Cry me a river we all go still die one by one turn by turn time by time

Nor let bros Iv spoil your marriage ��

MrBrownJay1:
well, they can still get married and have a wonderful life together (they will just have to be very careful)...

Can you take the risk?

MrBrownJay1:
well, they can still get married and have a wonderful life together (they will just have to be very careful)...

I don't want to get married and be careful when having sexx. then what is there to enjoy.

Michelle55:
Awwwn, that's so sad. The possibility of the marriage taking place is still there that's if the groom is willing to continue. Being HIV + is not the end of one's life.

Assuming the reverse is the case, can you take the risk?

WinningSun:


I don't want to get married and be careful when having sexx. then what is there to enjoy.

...and there is nothing wrong with what you wrote, but dont forget that many people who are truly in love with their partner, are doing way more than just "being careful", in order to be with the person they LOVE.

BTW there are many ways to enjoy sex... aka with a condom

highbee02:
Can you take the risk?

again, its not a straight forward yes or no....but if that perfect was indeed the woman i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, then YES I CERTAINLY WOULD

fairfora:
Not true. Some people are naturally immune

thats for ppl with a strong immune system but then the penitent question that need be asked is how many nigerians actually have a strong immune system? Not with the number of nigerians that abuse hard drugs like codeine,tramadol,marijuina ,tobacco or those that cannot afford a balanced diet of wich such practices can actually make ur immune system weak and make u easily open to HIv and other infection.

highbee02:

Assuming the reverse is the case, can you take the risk?

MrBrownJay1:


...and there is nothing wrong with what you wrote, but dont forget that many people who are truly in love with their partner, are doing way more than just "being careful", in order to be with the person they LOVE.

BTW there are many ways to enjoy sex... aka with a condom



again, its not a straight forward yes or no....but if that perfect was indeed the woman i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, then YES I CERTAINLY WOULD

my dad never thought me to lick sweet with wrapper. hm

I thought there's something called Hippocratic oath.

How did this doctor scale through medical school. Social media is making everyone attention chasers!

WinningSun:
my dad never thought me to lick sweet with wrapper. hm

let me guess, did he teach you to lick banana and bend down for that same banana? i guess not, so just enjoy life the way it comes at you, and NOT the way you imagine it should be. your above statement is not only dangerous but also very sad (if that is your excuse for running from your loving partner)

many people out there are getting married to handicapped and/or dwarves... this certainly isnt what they had planned but LIFE had other plans for them, and they dealt with it maturely/accordingly. pls open your mind.

Michelle55:
Awwwn, that's so sad. The possibility of the marriage taking place is still there that's if the groom is willing to continue. Being HIV + is not the end of one's life.

Will you advise your brother to marry her?

All those boys talking about the possibility of getting married with HIV around the corner are just joking, marrying a HIV partner is second to a suicide attempt.

MrBrownJay1:


...and there is nothing wrong with what you wrote, but dont forget that many people who are truly in love with their partner, are doing way more than just "being careful", in order to be with the person they LOVE.

BTW there are many ways to enjoy sex... aka with a condom



again, its not a straight forward yes or no....but if that perfect was indeed the woman i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, then YES I CERTAINLY WOULD

lolz! lover boy. when Nigerians are still begging for 30k minimum wage

lefulefu:
thats for ppl with a strong immune system but then the penitent question that need be asked is how many nigerians actually have a strong immune system? Not with the number of nigerians that abuse hard drugs like codeine,tramadol,marijuina ,tobacco or those that cannot afford a balanced diet of wich such practices can actually make ur immune system weak and make u easily open to HIv and other infection.

that's it. Strong immune system. The free radicals in our environment too contribute to weak immune system.

madridsta007:


Logic in this case is simple: Available medical research shows, quite simply, that the fellow is likely to become a carrier of the disease and, in climes such as Nigeria where medical care is pathetic, would give birth to kids who will suffer from the same disease. Possible consequence will be grief, sickness, cost of medical care and possible, death. So, you avoid it.

Have you ever seen children who are sicklers? Or grew up close to them? You will understand better when I argue that these things should be treated with common-sense and avoided.

