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Divay22:
PROVE HER WRONG !


*Modified*
Don't make her words taunt you into doing bad things or using illegal means to make money.. Follow the right way. It might be long or short but trust you'll surely get there.


If possible, get a carbon paper write her name and her surname boldly E.G
Blessing okeke (Her name and surname)
I (write your name and surname)
Will prove you wrong.
And place it on the wall. (Her words are likely gonna cause a lot of damages to you, most especially if you are thinking about it and things seems to be going slow, even if not often but you will subconsciously)



Don't let anybody's version of your life make you feel that's how your life should be.. (it's your life, you owe it, you rule it and you decide)
You're are the Architect of your life!



And Hey
Good news is that, she'll come back

SHE KNOWS THE NOW BUT YOU DECIDE THE FUTURE

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Celestial777:
You nailed it ! Such as once happened to me like 4 years ago. The girl left me just because I lost my job. I started business with the little cash that is with me. Several times she will ask me how and when will I make it under this Nigeria govt and how things are... Those words got me depressed. She finally left me for a guy that just return from Malay. Now the guy has left her. She came back to me last year August begging me. In no time I accept sharp sharp say na devil. Yours sincerely I begin use drug , jedi even Hausa buratashi bleed this fellow. I swear she confess say I won kill her. When I nearly finish her with buratashi power no body tell her to make way. Those six months is so sweet cos she knew I have cash but she can't ask me for money with the mindset that she has changed. My brother no worry ur head. Its even better that u r not yet married to her. Go make money sure she will be back in no time... see bro u go even try bdsm style with her she will not complain..I smile while writing this ... Eves can be so funny... Buratshi sha

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

iezeiyida:
Take heart bro! I feel your pain. You really love and do good for this girl but she left bcoz she never really loved you. Money is good but True love knows no financial limit.. 'Simi told us that love don't care.' This kind of thing happens often. Some one I know very well was abandoned this way by a girl he dated from Secondary school days.. A girl he did everything for. He even lived in same room, in the University with the girl for 5 years, supported her school, financially, assisted her poor family, loved her so much, and sacrificied ultimately for her bcoz he so much loved her and wanted to marry her after school.. But she left immidately she went to NYSC, for no good reason.. Married one illiterate rich Nnewi business man.. It was really difficult for the guy to deal with, but he still moved on with his life later.. Now he has a Federal job, has two cool cars, happily married with 2 fine boys. So try and try and try to delete this fool of a girl from your mind and hussle your life on. Sometimes are just like that. Some life experiences' are really painful, but sometimes, they're programmed by invisible forces to either mar us or make us. May God console, strength and bless you. Amen

hoodedjaystrim:
Go and make money and stop wailing on Nairaland

She gave you uppercut though

val4sure:
Am also going through this ordeal you just narrated now, my babe left me just recently due to pressure to marry, have been with her for ages, asked her to wait for me a little while because I just started a business, wanted the business to grow a little before I can go and see her people for the marriage rites, I later have to back out from asking her to wait for me because her people started seeing me as a threat, sometimes I feel depressed and sad in me but I know life has to move on and what is yours will definitely be yours.
Can't cry over spilled milk.

olasclef:
Don’t love because of beauty bro. You can make the lady that loves you beautiful. Be strong,work smart, be prayerful and be grateful to almighty GOD.

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

mhizdebbygold:
My sweetheart am a lady and I urge u for no reason what so ever to think about going back to her. if u did all that for her and she insulted u for being broke karma has a way of dealing with this type of girls leave her to God u deserve a better woman in ur life that wouldn't take ur current state as a leverage to insult u. It's not like u have never given her something u paid her fees, bought her phone twice spoiled her naughty with money and now she turned her back on u just because the flow is no more.. u should be happy u got to know her for who she truly is before u slip a ring to her finger...I don't want to hear after she abandoned u things later returned back to normal for u and she comes back begging u'll come here and start asking us if u should accept her

mhizdebbygold:
My sweetheart am a lady and I urge u for no reason what so ever to think about going back to her. if u did all that for her and she insulted u for being broke karma has a way of dealing with this type of girls leave her to God u deserve a better woman in ur life that wouldn't take ur current state as a leverage to insult u. It's not like u have never given her something u paid her fees, bought her phone twice spoiled her naughty with money and now she turned her back on u just because the flow is no more.. u should be happy u got to know her for who she truly is before u slip a ring to her finger...I don't want to hear after she abandoned u things later returned back to normal for u and she comes back begging u'll come here and start asking us if u should accept her

1StopRudeness:
iPhone ....the breaker of relationships......

Shey Una don hear now.??...if u can't afford an iPhone don't date material driven ladies....they don't care...they don't love...they are not paitient...they want it fast, they want it now.......
The only thing they have to offer you, you can get it elsewhere, they are hoes, let that sink, hoooooooessss!!!!!!they are not different from those at Allen jnctions, it's the same give and take transaction. don't let the wig and make up fool u...it's the same prostitution...u even get to pay more
better still..try abstainance.....lack of sex no dey kill person ooooooooo...
Una go just they let worthless women make Una life miserable.....now this dude is frustrated...just because a lady that doesn't give a damn about u is fvcking other guys for material gain and still have the guts to insult ur life and parents..and u are sad....shouldn't u be happy she's gone??

guys Una dey fvck up......

babzlim:
TOO EVERYONE IN NAIRALAND.. STOP PAYING BILLS FOR GIRLS THAT DOESN'T HAVE ANY STEADY SOURCE OF INCOME... THEY DON'T VALUE OR APPRECIATE IT BECOS THEY HAVE KNOW IDEA HOW MONEY IS MADE...

ONLY GIVE THEM WHAT THEY NEED... WHICH IS T. P AND FOOD. TRUTH IS BITTER.

Davico:
hi bro I just sent u a pm. Pls reply
asap with ur contact I will give you a call. If u are in Lagos and it environs I will drive down to see u and encourage u.

Davico:
hi bro I just sent u a pm. Pls reply
asap with ur contact I will give you a call. If u are in Lagos and it environs I will drive down to see u and encourage u.

Adeinfo:
Truth be told, you committed some blunders. Why must you pay her school fees, don't she have a guardian?
Is she and orphan?
Never you inconvenience yourself because you want to look good to others.
Moreover, if truly you rendered those help to her, count it as your loss and move on. Always guage people if they are worthy of your favour and when you help people, do it without a mind of expectations

Gofwane:
the guy na correct montol. I still find it hard to believe that guys like this op still exist. Imagine, selling his properties just to give a girl he's not married to the money - Not just any girl, but a naija girl

Divay22:
PROVE HER WRONG !


*Modified*
Don't make her words taunt you into doing bad things or using illegal means to make money.. Follow the right way. It might be long or short but trust you'll surely get there.


If possible, get a carbon paper write her name and her surname boldly E.G
Blessing okeke (Her name and surname)
I (write your name and surname)
Will prove you wrong.
And place it on the wall. (Her words are likely gonna cause a lot of damages to you, most especially if you are thinking about it and things seems to be going slow, even if not often but you will subconsciously)



Don't let anybody's version of your life make you feel that's how your life should be.. (it's your life, you owe it, you rule it and you decide)
You're are the Architect of your life!



And Hey
Good news is that, she'll come back

SHE KNOWS THE NOW BUT YOU DECIDE THE FUTURE