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Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by dierich(op): 2:02pm On Mar 27, 2019
R2bees:
Your Mother is Stupiddd.. Anuofia
y will u insult someone else mother? I guess u don't av a mother or she's useless for not taking good care of u.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Kagd10: 2:04pm On Mar 27, 2019
R2bees:
E pain me? lols.Whatever mehn!!.. I have been on this forum for years and if u think whatever shiiit people say here would get to me, oga u are in for a disappoint.
I know say body dey sweet u as i dey reply u, you are just lucky it's one of those days i reply foolss on here.. Enjoy the ride bro
Lmao. See this dumbo. I had no option than to quote you because your stupidity stuck out like a sore thumb. I can't deal with such stupidity. Dirty maggot feeling funky! Yeye dey smell.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Mar 27, 2019
dierich:
y will u insult someone else mother? I guess u don't av a mother or she's useless for not taking good care of u.
Oga YOU CAN'T EVEN TALK TO YOUR FELLOW GUY AND YOU WANT TO INSULT ME.. IF I DESCEND ON YOU NOW PEOPLE WILL START SHOUTING CYBER-BULLY!!! LEMME LEAVE YOU

Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by seborrhic: 2:23pm On Mar 27, 2019
Kagd10:
Only a gay knows another. Dummy. Why don't you go to your parents house and go cum everywhere in the house and when they ask you what you're doing, tell them they are gay. Oponu oshi.
It's clear now you are one.
I cannot even contemplate a normal full grown adult person sleeping in same bed with his own brother,talkless of a non relative,in a 3 BR facility,but you feel so comfortable with it because that's what you do.This thread just gave u out because u are even as pained as the Op.
So you sleep with guys in the same bed and enjoy their presence?What a world.
That's why u are so pained.
Creatures like you disgust me.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Kagd10: 2:28pm On Mar 27, 2019
seborrhic:
It's clear now you are one.
I cannot even contemplate a normal full grown adult person sleeping in same bed with his own brother,talkless of a non relative,in a 3 BR facility,but you feel so comfortable with it because that's what you do.This thread just gave u out because u are even as pained as the Op.
So you sleep with guys in the same bed and enjoy their presence?What a world.
That's why u are so pained.
Creatures like you disgust me.
Dummy, he's not concerned about him sleeping in another bed, he's concerned with him cumming everywhere in his own house. He only emphasized the point he was in his room to tell people how the guy often sneak in girls at night and cum everywhere. That's the bone of contention here and not your stupidity rearing its ugly head. I repeat, go and cum in your father's house and when he asked you what you're doing, tell him he's a gay. Stupid rat.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by seborrhic: 2:37pm On Mar 27, 2019
Kagd10:
Dummy, he's not concerned about him sleeping in another bed, he's concerned with him cumming everywhere in his own house. He only emphasized the point he was in his room to tell people how the guy often sneak in girls at night and cum everywhere. That's the bone of contention here and not your stupidity rearing its ugly head. I repeat, go and cum in your father's house and when he asked you what you're doing, tell him he's a gay. Stupid rat.
Now I understand your plight better.
So when u sleep with guys u come inside them?
Your anger is why he wouldn't do as u do by wetting d bed with sperm,unlike u who enjoys sleeping and cumming inside your fellow man.
The friend is straight,unlike you that is now clearly confirmed gay.What do u type even enjoy in your fellow man?It's obviously not normal.Seek counselling and pray,gays are still a taboo here and against all ethnic groups cultural and societal norms.
You should be hiding yourself instead of exposing your perverted,disgusting sexual orientation.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Kagd10: 2:41pm On Mar 27, 2019
seborrhic:
Now I understand your plight better.
So when u sleep with guys u come inside them?
Your anger is why he wouldn't do as u do by wetting d bed with sperm,unlike u who enjoys sleeping and cumming inside your fellow man.
The friend is straight,unlike you that is now clearly confirmed gay.What do u type even enjoy in your fellow man?It's obviously not normal.Seek counselling and pray,gays are still a taboo here and against all ethnic groups cultural and societal norms.
You should be hiding yourself instead of exposing your perverted,disgusting sexual orientation.
Eediot, if you have a brain already, you would realise I dislike seeing people's cum in my place
How can I be gay if hate people's cum? That a dirty maggot like yourself loves a sewage cesspit of a place doesn't means others like same.

