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Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by anochuko01(m): 5:43pm On Feb 20, 2019
haha....what about a guy who grew up as the only male amongst four ladies? OP.... responsibility alone go pursue all these your rhetorics comot. me sef father!
mtcheew
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Boxer007(m): 5:45pm On Feb 20, 2019
ShinqRambq:

Blaady alternate-of-a-feminist


Bro you hate diks?
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by ShinqRambq: 5:49pm On Feb 20, 2019
Boxer007:


Bro you hate diks?
Yes Apart from mine
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Fidelismaria: 6:27pm On Feb 20, 2019
Fallacious statement
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by fatymore(f): 6:29pm On Feb 20, 2019
Its a lie, my brothers and I were raised by our step mothers, and I can tell you they are the best man, brother, husband and everything you will ever wished for...strong, handsome, religious, brilliant, bold...They are my yardstick for ......
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 6:42pm On Feb 20, 2019
Heartbender:
Boy, stupidity never got this precise! grin my father died 14 years ago. I am a lawyer, a serial entrepreneur, a Christian who believes in Jesus Christ being God and everything, I have never tasted beer nor smoked, I do not have a child yet, I have never contemplated being a cultist, an uncultist or juju worshipper, never scammed anyone, and you need help

Mention the first Law course you did at the University and Law School Sir.
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 6:51pm On Feb 20, 2019
Jaqenhghar:

Go and tell the likes of Lebron James, and Shaquile O' Neal that they are Mama's boys

if not because of basketball. They will be gang banging and hustling on the streets by now.
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by AnalQueenluci: 6:54pm On Feb 20, 2019
useless assumptions from a nobody!
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by luvyaself95(m): 6:56pm On Feb 20, 2019
All this your observations no be for me
I behave wella in every aspects
she sef dey wonder sometime when i fight for her
She will say Omo Mi dede mean ( My Son take it easy )
Cos I be like Full Grown Up Man
I don't tolerate any shit
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 7:01pm On Feb 20, 2019
luvyaself95:
All this your observations no be for me I behave wella in every aspects she sef dey wonder sometime when i fight for her She will say Omo Mi dede mean ( My Son take it easy ) Cos I be like Full Grown Up Man I don't tolerate any shit
you are becoming a mama's boy that wont leave home early.
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Godskidk(m): 7:01pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:


pls stop being emotional, there are successful boys from single mother homes also there are many who came out angry. just because you are a lawyer doesnt not mean everybody made it
So there are no cultists, gays, and angry people from complete families? Ogbeni calm down joor... Stop it already
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 7:02pm On Feb 20, 2019
fatymore:
Its a lie, my brothers and I were raised by our step mothers, and I can tell you they are the best man, brother, husband and everything you will ever wished for...strong, handsome, religious, brilliant, bold...They are my yardstick for ......

are you in their mind?
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 20, 2019
Godskidk:

So there are no cultists, gays, and angry people from complete families? Ogbeni calm down joor... Stop it already

so where did i take about gay in my write up. Apart from gays. The rest trait are very common among boys from single mother homes. Even many tend to be drop outs and runaways.
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 20, 2019
AnalQueenluci:
useless assumptions from a nobody!

i know what you want and that is attention. You need deep sleep.
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by luvyaself95(m): 7:15pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:


you are becoming a mama's boy that wont leave home early.
You're thinking Offline
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Godskidk(m): 7:18pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:


so where did i take about gay in my write up. Apart from gays. The rest trait are very common among boys from single mother homes. Even many tend to be drop outs and runaways.
And it doesn't happen in complete families? These are social vices, and these occurs in every society... It can also come out from any family... I belong to a complete family, but I admire a lot of single mums cause it's not easy, and they should celebrated

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Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by fatymore(f): 7:22pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:

are you in their mind?
I can vouch for them anywhere...
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Mrbaz1: 7:23pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:
I have noticed something really strange from boys who grew up or are from single mothers homes. single mothers might be those that the father left when the boy was young or the father died or they divorced and the mother didn't allow the father visitation

i know some guys from single mother home, I observed that many of them always look for a strong father figure in their lives, many of these types of men tend to be mama's boys which might be good for the mother but very bad for his future girlfriend and wife.

many of these boys suffer from low self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves and abilities

many of these boys lack the meaning of what is it to be a man, the reality is that no mother can teach her son how to be a man.

they also do not know who to talk to about their emotions, they feel alone, thus making them angry with the world, some of these boys are easily enticed to join cultism and other types of group that encourage brotherhood.

there are lot of research that shows that boys raised in single mother homes are more likely to be criminals, you can see that in yahoo-yahoo boys and many criminals in our society, many of them lack a father figure and man figure mentorship.

i also noticed that many of these type of boys suffer from emotional, physical abuse and neglect from their mothers

there is also tendency for these type of boys to be drop out or runaways

and lastly, many of them are very emotional, they are more in touch with their feminine side than their masculinity side. very bad if they want to have a good and stable relationship.
ALL NA WASH WASH WASH WASH...NO SINGLE ONE CORRELATE...DALU NUU OKAY...TAKI HAT
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Itsmedozie: 7:25pm On Feb 20, 2019
Heartbender:
Boy, stupidity never got this precise! grin my father died 14 years ago. I am a lawyer, a serial entrepreneur, a Christian who believes in Jesus Christ being God and everything, I have never tasted beer nor smoked, I do not have a child yet, I have never contemplated being a cultist, an uncultist or juju worshipper, never scammed anyone, and you need help
am also successful bro
don't mind the op coming here to spit trash
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Jaqenhghar: 7:28pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:


if not because of basketball. They will be gang banging and hustling on the streets by now.

gang banging and hustling is the stuff mama's boys do abi?

