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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Daeylar(f): 7:25pm On Mar 19, 2019
Men showing how much they are scum all over FP.
See advice, "blame her for it" undecided smh.

I hope she dumped your stupid cheating ass right after she read that message.

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by handsomeyinka(m): 7:26pm On Mar 19, 2019
TarOrfeek:


Kill Her, so that another man will not contact the infection.


Please?!

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by SmartyPants(m): 7:26pm On Mar 19, 2019
AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

1. Accept that the relationship is over. You have nothing to lose. If she forgives you great and if she doesn't well you have already accepted it.

2. Confess and get her treated.

3. Stop being promiscuous.

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:26pm On Mar 19, 2019
AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!

if you are infected and thereafter go to take antibiotics but yet dont tell the person you infected, and still have unprotected sex with them, then guess what?! YOU ARE STILL INFECTED WITH THE STD

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by kingola87(m): 7:27pm On Mar 19, 2019
JUST UNKNOWINGLY PAY THE FULL TREATMENT NA
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 7:27pm On Mar 19, 2019
mad boys full 4 dis forum sha.
See dem foolish ones telling d OP to turn d table and accuse d girlfriends!
animals.

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by themonk(m): 7:28pm On Mar 19, 2019
AnonymousXYZ:
I am clean
You cannot be sure if you have HIV till the sixth month. A better bet would be to go and test the girl you had the fling with for HIV, do not infect an innocent girlfriend just because of a fling. Tell her the truth if she finds out she deserved it and hope she forgives you.

Make sure you take this advice because if she later turns to be HIV positive you won't forgive yourself neither will she forgive you. Gonorrhea is just the easy one that shows up a few days after, HIV is what you should be worried about.

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Authoreety: 7:29pm On Mar 19, 2019
Bros, u fvcked up big time...

Anyway, Start by asking her how clean her toilet has been...


U can start from there, use ur brain brother and then make her go for treatment

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Erastuslove: 7:29pm On Mar 19, 2019
Does Gonorhia still exist? Long have heard of it

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Csami(m): 7:30pm On Mar 19, 2019
Bro, just pour the blame on her!
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 7:31pm On Mar 19, 2019

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Benwems(m): 7:31pm On Mar 19, 2019
How do you know she’s 100% faithful? You follow her Dey wake?
AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by enemyofprogress: 7:33pm On Mar 19, 2019
No wonder tohyorsih has been so quiet these days.



Op how are you sure it wasn't your woman that infected you with the HIV/AIDS?
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by EponOjukwu: 7:33pm On Mar 19, 2019
tosyne2much:
Baba, this doesn't make sense... How could you treat your girlfriend like that? undecided

I'm suspecting you're the OP
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Dinho20(m): 7:33pm On Mar 19, 2019
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF HIV:
AS EARLY AS 2-4 WEEKS AFTER EXPOSURE TO HIV, PEOPLE CAN EXPERIENCE AN ACUTE ILLNESS, OFTEN DESCRIBED AS "THE WORST FLU EVER". THIS IS CALLED ACUTE RETROVIRAL SYNDROME, OR PRIMARY HIV INFECTION, AND IT'S THE BODY'S NATURAL RESPONSE TO HIV INFECTION. DURING PRIMARY HIV INFECTION, THEIR ARE HIGHER LEVELS OF VIRUS CIRCULATING IN THE BLOOD. WHICH MEANS THAT PEOPLE CAN MORE EASILY TRANSMIT THE VIRUS TO OTHERS. SYMPTOMS OF HIV INCLUDE:
1.) FEVER
2.) CHILLS
3.) RASH
4.) NIGHT SWEATS
5.) MUSCLE ACHES
6.) SORE THROAT
7.) FATIGUE
8.) SWOLLEN LYMPH NODES
9.) ULCER IN THE MOUTH
SIN WILL GIVE YOU AS MUCH PLEASURE AS IT WANTS YOU TO HAVE, BUT ITS ALWAYS WAITING FOR THE TIME TO BREAK YOUR LIFE APART.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!!!

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by wiloy2k8(m): 7:34pm On Mar 19, 2019
2hat help do you want . You both should go cure your self . E no cost .
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by johnabumere: 7:35pm On Mar 19, 2019
Go for HIV test three months time.also do hepatitis b and c test.

