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Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by queenice7(f): 3:45pm On Feb 28, 2019
my boo tells me everything that happens to him, so do I... he tells me abt girls tripping on him and doing crazy things to get his attention... I tell him each time I make a new male friend and our conversations, he seem cool with it. we live in different States (long distance relationship). recently I went for a training, after de training I was hungry, so I decided to see a guy that av been bulging me to see since last year, since I wasn't far from his office, this is the second time am seeing him and we haven't really conversed. he took me to a nice restaurant and we got food... we were eating and discussing abt politics and stuffs, only for him to start telling that he's Hot, that let's go to a lodge, I was so embarrassed but I didn't say a word to him, he got frustrated and left me in the place after paying for the food. I had to find my way home from that place since we came with a car so I didn't know de road. I told my boo this, and he got really angry @ me, and am surprised coz he called me names like cheap flirt and said he was gona show me... like he was literary threatening me, said our relationship is on de verge of break up coz of this. I didn't see this coming and I don't know y he is reacting this way, maybe coz he feels intimidated by this guy's profile, unlike de other guys I tell him about. I guess I should stop telling him anything, wah do u think?

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by hopeforcharles(m): 3:48pm On Feb 28, 2019
queenice7:
my boo tells me everything that happens to him, so do I... he tells me abt girls tripping on him and doing crazy things to get his attention... I tell him each time I make a new male friend and our conversations, he seem cool with it. we live in different States (long distance relationship). recently I went for a training, after de training I was hungry, so I decided to see a guy that av been bulging me to see since last year, since I wasn't far from his office. he took me to a nice restaurant and we got food... we were eating and discussing abt politics and stuffs, only for him to start telling that he's Hot, that let's go to a lodge, I was so embarrassed but I didn't say a word to him, he got frustrated and left me in the place after paying for the food. I had to find my way home from that place since we came with a car so I didn't know de road. I told my boo this, and he got really angry @ me, and am surprised coz he called me names like cheap flirt and said he was gona show me... like he was literary threatening me, said our relationship is on de verge of break up coz of this. I didn't see this coming and I don't know y he is reacting this way, maybe coz he feels intimidated by this guy's profile, unlike de other guys I tell him about. I guess I should stop telling him anything, wah do u think?
Why would you in the first place go to the guy you know wants to date u? What's ur motive? U claim u are in a relationship and you are still looking for other guys, to eat their money and run away? Or what exactly? You girls can be funny and thinking that because u are a woman people should give u free stuffs, now u know what that guy wants from you.
Well you caused it to yourself

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by dulux07(m): 3:51pm On Feb 28, 2019
The question is why did u go and see the guy in the first place since u claim he has been bugging you, you know what he is after, then why did u go.

You don't smell what u won't eat.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Divay22(f): 3:54pm On Feb 28, 2019
It's either he doesn't trust you or he's looking for an excuse to cheat or break up with you.
So brace up for anything that's gonna happen..

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 3:54pm On Feb 28, 2019
You knew what he wanted from onset but your greed could not allow you to reject an ordinary meal.
Have you ask yourself what gave the womaniser the audacity to seek sex from you?
I only hope the thinking of our ladies in romance section don't linger to our reality.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by faithfull18(f): 3:56pm On Feb 28, 2019
There was nothing wrong in visiting the guy but for a guy to tell you he is hot and tells you to go to a lodge with him says a lot.

Maybe that's why your partner is pissed.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:06pm On Feb 28, 2019
dulux07:
The question is why did u go and see the guy in the first place since u claim he has been bugging you, you know what he is after, then why did u go.

You don't smell what u won't eat.


The OP must be a girl...they love to explore by hanging out with all and sundry.
A lady will never smell what she doesn't intend to eat

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:06pm On Feb 28, 2019
faithfull18:
There was nothing wrong in visiting the guy but for a guy to tell you he is hot and tells you to go to a lodge with him says a lot.