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Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Jaqenhghar: 7:30pm On Feb 20, 2019
Heartbender:
Boy, stupidity never got this precise! grin my father died 14 years ago. I am a lawyer, a serial entrepreneur, a Christian who believes in Jesus Christ being God and everything, I have never tasted beer nor smoked, I do not have a child yet, I have never contemplated being a cultist, an uncultist or juju worshipper, never scammed anyone, and you need help

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BOOM!

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Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Jjokke: 7:55pm On Feb 20, 2019
Everyone has an area of disadvantage which varies from one person to another. You can either allow your deficiency to bring you down or disregard them & rise above them. That manner of thinking will keep you down perpetually. I was trained by a single mother & didn't exhibit any of your listed traits.

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Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by xendra: 7:56pm On Feb 20, 2019
BabbanBura:


How old are you?
it doesn't matter, did you read the traits I wrote? You expect me to stick with "a" man with all that?
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 20, 2019
Jaqenhghar:

gang banging and hustling is the stuff mama's boys do abi?

i hope you know the type of neighbourhood they all came from, if not because of basketball, they will be in gangs or in prison
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 8:07pm On Feb 20, 2019
Godskidk:

And it doesn't happen in complete families? These are social vices, and these occurs in every society... It can also come out from any family... I belong to a complete family, but I admire a lot of single mums cause it's not easy, and they should celebrated

LOL social vices occur more in homes of single mothers, i can give you an example

i saw a family, father was alive, strong family, father died.

1st born-boy- drop out,very feminine
2nd-boy- anti-social and extremely shy
3rd boys-normal
4th boy- drop out, yahoo yahoo

i wont talk about their sisters.

there are many cases like what i stated above but they also come in different forms
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Alexgeneration(m): 8:15pm On Feb 20, 2019
xendra:
Pathetic observation cheesy cheesy cheesy my brothers are better men with confidence and fear of God.
than most men I know and I've always dated men who's both parents are alive and together yet all mannerless and spoilt pussys with plenty of low self esteem.

That right there, is one of things the OP is talking about.


Such children tend to be promiscuous and uncouth.

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Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 8:17pm On Feb 20, 2019
luvyaself95:
You're thinking Offline

just watched, you might disagree but i promise you she won't allow you to move out and will always not trust your girl friend when you bring her home

you are like a surrogate husband to her. she might even sabotage your relationship
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Jaqenhghar: 8:32pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:


i hope you know the type of neighbourhood they all came from, if not because of basketball, they will be in gangs or in prison
Stick to your claims man. You are talking about how lack of father figures makes them mama's boys. Whoch mama's boy do you know goes into gang banging and street hustle? Does Lebron James look like a mama's boy to you. Can you call Shaq a mama's boy? Some of the toughest guys athletes, criminals, soldiers businesss men alike were raised by single mums so what is your argument?
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 8:39pm On Feb 20, 2019
Jaqenhghar:

Stick to your claims man. You are talking about how lack of father figures makes them mama's boys. Whoch mama's boy do you know goes into gang banging and street hustle? Does Lebron James look like a mama's boy to you. Can you call Shaq a mama's boy? Some of the toughest guys athletes, criminals, soldiers businesss men alike were raised by single mums so what is your argument?

you are just calling successful american, i live in Nigeria and my experiences is what i am writing about.
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Jaqenhghar: 9:18pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:


you are just calling successful american, i live in Nigeria and my experiences is what i am writing about.
I know a lot of guys who were raised by single mums and are doing very well. You dont know them but I do. Balanced and have successfilly transitted into wonderful fathers. You dont have a point Mr. This your reasoning is some old school archaic assumptions. It doesnt make you look very bright honestly

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Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 9:25pm On Feb 20, 2019
Jaqenhghar:

I know a lot of guys who were raised by single mums and are doing very well. You dont know them but I do. Balanced and ja9ve successfilly transitted into wonderful fathers. You dont have a point Mr. Tjis your reasoning is some old school archaic assumptions. It doesnt make you look very bright honestly

you just prove my point, very emotional.

note- i was "retarded" when i wrote this write up

in life we do not have to agree with all things
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by mysteryman2014: 9:42pm On Feb 20, 2019
wetdick:
I have noticed something really strange from boys who grew up or are from single mothers homes. single mothers might be those that the father left when the boy was young or the father died or they divorced and the mother didn't allow the father visitation

i know some guys from single mother home, I observed that many of them always look for a strong father figure in their lives, many of these types of men tend to be mama's boys which might be good for the mother but very bad for his future girlfriend and wife.

many of these boys suffer from low self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves and abilities, sometimes depression and addiction

many of these boys lack the meaning of what is it to be a man, the reality is that no mother can teach her son how to be a man.

they also do not know who to talk to about their emotions, they feel alone, thus making them angry with the world, some of these boys are easily enticed to join cultism and other types of group that encourage brotherhood.

there are lot of research that shows that boys raised in single mother homes are more likely to be criminals, you can see that in yahoo-yahoo boys and many criminals in our society, many of them lack a father figure and man figure mentorship.

i also noticed that many of these type of boys suffer from emotional, physical abuse and neglect from their mothers

there is also tendency for these type of boys to be drop out or runaways

and lastly, many of them are very emotional, they are more in touch with their feminine side than their masculinity side. very bad if they want to have a good and stable relationship.

Very true.

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