at the beginning it has been very rosy for I and my so called girl friend... she was sm1 I even helped wit admission wit God's grace she got admitted BT just two weeks after admission she changed she hardly return my calls nd pick calls weneva she wishes until a fateful day I demand 4 reason of her sudden change BT she couldn't gv me a genuine excuse 4 her changes its den I knw she wants a space BT couldn't tell me to cut d long story short we broke up around August last year and we stop communicating nt until last month wen she called me having gotten mu digit from my friend telling me she need to talk to me and all she start discussing is requesting 4 4gvnex and wanting to come back though I turned down immediately..... the worst part of it is she is insisting on coming to my house to pass a night to discuss God knows wat wit me.. pls is it advisable I allow her to pass d night wit me and if nt what other way can I use to stop her from coming over cuz she is sm1 I don't want back again

Allow her to come, pretend you are angry let her beg her herself out then pretend you have forgiven her accept her but don't, I repeat don't take her serious, even the monetary assistance and gift don't give her anymore, just have her as a side ch** that Is her penance.

Let her come , let her "willingly" give you sex . But do not accept her back .

take such back at your own risk, maybe they have used her pant

if she pass the night with u and you climb her you are finished

You don't entertain people who left your life for no good reason and then they return back with silly reasons

Although we make mistakes at a point in our lives, but what you should know is that the worse set of people you can ever accept back into your life are actually those who started misbehaving and then left your life after attaining a height in life.. This is not limited to women alone

Use your tongue to count your teeth bro

maybe she has some STDs to offer. be careful.

why are you disturbing us with your personal issues are you insane or retardedd? pick one

Bang the hell outta her and dump her in the gutter where she belongs..

Ak

Man you still love this girl..and you are hurting yourself.has she been for the past 8 month??

No punctuation marks in your write up. Are you a learner?

zyzxx:
take such back at your own risk, maybe they have used her pant

if she pass the night with u and you climb her you are finished

that's my fear bro who knows wat she has done and WHR she she has been to within dose months cuz she is even sm1 I wish to punish cuz she. hurt me so bad

AdsenseSnow:
why are you disturbing us with your personal issues are you insane or retardedd? pick one

biko sorry I guess u er still angry

harbeyboi52:

biko sorry I guess u er still angry

I'm not angry oooooo I'm just playing man don't take comments on this forum too seriously man

tosyne2much:
You don't entertain people who left your life for no good reason and then they return back with silly reasons

Although we make mistakes at a point in our lives, but what you should know is that the worse set of people you can ever accept back into your life are actually those who start misbehaving and left your life after attaining a height in life.. This is not limited to women alone

Use your tongue to count your teeth bro

thanks very much bro u made my day

tee59:
No punctuation marks in your write up. Are you a learner?

my first time posting

Be a man, let your no be no. Don’t accommodate her, if you know you don’t want anything to do with her. If she comes you might have sex and be trapped, be guided.

Never you go back your vomit

she does not need to visit you at your house.
if she insist on coming, lodge her in a hotel.
hear whatever she has to say and insist you have moved on. infact tell her your wedding is coming up soon.
Expect blackmail, but stand your ground.

harbeyboi52:
at the beginning it has been very rosy for I and my so called girl friend... she was sm1 I even helped wit admission wit God's grace she got admitted BT just two weeks after admission she changed she hardly return my calls nd pick calls weneva she wishes until a fateful day I demand 4 reason of her sudden change BT she couldn't gv me a genuine excuse 4 her changes its den I knw she wants a space BT couldn't tell me to cut d long story short we broke up around August last year and we stop communicating nt until last month wen she called me having gotten mu digit from my friend telling me she need to talk to me and all she start discussing is requesting 4 4gvnex and wanting to come back though I turned down immediately..... the worst part of it is she is insisting on coming to my house to pass a night to discuss God knows wat wit me.. pls is it advisable I allow her to pass d night wit me and if nt what other way can I use to stop her from coming over cuz she is sm1 I don't want back again

Check my signature bro

dont allow her back, if she come by force dont make love to her, rather go and buy two big cucumber right now, use them on her mercilessly , if she ask why, tell her you no longer have feelings for her, make sure you break the cucumber inside, she will get the message and run!

Where are you pousey men coming from? What is going on here?
She left you for some guy, that did not work out so she remembered you, the mumu she could twist around her finger.
Why are you even entertaining the notion of a night visit? Tell her you will meet her somewhere neutral. She can say whay she wants to say there. She’s is probably pregnant and needs to pin it on someone.
Say no, and stick to it.

Don't do it.

she's about to trap you down,cause baby boy she knows you don't have a mind of your own and its like you have a weak spot for her.

she knows it and she's about to use your weakness on you.

Dominique oya

islandmoon:
dont allow her back, if she come by force dont make love to her, rather go and buy two big cucumber right now, use them on her mercilessly , if she ask why, tell her you no longer have feelings for her, make sure you break the cucumber inside, she will get the message and run!

bro u be bad guy o#lol.....datz gonna be harsh on my part....I will rather do all I can to mk sure she doesn't surface my only concern she saying she is planning to come uninformed

She realised she needs something from you, maybe steady source of income....no accept sex from her and stop giving her money.

Accept her back, but this time around you call the shots. Don't do favours, she will be the one doing you favours.
Finally, don't cash feelings.

Forgive her but never accept her back.. Don't go back to your vomit..

hopeforcharles:
Allow her to come, pretend you are angry let her beg her herself out then pretend you have forgiven her accept her but don't, I repeat don't take her serious, even the monetary assistance and gift don't give her anymore, just have her as a side ch** that Is her penance.

badt guy

islandmoon:
dont allow her back, if she come by force dont make love to her, rather go and buy two big cucumber right now, use them on her mercilessly , if she ask why, tell her you no longer have feelings for her, make sure you break the cucumber inside, she will get the message and run!

Ewo is this an Advice or Killer Words

dude am experiencing thesame story right here...

everything was going on smoothly,help her secure admission after spending 2years at home doing nothing.

got admission, within 2weeks, everything about her totally change..

broke up with her last month..

though she's not back yet and even if she do,am going to forgive and accept her back with a plan of carrying out revenge..revenge that might end up destroying her future...and i mean it...

united442:
dude am experiencing thesame story right here...

everything was going on smoothly,help her secure admission after spending 2years at home doing nothing.

got admission, within 2weeks, everything about her totally change..

broke up with her last month..

though she's not back yet and even if she do,am going to forgive and accept her back with a plan of carrying out revenge..revenge that might end up destroying her future...and i mean it...

I've had a similar experience too

Nigerian women are ungrateful in nature, only a few of them have conscience of not paying a good deed with evil