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Treasured4eva:
First of all,run a thorough background check to know the kind of family she comes from because a lion can't give birth to a lamb.

Second,try to know her past.If you find anything messy she's done that you can't forgive her for,end it there.

Thirdly,check her temperament and the manner she reacts to the silly things you do.If she tends to be rude and aggressively challenges you;don't think twice,end it.

Also,check how much she values and respects you when you're alone,with family members and friends.
If she's angry and you ask her to calm down,how does she react?

Finally,check how she handles your home when she comes around."Charity truly begins at home".A woman without good home training can never make a good wife.


I obviously saw all these red flags but ignorantly overlooked them,hoping that she'll change,but I got more than what I bargained for.

You knew all this and still went ahead to marry her, well serve you right.

As a single guy am learning from your experience.

Better divorce her or you will die untimely.

People should learn to wash their hands in running water inside the sink and not bowl. It doesn’t make sense to wash off dirt and still deep your hands in the water before eating
Mister, do yourself a favor, go to the sink and wash your hands really clean.

Capensis:
Egotistic, Yes. Chauvinistic, you truly are lost in meanings.

You and I can get along very well. I love stubborn women, it gives me the opportunity to learn more on how to tame one more lioness.

I'm glad to disagree with you. You may think you have the power and I will allow you think you do, meanwhile I am planning very 'terrible things' to unleash on you.

You sound domineering and that brings out the worst in a lot of women, myself included. You have been throwing around words like 'control' and 'manipulate', making you a very dangerous person to be with. Your tone is arrogant and at the same time condescending, and you will make a very tiresome companion.

Women are not chattel. Take note

[quote author=OmoAlata1 post=76130745]You sound like those husbands that will emotionally drained their wives. I know your type very well. You can fool others with your poor me victim card post but not me. [/quote
]

Another aggressive wife to be spotted.

Capensis:
Yes, a very healthy level of control.

I sense missteps before they happen and snip them on the bud. Mistakes are not accepted here.

Oh, the poor woman married to you..

I am sorry for whoever is reading and actually pondering on your outrageous submissions.

Ishilove:
I'm glad to disagree with you. You may think you have the power and I will allow you think you do, meanwhile I am planning very 'terrible things' to unleash on you.

You sound domineering and that brings out the worst in a lot of women, myself included. You have been throwing around words like 'control' and 'manipulate', making you a very dangerous person to be with. Your tone is arrogant and at the same time condescending, and you will make a very tiresome companion.

Women are not chattel. Take note

I do not banter words with ladies. I am a real man. I can only make love to you and have sex with you and provide for you and love you like no one has ever done.

OmoAlata1:
You sound like a very low self esteem man. You had your wife arrested bc she was not following orders?I only blame all these desperate women who are making all you small boys believe you have huge balls

not orders but a stubborn woman then. I think u focus on your boyfriend first but if you know what happened then you will certainly agree with me.

Capensis:
I do not banter words with ladies. I am a real man. I can only make love to you and have sex with you and provide for you and love you like no one has ever done.

The exaggerated machismo displayed in your posts strongly points to an over-inflated ego.

Mr Oga, you need to change your orientation because it has no place in the 21st century

I guess you are married to the trophy girl.
I mean the beautiful girl everyone wishes to have when you were younger, maybe she's very beautiful and attractive, you never taught she go date you, she finally agreed to date you, she was misbehaving and you were not ready to leave her, because she's beautiful.

My brother, one of the worst things to happen to a man Is for his wife not to respect him, and it does start gradually, maybe she misbehaves, you didn't caution her, she'll insult you next time, before you finally turn to mumu.

If you allow a girl take a step, she'll try to take the 2nd, 3rd and fourth and see your reaction. Now that you know you have messed up, here is the solution.

To posses some kind of powers, you must be ready to take risks, in life, only those who take risks get results.
You have to start calling her bluff and let her do her worst, whenever she's shouting, make sure you shout and make your the loudest, then start getting angry over little things, she's always the first to make scene abi, you start making scene and making the noise too.
Don't forget to dish her some dirty slap once in a while, don't beat her to pulp or use weapon, just 2-3 dirty slap will do, then u can take your cool.

