Please I need an advice my husband gave me access to his phone like knowing his password but he has a secret WhatsApp and Facebook with another password so to Curt the whole story short, yesterday he came back from work and was charting with a lady who seems to be a married woman,the worst part is that he pretends a lot and I know him very well when it comes to pretending.so last night he was charting with this Lady and slept off on the process without cleaning the chart as usual so when I open the phone although am not surprised at their Romantic chart until when i continued reading and saw
Baby I hope you enjoyed me today and I must confess that you're very strong on bed The Lady said.But i pretended as if I did not see anything. immediately he Wake up and start telling me that it's just a charts and that it's not what I think that he's not cheating on me when I have not asked him anything.
So please my heart is broken we got married in October 2016 please married mums & dads in the house please I need your advice

After reading what you said you saw in his chat with the other married lady, i have deduced an answer to the question you asked in your topic viz "is he cheating on me".
Answer: NO, he is not cheating on you.
I'll advise you dont doubt his love for you and accept the assurance he gave you.

For better for worse. U must be mature with ur approach and action, so that u don't regret it in the future. Best wishes

Nawa o madam. U dey see something korokoro still dey ask question? U want to see babe I love ur dick size or darling ur honeypot is really delicious before u believe he's cheating abi?

Your husband be confirm dog and that hoe is his b*tch. Now take two kitchen knives of different sizes and confront him again. Come back to thank me

Ziel20:
Nawa o madam. U dey see something korokoro still dey ask question? U want to see babe I love ur sick size or darling ur honeypot is really delicious before u believe he's cheating abi?

Your husband be confirm dog and that hoe is his b*tch. Now take two kitchen knives of different sizes and confront him again. Come back to thank me

you're clearly not married.
No wonder she asked for advice from ".....married mums & dads in the house.....".

Married to a fairly used community dìck.
Tueh

your husband is fucking that lady..

badadvice:
After reading what you said you saw in his chat with the other married lady, i have deduced an answer to the question you asked in your topic viz "is he cheating on me".
Answer: NO, he is not cheating on you.
I'll advise you dont doubt his love for you and accept the assurance he gave you.

thanks just that am confused

So if someone said the sky is not blue and you looked up and saw indeed it was blue, you would opt not to believe what your eyes saw just because someone said so?
Come on now lady! You are insulting your own intellegence here.

badadvice:
After reading what you said you saw in his chat with the other married lady, i have deduced an answer to the question you asked in your topic viz "is he cheating on me".
Answer: NO, he is not cheating on you.
I'll advise you dont doubt his love for you and accept the assurance he gave you.

Emotional cheating even if there is no physical contact is still cheating. If you allow your mind to explore possibilities with someone who is not your spouse you are being unfaithful.

Lol.

I'm sure the op just made this up.

MissRaine69:

Emotional cheating even if there is no physical contact is still cheating. If you allow your mind to explore possibilities with someone who is not your spouse you are being unfaithful.

true, but i believe op is more concerned with/worried about the physical cheating.
Which hasnt happened yet.

galaxy2020:
For better for worse. U must be mature with ur approach and action, so that u don't regret it in the future. Best wishes

thanks just that I love him more than anything on earth he's the only man in my life my first man and I don't want to lose him to someone else

MissRaine69:

Emotional cheating even if there is no physical contact is still cheating. If you allow your mind to explore possibilities with someone who is not your spouse you are being unfaithful.

they use to call each other. the Lady told him that her husband is not good on bed

ElsonMorali:
Lol.

I'm sure the op just made this up.

you must not comment please

badadvice:


true, but i believe op is more concerned with/worried about the physical cheating.
Which hasnt happened yet.

According to the husband who has a lot more at stake If he admits infidelity!

Tonyprisca:
you must not comment please

Well, I have commented. You said you read on your husband's phone "Baby I hope you enjoyed me today and I must confess that you're very strong on bed" you are now asking us JAMB questions whether he's cheating on you or not.

No, he is not cheating on you, he's just conducting an experiment on the other lady's female parts.

