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Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Divinehenrich(m): 10:16am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Oga, there are some people that there conscience is dead. Offpoint1: 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 10:17am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Adexandsmile:Take care of both them? Is op d guy's fada? Op should lock up. Atleast if d guy had sense, it would have been better. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by manlawal(m): 10:18am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul:Prepare a food for him alone put purging tablet like 10 then invite him to eat , if he continue to purge for a week he will not come again. |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by chinazagrace: 10:19am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: Monitoring spirit |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by encryptjay(m): 10:19am On Mar 23, 2019 |
lordswill03:Belated happy birthday to your star boys May God continue to bless them They'll grow to be great men. And God bless you and your wife for the love and care you've given these boys. God bless the entire family boss. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by mosedgreat(m): 10:20am On Mar 23, 2019 |
My guy listen to me. Quickly run to the nearest MFM. Let them conduct deliverance on you. Your friend has just turn you to a mugu and you don't have power again to fight back. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Elliot2(m): 10:20am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul:My igbo friend Okafor taught me how to deal with such people. Don't wait for him to ask you if you have money or food, immediately u sight him coming towards you,increase ur pace to meet up with him. Don't allow him to talk first o. Keep ur face like u r in urgent need of cash or food, and then ask him if he could help u with food or cash( for d cash call an amount u know he can't afford;tell him u will pay back). Look,when he says he doesn't have,he won't ask u either. Do that whenever he comes around until he gets tired of u. #Okafor issa goal. Igbo Amaka for life. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by joyfullyjoyous(f): 10:21am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Sit him down and talk.to his sense. He's playing smart but he's wicked. You need to distant yourself from ppl like that. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by chinazagrace: 10:22am On Mar 23, 2019 |
since you cant tell the bros no: Do you know his house? If you do it's time to pay him pay in his own coin. go and greet him for one weekend. time your visit well o. in short pack your things and go to his place. 2 can play that game. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 10:22am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: Am so good at saying No to d extent that my pals start asking for the right stuff. Them no born you well if you think you can take advantage of me like that. If I help you with money once & you refused to pay back or delay on payment, TRUST ME, NEXT TIME EVEN IF YOU ARE about to die & NEED MONEY, I WILL USED THE MONEY TO wipe my own ass instead of giving you even a penny. LEARN TO SAY NO!! WHILE SMILING 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by handsomebanana(m): 10:22am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Elliot2: Na ur own worse pass. U dey shy for ur money. U go cook, wash plate. U tel d guy off, e dey tell word, u no change am for am back. Lol 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 10:23am On Mar 23, 2019 |
I have been in a similar situation before actually quite recently, there is this guy in my neighborhood, I had helped him with some cash lol the guy took it as an avenue to keep asking me, I wouldn't call it extortion though no but, he kept asking every week unfortunately I am the guy who doesn't know-how to say no easily just I am guessing you are, to me it's an act of kindness which was now telling on me, he just seems to know when I have money making it hard for me to not give in. I understand how you feeling, you're not a fool nor a coward, you're brave to be sincere, but I need you to do this; 1. you have to ensure he is not playing a wise one on you as it was my case , if he is sincere about the fact that he has nothing then here is what you do. call him and talk with him, explain to him how things are with you, let him know if he has to continue then let him find a way to support his feeding, at least he should be able to make some steps to help himself , it's unfair as much as it sounds as the good thing to do for you to be feeding him continuously , tell him you really don't have much (am guessing both of you are students) let him know that clearly. If he is going to be asking you for money and you can't refuse do this; 1.tell him you have nothing (this one I did it often) left the hard explain situation you are in. or 2. if you have much then do this, give him little that you know even without him paying back wont affect your bills. Cook less too but honestly you should talk to him, sincerely you don't have to be angry or scared, he is a guy he should understand if he Is sensible, just let him know you are just managing, let him know you don't have much , don't be discouraged to help bro, I know if you had more you won't be complaining in the first place, God bless your actions. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Chuksmonika(m): 10:24am On Mar 23, 2019 |