Go tell your father that's he's a gay. Oponu oshi.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Agilscent: 2:46pm On Mar 27, 2019
He is still with his parents that's why plus u guys r very close and you are nice.. I believe when it all started u guys use to gist and laugh about it in the mornings.. But now it seems he doesn't even look at what he is bringing home.. As for me you should be concerned more of security cos most of this girl's he doesn't really know them.. While he exposes your resting shelter his own home is safe.. 2mrw it's ur house they will be coming to.. There a so many ways to do this.. Talking from experience.. Chat me up on watsapp even if it's a girl stuck in ur crib u wanna ionize..
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by seborrhic: 2:48pm On Mar 27, 2019
Kagd10:
Eediot, if you have a brain already, you would realise I dislike seeing people's cum in my place
How can I be gay if hate people's cum? That a dirty maggot like yourself loves a sewage cesspit of a place doesn't means others like same.

Go tell your father that's he's a gay. Oponu oshi.
Mr Man,there is nothing you would say again.
Your posts in this thread has showed without a doubt that you are gay and that is what is fuelling your anger,not this excuse of not liking come or whatever you spelt.You seem to av had this kind of bitter experience of being ditched by your fellow man for girls and the anger just resurfaced.
Mentioning my parents also shows u also have an axe to grind with yours,maybe they once caught u in the disgusting act and saw u as abnormal.
Straighten ur life.No case can be hopeless.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Kagd10: 2:56pm On Mar 27, 2019
seborrhic:
Mr Man,there is nothing you would say again.
Your posts in this thread has showed without a doubt that you are gay and that is what is fuelling your anger,not this excuse of not liking come or whatever you spelt.You seem to av had this kind of bitter experience of being ditched by your fellow man for girls and the anger just resurfaced.
Mentioning my parents also shows u also have an axe to grind with yours,maybe they once caught u in the disgusting act and saw u as abnormal.
Straighten ur life.No case can be hopeless.
Eediot, your stupid self is only trying to justify your dirty sewage life by imagining nonsense!

Dirty pig who cums everywhere while claiming people who don't like it are gay. I bet your father likes your cum. Yeye dey smell.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by bluebay(m): 3:15pm On Mar 27, 2019
bluefilm:
You mean you used a girl to do your dirty work for you?

Shame on you.

Your own cowardice is raised to power squared.
It’s obvious you the kind of guy that you g man was talking about. Ode.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by rickleye: 3:27pm On Mar 27, 2019
There seems to be more to this story that meets the eye. ( Is he paying rent or did he help you out of a certain dilemma in the past ?)
Anyways, there are a few solutions to your problem.
1. Talk with the dude : I am not sure how old you are but there is nothing better than a heart to heart conversation. Inform him that he has veered from the reason you allowed him to stay with you in the first place. Inform him that you are displeased and unhappy and that if he doesnt change you will need to end your relationship with him. Outline the issues ( Untidy bedroom and bedsheets, multiple partners, ungodly coitus noises etc)
2. Talk with the dude with an authority figure. ( Pastor, elder, police, etc)
3. Change the door locks.
4. Have someone else move in with you and declare that the space is no longer available.

Good Luck.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by seborrhic: 3:57pm On Mar 27, 2019
Kagd10:
Eediot, your stupid self is only trying to justify your dirty sewage life by imagining nonsense!

Dirty pig who cums everywhere while claiming people who don't like it are gay. I bet your father likes your cum. Yeye dey smell.
Mr Man,I am not imagining anything.
You are gay and now your perverted life has been exposed.
Secondly your referring to father still also confirms what kind of hate and anger you had towards yours,most likely,as I said before,when he caught you in the shameful act with your fellow hard a ss man.
My father couldn't have bred a pervert because he trained us well,parentally and fear of God and his laws.You are a sexual pervert.Admit it.
Imagining the kind of defiant and pervert you are is enough to make one throw up.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by aysnoopy(m): 3:59pm On Mar 27, 2019
Kagd10:
Eediot, if you have a brain already, you would realise I dislike seeing people's cum in my place
How can I be gay if hate people's cum? That a dirty maggot like yourself loves a sewage cesspit of a place doesn't means others like same.