Do this for like 2 months, she's going to have sense.
My friend's dad used to be in that shoe, his mom is very rude, she'll insulted his father that, his grandmother (mother's mum) advised the father to do something drastic.

One day he unleash and dealt with her, 5 dirty and thunderous slap, my friend's mum have had her head corrected permanently.

If can't go the route, then gently seek for divorce, life is too precious to be in sorrow, it's better to be alone than to live in fear of one's wife

Eze2000:
You may not know it but you ar3 a feminist. Make sure you pay the bride price of your husband so it becomes his duty to clean up after you.


By the way, the world has a pattern, spiritual and physical, a man is head and the woman is under him... take it or leave like it.

I'm a feminist and I know it.

When I'm getting married, there would be no bride price, so no one will tell me "man is the head of a woman".
Caveman, leave your cave and see the new world.

You have no power over any human being, the same God that made you made me. You aren't better than me because you have a penis. Flatter yourself well, I'll blame your girlfriend that is feeding your ego, probably because she wants you to spend on her.


There's nothing special about being a man. Take it or leave it

Billionaire indeed,send me 50k na

Capensis:
Funny that I am actually a billionaire with 7 companies and counting on my portfolio. My advice is for men who want to build Empires, not just people who are contented with being rich.

chiefqueen:
I'm a feminist and I know it.

When I'm getting married, there would be no bride price, so no one will tell me "man is the head of a woman".
Caveman, leave your cave and see the new world.

I own the new world, babe.

Na woman-wrapper you go marry ni. Oh, wait, let me guess you were born in the US and haven't heard how bride price works in Africa. No let your papa vex for you ooo.

Do you love your wife and express it to her.
How do you correct her? You said she doesn't like being corrected, do you correct her in love or shout at her.
Do you abuse her?
Do you speak negatively about her to your family and friends.
Do you tell her or by your actions I form her that she is not number 1 in your life, maybe your sisters, friends or family are no 1.
Do your sisters or relatives dictate to you how you treat your wife.
Perhaps you are abusive or have beaten her in the past or wronged her so badly and she has not totally or completely forgotten.
It's not by claiming victim. Check your self, there are things you are not doing right. If you love your wife and express it and she knows you love her, respect comes automatically. She can do whatever you want her to do. She can kill herself for you. Your wife is obviously not happy.

hmmm this is really sad...i can very well relate to your situation...i don't have a solution neither will i suggest you divorce her but all i know is my dad once had a very good friend who was in the same situation as you just narrated...this man would come to our house a lot of times seeking aide and advice concerning the issue ...his wife was exactly as you explained so far and he also had 3 kids...my dad,his friends and others would also say things like guy run from that marriage oo this and that..this man was plumpy and healthy when i first met him...before i knew it during those period he was all lanky and looking unhealthy...well i was much younger back then so i didn't put any thinking into it..as e no be my concern...last last shaa...the wife show this man shege especially when she got a more paying job than the guy
Guy as i'm writing this now...the bros is 6ft below...he died about 2years ago(i guess due to depression,excessive thinking and all)...the part that shocked me was i heard that this lady didn't show any sign of remorse or mourning for the dude...the day he was pronounced dead...his friend who found him called his wife who was at work at that time and told her...this woman said she cant leave the office till closing hours...then she'll meet them at the hospital..
the thing weak me...some women would just be the death of you..so please be careful and follow with caution...

May God protect us all

Eze2000:
I own the new world, babe.

Na woman-wrapper you go marry ni

So an educated and exposed man who doesn't think if himself as a god and who doesn't think lowly of women is a woman wrapper? Dear lord, it's either a woman wrapper or nothing.

This thread is an eye opener. One should be careful the kind of counsel one follows

Why this man dey cry for nairaland?, leave the marriage na. Or is there something you re not saying.

DrTee1:
Thank you, Sir.

Kindly permit me to make a few clarifications.

