what?!! you better cut off your peniis, Otherwise the Gonorhea will infect your whole body and you be dead in few days.

israelmao:
When God says we should avoid multiple sex partners and premarital sex it is for our good because if any disease comes from indulging in such God himself will never be the sufferer.

Rubbish!! were did you see this God who told you this Rubbish?

you no go make am to paradise. Since the kite has learnt to fly without perching... Just can't stop laughing. I will share this with friends. Thanks for making my evening.

TarOrfeek:


Kill Her, so that another man will not contact the infection.


Please?!

themonk:

My friend who made you a judge over people's life? People have the sole choice to do what they desire with their private parts, it's in Nigeria here that everybody claims holy but we do the worst. How does having sex make two consenting adults ignorant and stupid?

I used innocent in the sense that he said she is faithful to him which means she is only taking a risk similar to that of a married couple. Even married people cheat and infect each other, don't they?

Ignorant and stupid because she just got infected with an std while sleeping around unmarried. Today it is gonorrhea, tomorrow it might be HIV. Hear what you just said, married people even cheat, it is called cheating because a person in marriage isn't expecting to have an affair with another, at least in an ideal case. In the case of a girl banging a man she isn't married to, it is an open relationship, nothing binds one to another. If I sleep with you, I can equally sleep with another, who says I cannot when I am not married to you? You called me a judge, I am not judging, only speaking the truth and truth is bitter and it hurts. Sex is only for people in marital relationship. Popular opinions won't change that which is the truth.

I don't think broken condom can lead to gono. ...however, wen u know it's broken,u jejeley remove ur dick ,goto d bathroom, bathe ur dick thoroughly. ..
put on a new 1,it's unprotected sex dat leads to gono,
wen u had broken condom,after some weeks,bfor u ram ur gf,did u c any sign of white fluid cmin out?op

eleribu
later the poor girl will be looking for the fruit of the womb, not knowing she's been carrying PID about.
The rate of STIs in Nigeria is very high. Ladies need to learn how to protect themselves from these STI ridden boys they're following about, with their eyes roving everywhere
Who knows if he's caught HIV with his gono, as they go hand in hand.
Pls wear condoms, and you girls should insist they wear. Condoms are not just to prevent pregnancy, as there are a million and one ways of doing that. They are the only things that can prevent STIs for now if worn properly..

You contacted that gonorrhoea from your girlfriend, and not the other girl you are claiming gave it to you. .think bro

I once had d@ stuff and infect another idiot who was not faithful... she told me it was from her ex. I laugh in Swahili but since then have been faithful to myself bcoz I was broke then n sold my phone to treat myself. bad experience ... Let her go for treatment and never ask her where she get it from

Gonorhea is treatable, it's no big deal, i ve been infected with Gonorhea 15 times, i am still here picking up Different women Always.

i ve even caught Syphillis multiple times.

tete7000:



Ignorant and stupid because she just got infected with an std while sleeping around unmarried. Today it is gonorrhea, tomorrow it might be HIV. Hear what you just said, married people even cheat, it is called cheating because a person in marriage isn't expecting to have an affair with another, at least in an ideal case. In the case of a girl banging a man she isn't married to, it is an open relationship, nothing binds one to another. If I sleep with you, I can equally sleep with another, who says I cannot when I am not married to you? You called me a judge, I am not judging, only speaking the truth and truth is bitter and it hurts. Sex is only for people in marital relationship. Popular opinions won't change that which is the truth.

You are just throwing wild conjectures. Let me ask you a simple question:

Does the urge to cheat reduce in marriage?
Also have you been in a relationship before because it seems you don't know that parties in a relationship are meant to be faithful as is required in marriage.

DukeNija:


Dude think for goodness sakes. They had unprotected sex, and he could have contracted it from her. Simple as ABC

Good grief! So you are not attributing the source of the STI to the lady he supposedly met before the girlfriend? First, the OP is a cheat and I don't necessarily have to point that out but at this point, he owes the girlfriend the truth and nothing but that, even if it would destroy whatever they have.

He should have thought of her before doing what he did. The deed has been done. Any responsible, right-thinking man would take the fall because of what went down. Has he been having unprotected sex with the girlfriend before now? Probably! Was there STI signs days after and prior to the recent one, definitely not.

He broke a condom during his act with the other lady and that tiny moment is enough for fluids exchange.

AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

try what that guy said first and see what will happen. If she stands on ground that is not her, u both should go for treatment while investigation on who effected who comes up later.

Just tell her you feel itching within ur private part so there is need for you guys to go for a lab test. Better never confess cos it 'll cost you the relationship. Lies are meant for human so we must apply it .

AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

since you know it is not fair, then tell her the fu...king truth. I bet you just finished fuc...king her.