bro,try use your head oo,some people are just like that,always have this joy chooping from another person pocket with reckless abandon,I for one cannot displease myself to please others,That much my brother and friend Antiriot can attest to 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 10:25am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul:Simple call him early in the morning on the phone, and ask him to.lend you 10k that it's for an emergency, trust me he will say he doesn't have , then immediately ask him how much he has if 10k is too much , he will repeat again he doesn't have now say guy please this is life and death can I at least get 5k, don't wait for him to answer tell him you need it in two days time , he will say he isn't promising but let him see what he can do. He will start avoiding you. Follow this advice 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by lele007: 10:25am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: Forget long story this is your problem here. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by bigcee(m): 10:26am On Mar 23, 2019 |
domination:Lwkmd |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Nobody: 10:29am On Mar 23, 2019 |
lordswill03: May the grow to be a blessing to you, your family & themselves. Amen 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by doctorregular1(m): 10:31am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Try to stage a quarrel or sth.... He wont show up @ ur place again . If u r too afraid of this, whenever u cook make it known to me him that it is ur morning, afternoon and night food and that u can't afford to give it out... Learn how to be selectively stingy if not he will take u for a FOOL. He is exploiting u since u r the Mr. Nice guy. He is saving his money to get watch, shoes and other stuffs. Why u taking care of his food bills ojun50: 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Mike008(m): 10:32am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Beyond food. I think the guy likes you and wanna be your friend. |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by YOUNGEBEN91(m): 10:34am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: Your parents send #10000 every 3weeks and that is small? what should someone like me who gets #5000 every month and would have to spend almost #400 to get to school everyday say? Back to your question, you just have to tell him politely if you don't want him to feel somehow. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by IbrahimDamola: 10:35am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: Oh... He landed like a vulture. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by doctorregular1(m): 10:35am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Try to stage a quarrel or sth.... He wont show up @ ur place again . If u r too afraid of this, whenever u cook make it known to me him that it is ur morning, afternoon and night food and that u can't afford to give it out... Learn how to be selectively stingy if not he will take u for a FOOL. He is exploiting u since u r the Mr. Nice guy. He is saving his money to get watch, shoes and other stuffs. Why u taking care of his food bills mrpoul: 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by tciro: 10:36am On Mar 23, 2019 |
Op u just make I rem one of my course mate the guy, after lectures like these , this guy go quickly go room change then stand for passage Dey form listening to music opposite my door , for him to comot na lie e fit patrol like say something lost immediately e see sign of food like this na now he rem to discuss topic wey we do for lecture hall with unnecessary gist alongside chopping my food. Sometimes I fit put little on top plate make we first chop that one hoping for him to go Omo na lie oh this guy was just a pest but until I change my hostel 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by lamalwhi4u(m): 10:37am On Mar 23, 2019 |
There are two things involve Bro! If you are capable of feeding him just continues. You will never do it vain.. But if you're not capable of doing it anymore. Tell him you didn't have food in the house and visit him before visit you. And watch his reaction. Then you judge after that.. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by michaelbelgium(m): 10:37am On Mar 23, 2019 |
The guy man don open office for ya head 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by karbarsar(m): 10:38am On Mar 23, 2019 |
[quote author=linearity post=76870144] Don’t forget that, that same Bible says ‘fools and their money will soon part ways’ Since you don't have the courage to tell him to his face that you're fed up of him being over fed by your meal. You can try sending him a text message, WhatsApp message, PM him on Instagram or open nairaland on his phone and let Jim read this post. Shikena! In other news, today is my ex girlfriend's best friend sisters birthday. Happy Birthday to her. Like penalty wey nor score... I miss you. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Marthaodion(f): 10:38am On Mar 23, 2019 |
LiveByNight: I think this should work 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by oluwaahmed: 10:38am On Mar 23, 2019 |
When next u seen him, hail him well then tell him to borrow u some money that u haven't eaten in two days. Believe me he will stop asking u for chow 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Chuksmonika(m): 10:40am On Mar 23, 2019 |
edebemba:bros with all due respect,what are you saying,didnt you see where OP said when he got his own money he used it to buy watch,so his own money is only good for watch not to buy food stuffs,talk of misplaced priority,But OP own is good to use and prepare food,well sha people like OP friend plenty 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by tunize(m): 10:42am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul:I had similar case like u then. Sit the guy down tell him straigt sey as e take be student na so u self be student simple. This life you can nvr do yes all ur life sometimes let ppl know u with no too. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by crixlight2(m): 10:42am On Mar 23, 2019 |
mrpoul: Then poison him , remember that Yoruba adage , those who don’t want you to belleful , you will remove their yeye hands comot plate. Evil Genius |
Re: How Do I Tell This Guy To Stop Eating In My House? by Mydazz(m): 10:43am On Mar 23, 2019 |
If the guy never chop you join the food, e go soon happen,........ 1 Like |
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