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LONEER:
believe me i perfectly understand how you feel, cause am in same situation, urs is even better, mine is just a selfcon. but dude will be bringing different girls everyday till it even affected my relationship. now have broke up with my girl cause she wasn't comfortable when she come visiting and we end up being four people in the room, some days i have to be sleeping on the floor just to got a nigga back . funny part is that he even has his own rented apartment. this is not even all Am tired.

looool

I can bet you all the money in my account that while your friend discusses your matter he laughs at you behind your back.




No one, I mean. no one , not even freinds respect a pushover

How were you even able to keep a girlfriend with this kinda attitude?
I might seem harsh but you need to sit down and do some sober reflections

How has this guy been of benefit to you

I don't mean being a drinking buddy, or helping you cover up for a wrong doing, chasing women together etx

I mean learning new things from each other, pushing you to be greater, supporting you emotionally and with wisdom in your down time, and even financial support even if it was a loan.

If you can't count up to five benefits this guy has brought that has impacted your life then you are just wasting your time

No friend who wants you to be great will treat you like this!
No friend who wants you to be great will treat you like this!!!
No friend who wants you to be great will treat you like this!!!!!


I repeated that thrice deliberately.

The only person I pity is your girlfriend.

Do you really think if it were the other way round he would allow you to do the same thing?

why don't you try it out first.
Go to his house unexpectedly with a rented prostitute. You can even brief the babe on what's up so she can play along

I bet you by your third visit he will cook up one excuse as to why you shouldn't come over again.

dierich:
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I understand u but u really don't understand me.
have u read where I stated that he couldn't wash d bedsheet, and I've to be d one to wash it coz d room is very dirty and I hate dirty tins around me, also I've told him several times but he said he'll make it neat.
I've to wash d bedsheet and also keep it so. I told him to bring his bedsheet along, he brought 1 but still look how d bed looks like in d pics I uploaded.

i guess ur friend is an immature one, like i said before take action becos when you talk he might quote you & hold it against you... clean & lock up the other room, if he so confident to ask then be bold to tell him you lock it up becos you cannt be cleaning a room you donnt use everytime, no hard feelings you're tired of complaining when there are so many other things to worry about in a man's life. my friend no vex lemme keep it locked... sayin "no vex" keeps his pride as ur friend ,whereas you've dictated the tune.... naa tip o !

Earthbound:
Don't be a little bitch. You rented or inherited a 3 b flat. You have two new companions/acquaintances. Stop being a jealous, little bitch

I think he should tell the friend to start paying rent fee for the room. He can't house the fool without a kobo yet the fool feels entitled to bring strange girls to mess up everywhere.

Mutemenot:
Op, What you need most is on how to tackle your HBP not this guy's issue. If you call him a friend indeed, you must have reasons for that so I advise you not to add up to your illness .
HBP is not a friendly issue, you need to leave you home and mingle outside with people . Free your mind from whatever that led you to that. You may need to listen to other people's problem, u 'll definitely see reasons not to worry over yours . Things 'll get normal ok..

The friend is contributing to his hbp. He probably had it after he housed the fool. Gosh. I hate self entitled people!

Use him for money rituals

amakadihot87:
I see your point ,if they don't dirty your house ,the girls don't steal your properties and they don't disturb you with noise,I'll advice you ignore them.if they stain your matrass I sugest you get a plastic covering(mackintosh) for your bed.....they can go ahead and stain the bed spread as much as they want..............just give them space and face your room......

See the way you're asking the guy to act as a servant in his own house. Self entitled mentality! Hian. Until people realise you can't act entitled to people's properties, they won't learn.

Mutemenot:
It's more worst when you stay alone and it can even lead to depression staying alone. From his writeup I get to kmow he prefers staying alone..

Depression is different from hbp

LONEER:
believe me i perfectly understand how you feel, cause am in same situation, urs is even better, mine is just a selfcon. but dude will be bringing different girls everyday till it even affected my relationship. now have broke up with my girl cause she wasn't comfortable when she come visiting and we end up being four people in the room, some days i have to be sleeping on the floor just to got a nigga back . funny part is that he even has his own rented apartment. this is not even all Am tired.

Lolz. This is quite funny

Isoduwa:
And you think we nairaland believe you? Guy stop �� all this complain and tell he to leave your house not the end of the world
A friend in need is a friend indeed me and my niggis cool with whatsoever because life is what you make of it � fvk the house fvk the bed fvk the clothes � finally fvk you for nor be true friend because you need to speak to him than bring this sshit to nairaland

Fvck the parasitic friend for not being a good friend to his sick friend that put a roof on his head. Foolish self entitled eediot.

