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Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by martius101(m): 7:10am On Mar 19, 2019
Good morning NLs,I am 31years old,and I don't have someone in my life.i am an undergraduate,400L I don't look my age,I look a lot more younger than my age.
I have tried all my best to get a girl wether good or bad because I have not been in a relationship in more than 7years...I don't know what is going on.both ugly and pretty wouldn't date me.i am not a dirty guy,I try to be reasonable,and cool.my dad has started asking me if I have a GF....I am tired of this question.if it's money,I know not all girls will date for money... at least 20percent....I don't know what to do and what's going on with my life....


.no bashing abeg

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by donstan18: 7:17am On Mar 19, 2019
31 years in 400level?

Kai!! E no go better for Jamb!

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Marvyx(m): 7:21am On Mar 19, 2019
Chronological age doesn't determine emotional maturity.

Are you ready for a woman now? Because trust me, they come with a lot of baggage. They can kill you before your time.

So... Are you ready? If yes, meet Ubunja. cool

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by dante0147: 7:23am On Mar 19, 2019
martius101:
Good morning NLs,I am 31years old,and I don't have someone in my life.i am an undergraduate,400L I don't look my age,I look a lot more younger than my age.
I have tried all my best to get a girl wether good or bad because I have not been in a relationship in more than 7years...I don't know what is going on.both ugly and pretty wouldn't date me.i am not a dirty guy,I try to be reasonable,and cool.my dad has started asking me if I have a GF....I am tired of this question.if it's money,I know not all girls will date for money... at least 20percent....I don't know what to do and what's going on with my life....


.no bashing abeg

Bruv you were without a GF for 7years the girls around you would have been thinking you are gay.. You think they haven’t been watching you...

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by martius101(m): 7:33am On Mar 19, 2019
dante0147:


Bruv you were without a GF for 7years the girls around you would have been thinking you are gay.. You think they haven’t been watching you...



I have been trying hard.... honestly
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by dante0147: 7:38am On Mar 19, 2019
martius101:




I have been trying hard.... honestly

The best you could do now is prove you ain’t gay ! Make sure you have ladies around you even if they are just ordinary friends so people would know you are into girls too.. man anyone would easily call you a gay knowing too well you haven’t been spotted with a lady for 7years...

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by CAPSLOCKED: 7:39am On Mar 19, 2019
martius101:
Good morning NLs,I am 31years old,and I don't have someone in my life.i am an undergraduate,400L I don't look my age,I look a lot more younger than my age.
I have tried all my best to get a girl wether good or bad......


DON'T GET A GIRL. GET SOME LOTION.

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by martius101(m): 7:42am On Mar 19, 2019
dante0147:


The best you could do now is prove you ain’t gay ! Make sure you have ladies around you even if they are just ordinary friends so people would know you are into girls too.. man anyone would easily call you a gay knowing too well you haven’t been spotted with a lady for 7years...




No be lie..... thank you so much

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Nobody: 7:59am On Mar 19, 2019
7 years of fapping......make I dash u one of my old phussies??

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Nobody: 7:59am On Mar 19, 2019
martius101:




I have been trying hard.... honestly
Lol

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Nobody: 8:03am On Mar 19, 2019
martius101:




I have been trying hard.... honestly
Stop trying. Increase your self confidence, have a touch of humor, be neat, have this sense of arrogance around you... You have to boost the vibe u give out... Seems money is important in that school of yours

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by chinnyonwu(m): 8:04am On Mar 19, 2019
Sorry
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by martius101(m): 8:07am On Mar 19, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Stop trying. Increase your self confidence, have a touch of humor, be neat, have this sense of arrogance around you... You have to boost the vibe u give out... Seems money is important in that school of yours




Thanks
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Obudupikin: 8:28am On Mar 19, 2019
Make money and girlfriends will look for you.

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by NNAMDIII(m): 8:37am On Mar 19, 2019
https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only


Go through this thread by Harddon, thank me later bruv

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Rilwayne001: 6:23pm On Mar 19, 2019
martius101:
Good morning NLs,I am 31years old,and I don't have someone in my life.i am an undergraduate,400L I don't look my age,I look a lot more younger than my age.
I have tried all my best to get a girl wether good or bad because I have not been in a relationship in more than 7years...I don't know what is going on.both ugly and pretty wouldn't date me.i am not a dirty guy,I try to be reasonable,and cool.my dad has started asking me if I have a GF....I am tired of this question.if it's money,I know not all girls will date for money... at least 20percent....I don't know what to do and what's going on with my life....


.no bashing abeg

Are you that unfriendly? : grin grin
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by grad2012(f): 6:57pm On Mar 19, 2019
like u need to chill out you are getting too worked up over it.

Try an make friends,go out get involved in youth gatherings whether church,mosque or school and then mingle that is with the right crowd from there you meet a lot people but please don't get carried away cause of school it is your final year.

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Nobody: 7:01pm On Mar 19, 2019
grin
Are you sure your batteries are still working?
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Seandisputed(m): 8:51pm On Mar 19, 2019
You don't need love.. you need pussies
Relationships are overrated. Trust me on that.
Just get a friend with benefits.

