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henriettttta:
Shut up
You're talking like this because you're not in the girls shoes
If the guy didn't want her he should have told her all this year's instead of allowing her to bleep him for free
Na God go judge am sha
And he will never see peace in his marriage

You are an ediot..God will also punish you for all the hearts you toyed with even after chopping their money. Mumu, so the girl didn't spend his money abi? You dey talk about free sex. Is she a commercial sex worker?

Is it not women that stays with a guy just for the financial benefits..while keeping her options open until she finds some one better? There are lots of women today that will tell you that they can't marry their BFs but they are dating him for some selfish reasons.

If the guy eventually leave, she will still cry and curse him

henriettttta:
Shut up
You're talking like this because you're not in the girls shoes
If the guy didn't want her he should have told her all this year's instead of allowing her to bleep him for free
Na God go judge am sha
And he will never see peace in his marriage

So bleeping means automatic marriage? It's so funny many of you ladies don't have priorities and any meaningful thing to add to a man other than sex. Sex that's it's a mutual thing is now a weapon for compelling someone to marriage. Though what the guy did is wrong, but only two of them can explain to the world what happened rather than we taking paracetamol for someone else headache.

popelix:
Same way I'm going to dump this Yoruba girlfriend of mine soon.. she is dirty and ugly.. I need a clean Igbo girl like Genevieve asap..

but you still dey Bleep her

lefulefu:
if u investigate deeply now u will find out that while she was dating him she was moving around with two or three sugar daddies.there"s no how u will remain true to a guy and he will jus dump u just like dat.

true talk, just a lady stoking round my neck that we should marry and meanwhile she is fucking other men around, not knowing that I am aware of it. I will just surprise her with Invitational card. many of them are useless, what they are good for is ritual

Trottle:
For 9 years? What Insanity!

If you are with someone and you are not discussing marriage after getting to know yourselves for some months, and ascertain your compatibility, define the direction or call it quits! NB: Don't possess slay queen qualities and expect him to wife you up!

For the guy, what goes around comes around! Were you blind not to know you were incompatible?

For the lady, you were with him, how did you supported him, or were you only with him to sit pretty, and wait for him to struggle then come and marry you? Except you supported him either through words or action, he is not under any obligation to marry you nor are you entitled to anything he possesses now.If you cheated during the time you were together, or repeatedly slighting him, NEVER expect him to wife you!

I agree with u 100%

uhm.....


Seven years on the go

candlewax:
she deserved it for turning down other guys advances all those years. I remember approaching girls then when I thought they were important, some always say they boyfriend, whenever a grin tells me that, I will always wish her a heartbreak from the boyfriend. Call me a sadist or whatever. I really don't care

If you were are boyfriend and she cheats on you with another guy, wont you have called her a hoe? I pity girls who do the Nonsense "stick to one guy" thing

gloria34:
If you were are boyfriend and she cheats on you with another guy, wont you have called her a hoe? I pity girls who do the Nonsense "stick to one guy" thing

Relationships should be defined with a years of dating. If I date you for a year and we survive then I'm sure I'm getting married to you sadly no one ever made it to a year. In a nutshell, if after a year's and he's still your "boyfriend" give listening ears to others and see how genuine they are, you don't necessarily sleep with them

post=77003433:
The little we understand from her language shows she is so much pained.
There are repercussions in life for this kinda act by men.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
The guy should watch his back : Karma still exist FULLTIME....as long as she was faithful to him!

Take heart sis, God has the best plans for you!

"As long as she was faithful". She may have been seeing other men during those years yet claim this one is the serious one she wants to end it with NIBO!!! I will never marry a cheater no even if you kill your mother for my sake.

Adeinfo:
So bleeping means automatic marriage? It's so funny many of you ladies don't have priorities and any meaningful thing to add to a man other than sex. Sex that's it's a mutual thing is now a weapon for compelling someone to marriage. Though what the guy did is wrong, but only two of them can explain to the world what happened rather than we taking paracetamol for someone else headache.

When a guy willingly spends on a girl and d girl leaves him at d end, he will wail as if d girl put a gun to his head while he was dishing out the money, its the same thing here. bleeping doesnt mean automatic marriage likewise spending your cash doesnt mean i must stay in the relationship or marry you

9 years or 9month,any relationship that beyond one year six months,consider the relationship as useless as anything.between one month to six months the two couples supposed to know were there heading to.

lefulefu:
if u investigate deeply now u will find out that while she was dating him she was moving around with two or three sugar daddies.there"s no how u will remain true to a guy and he will jus dump u just like dat.

