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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 12:13pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
thanks a lot bro. I'll definitely stick to her 100%. And ironically, that was the only incident I cheated on her.
Phew!

different diseases just too full town abeg cheesy

. Even kissing a random babe can even give u mouth herpes sef cheesy

. Try and be faithful and if u must waka hold ur condom like a spartan soldier holds his shield at war cheesy

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 12:19pm On Mar 19, 2019

KendrickAyomide:
go for HIV test

op i think u should take dis advice.

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Baddiezz(f): 12:21pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
What makes me a coward? Admitting my wrongs and trying to rectify this without hurting feelings makes me a coward?
Please SWERVE

You are a coward for not admitting to her you cheated and infected her

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by CuddleBear(f): 12:30pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
What makes me a coward? Admitting my wrongs and trying to rectify this without hurting feelings makes me a coward?
Please SWERVE

Admitting here doesn't rectify anything ,tell it to her face

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ(op): 12:31pm On Mar 19, 2019

lefulefu:
op i think u should take dis advice.

I have. I'm negative

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 12:53pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.
Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.
I ha d a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.
A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood : which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.
I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.
I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.
No bashing please. Thank you

i will advice u to tell her.because if she does nt treat it wen it is early,she can neva get pregnant

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 12:54pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
lessons definitely learnt. I actually used Google, and I think women don't exhibit symptoms if they contact gonorrhea. At least for a looong period.

OK, go back to ur doctor, explain everytin to him n arrange wit him.

Take ur bae to him, he will knw how to table it for her, esp if he is a "family doctor".

Betastil, ask him to direct u to a "family doctor", dey work lik therapist.

But u will need a lot of begging after that ooooo. I hop dis helps...Best of luck.

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 12:57pm On Mar 19, 2019

lefulefu:
the trickish thing of this all is dat its not all times a lady thats infected with STD exhibits a symptom.some ladies can have gonorhea and they wont even know unless if tested. Being faithful to ur partner is bae.

The last part tho. Lefulefu...Ar u telling me u av neva played "away", its always "home" abi...See ur mouth like mine... grin

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ(op): 1:03pm On Mar 19, 2019

Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Baddiezz(f): 1:05pm On Mar 19, 2019

blissgregory:
i will advice u to tell her.because if she does nt treat it wen it is early,she can neva get pregnant

woooooow just take a look at the gravity of his bad decision

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 1:24pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
I have. I'm negative

thank God

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 1:49pm On Mar 19, 2019

Baddiezz:
woooooow just take a look at the gravity of his bad decision

d bible said..say d truth n d truth will save u

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by LisaAnne(f): 1:51pm On Mar 19, 2019

He should start by telling her.

blissgregory:
d bible said..say d truth n d truth will save u

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 1:58pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

let her go to d hospital asap.Peace be wit u

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ(op): 1:59pm On Mar 19, 2019

blissgregory:
let her go to d hospital asap.Peace be wit u

Amen

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by jonaifame22(m): 2:01pm On Mar 19, 2019

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ(op): 2:09pm On Mar 19, 2019

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

thanks a lot for this

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 2:18pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

U'v done a great tin, I hop she understand...Stay cool dear

Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by ZoeyJ(f): 2:24pm On Mar 19, 2019

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

I was waiting for the part where you'd tell him to admit his wrongdoings to her but all you did was give him ways to maneuver. I.e you're advocating cheating

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Dorlovito: 3:55pm On Mar 19, 2019

u are a wicked soul

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 5:24pm On Mar 19, 2019

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

this is ma nigga right here

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by tosyne2much(m): 5:25pm On Mar 19, 2019

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

Nice one man... Keeping mute might render that lady childless

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Preshy561(f): 5:33pm On Mar 19, 2019

Googleinc:
Lalasticlala, Dominique, Mynd44, this guy needs advice. Kindly send this to front page, so he gets diverse opinions.
Op, you should just tell her. Be a man

Lala should take the wicked advise these Taliban here ditched out to fp? Truly, nl has lost it.

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by MiaB(f): 5:37pm On Mar 19, 2019

Googleinc:
Lalasticlala, Dominique, Mynd44, this guy needs advice. Kindly send this to front page, so he gets diverse opinions.
Op, you should just tell her. Be a man

What diverse advice? he has gotten enough already

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