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 19, 2019
is having a girlfriend dat important to u?
if na nackin dey hungry u u can get a friend of benefit
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by austyn0(m): 9:38pm On Mar 19, 2019
Marvyx:
Chronological age doesn't determine emotional maturity.

Are you ready for a woman now? Because trust me, they come with a lot of baggage. They can kill you before your time.

So... Are you ready? If yes, meet Ubunja. cool

Comment of the day.. grin grin

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by rexdont: 9:39pm On Mar 19, 2019
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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Lipslikecandy11(m): 10:03pm On Mar 19, 2019
[quote author=martius101 post=76783474] Good morning NLs,I am 31years old,and I don't have someone in my life.i am an undergraduate,400L I don't look my age,I look a lot more younger than my age.
I have tried all my best to get a girl wether good or bad because I have not been in a relationship in more than 7years...I don't know what is going on.both ugly and pretty wouldn't date me.i am not a dirty guy,I try to be reasonable,and cool.my dad has started asking me if I have a GF....I am tired of this question.if it's money,I know not all girls will date for money... at least 20percent....I don't know what to do and what's going on


For starters... Start with been platonic with them atleast that will build your confidence...!!! Mind you.. U don't date because ur Dad or everyone is asking you to introduce your girlfriend to em... U choose to date if u feel ure ready..!!! "Most tyme its best to remain single than been in a wrong relationship"
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by lilmax(m): 10:07pm On Mar 19, 2019
I also do not have a girlfriend at 28, so cheer up

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by martius101(m): 10:22pm On Mar 19, 2019
[quote author=Lipslikecandy11 post=76808633][/quote]




Thank you
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by martius101(m): 10:25pm On Mar 19, 2019
lefulefu:
is having a girlfriend dat important to u?
if na nackin dey hungry u u can get a friend of benefit



Bruv,I am a responsible person......I don't know about you.... thanks anyway
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by martius101(m): 10:26pm On Mar 19, 2019
Seandisputed:
You don't need love.. you need pussies

Relationships are overrated. Trust me on that.

Just get a friend with benefits.




No be lie.....that one sef ........
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Gulher: 10:58pm On Mar 19, 2019
assuming you didn't include that you're an undergraduate now, you would have gotten one or two pm from single ladies

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Nobody: 12:02am On Mar 20, 2019
martius101:




Bruv,I am a responsible person......I don't know about you.... thanks anyway
getting a girlfriend is one of the easiest thing to do in nigeria.all u need na either money or u package urself.do u have either of these? though having a friend of benefit would have been less stressful but since u dey claim to be mister responsible then jus get money or u package urself and gwenfwends will be rushing u

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by CyberWolf: 12:30am On Mar 20, 2019
Make you read Ubunja threads A-Z before you get into any relationship because you sound like a potential maga to these ladies. They will rip you apart if you’re not fully prepared for them.
Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by kollinzgee(m): 12:39am On Mar 20, 2019
getting a girlfriend is the easiest thing to do as a guy especially at your age men in their 30s are f**king attractive to women especially younger women between 18----25 i dont know why but men get better with age you just try to do the following .


(1)forget about what society teaches you about women go for what you want .i mean dont care about your financial status,looks , just dress well and smell nice and be neat and have a life ambition.

(2)find a way to build your confidence to at least 70% .believe me at this point you become a lady magnet because most women instinctively crave emotionally tough men who can handle life challenges without giving up.a woman above all wants a superconfident man who can protect her not a weak man who cant even look her in the eye boldly this is the main reason why many guys fail with women they lack real confidence.

(3)learn how to approach women fearlessly. combine you confidence with social skills .you dont go to with toasting attitude you go with friendship attitude .if you want to make friends with a new guy how do you go about it thats how to go abt it.always be optimistic when you approach women if you meet nasty ones dont get discouraged all women are not meant for you .

(4) when you start making friends with women behave like a corrupt guy to them dont go like a born again brother but do it with maturity and confidence .compliment their ass, figure funnily tell them how you love women with fat asses. feel free to talk sexual with women but dont overdo it.this way you subconsciously communicate you sexual interest in them and leave the friendzone.

(5)instead of asking your female friends out invite her to your house and try sexual things after sex or kissing just assume you guys are dating after sex. ask her out .

works for me wella


******peace***------

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Re: Help I Don't Have A GF At 31 by Abcruz(m): 1:01am On Mar 20, 2019
martius101:
Good morning NLs,I am 31years old,and I don't have someone in my life.i am an undergraduate,400L I don't look my age,I look a lot more younger than my age.
I have tried all my best to get a girl wether good or bad because I have not been in a relationship in more than 7years...I don't know what is going on.both ugly and pretty wouldn't date me.i am not a dirty guy,I try to be reasonable,and cool.my dad has started asking me if I have a GF....I am tired of this question.if it's money,I know not all girls will date for money... at least 20percent....I don't know what to do and what's going on with my life....


.no bashing abeg

A man who falls from a skyscraper may survive, but who will rescue the one who falls in the fraud called "love"?

When the devil wishes to take away your peace he gives you a girlfriend.

You must not follow a crowd in wrongdoing...--Exodus 23:2

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22

The ear that listens to the reproofs of life abides among the wise!!!

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