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Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Mryacks: 9:19pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
xpac01: Exactly!! |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
the appropriate time to start living independently is when your parents have raised you up to the level you can cater for yourself. but in the economy of today we have a lot of irresponsible parents who do not watch closely their children. so it goes by this quote "he who must rest at night must learn to work during the day" but, if your parents do not show concern about your future, take the bull by the horns and by God's grace you will get to the top. 4 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by real777(m): 9:25pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
All these leaving home stories & tales should not be a template to gauge success. Some left early & it paid while the majority ended like the proverbial prodigal son. Other than job location, an unmarried young lady should continue living with parents or family house. Some young girls here in the GRA pays yearly rent of 500k when they have no meaningful job other than selling their ToTo & these are the kind of people you want to imitate right? For the boys it is freedom to fornicate & engage in ill gotten money online. This is what I know & I got them plenty here in my neighborhood. I currently have a 22 to 24 year old girl living alone but she comes home from 10pm everyday in the guise of a hair stylist / apprentice but okpo work & different boyfriends is the source of her house rent. People are too ashamed now living with parents in Benin/C & funny enough many houses will be empty & start to rot once parents dies. Some folks I know have two houses but still living in father's house because father is dead & nobody care about maintenance. Everybody don dey their own. The vanity of life.. 3 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Thane(m): 9:25pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Evans211: Which hustle is this abeg bro. I need . Pls help a brother 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by ewizard1: 9:26pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Still with my dad... Tho I got my place already but he calls me and talks like he misses me as I am the only child with him till now. My business place is close to his house, so more days in a week, I go take my room in his house. Leaving should depend on ability get a place and cater for oneself, the parents too should know this. I was still under my parents longer than I expected/planned and that was because I couldn't gather enough to get a place for me. But when it happened and I was able, I did. 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by FreeMejoor1(m): 9:28pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
latexxbro:what kind of business bro really want to learn from you. 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by airprinz(m): 9:31pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
wetdick:Guy from your name, it seems pussy is what has chase you away from your parent's house at early age. To me your quotes here are invalid 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by iammolise(m): 9:31pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
seyigiggle: Braggart Show off Unreasonable Bad judgmental Trollfull Parent spoiled... Uncle these are ur names... Just pray u don't make u and ur kids far poorer than ur parents. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by don4real18(m): 9:32pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Kendrick80:Alright... I just went through your profile and will beep you up if any project comes up 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
airprinz: even though it is pussy. so a man cant have his privacy again or build his own life independently. even my papa was happy that i was leaving when i told him. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by ganie(m): 9:36pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
I am in this situation presently,I live with my mom alone being her only son. I am a graduate and presently employed with a salary of over 50k,I am fit to rent a room self contained apartment that is close to my place of work. Though,I intend to actualise this in the next two months. But I have been thinking of how it will be like considering I am the only one with her though I have made it compulsory that I will continue to assist her with a stipend to cater for the expenses I take care of presently. Please advise me. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by iammolise(m): 9:37pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
latexxbro: My broda don't mind over sabi silver spooned cunts... All they know is brag and cunt around. Even without practical proof I believe u 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Kendrick80(m): 9:41pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
don4real18:Thanks...have a lovely night |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
wetdick: My friends parents are poor, his bro got a job at CBN just few months after NYSC, and You know what, HE DID NOT MOVE OUT, He is still living with his parents, helping out in the house & taking responsibility of some of his younger siblings. I know if it's someone like you, You go immediately move out claiming you want to realize ur ambitions. Your parents are not in any way holding you back or preventing you from getting rich. If you live in a village, I can understand moving out to a city in order to make it, But you can't be living in same city with ur parents, working in that same city & then decide to move out to live alone, like say ur parents are burdening you or something. If you ain't married use that money you wanna spend on bills & oloshos on ur parents instead 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Gerrard59(m): 9:45pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Jiang: Scenario: A lady resides in Uyo with her folks, applies for a job and is required to move to Lagos (where she knows no one) to work. What should she do? |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Ugosample(m): 9:45pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble: ThAt a wrong assumption |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Jiang: sorry, i have moved out.... too late. my dad gave me a big handshake when i told him i was moving out. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Ayobami7(m): 9:54pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
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Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by airprinz(m): 10:00pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
wetdick:Dude, you think life is easy as you think? If you are responsible enough to stay away from your comfort zone, then help brothers and sisters that are here still squating under their parents roof due to joblesness or financial crises, if not, then get the fvck out of this thread 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
airprinz: life is not easy for no one, instead of complaining, i rather do what is right for myself then after i will think about others. i didnt come to this world to come and help others, i came here to help myself first than after others but come to think of it, even if i had 1 naira and you were broke, i rather throw that 1 naira in a well than give it to you. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by olanewton(m): 10:08pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
joeydirisu:Nice one. What business are you doing bro? |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Mubarak05(m): 10:17pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
joeydirisu:Pls which work were u doing then |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by onimama19(m): 10:27pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
At God stipulated time, is the best of planner 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Mubarak05(m): 10:30pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
latexxbro:Sorry if I may ask...which type of business are u doing |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by myself13: 10:36pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Akalia: 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by dgee1(m): 11:07pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Really depressing reading all the comments here. I probably shouldnt have opened this thread. I'm 31 and still living with my parents. Graduated, started work and was supporting with some bills at home, then lost the job and been jobless for close to two years now. Really frustrated and confused right now. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Dannygold3790: So you wrote your waec at age 30. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by real777(m): 11:09pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
gbagyiza: Tell us the disadvantages of getting married late. Like I always tell people never use your lucky rosy life as template for others. At a stage in my life, I was a genius, creative / intelligent, first class in making & possessing great retentive memory. I started planning & thinking I will start a family at age 25 & be a multi millionaire before 30 but guess what.. things started slipping that till this day is a mystery what happened to me. Most of the people we grew together still thinks am that person they use to know. I'm not lazy or proud person but those great qualities in bold vanished. The life I dreamt off & felt at a stage in my life is same life I see other folks enjoy even without possession of skill. Eccl 9:11 comes to mind. Some got favoured by the best things of this life earlier but sadly returns to the grave earlier than their mates who are still struggling to eat 1 square meal daily. It is good to marry early but atimes, chance & circumstance may alter this decision for you. Some married at 22, 24 but after 15 years no child yet. Let's learn to appreciate Jehovah for the current situation we are now (especially if you're not the cause of those hindrance) Some go turn this thread to business and millionaires thread soon.... how they became a millionaire at 15 with imaginary product. ..potential scamming brewing here soon 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
dgee1: First born shey and average family. I totally understand. Almost in same shoes. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by dgee1(m): 11:28pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
princetunex: Its been very tough/crazy. Yet, you want to do the right thing. Society too is not helping, how many people have gone into internet fraud because of stuff like this? You apply for jobs, mostly it's the 'connected' ones that get employed even when you are well qualified and competent. Even most of the jobs, how much is up as pay? Yet you want to do the right thing and be legit. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
wetdick: Well different strokes for different people, As for me, I still dey him house |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
dgee1: Stop comparing urself with other people if you no wan depression to frustrate ur life or force you to make some stupid choices that you will end up regretting, THEY ARE THEM & YOU ARE YOU. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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