Go tell your father that's he's a gay. Oponu oshi.
bro, please don't talk to this low-life guy. he's a fool
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by aysnoopy(m): 4:02pm On Mar 27, 2019
Kagd10:
Eediot, your stupid self is only trying to justify your dirty sewage life by imagining nonsense!

Dirty pig who cums everywhere while claiming people who don't like it are gay. I bet your father likes your cum. Yeye dey smell.
that guy don't understand english or d message Op is passing across. just leave him.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by aysnoopy(m): 4:08pm On Mar 27, 2019
seborrhic:
Mr Man,I am not imagining anything.
You are gay and now your perverted life has been exposed.
Secondly your referring to father still also confirms what kind of hate and anger you had towards yours,most likely,as I said before,when he caught you in the shameful act with your fellow hard a ss man.
My father couldn't have bred a pervert because he trained us well,parentally and fear of God and his laws.You are a sexual pervert.Admit it.
Imagining the kind of defiant and pervert you are is enough to make one throw up.
guy, please come to ur senses.
because a guy slept together in same room with his best friend doesn't mean he's a gay. with d op post, his room is well arranged that is y both of them prefer op room.
2ndly, the other rooms are not well furnished and op friend isn't living permanently with d op, he lives in his parent house but prefer d op house because of d benefits.
think with ur brain and not with ur anus
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 27, 2019
bro The earlier you develop boldness to tell him what you dont want the better for you.

At everypoint of our life we lose some friendship.

What if any of the ladies pass out in your apartment ? what will you do.

what if he inpregnant one of them and run away who do you think they will come for ?

what if he commit fraud with one of the girls and he had lied to them that he owns your room ?

so bro for your safety and your sanity tell him you cant allow him any longer.

Nothing bad in losing a toxic friendship.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by Cyynywhite: 4:55pm On Mar 27, 2019
decision z a horse one rides to shame or fame....
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by bluefilm: 5:16pm On Mar 27, 2019
bluebay:
It’s obvious you the kind of guy that you g man was talking about. Ode.
Anu ohia.

If they say make those wey be men come out now, you wan tell me say you ma go follow fall out?

Nonsense man.

You can't even address a simple issue with your fellow nigga man to man.

You had to go and bring one yeye girl all in the name of girlfriend to help you pursue your fellow guy from ya house and you want me to start clapping for you abi?

Ewu.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by superfitsez(m): 5:22pm On Mar 27, 2019
Op just stop all this, if he really your friend you don't have to complain,
Just say your jealous because you can't find different pussis like he does
#facts
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by khiaa(f): 5:49pm On Mar 27, 2019
dierich:
people do call him my PA in d street coz they know us as 5&6, but I'm not comfortable anymore. imagine I'm treating HBP and I couldn't sleep since I'm awake around past 1am. I can't keep inconveniencing myself coz of him.


Tell him this.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by dierich(op): 6:23pm On Mar 27, 2019
superfitsez:
Op
just stop all this, if he really your friend you don't have to complain,

Just say your jealous because you can't find different pussis like he does

#facts
this is not about jealousy. think deeply and read thru d 1st page. I know u won't be happy seeing ur friend cleaning messes with ur T-shirt. think bro
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by khiaa(f): 6:40pm On Mar 27, 2019
dierich:
Thanks bro. you're d 1st person that asked about it.
my illness is dat my urine is always deep yellow and my urine output is very low. [b]I may drink 3 litres of water in a day [/b]and pass 40CL in 24hrs.
also sometimes my urine will be more in d night.
I've done series of test which they are all normal.. like scan, kidney test, urinalysis, and lot more
Please stop doing the bolded, if it is your kidneys and you are drinking that much water a day and you aren't releasing the urine it can kill you. You shouldn't be drinking more than2 liters a day, this includes all liquids combined ( water, cokes, soups, milk, ANY liquids.) It really sound like your kidneys. Check your legs daily for swelling, do you get a rash on your legs, check your weight daily, is there any weight gain? These are all signs of kidney disease or kidney failure. Also, having a deep yellow colored urine is a sign of dehydration.