Maybe that's why your partner is pissed.
For a guy to muster courage and request sex from a lady it means she must have display her crave for materialism. If you check it is not the first time he took her out.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:09pm On Feb 28, 2019
queenice7:
my boo tells me everything that happens to him, so do I... he tells me abt girls tripping on him and doing crazy things to get his attention... I tell him each time I make a new male friend and our conversations, he seem cool with it. we live in different States (long distance relationship). recently I went for a training, after de training I was hungry, so I decided to see a guy that av been bulging me to see since last year, since I wasn't far from his office. he took me to a nice restaurant and we got food... we were eating and discussing abt politics and stuffs, only for him to start telling that he's Hot, that let's go to a lodge, I was so embarrassed but I didn't say a word to him, he got frustrated and left me in the place after paying for the food. I had to find my way home from that place since we came with a car so I didn't know de road. I told my boo this, and he got really angry @ me, and am surprised coz he called me names like cheap flirt and said he was gona show me... like he was literary threatening me, said our relationship is on de verge of break up coz of this. I didn't see this coming and I don't know y he is reacting this way, maybe coz he feels intimidated by this guy's profile, unlike de other guys I tell him about. I guess I should stop telling him anything, wah do u think?
i retract

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by queenice7(f): 4:11pm On Feb 28, 2019
vingeophysicist:
For a guy to muster courage and request sex from a lady it means she must have display her crave for materialism. If you check it is not the first time he took her out.
hello, this is de second time I saw the guy, after he met me in my place of work... coz he was a customer and I was required to call customers
Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:11pm On Feb 28, 2019
Well, honesty is the best policy. But are you telling us your boyfriend doesn't take good care of u enough that you had to go meet up a man for food? Even his temerity asking for sex in such manner says a lot.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:13pm On Feb 28, 2019
vingeophysicist:
For a guy to muster courage and request sex from a lady it means she must have display her crave for materialism. If you check it is not the first time he took her out.
Exactly. Although, OP is those kind of girls that act cheap but don't even know that's how they look.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2019
Admin401:
Are you saying he's wrong for calling you cheap? You are cheap, I'm telling you that and I'm not your boyfriend. Just thought you should hear it from someone else. He's right!
Take it easy na. She only went for a meet up which is harmless, only the guy was so cheap to b asking for sex so cheaply.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by lilmax(m): 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2019
recently I went for a training, after de training I was hungry, so I decided to see a guy that av been bulging me to see since last year


if they call them stupid names now on romance section they'll start crying cheesy

what kind of a dumbass girl is this op? the stupidity na follow come or you just updated?


he's has been bulging you since means you've had romantic conversations with him
your bf is on the right path cool

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2019
Divay22:
It's either he doesn't trust you or he's looking for an excuse to cheat or break up with you.
So brace up for anything that's gonna happen..


Please stop judging issue base on gender affiliation. She is totally wrong.Do you know the courage required for a man to demand sex from a lady. This can only happen if you show tendency of gold digging and greed.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:15pm On Feb 28, 2019
Ew2

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:17pm On Feb 28, 2019
Both u and ur boo must be under 18.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:18pm On Feb 28, 2019
queenice7:
my boo tells me everything that happens to him, so do I... he tells me abt girls tripping on him and doing crazy things to get his attention... I tell him each time I make a new male friend and our conversations, he seem cool with it. we live in different States (long distance relationship). recently I went for a training, after de training I was hungry, so I decided to see a guy that av been bulging me to see since last year, since I wasn't far from his office, this is the second time am seeing him and we haven't really conversed. he took me to a nice restaurant and we got food.. we were eating and discussing abt politics and stuffs, only for him to start telling that he's Hot, that let's go to a lodge, I was so embarrassed but I didn't say a word to him, he got frustrated and left me in the place after paying for the food. I had to find my way home from that place since we came with a car so I didn't know de road. I told my boo this, and he got really angry @ me, and am surprised coz he called me names like cheap flirt and said he was gona show me... like he was literary threatening me, said our relationship is on de verge of break up coz of this. I didn't see this coming and I don't know y he is reacting this way, maybe coz he feels intimidated by this guy's profile, unlike de other guys I tell him about. I guess I should stop telling him anything, wah do u think?
Naso hunger kill you reach?? undecidedundecided

If you were in his shoes, what would you have done??

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by xendra: 4:19pm On Feb 28, 2019
What do I think? really! I think you are a shild. both of you

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:21pm On Feb 28, 2019
queenice7:

hello, this is de second time I saw the guy, after he met me in my place of work... coz he was a customer and I was required to call customers
Babe you gave the womaniser the opportunity to request sex from you. What audacity!!!

