Divepen1:
Thanks. But I think it's more about my loved ones I.e family members than friends.



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ElsonMorali

Family is gold. Make special efforts with your family.

Sit down and write out what you need to do whenever you feel the urge to let go. List them down on a paper and memorize. When you feel the urge to let go, you'll know what to do.

All you need is self discipline. The ability to do WHAT you NEED to do at the TIME you need to do even when your whole body is screaming no.

It's not a one day process. Sometimes you'll do great, sometimes not. But keep at it. And don't let the times you fail at it let you down.

It's a new habit you want to imbibe so keep at it. The fact that you know there's something wrong and you need help shows you be already solved half the problem already.

There. I won't charge you for this session.

Shibaraba:
Buy a dog or a cat...
Youre welcome

I have something similar with the op. I don't like dogs or cats or pets in general

ElsonMorali:

Family session.

Lol.. Thanks. Will try to do that..

Divepen1:
Lol.. Thanks. Will try to do that..

You welcome.

ecstasy357:


I have something similar with the op. I don't like dogs or cats or pets in general

Try getting a dog. Even therapists recommend that to patients sometimes.

The one person you can always count on being totally and ecstatically happy to see you when you come back from work is your dog.

UyaiIncomparabl:
This is me in a summary. Learn to enjoy solitude. I don't have friends and don't even need them. I enjoy my space. I hardly talk to people. I find it grueling even to pick up calls. I leave Whatsapp and other social media chats unanswered. They say I'm snobbish, but I know I'm not. I'm only friends with people for a moment and once I notice you start drifting away, I completely leave you alone until we have a reason to discuss again. One reason I haven't been able to keep any romantic relationship(s) and friendships. I withdraw easily. I also am very unemotional and non-challant too. You're perfectly fine, OP.

I can relate to most of what you said except that I'm easily hurt lol.
My own relatives accuse me of no liking people, but it's not true. The only reason I withdraw from people is because they've hurt me in some way, no matter how inconsequential. One small thing & I'm ready to never speak to you again.
With relationships I fair better though. It's friendships & family bonds that I'm absolutely the worst at. I have only one close friend (16 years of friendship to be precise), but even that relationship is volatile at times because she always does things that make me wanna drop her on the spot. TBH, if she weren't so patient & persistent, the friendship would have ended a long time ago because I neither chase nor beg people. If we don't talk, then we won't talk. I don't have even a single sentimental bone on my body. I will write you off never to speak to you again, with ease.

It's a good trait it make you immune to grief any mother fucker when 1nt go fine suite yourself I won't be missing you.

same here, it's like a failsafe... I woke up one day and deleted my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and never looked back... I'm forced to be on WhatsApp cause of work, so I decided to hide my online status, you'll see last seen Dec 15th 2018 but I'm very much online.... I don't just want to be held at ransom for not replying.... Some days my lines are barred from receiving call, and I feel just alright... To me, the more solitude the better my productivity... I'm 26 but never had a girlfriend, I've had girls crush on me endlessly, some even asked me out, but no I just wanna be friends... The last one really tried sha 6 months straight, but I knew it'd all end like the rest... People are trouble, learn to master your demons...

UyaiIncomparabl:
This is me in a summary. Learn to enjoy solitude. I don't have friends and don't even need them. I enjoy my space. I hardly talk to people. I find it grueling even to pick up calls. I leave Whatsapp and other social media chats unanswered. They say I'm snobbish, but I know I'm not. I'm only friends with people for a moment and once I notice you start drifting away, I completely leave you alone until we have a reason to discuss again. One reason I haven't been able to keep any romantic relationship(s) and friendships. I withdraw easily. I also am very unemotional and non-challant too. You're perfectly fine, OP.

Demonic!

Learnstuffs:
You think you are alone in this? I think you are completely normal. My own is worse. Sometimes I will detach from every one. I won't call. I will go to my social media pages, I won't chat or even reply messages. I am not just in the right frame of mind. After a while, I will start chatting again. I think it's something about me I cannot change so I have to embrace it

Same here bro..


And I thought I was the only one like this..
It's almost been a month since I replied any chats on WhatsApp ...I just view status and then I whiz out like a mad dog...