Seriously! My point... Though nothing is impossible but most guys will gladly stick with you if you're truly special not that you have other assistant boyfriends

candlewax:
Relationships should be defined with a years of dating. If I date you for a year and we survive then I'm sure I'm getting married to you sadly no one ever made it to a year. In a nutshell, if after a year's and he's still your "boyfriend" give listening ears to others and see how genuine they are, you don't necessarily sleep with them

I like your maturity but nothing is black or white. If after one year of dating, a girl is seen giving attention to other guys, she is seen as one with the tendercies to cheat. My slogan is "do what you want to do irrespective of what others thinks". What you think is right is wrong to another person

gloria34:
I like your maturity but nothing is black or white. If after one year of dating, a girl is seen giving attention to other guys, she is seen as one with the tendercies to cheat. My slogan is "do what you want to do irrespective of what others thinks". What you think is right is wrong to another person

You're right

Bewiseedet:
I bet there are things she didn't do right. better inculcate a better attitude to attract and keep another man than go around crying foul and claiming victim.

Why not call the relationship quit instead of waiting 4 nine years? Abi he just noticed the things she is not doing right?

Thiwalade:
Seriously! My point... Though nothing is impossible but most guys will gladly stick with you if you're truly special not that you have other assistant boyfriends

exactly. Any sensible guy if im notice d girl im dey date dey busy sleep around with other men in order not to create drama wen confronting her on d issue im go jejeli look for a serious loyal babe then jus play along with the cheating one. If d girl is loyal the guy no go jus leave her like dat cos e no easy to see a gal dat is faithful.

Oma307:
true talk, just a lady stoking round my neck that we should marry and meanwhile she is fucking other men around, not knowing that I am aware of it. I will just surprise her with Invitational card. many of them are useless, what they are good for is ritual

lol e never reach ritual level.anyway if u have a girlfriend who sleeps around with different men the wise thing to do is look around for a serious loyal girl. I jus pity guys who give themselves highblood pressure over a cheating girlfriend or fiancee.

lefulefu:
exactly. Any sensible guy if im notice d girl im dey date dey busy sleep around with other men in order not to create drama wen confronting her on d issue im go jejeli look for a serious loyal babe then jus play along with the cheating one. If d girl is loyal the guy no go jus leave her like dat cos e no easy to see a gal dat is faithful.

That's not true. She must've been super faithful to him. Faithful and loyal people are the most hurt when something like this happens to them

Youu can be faithful to a man buuut if he don't want you or has another woman he loves better na cheating or dumping next

3 yrs no do u to lv d guy well may be ur soup no sweet again so em wan test egusi soup

Vellichor:
That's not true. She must've been super faithful to him. Faithful and loyal people are the most hurt when something like this happens to them

Youu can be faithful to a man buuut if he don't want you or has another woman he loves better na cheating or dumping next

if a lady is faithful to a guy and the guy has someone else he likes he will own up and tell d lady there's someone else. E no easy to jus break off from someone who is faithful to u jus like dat. Most of dese relationships u see a guy jus breaking off without telin d girl is because in most cases many of these ladies have side guys and sugar daddies by the side and of wich d main guy would know but will be bidding his time.

gloria34:
If you were are boyfriend and she cheats on you with another guy, wont you have called her a hoe? I pity girls who do the Nonsense "stick to one guy" thing

make i chop here chop der makes one a prostitute

That's why is good for one not to start what he or she can't finish.

gloria34:
When a guy willingly spends on a girl and d girl leaves him at d end, he will wail as if d girl put a gun to his head while he was dishing out the money, its the same thing here. bleeping doesnt mean automatic marriage likewise spending your cash doesnt mean i must stay in the relationship or marry you

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I agree with your last quote. But no guy who willingly spend will grumble. Men are not that way except you want to lie

Inconclusive relationship

gloria34:
Why not call the relationship quit instead of waiting 4 nine years? Abi he just noticed the things she is not doing right?

you are right Gloria.

9yrs and she can't compose a simple English,no wonder he dumped her

henriettttta:
Shut up
You're talking like this because you're not in the girls shoes
If the guy didn't want her he should have told her all this year's instead of allowing her to bleep him for free
Na God go judge am sha
And he will never see peace in his marriage

so the girl was bleeping the guy for free.... Hmmmmmmm. Osanoboah

gloria34:
I like your maturity but nothing is black or white. If after one year of dating, a girl is seen giving attention to other guys, she is seen as one with the tendercies to cheat. My slogan is "do what you want to do irrespective of what others thinks". What you think is right is wrong to another person

i disagree with your last statement... Do what is pleasing to God. That is the right thing not what you think is right..

Femijohn198:
9 years or 9month,any relationship that beyond one year six months,consider the relationship as useless as anything.between one month to six months the two couples supposed to know were there heading to.

i have warned girls concerning this... Any relationship beyond two years is toxic... It is better you quit

Michelle55:
9 bleeping years.. Jeez, my heart!

hmmmmm...

if sex was involved, I think the curse is valid. Men need to be careful pls.