a weak man