₦airaland Forum

Kingpee2:
If you had engaged yourself in one petty trade you won’t be a victim of this and besides how did you end up not doing family planning before your kids got to 4 when you know it will be difficult to take care of them ,our society needs more education on family planning to both men and women individually..

she already had those kid's before the demise of her husband, if this is your the only advice,pls.fly away like a bird.Mr family planner

If this story is true, then those men are he goats.

May God save us all.

delugajackson:
Let me get this straight. Her husband died and she had no other choice than solicit help from other men. Knowing fully well that there are many wolves out there. What about her husband's family? What about her own family? Or is she an outcast?

She didn't feel the need to involve her husband's family for support, at least for the sake of the children.

You lack dignity! You slept with them out of lack of respect for yourself and your late husband. He died and you resorted to prostitution like that was your only option? A good woman will never stoop so low to dehumanize herself in that manner! You went on to sleep with different men b4 realizing they were only using you? Are you that dumb?

Truth is, even if her husband were alive and suddenly went broke, this woman here will still commit adultery and justify it with whatever damn reason that settles with her. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is finding out that the woman you married is nothing but a coded prostitute!

always pray that you should never encounter trials bigger than you... All you wrote above is trash.... Put yourself in the woman's shoe and also have you seen family of late husband helping out in Nigeria? BE realistic and stop showcasing Ur english skills... People are going thru more Hell than you..


May God send her a helper

Guest007:
My mother raised 5 of us on plain rice, and we slept in a shanty 1 room, all 6 of us... Now my mum owns a supermarket, and 4 of her children are graduates.

This woman probably sold her dignity for weaves, and smart phones.

This generation

I feel so bad for her sons

I believe your mum has a good support system to help her start from somewhere.... Most Igbo women are full time housewives

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Only when you pray to your God for destiny helpers will you get genuine help.

Hard to find a selfless man who will help you without talking thrash though Hausa men can be good though.

... Can't you pray to God to make you a destiny helper to others? Or is it that women can't be destiny helpers too?

dominique:
I'm not moved by her silly reasons for selling herself so cheaply. She's morally bankrupt herself. Those men didn't hold a gun to her head and forced her to sleep with them did they? I know of a widowed mother of six who his managing to raise her kids without ever having to resort to prostitution. Whatever happened to her immediate family? Her husband's family? None could help? Why is it only men she's asking for favours? Are there no privileged women that she could meet for assistance? Even if she's stark illiterate without a skill, prostitution is still not an option excerpt she chooses to which she did.

... Brilliant

JONNYSPUTE:
... Can't you pray to God to make you a destiny helper to others? Or is it that women can't be destiny helpers too?

That's my fucking prayer point everyday. I wanna help people. One gotta b helped before helping others. I know where u driving at but just leave me outta it... Won't b surprised if u married a housewife that contributes zero to family support and you'll b attacking ladies here.

decatalyst:
What are the men of these days turning into nitori olorun?

Jo
Why the high sex drive in our society?

A married man messing around. Let's not even talk of the single guys...that one nah long thing.

Thats why I don't support "full house wife" thing! Now the woman is left to suffer without help.


While no one plan to die early and leave their responsibility for others to carry, it is best to empower your partner for the 'unknown" circumstances.

This has nothing to do with being a randy he goat or oversexed individuals. Our people have a penchant for taking advantage of other people's situations and using their little pittance as an instrument of oppression and humiliation.
What would a man gain by watching a widow masturbate, but I sense blackmail in the not too distant future.
We must do better.

I dont believe these story looks like scam she wan use the children nd her story raise money

kallmemrB:
I believe your mum has a good support system to help her start from somewhere.... Most Igbo women are full time housewives

you think she'd raise us on plain rice if she had support?

SHE HAD NO ONE BUT HERSELF!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
That's my fucking prayer point everyday. I wanna help people. One gotta b helped before helping others. I know where u driving at but just leave me outta it... Won't b surprised if u married a housewife that contributes zero to family support and you'll b attacking ladies here.

. So my questions to you now is seen as attacking ladies? Stop all these victim mentality of yours.Yes I married her and got her a well paying job at UNTH Enugu.She is not in your league,so leave her out of our discussion.Just answer my question. Can't women also be destiny helper?

JONNYSPUTE:
. So my questions to you now is seen as attacking ladies? Stop all these victim mentality of yours.Yes I married her and got her a well paying job at UNTH Enugu.She is not in your league,so leave her out of our discussion.Just answer my question. Can't women also be destiny helper?

Lol... Nwanyi knows how to get people to talk. Both sexes are destiny helpers. U helped ur wife and now she can help other... Being a destiny helper has nothing to do with money but positive investment into one's life which will make them independent. God will not come down to help anyone. Your question is irrelevant as you know women in such position help people.

Guest007:
you think she'd raise us on plain rice if she had support?

SHE HAD NO ONE BUT HERSELF!!

Don't mind all these silly people who don't understand life. Since my dad passed, none of his siblings has called my mom to even ask how she's managing but she gat me so they can all go to hell. It's never easy but one gotta be hardworking and God will crown your efforts.

JasonScoolari:
The truth is, we have so many Randy he-goats littered over the country.