R2bees:
As long as i have my own girl Someone like me won't even mind sef. I can continue dressing the bed as well as washing the bedsheets too, no big deal... Highest i will tell him to join me with the washing too.... ONE THING WITH LIVING AT SOMEONE'S PLACE IS THAT AT SOME POINT THEY WILL START FINDING FAULT OR GIVING YOU SILLY ATTITUDE, imagine this guy saying he had to fake illness just to stop him from bringing gals in his apartment.. TAKE NOTE: This is his own side of the story and we didn't hear from the guy...

onye mgbu

You're the type that can't even take it sef. So, in your own apartment, you cum on everywhere and clean with the cum with a friend's cloth? You're stupid!

Kagd10:
I think he should tell the friend to start paying rent fee for the room. He can't house the fool without a kobo yet the fool feels entitled to bring strange girls to mess up everywhere.

I wouldn't even feel comfortable having such a person as a roommate even if he pays more. So money is not the issue bro, his lifestyle is.

ericsmith:
Honestly i don't see any wrong in, ur OGo bringing gurls to ur apartment when its obvious he as none, i think the major thing heating you up is low self esteem,jealous out of envy ... if you sef be player with multi chicks i swear you won't have full details to complain these much. naa 3bedroom naa,haba!
dierich get babes or find a steady one that would come around often, that will limit ur friend actions, guys think twice b4 visiting there hommie with babes around all the time ... there is no way you can possibly tell him to stop bringing gurls that it wonnt sound like you downgrading him ...he is using your house becos he feels you are not using it use your activities to limit him not necessarily words

You're dumb to not know he's hypertensive? Or you didn't see where he said the friends cums everywhere and use his clothes to clean cum on the bed. What if his relatives want to crash in his house? Would they be able to sleep on a stained cum bed? Yeye dey smell.

veegreen:
You are the closet friend he Gat.. where do you want him to start taking the girls to?..... You really have to bare for now, till he gets his own apartment. Or go and get married....

He knows how to sleep around with strange girls but can't fetch money for an apartment? Yeye dey smell.

Hello, i understand your plight. You don't have to send him a text message. When he is back home tonight, sit with him and tell him what your not comfortable with. My advice to you is that if he is bringing home a particular lady, you can allow him but instruct him to keep your room and stuffs clean. But if he is coming home with different ladies, tell him straight you wont tolerate that. If he doesn't change in 1 month, send him away.

dierich:
thanks.. I think you understand me more
this is the text I'm planning to send to him now


Sorry if dis offend u. I just want u 2 stop dis 4 nw. Even Queen wanna come, I've 2 stop her myself. I knw wat I'm facing & Hw much I've spent on my health. Who knows where it's coming frm, so 4 now I wanna keep tins around me holy.

How about the above message?

Kagd10:
And the cums on the beds are what? Maybe you should go lick am for him since you claim he's a gay. Only a gay would know another. Dumb people oshi.

He probably ensure the guy sleep in the same room with him because he doesn't want to waste his energy cleaning rooms he didn't stay in. It's better for one room to be in disarray than so many rooms to be unkept. What if his girl and relatives come in and are in need of a room?

I understand your plight indeed.
You must indulge in such disgusting practice to feel comfortable sharing same bed in a 3 bedroom private residence with your fellow man.
The other guy obviously seems to want to pass a message to his so called benefactor that he ain't like that,but d op's jealous nature could no longer be restrained.
But of course you seem to be in the same shoe,that's why you are as pained as the Op.
You are disgusting and engaging in a disgusting act.

Kagd10:
You're dumb to not know he's hypertensive? Or you didn't see where he said the friends cums everywhere and use his clothes to clean cum on the bed. What if his relatives want to crash in his house? Would they be able to sleep on a stained cum bed? Yeye dey smell.

i don't think their is any punishable offence for been dumb ... if not instead of ranting you would av ask seun or the mods to ban me
when you're done crying ,read futher conversations

Hipsofagoddess:
Depression is different from hbp

Did I said they 're the same?

Kagd10:
You're dumb to not know he's hypertensive? Or you didn't see where he said the friends cums everywhere and use his clothes to clean cum on the bed. What if his relatives want to crash in his house? Would they be able to sleep on a stained cum bed? Yeye dey smell.