I think that your comments above, which I captioned as some strategic role-playing in a bad marriage are best only for a bad marriage and only for a short period. Indeed, they aren't sustainable on a long term basis. No man can pretend for too long. No human being, especially in marriage, can pretend for too long. Pretence and such deceitful existence are only possible in flings or short-term relationships. In that case, playboys and playgirls would excel.

Also, I personally think that deceit, lies and such falsehood, while they may be fanciful and attractive, are usually unsustainable. To cover one lie, a man or woman needs another 7 lies and on and on. All structures built on foundations of deceit and slothfulness are but friable and cannot genuinely stand the test of time. the test of time in this OP's case is about 5 - 8 years of marriage, that's inferring or assuming that his last child is 2-3 years and he had been coping fairly nicely in marriage until then. so when you say that you could/would take all the women/wives of men who do not follow certain life rules that you have posited, I think you may indeed achieve all that - but for a short period of time.


Eventually, the hen would come to roost and you would find all your strategy, where it involves fiction, lies, deceit and make-belief, to be castles built on sand. The scales would fall off the eyes of the woman eventually and she would either port or begin to misbehave - or the man would dump her before the scales finally fall - thus completing a circle and bringing everything back to square 1.

In essence, I think that while I appreciate all that you wrote in your initial comment which I quoted, I think they are are possibly short term measures for anyone who has lost his job and found himself in a loveless marriage. It wouldn't work for, say Femi Otedola or Akinwunmi Ambode, for example. Where would you expect a successful business tycoon who has a very dutiful and supportive wife to expect her husband to massage her at home on a 300k massage table every day? Or to have sex and tell sweet eyeball-to-eyeball stories thereafter on daily basis?

So in essence, I encourage everyone to be honest and live by upright moral values (at all times) to himself or herself. Deceit/fiction/falsehood might 'win' for a short period, but at the end, 'na' always "God (go) win." Yoruba people say " Ti iro ba sa lo fun ogun odun, ojo kan soso looto yoo ba." When literally translated, that means "Even if falsehood reigns for 20 years, it would take only a day for the lie to be busted and the truth would be revealed."

Like attracts like. For singles out there, if you are good and conduct yourself in a responsible and morally upright manner in your doings, you are unlikely to marry a wolf-like character - except you didn't do your due diligence in dating, or you allowed fanciful things or some blind/illogical spirituality or some inordinate counsel make lifetime decisions of marriage for you. Let each man or woman use his or her brain. Marriage is some real deal and each person would be in it[b] alone[/b] with his/her spouse.

Anything false/untrue/ingenuine/counterfeit, whether in character or action, would never stand the test of time - and it is always important that people planning to go into successful marriages know this. Don't ever go out of your way to impress a lady/man. Be yourself. For every woman, there is a man - and vice-versa. Who sang that song? Adekunle Gold "There is a woman for every man..."

P.S:

For the good lady who picked out only one line of the several lines I wrote to label misogyny, I leave that to posterity to judge. If anything at all, I fully believe in gender equality and affirm that men and women, husband as well as wives, are EXACTLY equal before the law - and the homefront and the general society should be run with that knowledge at the back of everyone's minds. As many rights and privileges as a woman has directly or indirectly, a man should be allowed to enjoy - and women with mental and/or operational capacity should never be denied any placement/opportunity solely on the basis of their distinct gender - and vice-versa.

I couldn't resist your depth of insight and wisdom. please, I will like to discuss personal issues with you but I opened this account with my previous e-mail. How can I reach you?

Capensis:
What do we expect from an orphan who was raised with money raised from frying akara.

Hahahahaaha.

This is another reason ladies should not marry poor people from broken homes.

I thought you are intelligent from your previous post, you don't need to type this and think is funny.

Martinez39:
Feminists are big time hypocrites who always want to eat their cake and have it. They are the embodiment of cognitive dissonance. They think men and women should have equal responsibilities yet they demand that the man covers the bills alone. They think men should assist in washing the plate at all times yet refuse in assisting with bills at all times. It's clear by now that feminists are seeking favouritism and superiority of female gender.

