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Valerie47:
I want to ask eh, is being in a relationship an avenue to have unprotected sex?

OdiaI:
So if she is truly pregnant for someone else as you think, you want total strangers to decide your future for you?
You will hurt her pride if you start doubting her now. It is better you sit her down if at all and tell her your worries, threatening her with a DNA won't solve anything.
If she insists the pregnancy is yours, since you already had plans of taking her with you, go ahead. The Yoruba's will say Oju lo roju s'anu.

On marrying her before or after the birth of the child, you are a man, the decision is yours to make.

Annihilator7:
See this ode! I'm surprised a prostitute like you would ask such a question. Didn't you learn prostitution from your useless mother?

1StopRudeness:
That's probably not totally true.
We guys just like to say this DNA thing like it's Puff puff , telling a lady that doesn't sleep around that u will subject the unborn child to DNA is a big insult a huge slap on the woman. No woman will take it lightly even if she's cheating and trying to pin another man's baby...

It's not an easy test, it's painful becos they have to penetrate the vagina into the womb and the amniotic sac and could lead to miscarriage...
If I'm a lady and I'm sure I didn't cheat, u will not see me until delivery after saying u want pre birth DNA test

Hillsabah18:
So just yesterday this my female friend was gisting me how she used pregnancy to collect money from 2 stingy guys in December.
1. She may be pulling ur legs. Buy a pregnancy test strip and let her confirm it b4 you.
2. If she saw her period 4 days after you had sex, that baby may be mine not yours. Lie to her that you'll gake her to a new medical facility in Abuja where DNA can be conducted on a foetus. Judge her reaction..
3. Next time learn the act of withdrawal. My own babe usually pulls out my CD but i use withdrawal and sometimes she takes morning after pill. She's aware im not ready for a child yet.
All the best

Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

1StopRudeness:
Oju Anu??
Something u cannot tell ur own brother or son to do...he didn't want to take her with him b4, it's if the baby is his own that he would not want to leave her here alone pregnant..I'm not understanding the oju Anu part u are now asking for, so he should shaa take her even if the baby is not his??
Which account should he write that one if it's another man's child......., bad loan and irrecoverables account??

1StopRudeness:
That's probably not totally true.
We guys just like to say this DNA thing like it's Puff puff , telling a lady that doesn't sleep around that u will subject the unborn child to DNA is a big insult a huge slap on the woman. No woman will take it lightly even if she's cheating and trying to pin another man's baby...

It's not an easy test, it's painful becos they have to penetrate the vagina into the womb and the amniotic sac and could lead to miscarriage...
If I'm a lady and I'm sure I didn't cheat, u will not see me until delivery after saying u want pre birth DNA test

1StopRudeness:
Guy ...cool down naaaaa...the Babe offend u before...

Oya jist us wetin happen??

OdiaI:
The unborn child is obviously his...Dude can't just make up his mind.