Maybe we all need therapy

FAD1OZ:
same here, it's like a failsafe... I woke up one day and deleted my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and never looked back... I'm forced to be on WhatsApp cause of work, so I decided to hide my online status, you'll see last seen Dec 15th 2018 but I'm very much online.... I don't just want to be held at ransom for not replying.... Some days my lines are barred from receiving call, and I feel just alright... To me, the more solitude the better my productivity... I'm 26 but never had a girlfriend, I've had girls crush on me endlessly, some even asked me out, but no I just wanna be friends... The last one really tried sha 6 months straight, but I knew it'd all end like the rest... People are trouble, learn to master your demons...

Not good. How will u marry?

Kingbones:

Same here bro..


And I thought I was the only one like this..
It's almost been a month since I replied any chats on WhatsApp ...I just view status and then I whiz out like a mad dog...


Maybe we all need therapy

Great storyline...

Collinsemegreat:


Not good. How will u marry?

This is my best quote ever "Go for it now. The future is promised to no one." I strongly believe I'd find the right one when the time is right...

UyaiIncomparabl:
This is me in a summary. Learn to enjoy solitude. I don't have friends and don't even need them. I enjoy my space. I hardly talk to people. I find it grueling even to pick up calls. I leave Whatsapp and other social media chats unanswered. They say I'm snobbish, but I know I'm not. I'm only friends with people for a moment and once I notice you start drifting away, I completely leave you alone until we have a reason to discuss again. One reason I haven't been able to keep any romantic relationship(s) and friendships. I withdraw easily. I also am very unemotional and non-challant too. You're perfectly fine, OP.

You just summarised me in few lines. That's the reason why I'll continue to use gbwhatsapp, at least with that one I don't have to reply messages immediately and the sender won't know I've received them. Apart from whatsapp, I don't have any other social networking account.

Recognize your feelings, thoughts, and experiences—and talk about them.

Many people who feel uncomfortable getting close to people tend not to express their deeper feelings, and then feel resentment towards others for not taking an interest in getting to know them on a more meaningful level. This creates a cycle of feeling let down and disappointed in relationships and leads to a deep sense of loneliness, the result of which further disconnects them from closeness and belonging.

Perhaps consider that you may not be letting people in enough for them to care to know you better. When a person vividly describes their feelings and experiences, they come to life—suddenly someone who once appeared like a black-and-white TV screen is now is in full HD colour. People with low confidence, who struggle with intimacy or experience social anxiety disorder can become so uncomfortable in social encounters that they do not know what to share.

Instead of focusing on what other people may be thinking of you, look within. Work to notice your feeling and experiences and then push yourself to say it. If you feel happy, joyful, sad, disappointed, angry—try and label your emotions. Do not dismiss them. Find the words to describe what you are experiencing, feeling, or thinking and communicate this to others in your life. Find people who make you feel normal when you express your emotions, not judged or put down. Notice if friends or your partner are receptive to what you have to say. It is okay, even if they do not agree with you, because when others are close to you, there will be a sense of comfort and validation.

I hope you find this helpful and wish you the very best.

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eternalb:


I hope you find this helpful and wish you the very best.

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Thanks a lot

Kingbones:

Same here bro..


And I thought I was the only one like this..
It's almost been a month since I replied any chats on WhatsApp ...I just view status and then I whiz out like a mad dog...


Maybe we all need therapy

surely

Divepen1:


Great storyline...

It's not a storyline dummy

Kingbones:

It's not a storyline dummy

Lol... It will be soon from me.... I actually wanted to say great Title for a story.


Maybe We All Need Therapy....

Collinsemegreat:


Demonic!

Na you sabi.

UyaiIncomparabl:
This is me in a summary. Learn to enjoy solitude. I don't have friends and don't even need them. I enjoy my space. I hardly talk to people. I find it grueling even to pick up calls. I leave Whatsapp and other social media chats unanswered. They say I'm snobbish, but I know I'm not. I'm only friends with people for a moment and once I notice you start drifting away, I completely leave you alone until we have a reason to discuss again. One reason I haven't been able to keep any romantic relationship(s) and friendships. I withdraw easily. I also am very unemotional and non-challant too. You're perfectly fine, OP.