Let me tell you a story. Years ago my sister would drink so much water and had a problem urinating. She had gained a lot of weight in one week and her legs were swollen with a rash. One nite her legs were itching her really bad and she said that she was going to the hospital in the morning, my brother told her no, I'm taking you right now. He took her to the hospital and the doctor said that if he had waited until the morning she would have died. She has kidney failure. Please go and get yourself checked again and tell them that you want your kidneys checked.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by dierich(op): 6:44pm On Mar 27, 2019
khiaa:
Please stop doing the bolded, if it is your kidneys and you are drinking that much water a day and you aren't releasing the urine it can kill you. You shouldn't be drinking more than2 liters a day, this includes all liquids combined ( water, cokes, soups, milk, ANY liquids.) It really sound like your kidneys. Check your legs daily for swelling, do you get a rash on your legs, check your weight daily, is there any weight gain? These are all signs of kidney disease or kidney failure.


Let me tell you a story. Years ago my sister would drink so much water and had a problem urinating. She had gained a lot of weight in one week and her legs were swollen with a rash. One nite her legs were itching her really bad and she said that she was going to the hospital in the morning, my brother told her no, I'm taking you right now. He took her to the hospital and the doctor said that if he had waited until the morning she would have died. She has kidney failure. Please go and get yourself checked again and tell them that you want your kidneys checked.
you're right. I've check my kidney twice and it's in a normal state. both blood test and scan. I checked it twice with different standard lab. 1st test around Dec 24th and d 2nd test last week Tuesday

But Please, how is ur sister now?
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by khiaa(f): 6:54pm On Mar 27, 2019
dierich:
you're right. I've check my kidney twice and it's in a normal state. both blood test and scan. I checked it twice with different standard lab. 1st test around Dec 24th and d 2nd test last week Tuesday

But Please, how is ur sister now?
My sister goes to dialysis 3 times a week and she has been doing this since 2008 but she is now on the waiting list for a new kidney.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by dierich(op): 6:56pm On Mar 27, 2019
khiaa:
My sister goes to dialysis 3 times a week and she has been doing this since 2008 but she is now on the waiting list for a new kidney.
all is well. I pray she'll overcome it.
thanks alot
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by khiaa(f): 7:01pm On Mar 27, 2019
dierich:
all is well. I pray she'll overcome it.
thanks alot
Thank you and you are welcome. I gave you some advice about your friend as well.
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by dierich(op): 7:10pm On Mar 27, 2019
khiaa:
Thank you and you are welcome. I gave you some advice about your friend as well.
yes. I saw it. thanks alot. everything will be solve soon
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by flokii: 7:24pm On Mar 27, 2019
dierich:
Yes.
so can u tell me reasons y we should sleep. separately when we can gist and joke about the day and slept off. he owns no room on my apartment. he only come around & not his permanent place..
Okay..

Since he is your close pal, tell him you want to talk.. sit him down and explain why he needs to stop.

Trust me, you'll see results
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by bluebay(m): 9:01pm On Mar 27, 2019
bluefilm:
Anu ohia.

If they say make those wey be men come out now, you wan tell me say you ma go follow fall out?

Nonsense man.

You can't even address a simple issue with your fellow nigga man to man.

You had to go and bring one yeye girl all in the name of girlfriend to help you pursue your fellow guy from ya house and you want me to start clapping for you abi?

Ewu.
Chale, stop taking girls to your friends house on regular basics. Get your own apartment and import them if you know your next agenda is to have random sex
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by kayojosephy(m): 10:28pm On Mar 27, 2019
@dierich, whatever action you will take, make sure it is recorded for future reference if you are scared of consequences... But one thing that is certain is this is your apartment and you are not comfortable with his behaviour as he has gone beyond his boundary and himself will be expecting you to take actions but since you are not talking he will continue till you have the guts to tell him your mind... You know what, he knows what he does is wrong but waiting for you to tell him to stop which you have to summon courage and do without thinking of consequences expect you having your peace again...
Re: How Can I Stop My Friend From Bringing His Girlfriends To My Apartment? by frozen70(f): 7:02am On Mar 28, 2019
dierich:
Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks
You are deceiving yourself

You don't want to provoke him ❗

What are you doing in a three bedroom flat alone ❓

If you don't have the confidence and boldness to tell him that you want him to stop coming to pass nights with his girlfriends your house, then there is no need complaining

Of what use is he to you or what are you benefiting from your relationship with him ❓
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