They want to eat their cake and have it. They never take responsibilities for their actions and it's men's fault when they fail at something.

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What of in situations the woman shares the bills with woman and the man does not assist with house chores or the man still expects her to be serving him food kneeling down.

Ishilove:
The exaggerated machismo displayed in your posts strongly points to an over-inflated ego.

Mr Oga, you need to change your orientation because it has no place in the 21st century

Gentlemen,

Ishilove is just one of the very many aggressive women out there, who have so much gamma energy in them due to your failure to 'tame' them seductively. I can not for any reason condescend so low to exchange words with a woman. They are our wives, our daughters, and our mothers.

I blame the man in her life for making her so aggressive because he has not made enough love to her to quench this aggression, which is just a feedback loop from excessive adrenaline secretions. Multiple orgasms would have generated enough sex hormones to neutralize this aggression. It is not her fault, it is our fault as men, for not doing it right to quench this aggression and I think you will aggree with me when I say, Ishilove is not the only victim of lack of enough orgasm. There are very many other unfuccked women like her.

So, please I will write a little template on how to tame the Lioness in 'Case Studies' like Ishilove:

Setting:

Place: Bedroom with a massage table readied.
Temperature: 23 Degrees
Sound: 2 Bluetooth wireless Boombox (Surround Sound preferably BlueRay)
Music: Boombox 1 - Jazz @ 15 decibels
Boombox 2 - 7.83Hz Binaural for Earth grounding @ 12 decibels.
Both sounds will mix to produce a sedating effect as if the lady is on crack-cocaine laced on cannabis sativa.
Lighting: Blue and Red Incandescent Light that mixes to produce Green in a dark room.
Tools: 3 Vibrators, 1 Love Machine, Massage Oil, Rosemary Candle.
Time: 2hrs.

Process: Let the Ishilove, steam for 15 minutes, run cold water through the body and clean up, lay her on the massage table for 5 minutes, get her just a glass of wine, not more, not less. Let the music, the temperate, the dark green room give her the necessary sedated effect.

Then place one vibrator in-between her thigh, one each nipple. And set it to vibrate at the lowest. Use the Love Machine, first to engage. Be creative there, cos although I can actually teach you the strategy on how to use, it is too graphic for the kids who might stumble on this.

Take is slow,but ensure she has at least 20 Orgasms within the 2 hours, then you can begin your sexual explorations as a man for the next 1hr or 2.

When you are through, walk her to the bathtub, and bath with her and keep her in warm embrace then clean her up and lay her on bed. Ensure you lie with her and 'pretend' to sleep along with her.

When she falls asleep. Sneak out and go to the club and be with the guys and get BJ from a slay queen and return soon enough to ensure she thinks you were with her all along. BUT if she finds out you went out, tell her a story that touches the Soul. How a friend of yours had so a terrible experience with the police and you had to go bail him out.

Learn to lie, it is a part of the game. BE A MAN, MASTER THE GAME.

Trolla:
why do you think like this nau,
man or woman, if you're going to serve someone, then do it well...
why would you come all the way from the kitchen, serve me my food, and expect me to go all the way to the kitchen to go get spoon, haba.....
what sort of stupid thinking is that, it's better you didn't even serve me at first...

Its not everything that is man vs woman in this life abeg.....
I treat people the way i want to be treated shikena..

Getting a spoon for them is not the same as cleaning up after they're done. I serve you, you eat, you clean up.

chiefqueen:
So an educated and exposed man who doesn't think if himself as a god and who doesn't think lowly of women is a woman wrapper? Dear lord, it's either a woman wrapper or nothing.

It's a free world, babe. No one can force you to marry that which displeases you. However, you will never find any real man who will be satisfied with life under a woman or even as her equal. It must backfire.

They are just men but you seem to think they are gods... the feminist thinking!

Capensis:
Gentlemen,

Ishilove is just one of the very many aggressive women out there, who have so much gamma energy in them due to your failure to 'tame' them seductively. I can not for any reason condescend so low to exchange words with a woman. They are our wives, our daughters, and our mothers.