Tonyprisca:
thanks just that I love him more than anything on earth he's the only man in my life my first man and I don't want to lose him to someone else

In order to fight for a marriage and save it, both parties have to want to fight not just one person.
So rather than be all confrontational and accusing tell him he has a week to decide what he wants when that time is over sit him down and ask him what he really wants? In or out? As for the other woman, ask her, if you know her sit her down and ask without violence or aggression what’s going on this might sound unbelievable but a lot has been achieved by being emotionally intelligent in situations such as this. I don’t believe in this business of women scratching each other’s eyes out yet the man remains unscathed.
He put you in this situation he needs to fix it. Yes it will hurt but would you rather know now instead of pretending?

You know full well that he pretends alot and you still went ahead to tie the knot...
Madam...stop asking very anyhow question,who does that?

Tonyprisca:
they use to call each other. the Lady told him that her husband is not good on bed

Trust is like a mirror, you can mend it once it’s broken but you can still see the cracks.

The man is obviously cheating on you. Damn, why can't people stay married these days?

galaxy2020:
For better for worse. U must be mature with ur approach and action, so that u don't regret it in the future. Best wishes

Really? I hope this advice remains the same if reverse was the case, I really hope so.

Preshy561:
Married to a fairly used community dìck.
Tueh

More like a MOLOSHO and a certified brostitute.

Tonyprisca:
they use to call each other. the Lady told him that her husband is not good on bed

Madam, what exactly do you want to hear or what advice do you want exactly Do you need a video evidence to be convinced he is cheating or you want to physically see them in action

Never ever Check your husband messages again! Some things are meant to be private.
Okay!
Damn. So insecure a lady.

Biglittlelois:


Madam, what exactly do you want to hear or what advice do you want exactly Do you need a video evidence to be convinced he is cheating or you want to physically see them in action

All she wants is the reassurance that her husband is not fvcking another. You know, like telling her what she saw was some sort of hallucination: a hoax.

Poor her. Obviously, she loves her husband. SMH

Let call a spade a spade
Op yes he is cheating but how you handle this now goes beyond today's choice
You alone know your choices and principles and the reasons you loved him so you alone can handle it

Tonyprisca:
Please I need an advice my husband gave me access to his phone like knowing his password but he has a secret WhatsApp and Facebook with another password so to Curt the whole story short, yesterday he came back from work and was charting with a lady who seems to be a married woman,the worst part is that he pretends a lot and I know him very well when it comes to pretending.so last night he was charting with this Lady and slept off on the process without cleaning the chart as usual so when I open the phone although am not surprised at their Romantic chart until when i continued reading and saw
Baby I hope you enjoyed me today and I must confess that you're very strong on bed The Lady said.But i pretended as if I did not see anything. immediately he Wake up and start telling me that it's just a charts and that it's not what I think that he's not cheating on me when I have not asked him anything.
So please my heart is broken we got married in October 2016 please married mums & dads in the house please I need your advice

Stop snooping around your husband's phone

Tonyprisca:
Please I need an advice my husband gave me access to his phone like knowing his password but he has a secret WhatsApp and Facebook with another password so to Curt the whole story short, yesterday he came back from work and was charting with a lady who seems to be a married woman,the worst part is that he pretends a lot and I know him very well when it comes to pretending.so last night he was charting with this Lady and slept off on the process without cleaning the chart as usual so when I open the phone although am not surprised at their Romantic chart until when i continued reading and saw
Baby I hope you enjoyed me today and I must confess that you're very strong on bed The Lady said.But i pretended as if I did not see anything. immediately he Wake up and start telling me that it's just a charts and that it's not what I think that he's not cheating on me when I have not asked him anything.
So please my heart is broken we got married in October 2016 please married mums & dads in the house please I need your advice

Yes he is

One woman is not enough for an average guy!

Tonyprisca:
Please I need an advice my husband gave me access to his...cheating on me when I have not asked him anything.
So please my heart is broken we got married in October 2016 please married mums & dads in the house please I need your advice

Yes he is

If your husband could go all the way to cheat on you, why? Is there something you are not doing right? Would the devil be blamed? Was he once a flirt before marrying you and is finding it difficult staying loyal?

You see all those questions are pointing to your face for you are to be faulted if at all your man is cheating on you with another lady.