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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by b0rn2fuck(m): 10:43am On Mar 23, 2019
mrpoul:
There is this guy I once went for him to tutor me in one particular course, in that process I discovered that he has not eaten, so I gave him some money to buy food, another day he came to my house complaining he was hungry, I gave him my food to eat.

There was one weekend, he told me that he did not have money and he was expecting money the next week, throughout that weekend he ate in my side promising that when his parent sent money, he will repay but when the money came he used it to buy watch and some other irrelevant things. He didn't repay which affected me badly because of the money my struggling parent use to sent to me which is always small #10000 every three weeks.

Ever since then anytime he sees me in school and when he comes to my house he will ask if I have cook? Which I don't know how to tell him no.
change patterns for sometimes. Maybe start buying little and eaten in canteen or Cook as early as 5am and finish before 6 or late when door is locked, only do that for few days and make sure he was denied food and say no to find me something,you could place the remaining beneath the bed, I almost had similar experience but me always lock door has if I am not at home and finish my food, sleep before opening door. You go knock tire

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Bbbwings: 10:44am On Mar 23, 2019
OKOATA:
grin This guy make me remember AY, you no go see AY when you de cook but once you won serve like this AY go show. He will not even wait for you to call him to join, he will just wash his hand and start to de chop my eba and okro soup. I began to wonder maybe he has a guardian angel who informs him..
I had a friend like that at uni grin cheesy

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by tunize(m): 10:45am On Mar 23, 2019
mrpoul:

I have,
for some weeks now

but today that I just cook and was hoping the food will take me up to 2 days he just come around
U be soft girl ooooh better learn hardness small or u be the type wen like to please ppl bttr stop that tinking cos ppl will always call u bad or good. Simple advise

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by jahbiz: 10:46am On Mar 23, 2019
mrpoul:
There is this guy I once went for him to tutor me in one particular course, in that process I discovered that he has not eaten, so I gave him some money to buy food, another day he came to my house complaining he was hungry, I gave him my food to eat.

There was one weekend, he told me that he did not have money and he was expecting money the next week, throughout that weekend he ate in my side promising that when his parent sent money, he will repay but when the money came he used it to buy watch and some other irrelevant things. He didn't repay which affected me badly because of the money my struggling parent use to sent to me which is always small #10000 every three weeks.

Ever since then anytime he sees me in school and when he comes to my house he will ask if I have cook? Which I don't know how to tell him no.
Can i know your gender pls?

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by FlyingTOMATOE: 10:46am On Mar 23, 2019
ojun50:
Since u can't open yr mouth to say no food continue feeding him till you have the courage
lol
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Elliot2(m): 10:49am On Mar 23, 2019
handsomebanana:


Na ur own worse pass.
U dey shy for ur money.
U go cook, wash plate.

U tel d guy off, e dey tell word, u no change am for am back.
Lol
bro,I suffered o. Na comfam obote I been be o. For d cooking he said earlier he doesn't know cos his sibling are all females
I said no pro abt DAT. O mehn, for 1k food, nigga go only contribute #100, na me go shop n Still tidy am. nigga go chop drop dishes for sink. All d stuffs in d room: from home theatre to TV,foam to ac to every every was me,na me love-vendor am. Nigga go lock me for hours outside lashing bannies. Nigga was a full blown narcissistic Alfa male. On a positive side,I learnt a lot from him though on how to treat girls like trash,how to bargain deals, how to express one's self,etc.
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by nuelyoyo(m): 10:49am On Mar 23, 2019
Boyooosa:

Pray to God instead, never to stop providing food for you and your friend tru you.
It is called asiri bibo. Your friend never wanted to be like that, you ask him to confirm what I just mentioned now.
did you even read the write up? The guy coming to his house to eat got some money and used it to buy fancy wrist watch. And you are here talking about asiri bibo. Help is meant for people who are genuinely in need, not people trying to exploit other people's good gestures.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by AnanseK(m): 10:50am On Mar 23, 2019
Tell him it’s his turn to buy food items for this month as you are broke