Phlegmatic Dna Can Not Change. You Have Not Met A Guy Who Can Handle Your Nature Yet

UyaiIncomparabl:
This is me in a summary. Learn to enjoy solitude. I don't have friends and don't even need them. I enjoy my space. I hardly talk to people. I find it grueling even to pick up calls. I leave Whatsapp and other social media chats unanswered. They say I'm snobbish, but I know I'm not. I'm only friends with people for a moment and once I notice you start drifting away, I completely leave you alone until we have a reason to discuss again. One reason I haven't been able to keep any romantic relationship(s) and friendships. I withdraw easily. I also am very unemotional and non-challant too. You're perfectly fine, OP.

I may be wrong but I think relationships are a way for us to discover the purpose of our existence. Success is all about inspiring others to act and think like you. I quite understand you are much entitle to your opinion but I think it's too harsh to say that you don't need a relationship. We all do. I will undoubtedly support you on the ground of toxic relationship, again, we all need relationships

FAD1OZ:
same here, it's like a failsafe... I woke up one day and deleted my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and never looked back... I'm forced to be on WhatsApp cause of work, so [\b]I decided to hide my online status, you'll see last seen Dec 15th 2018 but I'm very much online....[b] I don't just want to be held at ransom for not replying.... Some days my lines are barred from receiving call, and I feel just alright... To me, the more solitude the better my productivity... I'm 26 but never had a girlfriend, I've had girls crush on me endlessly, some even asked me out, but no I just wanna be friends... The last one really tried sha 6 months straight, but I knew it'd all end like the rest... People are trouble, learn to master your demons...

Can you please tell me how you hid your whatsapp status?

FAD1OZ:
same here, it's like a failsafe... I woke up one day and deleted my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and never looked back... I'm forced to be on WhatsApp cause of work, so I decided to hide my online status, you'll see last seen Dec 15th 2018 but I'm very much online.... I don't just want to be held at ransom for not replying.... Some days my lines are barred from receiving call, and I feel just alright... To me, the more solitude the better my productivity... I'm 26 but never had a girlfriend, I've had girls crush on me endlessly, some even asked me out, but no I just wanna be friends... The last one really tried sha 6 months straight, but I knew it'd all end like the rest... People are trouble, learn to master your demons...

Na wa oooo


Bros u strong oo

Kingbones:

Same here bro..


And I thought I was the only one like this..
It's almost been a month since I replied any chats on WhatsApp ...I just view status and then I whiz out like a mad dog...


Maybe we all need therapy

hahahaha

My people.

My circle is so thin even my girl complains sometimes, my own is, If I feel there's no reason for us to be in touch anymore I just cut you off, you start acting up? I cut you off, no time. People think it's pride but what do they know.

You're perfectly okay bro, we all aren't wired the same way but the society think there's something wrong with people like us. Phuck 'em.

teresafaith:

Can you please tell me how you hid your whatsapp status?

For 'online status', go to settings > account > privacy > last seen: choose from the options *everyone, *my contacts, or *Nobody

I have few friends and many talkmates

I cannot comma kill myself

hello hello won't kill u

YoungBlackRico:
For 'online status', go to settings > account > privacy > last seen: choose from the options *everyone, *my contacts, or *Nobody

That's not it

teresafaith:
That's not it

You mean Status Updates?

i guess sleeping well and loving yourself is the best medicine to this issue.
Also try spending time with you parents.
you might love that feel.

FAD1OZ:
same here, it's like a failsafe... I woke up one day and deleted my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and never looked back... I'm forced to be on WhatsApp cause of work, so I decided to hide my online status, you'll see last seen Dec 15th 2018 but I'm very much online.... I don't just want to be held at ransom for not replying.... Some days my lines are barred from receiving call, and I feel just alright... To me, the more solitude the better my productivity... I'm 26 but never had a girlfriend, I've had girls crush on me endlessly, some even asked me out, but no I just wanna be friends... The last one really tried sha 6 months straight, but I knew it'd all end like the rest... People are trouble, learn to master your demons...

My brother, no vex, are you a virgin?