AnonymousXYZ:
thanks a lot bro. I'll definitely stick to her 100%. And ironically, that was the only incident I cheated on her.
Phew!

different diseases just too full town abeg. Even kissing a random babe can even give u mouth herpes sef. Try and be faithful and if u must waka hold ur condom like a spartan soldier holds his shield at war.

KendrickAyomide:
go for HIV test

op i think u should take dis advice.

AnonymousXYZ:
What makes me a coward? Admitting my wrongs and trying to rectify this without hurting feelings makes me a coward?
Please SWERVE

You are a coward for not admitting to her you cheated and infected her

AnonymousXYZ:
What makes me a coward? Admitting my wrongs and trying to rectify this without hurting feelings makes me a coward?
Please SWERVE

Admitting here doesn't rectify anything ,tell it to her face

lefulefu:
op i think u should take dis advice.

I have. I'm negative

AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.
Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.
I ha d a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.
A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood : which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.
I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.
I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.
No bashing please. Thank you

i will advice u to tell her.because if she does nt treat it wen it is early,she can neva get pregnant

AnonymousXYZ:
lessons definitely learnt. I actually used Google, and I think women don't exhibit symptoms if they contact gonorrhea. At least for a looong period.

OK, go back to ur doctor, explain everytin to him n arrange wit him.

Take ur bae to him, he will knw how to table it for her, esp if he is a "family doctor".

Betastil, ask him to direct u to a "family doctor", dey work lik therapist.

But u will need a lot of begging after that ooooo. I hop dis helps...Best of luck.

lefulefu:
the trickish thing of this all is dat its not all times a lady thats infected with STD exhibits a symptom.some ladies can have gonorhea and they wont even know unless if tested. Being faithful to ur partner is bae.

The last part tho. Lefulefu...Ar u telling me u av neva played "away", its always "home" abi...See ur mouth like mine...

Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

blissgregory:
i will advice u to tell her.because if she does nt treat it wen it is early,she can neva get pregnant

woooooow just take a look at the gravity of his bad decision

AnonymousXYZ:
I have. I'm negative

thank God

Baddiezz:
woooooow just take a look at the gravity of his bad decision

d bible said..say d truth n d truth will save u

He should start by telling her.

blissgregory:
d bible said..say d truth n d truth will save u

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

let her go to d hospital asap.Peace be wit u

blissgregory:
let her go to d hospital asap.Peace be wit u

Amen

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

thanks a lot for this

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

U'v done a great tin, I hop she understand...Stay cool dear

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

I was waiting for the part where you'd tell him to admit his wrongdoings to her but all you did was give him ways to maneuver. I.e you're advocating cheating

u are a wicked soul

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

this is ma nigga right here

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

Nice one man... Keeping mute might render that lady childless

Googleinc:
Lalasticlala, Dominique, Mynd44, this guy needs advice. Kindly send this to front page, so he gets diverse opinions.
Op, you should just tell her. Be a man

Lala should take the wicked advise these Taliban here ditched out to fp? Truly, nl has lost it.

Googleinc:
Lalasticlala, Dominique, Mynd44, this guy needs advice. Kindly send this to front page, so he gets diverse opinions.
Op, you should just tell her. Be a man

What diverse advice? he has gotten enough already

segunmelvin:
this is ma nigga right here

shame

tosyne2much:
Baba I gentle ooo.. It's been a while

Uncle Tosin.. long time ooo. Its Samuel! E ku ojo meta..

this is to tell you that your girl has no other man. if she does, the man will tell her'

Agboola2much:

Uncle Tosin.. long time ooo. Its Samuel! E ku ojo meta..

Woow! Mr Sammy how u dey?

arnoldogiamien:
this is to tell you that your girl has no other man. if she does, the man will tell her'

of course I know. I've built in a way that her faithfulness isn't a problem. She's 100 loyal

Use her for money rituals

Lol