When you wake them from their masculine slumber, they start tagging you as an "asslicker"

Just because you are in the position to help, you want to take advantage of her.

Sillly pigs

Its really terrible. But na joblessness follow cos am

delugajackson:
Let me get this straight. Her husband died and she had no other choice than solicit help from other men. Knowing fully well that there are many wolves out there. What about her husband's family? What about her own family? Or is she an outcast?

She didn't feel the need to involve her husband's family for support, at least for the sake of the children.

You lack dignity! You slept with them out of lack of respect for yourself and your late husband. He died and you resorted to prostitution like that was your only option? A good woman will never stoop so low to dehumanize herself in that manner! You went on to sleep with different men b4 realizing they were only using you? Are you that dumb?

Truth is, even if her husband were alive and suddenly went broke, this woman here will still commit adultery and justify it with whatever damn reason that settles with her. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is finding out that the woman you married is nothing but a coded prostitute!

she is plain dumb to fall victim to those men......

dainformant:
A woman identified as Mirabel Anaedo from Anambra state, has put shame aside to reveal on social media how men have taken advantage of her in the name of rendering assistance to her.

In a video posted online, the widow and mother of four boys - revealed that her husband died while she was 6 months pregnant with the fourth child and since then life has been difficult for her and her kids.

The woman admitted to have had sex with different men in a bid to get help from them but most disappointed her.

She also revealed in a WhatsApp chat posted online with her consent, how she was asked by a man to send her nude pictures to him with her fingering herself before she could receive help from him.

She disclosed that she has met with her priest and have also turned a new leaf because she's tired of messing around.

Internet users have drummed up support online to see a way the woman can be helped.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/03/mother-of-4-reveals-how-men-have-taken-advantage-of-her-before-rendering-help.html

pls let her drop her no. so DAT we can chat with her and make sure she is not a fraudster, pls reply me now.

delugajackson:
Let me get this straight. Her husband died and she had no other choice than solicit help from other men. Knowing fully well that there are many wolves out there. What about her husband's family? What about her own family? Or is she an outcast?

She didn't feel the need to involve her husband's family for support, at least for the sake of the children.

You lack dignity! You slept with them out of lack of respect for yourself and your late husband. He died and you resorted to prostitution like that was your only option? A good woman will never stoop so low to dehumanize herself in that manner! You went on to sleep with different men b4 realizing they were only using you? Are you that dumb?

Truth is, even if her husband were alive and suddenly went broke, this woman here will still commit adultery and justify it with whatever damn reason that settles with her. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is finding out that the woman you married is nothing but a coded prostitute!

you break my heart with this your brilliant write up.

I can help her with 100k but I go Bleep am

quote author=delugajackson post=76628974]Let me get this straight. Her husband died and she had no other choice than solicit help from other men. Knowing fully well that there are many wolves out there. What about her husband's family? What about her own family? Or is she an outcast?

She didn't feel the need to involve her husband's family for support, at least for the sake of the children.

You lack dignity! You slept with them out of lack of respect for yourself and your late husband. He died and you resorted to prostitution like that was your only option? A good woman will never stoop so low to dehumanize herself in that manner! You went on to sleep with different men b4 realizing they were only using you? Are you that dumb?

Truth is, even if her husband were alive and suddenly went broke, this woman here will still commit adultery and justify it with whatever damn reason that settles with her. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is finding out that the woman you married is nothing but a coded prostitute![/quote]Stop ranting already, even the so called women with dignity still sleep around for cash provide the pay is good. Married Working class ladies do this all the time provided the pay is good. So she has not done anything unusual by confessing her sins

delugajackson:
Let me get this straight. Her husband died and she had no other choice than solicit help from other men. Knowing fully well that there are many wolves out there. What about her husband's family? What about her own family? Or is she an outcast?

She didn't feel the need to involve her husband's family for support, at least for the sake of the children.

You lack dignity! You slept with them out of lack of respect for yourself and your late husband. He died and you resorted to prostitution like that was your only option? A good woman will never stoop so low to dehumanize herself in that manner! You went on to sleep with different men b4 realizing they were only using you? Are you that dumb?

Truth is, even if her husband were alive and suddenly went broke, this woman here will still commit adultery and justify it with whatever damn reason that settles with her. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is finding out that the woman you married is nothing but a coded prostitute!

i agreed with all you said

Lloydthesaint:
I can help her with 100k but I go Bleep am

Don't be stupid. It's your types that give men bad names

delugajackson:
Let me get this straight. Her husband died and she had no other choice than solicit help from other men. Knowing fully well that there are many wolves out there. What about her husband's family? What about her own family? Or is she an outcast?

She didn't feel the need to involve her husband's family for support, at least for the sake of the children.

You lack dignity! You slept with them out of lack of respect for yourself and your late husband. He died and you resorted to prostitution like that was your only option? A good woman will never stoop so low to dehumanize herself in that manner! You went on to sleep with different men b4 realizing they were only using you? Are you that dumb?

Truth is, even if her husband were alive and suddenly went broke, this woman here will still commit adultery and justify it with whatever damn reason that settles with her. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is finding out that the woman you married is nothing but a coded prostitute!

I find it hard to punish or condemn single mothers with children especially a widow

The woman is sacred