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by TanyLoe(f): 4:22pm On Feb 28, 2019
Well, nothing is wrong with being free with your patner . Maybe there's no trust and also why would you go out with a man who has been bugging you to a place you don't know? What if he didn't pay for the food. Just try talking to your guy that's all

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by TanyLoe(f): 4:22pm On Feb 28, 2019
If this story of yours is true
Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:23pm On Feb 28, 2019
Divay22:
It's either he doesn't trust you or he's looking for an excuse to cheat or break up with you.
So brace up for anything that's gonna happen..


Hehehe Divay, shockedshockedshocked
Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by TanyLoe(f): 4:23pm On Feb 28, 2019
undecided
Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:25pm On Feb 28, 2019
Admin401:
Who cares about the guy? He's not important to this story at all, except you have an agenda which I can clearly see through, take your gender blame bullshiit somewhere else please.
But you blaming her, calling her cheap for going for a meet up. Like how backward can one reason?
Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Nobody: 4:30pm On Feb 28, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
But you blaming her, calling her cheap for going for a meet up. Like how backward can one reason?

Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Zonto231(m): 4:30pm On Feb 28, 2019
That’s how most girls end up being drugged and raped,if you know you ain’t gonna give in to a guy’s advances towards you,just stay very far away from him cos you can never tell what’s running through a mans mind.you are very lucky the guy opened up to you he was feeling hot.some other guy might decide to play a fast one and before you know it you end up being a victim
faithfull18:
There was nothing wrong in visiting the guy but for a guy to tell you he is hot and tells you to go to a lodge with him says a lot.

Maybe that's why your partner is pissed.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by Divay22(f): 4:35pm On Feb 28, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Hehehe Divay, shockedshockedshocked
That's the truth.
Cause i don't see how telling my boyfriend, a guy that took me out for lunch is asking for sex and he start yapping abuses on me.

Just maybe though their chatting the guy might have felt maybe she's up for the game, hence he told her.
He clearly misunderstood her, doesn't trust her and he's likely to cheat.
Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:40pm On Feb 28, 2019
Divay22:

That's the truth.
Cause i don't see how telling my boyfriend, a guy that took me out for lunch is asking for sex and he start yapping abuses on me.

Just maybe though their chatting the guy might have felt maybe she's up for the game, hence he told her.
He clearly misunderstood her, doesn't trust her and he's likely to cheat.
OK..A guy took you out abi you carry your leg go there?? .

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by CAPSLOCKED: 5:15pm On Feb 28, 2019
hopeforcharles:

Why would you in the first place go to the guy you know wants to date u? What's ur motive? U claim u are in a relationship and you are still looking for other guys, to eat their money and run away? Or what exactly? You girls can be funny and thinking that because u are a woman people should give u free stuffs, now u know what that guy wants from you.
Well you caused it to yourself

NICE ONE MY G.
SOME HOW LADIES CANNOT SURVIVE WITHOUT THE ATTENTION THEY GET. SHE'S CLAIMING SHE'S LOYAL AND COMMITTED BUT DOESN'T HESITATE TO GIVE OUT HER PHONE NUMBER, AND MEET UP WITH RANDOM GUYS FOR FREE FOOD. SEE JOHN.


NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Take it easy na. She only went for a meet up which is harmless, only the guy was so cheap to b asking for sex so cheaply.

AND HE WILL GET IT FROM HER IF HE TRIES A FEW MORE TIMES AFTER FANCIER OUTINGS AND GIFTS.
WE BEEN THERE BEFORE! NO BE TODAY.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:33pm On Feb 28, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Take it easy na. She only went for a meet up which is harmless, only the guy was so cheap to b asking for sex so cheaply.
.. She is a very cheap and shameless lady. So she can't even buy food for herself, she has to go to the guy because she was hungry.

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Re: Being Free With Boo Is About To Ruin My Relationship by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:40pm On Feb 28, 2019
Admin401:
Are you saying he's wrong for calling you cheap? You are cheap, I'm telling you that and I'm not your boyfriend. Just thought you should hear it from someone else. He's right!
... Very cheap my brother.

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