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by EponOjukwu: 7:36pm On Mar 19, 2019
Dinho20:
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF HIV:
AS EARLY AS 2-4 WEEKS AFTER EXPOSURE TO HIV, PEOPLE CAN EXPERIENCE AN ACUTE ILLNESS, OFTEN DESCRIBED AS "THE WORST FLU EVER". THIS IS CALLED ACUTE RETROVIRAL SYNDROME, OR PRIMARY HIV INFECTION, AND IT'S THE BODY'S NATURAL RESPONSE TO HIV INFECTION. DURING PRIMARY HIV INFECTION, THEIR ARE HIGHER LEVELS OF VIRUS CIRCULATING IN THE BLOOD. WHICH MEANS THAT PEOPLE CAN MORE EASILY TRANSMIT THE VIRUS TO OTHERS. SYMPTOMS OF HIV INCLUDE:
1.) FEVER
2.) CHILLS
3.) RASH
4.) NIGHT SWEATS
5.) MUSCLE ACHES
6.) SORE THROAT
7.) FATIGUE
8.) SWOLLEN LYMPH NODES
9.) ULCER IN THE MOUTH
SIN WILL GIVE YOU AS MUCH PLEASURE AS IT WANTS YOU TO HAVE, BUT ITS ALWAYS WAITING FOR THE TIME TO BREAK YOUR LIFE APART.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!!!

You wan kill the OP with tension?

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 7:36pm On Mar 19, 2019
Just 3 pages?

See as alpha males desert this thread...

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Sadiyaene(f): 7:36pm On Mar 19, 2019
Mumu talk sad angry

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Sanchez01: 7:38pm On Mar 19, 2019
KendrickAyomide:
go for HIV test
Bad counsel. It is too early to detect a thing.
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by northvietnam(m): 7:38pm On Mar 19, 2019
AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

Your end is near Aswear
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Hallenjay: 7:38pm On Mar 19, 2019
AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you
ask her about it...tell her u r seeing something and assume probably its from her...like ds...hello bae...am seeing some discharge on my body do u feel d same too if she say nope...den u wil say okay..u just want to know...later she wl ask u ow fa...u will tell her u went to hospital got it treated and if she finally see any strange tin she won't hesitate to open up den she will go for treatment too...less i forget ...if she ask wat can b d cause. Tell her doc said it's infection from toilet n not gonorrhea..either of u might av caught it somewhere and transfer it...shikenah

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by SilvanusII(m): 7:39pm On Mar 19, 2019
sherylbakky:
Awwwwwww, see men oooo.

At Op....Are u sure she also contacted it? There's at least 20% assurance dat she may not.

Dont tell her unless u notice she has it too or she complains or confronts u.

If she does, apologise...Hmmm but anytin can happen to ur relationship oooo, but d wise tin is just to keep it unless she brings it up.

I hope u'v learnt ur lesson, stay away frm infidelity.


This is wicked. A devilish advice from the pits of hell. If you do this, ur claims of love are false. Do u know the potential damage it can cause if this STD is not quickly managed? OP, tell her. Damn the consequences. If anything happen to her las las, na u go first forget say na u mess up, quick leave am. TELL HER TO GET TREATMENT

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by wristbangle: 7:39pm On Mar 19, 2019
OP, next time don't bring sensitive issues like this to this place. Having said this, the disease is a curable one. Both of you should go to the hospital for proper treatment. Thank God its a curable disease.
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Ubdavis(m): 7:40pm On Mar 19, 2019
Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later undecided

That will be extremely unscrupulous!!!
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by slawomir: 7:41pm On Mar 19, 2019
See ignorant people full this thread
Them dey carry get hiv
If not every body for the universe for don get hiv na

The only time you are at Risk of contacting hiv easily is only when you have other sexual infection like syphillis and still go ahead banging ladies without treating it first.

One thing have noticed is that women are some how comfortable with std than men

Too many symptoms are always there for men to notice that they have contacted STDs but women find it difficult to know.
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 7:42pm On Mar 19, 2019
Then later we will have men who shame women who are single and over a certain age, but just take a look at the breed of men that are littering Nigeria. One has a diseased penis and the rest of them are supporting him, advising him to switch the blame on his girlfriend. I’m disgusted.

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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 7:42pm On Mar 19, 2019
SilvanusII:



This is wicked. A devilish advice from the pits of hell. If you do this, ur claims of love are false. Do u know the potential damage it can cause if this STD is not quickly managed? OP, tell her. Damn the consequences. If anything happen to her las las, na u go first forget say na u mess up, quick leave am. TELL HER TO GET TREATMENT
Bro no vex ooo, na later i get to knw d effect.
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by cococandy(f): 7:43pm On Mar 19, 2019
sherylbakky:
Awwwwwww, see men oooo.

At Op....Are u sure she also contacted it? There's at least 20% assurance dat she may not.

Dont tell her unless u notice she has it too or she complains or confronts u.

If she does, apologise...Hmmm but anytin can happen to ur relationship oooo, but d wise tin is just to keep it unless she brings it up.

I hope u'v learnt ur lesson, stay away frm infidelity.
gonorrhea can cause infertility in men and women. And it doesn’t show symptoms. Not telling her would be him making a decision to affect her child bearing capacity in future. He has treated his, he should give her the same opportunity

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