Hallenjay:
ask her about it...tell her u r seeing something and assume probably its from her...like ds...hello bae...am seeing some discharge on my body do u feel d same too if she say nope...den u wil say okay..u just want to know...later she wl ask u ow fa...u will tell her u went to hospital got it treated and if she finally see any strange tin she won't hesitate to open up den she will go for treatment too...less i forget ...if she ask wat can b d cause. Tell her doc said it's infection from toilet n not gonorrhea..either of u might av caught it somewhere and transfer it...shikenah

Lol...I said somtin related to dis, but dem say gonorhea fit no show sign for woman oooo, make he just tell her....He has don that already, i wonder wot dis is now doing on FP...Dis FP tin is medicine after death

How sure are u that she isn't the one u got it from? besides, it was after having sex with her that u noticed!
Anyway, let her know so she can also go for a check up

Hmm.

CHECK MY SIGNATURE.

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Leful.efu
Sherylb.akky
Blissgre.gory
And others who contributed

hm if she break up everybody go understand but then u did d right tin by confessing.

Oh it’s now that she’s not innocent. But when you want to beg like a parasite just to put the “tip” inside, you will not know she’s innocent abi? You men are such hypocrites, if you don’t have punna to put prick inside, most of you will be walking dead human beings. Craving for sex like it’s food, shiiiioooorrrr

tete7000:


What is innocent about a girl sleeping around with a man she is not married to. Nothing kills faster than ignorance and stupidity...

[quote author=AnonymousXYZ post=76790447]Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

I didnt hear u respond to the person dat asked u to go for HIV test o

themonk:

You cannot be sure if you have HIV till the sixth month. A better bet would be to go and test the girl you had the fling with for HIV, do not infect an innocent girlfriend just because of a fling. Tell her the truth if she finds out she deserved it and hope she forgives you.

Make sure you take this advice because if she later turns to be HIV positive you won't forgive yourself neither will she forgive you. Gonorrhea is just the easy one that shows up a few days after, HIV is what you should be worried about.

You wan give person heart attack ba

[quote author=4reala post=76805966][/quote]
Lol.

This table you are trying to check hmmmm

AnonymousXYZ:
lessons definitely learnt. I actually used Google, and I think women don't exhibit symptoms if they contact gonorrhea. At least for a looong period.

Please get her treated so you don't contact it again.
Don't take to the advise of putting the blame on her. Don't please!
Talk to her naturedly making her see reason to go for check up. If she's positive, stand by her till she's clean without blaming her. I know she will be shocked and confused on how she got it. If you think telling her the truth will jeopardize your relationship, then continue to tell her that what's important is her getting treated. If she's fine u are fine. U still love her bla bla bla.
But if I were u, I will tell her the truth and then seek her forgiveness. If u really love her and see her beyond a girlfriend I mean a lady u want to spend the rest of ur life with, u won't let her go till she forgives u.
Op, please the two of u shouldn't be fornicating in the first place.
As u have learnt ur lesson, please flee from every sexual sins.
If you can't stand the sexual heat or urge, then get married...

themonk:

You are just throwing wild conjectures. Let me ask you a simple question:

Does the urge to cheat reduce in marriage?
Also have you been in a relationship before because it seems you don't know that parties in a relationship are meant to be faithful as is required in marriage.

The problem of cheating in many marriages began long before marriage was ever consummated, it began when people thinks like you do. It begins when two people who cannot define what is moral outside marriage decides to go together in marriage. If two people in open relationship casually have sex and then goes into marriage hoping to stay faithful, they fail. Why you may ask? Because fidelity is a character, an attribute a person possesses or not, not one acquired because one is in a marriage. He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much, he who is faithful to God and abstains from illicit sex has built into himself/herself the power to be faithful in marital life.

Noblefirstlady:

You wan give person heart attack ba

First lady sorry o
I'm just giving him the safest advice.

RiyadhGoddess:






Please get her treated so you don't contact it again.
Don't take to the advise of putting the blame on her. Don't please!
Talk to her naturedly making her see reason to go for check up. If she's positive, stand by her till she's clean without blaming her. I know she will be shocked and confused on how she got it. If you think telling her the truth will jeopardize your relationship, then continue to tell her that what's important is her getting treated. If she's fine u are fine. U still love her bla bla bla.
But if I were u, I will tell her the truth and then seek her forgiveness. If u really love her and see her beyond a girlfriend I mean a lady u want to spend the rest of ur life with, u won't let her go till she forgives u.
Op, please the two of u shouldn't be fornicating in the first place.
As u have learnt ur lesson, please flee from every sexual sins.
If you can't stand the sexual heat or urge, then get married...

thank you very much maam

AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you

Chief ! Nothing dey there. The way u went to hospital for test, should be the same way you take her for test. If confirmed positive to what you alleged, then she will be attended to immediately.


Meanwhile, you have a girl u claim everyone would want to have and u still have random $$x. I don't want to condemn immediately and why married men keep outside date till when I get there to know the "evil spirit" behind that

AnonymousXYZ:
hello guys..
So I ended up calling this other girl and she told me she went to do a test aand she was told she got it from the toilet. Just gonorrhea, nothing else......
She snapped the test results for me....
So right about tomorrow, I'm going to the hospital tomorrow around 10am with my babe for diagnosis and proper treatment...
Thank you all for the advice. I appreciate your help and support

DukeNija, what say ye?

My mind is telling me this is salamrushdie

Just tell her seems she has toilet disease , and you feel
You have been infected . And you would want her to use drugs .. but make sure it doesn’t happen again