I blame the man in her life for making her so aggressive because he has not made enough love to her to quench this aggression, which is just a feedback loop from excessive adrenaline secretions. Multiple orgasms would have generated enough sex hormones to neutralize this aggression. It is not her fault, it is our fault as men, for not doing it right to quench this aggression and I think you will aggree with me when I say, Ishilove is not the only victim of lack of enough orgasm. There are very many other unfuccked women like her.

So, please I will write a little template on how to tame the Lioness in 'Case Studies' like Ishilove:

Setting:

Place: Bedroom with a massage table readied.
Temperature: 23 Degrees
Sound: 2 Bluetooth wireless Boombox (Surround Sound preferably BlueRay)
Music: Boombox 1 - Jazz @ 15 decibels
Boombox 2 - 7.83Hz Binaural for Earth grounding @ 12 decibels.
Both sounds will mix to produce a sedating effect as if the lady is on crack-cocaine laced on cannabis sativa.
Lighting: Blue and Red Incandescent Light that mixes to produce Green in a dark room.
Tools: 3 Vibrators, 1 Love Machine, Massage Oil, Rosemary Candle.
Time: 2hrs.

Process: Let the Ishilove, steam for 15 minutes, run cold water through the body and clean up, lay her on the massage table for 5 minutes, get her just a glass of wine, not more, not less. Let the music, the temperate, the dark green room give her the necessary sedated effect.

Then place one vibrator in-between her thigh, one each nipple. And set it to vibrate at the lowest. Use the Love Machine, first to engage. Be creative there, cos although I can actually teach you the strategy on how to use, it is too graphic for the kids who might stumble on this.

Take is slow,but ensure she has at least 20 Orgasms within the 2 hours, then you can begin your sexual explorations as a man for the next 1hr or 2.

When you are through, walk her to the bathtub, and bath with her and keep her in warm embrace then clean her up and lay her on bed. Ensure you lie with her and 'pretend' to sleep along with her.

When she falls asleep. Sneak out and go to the club and be with the guys and fucck some slay queens and return soon enough to ensure she thinks you were with her all along. BUT if she finds out you went out, tell her a story that touches the Soul. How a friend of yours had so a terrible experience with the police and you had to go bail him out.

Learn to lie, it is a part of the game. BE A MAN, MASTER THE GAME.

I think she's trying to educate you. You should listen.

Capensis:
Your ideology does not tally with your Dad's. Your mother is who she is to the family because of your Dad's strategic home management skills. Your Dad never considered your mum as a partner that 'must' assist, he was excited that your mum was able to assist.

No one is saying that women should not assist, but expecting them to assist compulsorily is the root of the crisis in marriage.

I do not think marriage is compulsory naturally, after all, other animals do not get married, but if you must be married, understand that as a man it is your responsibility to provide 101% of all in that marriage and it does not stop there, you must remain romantic, chief security officer, the caregiver and the breadwinner.

That is why you are called Husband from Husbandry etymology and Wife is called Mother, as in the giver of life. So, a woman must know how to birth beautiful kids and sustain the lives of families with great organic meals. Fathers are Heads of families.

You do not expect a woman to contribute to your responsibilities without dragging the headship of family with you. It is just natural.

This is not what most people expect to read, but truth is always bitter. I do not know why truth is always bitter, but it appears so.

Do that and you will not die young. You will enjoy your years with wisdom and always have a wet pusssy on your bed and wine in your cup.

I still think is good for women to assist in order for peace to reign. For me my hubby makes it compulsory that I must assist despite earnings much more salary than I do, if not peace will not reign, he thinks that a woman has two hands just like the man, and so must work to complement the man.

Capensis:
Gentlemen,

Ishilove is just one of the very many aggressive women out there, who have so much gamma energy in them due to your failure to 'tame' them seductively. I can not for any reason condescend so low to exchange words with a woman. They are our wives, our daughters, and our mothers.