I saw all ur comments and I must say you're one of d few guys that understand me better.. thanks bro

Kagd10:
Fvck the parasitic friend for not being a good friend to his sick friend that put a roof on his head. Foolish self entitled eediot.

Enter house

Go and marry

Kagd10:
You're the type that can't even take it sef. So, in your own apartment, you cum on everywhere and clean with the cum with a friend's cloth? You're stupid!

Your Mother is Stupiddd.. Anuofia

ericsmith:
i don't think their is any punishable offence for been dumb ... if not instead of ranting you would av ask seun or the mods to ban me
when you're done crying ,read futher conversations

Can you allow such to happen at your own house? Better still, can you sleep on a cum stained bed? Abeg, what you can't allow, don't preach it to others. Yeye dey smell.

R2bees:
Your Mother is Stupiddd.. Anuofia

Na you stupid pass. Stupid leech mooching off others with their self entitled mentality!

dierich:
Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

I sense the frustration here is that, he brings different ladies to your apartment and he's not cleaning up. Or, probably the fact that he brings any at all.
I can't help but wonder what kind of ladies get comfortable with stains on the bed. I guess you made the room more pleasing due to cleanups after their mess.

How to pass your message clearly
Option 1: Man up and tell him he would have to excuse you if he continues with his acts.

Option 2: Lock the other rooms you have and hide the keys in a safe place.

Option 3: Go on a vacation, and don't tell him about it. If you are strong enough, don't pick his calls or reply his texts for that period.

Hello, I understand your predicament because i was once in your position but it got to a time i had to stop complaining to my other friends and tell her, she needs to leave, it will change every about you being friends but you have to be happy before u make someone else happy.
if you happy with it call him and tell him because your house is not a motel.

dierich:
I saw all ur comments and I must say you're one of d few guys that understand me better.. thanks bro

Don't mind them jare. What they can't take, they do to others.

Make sure you tell your friend your mind. Apart from his unkept self, let's not even forget the danger of harbouring strange visiting girls in the house.

Kagd10:
Na you stupid pass. Stupid leech mooching off others with their self entitled mentality!

E pain am

seborrhic:
I understand your plight indeed.
You must indulge in such disgusting practice to feel comfortable sharing same bed in a 3 bedroom private residence with your fellow man.
The other guy obviously seems to want to pass a message to his so called benefactor that he ain't like that,but d op's jealous nature could no longer be restrained.
But of course you seem to be in the same shoe,that's why you are as pained as the Op.
You are disgusting and engaging in a disgusting act.

Only a gay knows another. Dummy. Why don't you go to your parents house and go cum everywhere in the house and when they ask you what you're doing, tell them they are gay. Oponu oshi.

R2bees:
E pain am

Na you it dey pain. Because you're one of those self entitled leeches out there.

Guy why you come post this issues for here na? I understand you now and I will try to be clean next time, when I reach house I go explain well give you, no be even my fault sey I pour for every corner for room but bisi towtow too sweeeeeeeeeet

generationz:
looool

I can bet you all the money in my account that while your friend discusses your matter he laughs at you behind your back.




No one, I mean. no one , not even freinds respect a pushover

How were you even able to keep a girlfriend with this kinda attitude?
I might seem harsh but you need to sit down and do some sober reflections

How has this guy been of benefit to you

I don't mean being a drinking buddy, or helping you cover up for a wrong doing, chasing women together etx

I mean learning new things from each other, pushing you to be greater, supporting you emotionally and with wisdom in your down time, and even financial support even if it was a loan.

If you can't count up to five benefits this guy has brought that has impacted your life then you are just wasting your time

No friend who wants you to be great will treat you like this!
No friend who wants you to be great will treat you like this!!!
No friend who wants you to be great will treat you like this!!!!!


I repeated that thrice deliberately.

The only person I pity is your girlfriend.

Do you really think if it were the other way round he would allow you to do the same thing?

why don't you try it out first.
Go to his house unexpectedly with a rented prostitute. You can even brief the babe on what's up so she can play along

I bet you by your third visit he will cook up one excuse as to why you shouldn't come over again.

Let me mess up your sweeeet towtow and spray you with loads of different come

Kagd10:
Na you it dey pain. Because you're one of those self entitled leeches out there.

E pain me? lols.Whatever mehn!!.. I have been on this forum for years and if u think whatever shiiit people say here would get to me, oga u are in for a disappoint.
I know say body dey sweet u as i dey reply u, you are just lucky it's one of those days i reply foolss on here.. Enjoy the ride bro