I understand that Nigeria is a society where the belief in miracles and magic trumps medical research and reasoning, hence even this simple explanation of mine will be questioned. Which is fine.

what does sickle cell have to do with HIV,?

engrelvis:
a lot of our married men v HIV because of constant "away matches". Is their wives I pity .

Wives too has taken over from their husbands.. Infact, dem don over do pass the men

RTSC:

Will you advise your brother to marry her?

If he soo desires as long as she makes him happy and wouldn't infect him.. I'm cool

MrBrownJay1:


bro, as much as i understand that it wouldnt be easy, they can still be happy together, for the rest of their natural lives... if that is indeed the reason why they wanted to get married at the 1st place.

in today HIV+ world, she can take ARV's and live a "seemingly" normal life.... and the day they want to have children, she can get inseminated with his sperm (or do it homemade with a syringe) and possibly have healthy kids. et voila!

but i also fully understand that, if the man wants to leave and forget about this lady, he has all the rights to do so.

So, all you're saying is that he can't go raw with the wife?

if no, then what's now the need ?

highbee02:


Assuming the reverse is the case, can you take the risk?

Yeah.. So long I ain't gonna be infected.. And he will be on his drugs. Let's stop making small things look like a big stuff

engrelvis:
a lot of our married men v HIV because of constant "away matches". Is their wives I pity .

so true. Many of these married men wey dey play away matches dey carry HIV come house take infect their wives. Come and see in govt hospitals were pregnant wives dey do compuslory hiv screening and u will understand wat iyam talking about. In short ehn sometimes i feel sorry for married nigerian women whose husbands flirt around.any married woman whose husband is faithful to her no know how God take bless her.

Bride definitely fuçked an HIV+ guy. I would not advise the groom to proceed with that wedding

Silly bîtch can't even use a condom when cheating.

Michelle55:
Awwwn, that's so sad. The possibility of the marriage taking place is still there that's if the groom is willing to continue. Being HIV + is not the end of one's life.

No man will do that

Too much lies on twitter...a real doctor has seen worse, why the tears over HIV?

I have a cure for HIV just WATS app me 07064658456

Inconclusive weddinhg

Mike008:


Both of them were tested. The man turned out negative probably.
Am beginning to think the chances of a woman contracting HIV through sex is higher than females.
I heard similar stories of a men testing negative whereas their partners tested positive.

D man virus might b in the early stage or window period. He should go back again for test after three months.

MrBrownJay1:


let me guess, did he teach you to lick banana and bend down for that same banana? i guess not, so just enjoy life the way it comes at you, and NOT the way you imagine it should be. your above statement is not only dangerous but also very sad (if that is your excuse for running from your loving partner)

many people out there are getting married to handicapped and/or dwarves... this certainly isnt what they had planned but LIFE had other plans for them, and they dealt with it maturely/accordingly. pls open your mind.

you know the predominant shitty mentality in Nigeria

why are you still engaging them?


The way people think in that useless country is what makes me hate the country the most.

there are many hiv discordant couples even there in Nigeria

I read of a hairdresser back in 2009 who got the virus

and as at today, she is still with her man and her kids


tho she had to stop the business


But most Nigerians think like fools so I am not surprised by the comments

lefulefu:
so true. Many of these married men wey dey play away matches dey carry HIV come house take infect their wives. Come and see in govt hospitals were pregnant wives dey do compuslory hiv screening and u will understand wat iyam talking about. In short ehn sometimes i feel sorry for married nigerian women whose husbands flirt around.any married woman whose husband is faithful to her no know how God take bless her.

your last paragraph is so true

Justbeingreal:
iF it's a no sex relationship that guy might be lucky but if not.

Damn! Sex is so risky whether married or not the HIV might not be from sex. How can one be sure their partner will be extra careful like them in cases of sharp objects sharing and the rest..

Honestly intimate relationship is risky..

Nothing like that, HIV only passes through sex in this current world and 1 out of 1m through careless blood transfusions. HIV can't last more than a minute outside blood stream