I blame the man in her life for making her so aggressive because he has not made enough love to her to quench this aggression, which is just a feedback loop from excessive adrenaline secretions. Multiple orgasms would have generated enough sex hormones to neutralize this aggression. It is not her fault, it is our fault as men, for not doing it right to quench this aggression and I think you will aggree with me when I say, Ishilove is not the only victim of lack of enough orgasm. There are very many other unfuccked women like her.

So, please I will write a little template on how to tame the Lioness in 'Case Studies' like Ishilove:

Setting:

Place: Bedroom with a massage table readied.
Temperature: 23 Degrees
Sound: 2 Bluetooth wireless Boombox (Surround Sound preferably BlueRay)
Music: Boombox 1 - Jazz @ 15 decibels
Boombox 2 - 7.83Hz Binaural for Earth grounding @ 12 decibels.
Both sounds will mix to produce a sedating effect as if the lady is on crack-cocaine laced on cannabis sativa.
Lighting: Blue and Red Incandescent Light that mixes to produce Green in a dark room.
Tools: 3 Vibrators, 1 Love Machine, Massage Oil, Rosemary Candle.
Time: 2hrs.

Process: Let the Ishilove, steam for 15 minutes, run cold water through the body and clean up, lay her on the massage table for 5 minutes, get her just a glass of wine, not more, not less. Let the music, the temperate, the dark green room give her the necessary sedated effect.

Then place one vibrator in-between her thigh, one each nipple. And set it to vibrate at the lowest. Use the Love Machine, first to engage. Be creative there, cos although I can actually teach you the strategy on how to use, it is too graphic for the kids who might stumble on this.

Take is slow,but ensure she has at least 20 Orgasms within the 2 hours, then you can begin your sexual explorations as a man for the next 1hr or 2.

When you are through, walk her to the bathtub, and bath with her and keep her in warm embrace then clean her up and lay her on bed. Ensure you lie with her and 'pretend' to sleep along with her.

When she falls asleep. Sneak out and go to the club and be with the guys and get BJ from a slay queen and return soon enough to ensure she thinks you were with her all along. BUT if she finds out you went out, tell her a story that touches the Soul. How a friend of yours had so a terrible experience with the police and you had to go bail him out.

Learn to lie, it is a part of the game. BE A MAN, MASTER THE GAME.

Lol

Eze2000:
It's a free world, babe. No one can force you to marry that which displeases you. However, you will never find any real man who will be satisfied with life under a woman or even as her equal. It must backfire.

They are just men but you seem to think they are gods... the feminist thinking!

That's how you think of yourself. What's so wrong about being a woman that you think I need to be controlled ur you think you're better than me? Nothing. It's just a thirst for power that's pushing most of you to act stupid dumb. You can't manipulate your fellow man, you think you can do it to a woman.

Only a weak woman would treat you like the god you think you are. I don't think they exist, but in a world were cavemen exist, you might be 'lucky' to find one.

That line "you'll never find a real man satisfied with a life under a woman" shows you're a sexist. That's the most disgusting thing a person can be. You're not a real man, you need a woman to act weak for you to feel powerful. You aren't a man.

Bravo ! ! !

Capensis:
Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.

Capensis:
Definition of good or evil is your responsibility.

I am not a religious man, so I have no idea of what is good or evil. I just understand Cause and Effect as well as Epigenetics. If you repeat a process for 21 days, your internal software will be reprogrammed to become addicted to the routines and the processes.

My advice is not for the egotistic illiterates, but for people with functional neurotransmitters.

Now I know dat ur stupidity got no cure

delugadou:
please help a brother here. I have a girlfriend who I'm still trying to understand. what signs should I look out for in a terrible girlfriend?

Give yourself that assignment

Studying about women comes in volumes because of their complex nature

Don't rush her,
do more of observations? Every day is a new chapter in their life

Use your head

goldenboyofpsy:
I couldn't resist your depth of insight and wisdom. please, I will like to discuss personal issues with you but I opened this account with my previous e-mail. How can I reach you?

I wish I could share my email address or phone number, but such things are quite risky on NL.