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by PrincewithGod(m): 10:55am On Mar 23, 2019
ojun50:
Since u can't open yr mouth to say no food continue feeding him till you have the courage
No need to lie, just let him know you're not comfortable with the situation of things and explain your financial standing. That is all.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Trillyonaire: 11:02am On Mar 23, 2019
Have you told him what you’re telling us here? Be a man.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 23, 2019
I thought you were actually a lady. But you be guy. I so much sorry for you, if you can’t be bold to say your mind for this Nigeria. Mumu
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by kay7: 11:08am On Mar 23, 2019
Jcole1985:
Get A female room-mate like sweetbuns who can insult,refuse her sexual advances.That will make her fustrated then unleash her on the spinless efulefu

I beg, don’t kill this guy. Someone that can’t tell a parasite enough is enough should get another mouth to feed? How will he refuse her sexual advances when he can’t refuse a consumer’s advances. This guy is the real efulefu.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Kakamorufu(m): 11:09am On Mar 23, 2019
mrpoul:

I have,
for some weeks now

but today that I just cook and was hoping the food will take me up to 2 days he just come around
grin
mrpoul:

I have,
for some weeks now

but today that I just cook and was hoping the food will take me up to 2 days he just come around
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Omololu2121: 11:10am On Mar 23, 2019
Auladimeji2:




Rule 3:learn to frown your face when cooking, neighbors go dey fear you when you are cooking
una no go kill person with laugh for nairaland grin
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by bossrillboss: 11:15am On Mar 23, 2019
ojun50:
Since u can't open yr mouth to say no food continue feeding him till you have the courage
.Lwkmd

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 11:17am On Mar 23, 2019
Guys...
1st of all.... Let's learn to listen to 2nd party b4 we judge...

This lady may not say the truth..

Are U sure the guy is not fucking her well?

U know ladies are hardly say no when a guy tidy them well...

Lastly.. if what is say is true...
U are just the type of pple that made Buhari rig election...

Mumu...
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by annyberry: 11:18am On Mar 23, 2019
Could remember wen i still dey skool wey won idiot try fis nonsense wit me,e own b say make i buy provision cos he help me explain one course i let am know say d one e teach me dey evn give me headache.......nobody tell am make e find e square root...........U better stand up to him a tell him No cant displs mysef to pls anoda,skool matter wey everybody dey manage if i wanna give u my food it must b from my heart and not ur right,i go evn cook d food for ur front ,off my gas lock my door comot witout looking back...so better wise up

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by annyberry: 11:18am On Mar 23, 2019
Could remember wen i still dey skool wey won idiot try fis nonsense wit me,e own b say make i buy provision cos he help me explain one course i let am know say d one e teach me dey evn give me headache.......nobody tell am make e find e square root...........U better stand up to him a tell him No cant displs mysef to pls anoda,skool matter wey everybody dey manage if i wanna give u my food it must b from my heart and not ur right,i go evn cook d food for ur front ,off my gas lock my door comot witout looking back...so better wise up.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Ameboperoo(m): 11:19am On Mar 23, 2019
mrpoul:
There is this guy I once went for him to tutor me in one particular course, in that process I discovered that he has not eaten, so I gave him some money to buy food, another day he came to my house complaining he was hungry, I gave him my food to eat.

There was one weekend, he told me that he did not have money and he was expecting money the next week, throughout that weekend he ate in my side promising that when his parent sent money, he will repay but when the money came he used it to buy watch and some other irrelevant things. He didn't repay which affected me badly because of the money my struggling parent use to sent to me which is always small #10000 every three weeks.

Ever since then anytime he sees me in school and when he comes to my house he will ask if I have cook? Which I don't know how to tell him no.
I have a friend like that. Let me show you how we treat his fuckup. Get a small cupboard with key. Any time he comes around and you're cooking, just put off your stove and go to somewhere to relax.
Any cooked food should be locked up in the cupboard. If he refused to go, just tell him to excuse you that you're going somewhere. Lock your room and go. You can later come back and eat your food in peace. Don't do this codedly o but let him know that you're deliberately avoiding him for.
My people say when your host begins to give you spoilt yam, it means it's time for you to go h

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by RealityShot: 11:19am On Mar 23, 2019
mrpoul:

I have,
for some weeks now

but today that I just cook and was hoping the food will take me up to 2 days he just come around
does that not show you clearly that he knows what he is doing and thinks you are a fool?


