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Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you

Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her and thank me later :

that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

Awwww ....See men ooo

go for HIV test

Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

Turn the table on her. That's the best way to do it.

Be in charge. Always hold the leash tied to her pussy

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

Newboss:
Turn the table on her. That's the best way to do it.

Be in charge. Always hold the leash tied to her pussy

That's the same way they'll blame you for something you didn't do. Karma is a bytch

ZoeyJ:
That's the same way they'll blame you for something you didn't do. Karma is a bytch

Kindly keep shut. You're more interesting that way

Kill Her, so that another man will not contact the infection.


Please?!

Oga tell her you nacked another girl and got it from her.... Na girlfriend no be wife. If she stays she stays if she goes continue banging aunty gonorrhea

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

Baba, this doesn't make sense... How could you treat your girlfriend like that?

Shibaraba:
Oga tell her you nacked another girl and got it from her.... Na girlfriend no be wife. If she stays she stays if she goes continue banging aunty gonorrhea

Nawa oooh

Blame her for it. Shout to the heavens and let the whole neighborhood hear your voice. She will start apologizing immediately

tosyne2much:
Nawa oooh

Tosin how na...long time

ThothHermes:
Blame her for it. Shout to the heavens and let the whole neighborhood hear your voice. She will start apologizing immediately

Wicked human

KendrickAyomide:
go for HIV test

I am clean

ShawttySoFyne:
Wicked human

I love you too.

sherylbakky:
Awwwwwww, see men oooo.

At Op....Are u sure she also contacted it? There's at least 20% assurance dat she may not, dont wanna go too medical here.

Dont tell her unless u notice she has it too or she complains or confronts u.

If she does, apologise...Hmmm but anytin can happen to ur relationship oooo, but d wise tin is just to keep it unless she brings it up.

I hope u'v learnt ur lesson, stay away frm infidelity.

lessons definitely learnt. I actually used Google, and I think women don't exhibit symptoms if they contact gonorrhea. At least for a looong period.

Shibaraba:
Tosin how na...long time

Baba I gentle ooo.. It's been a while

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

great. Thanks. I'll put this into play

ThothHermes:
Blame her for it. Shout to the heavens and let the whole neighborhood hear your voice. She will start apologizing immediately

doesn't make sense.. At all

AnonymousXYZ:
lessons definitely learnt. I actually used Google, and I think women don't exhibit symptoms if they contact gonorrhea. At least for a looong period.

Tell her ASAP. If you accuse her wrongly your karma is doing pressup

Shibaraba:
Oga tell her you nacked another girl and got it from her.... Na girlfriend no be wife. If she stays she stays if she goes continue banging aunty gonorrhea

harder than you think...

ShawttySoFyne:
Tell her ASAP. If you accuse her wrongly your karma is doing pressup

the option of accusing her isn't even in my head. I just want a less dramatic way of telling her/we to go for checkup.
*sigh*

AnonymousXYZ:
the option of accusing her isn't even in my head. I just want a less dramatic way of telling her/we to go for checkup.
*sigh*

Admit to her you cheated. Coward. She deserves better than you.

Stop nacking every random girl u see in eateries,ATM stands and car parks in other to minimise contacting stds and also carry ur girl and urself to the hospital. If u no fight the disease now remember that untreated STD can render a man impotent.

Baddiezz:
Admit to her you cheated. Coward. She deserves better than you.

What makes me a coward? Admitting my wrongs and trying to rectify this without hurting feelings makes me a coward?
Please SWERVE

lefulefu:
Stop nacking every random girl u see in eateries,ATM stands and car parks in other to minimise contacting stds and also carry ur girl and urself to the hospital. If u no fight the disease now remember that untreated STD can render a man impotent.

thanks a lot bro. I'll definitely stick to her 100%. And ironically, that was the only incident I cheated on her.
Phew!

U phucked her alone n now u need our advice,did we Phuck her wiv u, just tell her yuh d!ck has been acting kinda funny ever since u phucked her n that u v been on antibiotics, that u would advise her to do the same, hope u won't mistakenly give her Aids next time..

sherylbakky:
Awwwwwww, see men oooo.

At Op....Are u sure she also contacted it? There's at least 20% assurance dat she may not, dont wanna go too medical here.

Dont tell her unless u notice she has it too or she complains or confronts u.

If she does, apologise...Hmmm but anytin can happen to ur relationship oooo, but d wise tin is just to keep it unless she brings it up.

I hope u'v learnt ur lesson, stay away frm infidelity.

the trickish thing of this all is dat its not all times a lady thats infected with STD exhibits a symptom.some ladies can have gonorhea and they wont even know unless if tested. Being faithful to ur partner is bae.