ARE YOU A WEAK FOOL?


cut him off! You do not need friends!

you do not have a job and you are feeding a lay-about.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by handsomebanana(m): 11:25am On Mar 23, 2019
Elliot2:
bro,I suffered o. Na comfam obote I been be o. For d cooking he said earlier he doesn't know cos his sibling are all females
I said no pro abt DAT. O mehn, for 1k food, nigga go only contribute #100, na me go shop n Still tidy am. nigga go chop drop dishes for sink. All d stuffs in d room: from home theatre to TV,foam to ac to every every was me,na me love-vendor am. Nigga go lock me for hours outside lashing bannies. Nigga was a full blown narcissistic Alfa male. On a positive side,I learnt a lot from him though on how to treat girls like trash,how to bargain deals, how to express one's self,etc.

Lol
E be like say u reach well well

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nanatrendy(f): 11:28am On Mar 23, 2019
Ever heard of NCNC rule? It's simply no contribution no chop, tell him your parents are facing hardship so your upkeep money has been reduced, in order for him to eat with you unless he contributes half of the meal cost. Trust me you won't see him again, even if he eats without paying the 1st time he'll never show up again because he will be owing you for the first meal since the agreement.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by DonX001: 11:34am On Mar 23, 2019
OKOATA:
grin This guy make me remember AY, you no go see AY when you de cook but once you won serve like this AY go show. He will not even wait for you to call him to join, he will just wash his hand and start to de chop my eba and okro soup. I began to wonder maybe he has a guardian angel who informs him..
grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Timisamd(m): 11:40am On Mar 23, 2019
tciro:
Op u just make I rem one of my course mate the guy, after lectures like these , this guy go quickly go room change then stand for passage Dey form listening to music opposite my door , for him to comot na lie e fit patrol like say something lost immediately e see sign of food like this na now he rem to discuss topic wey we do for lecture hall with unnecessary gist alongside chopping my food. Sometimes I fit put little on top plate make we first chop that one hoping for him to go Omo na lie oh this guy was just a pest but until I change my hostel


grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by mechanics(m): 11:41am On Mar 23, 2019
Just tell him you are also managing and that it's not every time you will be given him free food.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by nedupel(m): 11:43am On Mar 23, 2019
MidFEEDER.
Nice of you.
This guy dey porous your midFEED
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by nuelyoyo(m): 11:44am On Mar 23, 2019
Nanatrendy:
Ever heard of NCNC rule? It's simply no contribution no chop, tell him your parents are facing hardship so your upkeep money has been reduced, in order for him to eat with you unless he contributes half of the meal cost. Trust me you won't see him again, even if he eats without paying the 1st time he'll never show up again because he will be owing you for the first meal since the agreement.
good day, please can you tell me more about the NCNC rule?
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by captainamiedi1: 11:44am On Mar 23, 2019
this is how I dealt with people like this in school. when ever he comes around. tell him u are about leaving to visit a friend. discharge am quickly. before u treat him like that he will get the message.

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Timisamd(m): 11:45am On Mar 23, 2019
Ameboperoo:

I have a friend like that. Let me show you how we treat his fuckup. Get a small cupboard with key. Any time he comes around and you're cooking, just put off your stove and go to somewhere to relax.
Any cooked food should be locked up in the cupboard. If he refused to go, just tell him to excuse you that you're going somewhere. Lock your room and go. You can later come back and eat your food in peace. Don't do this codedly o but let him know that you're deliberately avoiding him for.
Since the hunter has learned to shoot without missing, the bird too has learned to fly without without perching

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by sommysoft469(f): 11:45am On Mar 23, 2019
I feel ur pain op I av been there before simply ignore him...
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Forreellinc: 11:46am On Mar 23, 2019
mrpoul:
There is this guy I once went for him to tutor me in one particular course, in that process I discovered that he has not eaten, so I gave him some money to buy food, another day he came to my house complaining he was hungry, I gave him my food to eat.

There was one weekend, he told me that he did not have money and he was expecting money the next week, throughout that weekend he ate in my side promising that when his parent sent money, he will repay but when the money came he used it to buy watch and some other irrelevant things. He didn't repay which affected me badly because of the money my struggling parent use to sent to me which is always small #10000 every three weeks.

Ever since then anytime he sees me in school and when he comes to my house he will ask if I have cook? Which I don't know how to tell him no.

Life is all about what you can gain from people, as he is chopping in your house, you find what you gain from him and exploit it and once you have nothing to gain from him, just avoid him, don't open door when he comes knocking, tell him you aren't home when he calls u, one day he will get the message

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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by sommysoft469(f): 11:46am On Mar 23, 2019
I feel ur pain op I av been there before simply ignore him...

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