Dinho20:
SEX IS SWEET BUT........
Have you ever
wondered why God carefully
positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a tiny membrane that
partially or completely covers the opening of
the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”.
Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable
tissue full of blood at the very door of the
sexual opening of the female?
Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance,
like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new
house about to be launched?
Why is it filled with blood that spills away
when it is broken?
Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE!
It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a
sign and a token of a covenant between the
bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.
Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a
casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant
struck and confirmed by the blood shed on
that day.
This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges
in to this woman shall only be able to do so by
making a blood covenant to be joined to her
for the rest of his life, from that point onward.
Little wonder why sexual intercourse was
designed by God to take place only and only
after the marriage contract is sealed.
The one
who made the body (the hormones, organs,
nerves, tissues, e.tc) God said it in clear terms
, “Now, the body is not for fornication”.
Anyone who chooses to use the body for
fornication must know that he/she is working
directly against God’s plan and there would
definitely be a consequence either now or at
old age!
There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural
process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the
first guy that enters in to her especially at that
particular time when the hymen breaks.
There
is no covenant without blood: this is why the
membrane contains enough of it.
As a matter of fact, what happens the first
time a lady has sex is not just sex but an
immersion and a bathing of the man with her
hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is
highly recognized in the spirit realm of both
light and darkness!
The first time this happens
just marks her opening day covenant ceremony
and each subsequent experience goes on to
further refresh or strengthen that covenant or
establish another version of it with another
person.
Many have washed useless boys with that
hymen-blood.
Many have struck irreversible covenants with
men that have nothing to do with their destiny.
Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual
activity with demon-possessed men while some
others have struck such precious covenants
with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it.
If only they knew,many girls who carelessly
allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid
to be among the so called “big girls” would
never have done so.
The let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not
know that he who is joined to a harlot
(through sexual activity) is one with her ?
This is why many girls are not yet married yet
their spiritual composition is already shattered
and imbalanced, because they have mingled
their souls with that of different men.
Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite
proportion of your virtue that leaves you each
time a man enters into you and when that man
leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how
much of yourself would be lost each time a
man enters into you without any properly
signed marriage bond or contract.
Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to
another. All of these things have strong and
terrible spiritual implications.
A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of
the man that broke it, any other spirit
whatsoever that may have mingled with that
man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs
with him and the spirit of any other man that
enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that
pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What
happens between the lines could be deadly and
dangerous.
The very first day a lady, or a man does that
there will be spiritual transfer of destiny.

Lightangel65:
Ok,
What of if it's not his child.
I know of a person who got pinned with a child that was not his own, he ended up getting married to the girl.
After 2years into marriage he found out the child was not his.
Am not condenming women, but there is a chance.
If the procedure is harmful, then it's safer to wait till the baby is born

Guest007:
First of all, YES, she can be pregnant in those circumstances. And YES if she cheated on you then you can be 1 of the fathers. That's all we know.

AdaAde:
This generation and sex....smh
So many illegal babies scattered everywhere.

truthsayer009:
Abi oo, Matured elder sisters is the right and only way.

Na criminal dey catch other criminals na.

Evtspez:
Ignore any grammatical errors please. I will make it concise.
My girlfriend visited me 20th December 2018 and we had unprotected s*x. Base on what she told me about her menstrual cycle, her ovulation period falls within the date. Before she left my crib early January she has started menstruating which came 4 days earlier than usual. Exactly a month she called that she has not seen her period.
My concern is am I truly responsible for it? Considering the fact that : She started her menstrual period before leaving my crib, even though I know semen can survive for 5 days in the reproductive tract of a lady but even at that her ovulation can't take place immediately which makes such chances slim.

Medical experts in the house can a lady get pregnant and still experience heavy flow of menses? My understanding is even if it occurs it comes light.

My reasons for seeking public/experts opinions:
I will travel so I would like to travel together with her if there's chances of me being responsible for it because I don't want her to suffer.
As no DNA test can be carried out at this stage, I don't want to take responsibility and at the end the pregnancy is not mine.
Thanks in anticipation for your inputs.

Hillsabah18:
So just yesterday this my female friend was gisting me how she used pregnancy to collect money from 2 stingy guys in December.
1. She may be pulling ur legs. Buy a pregnancy test strip and let her confirm it b4 you.
2. If she saw her period 4 days after you had sex, that baby may be mine not yours. Lie to her that you'll gake her to a new medical facility in Abuja where DNA can be conducted on a foetus. Judge her reaction..
3. Next time learn the act of withdrawal. My own babe usually pulls out my CD but i use withdrawal and sometimes she takes morning after pill. She's aware im not ready for a child yet.
All the best

ABIOLAXYZ:
u should be sleeping now

ABIOLAXYZ:
u should be sleeping now

Erums:
is it postinor 2?

skukimania:
It's possible to be pregnant and still mensurate normally. I know of a Cousin who was pregnant for five months without even knowing ( she was married though) and people were already calling her iya ibeji ( twins mother) before she decided to go for a test. That was her third and not the fist child o!
So, it's possible o @ OP. But, you can do paternity test later to be sure the child is yours.

Germanpoison1:
Foolish boy, look at how you are making mockery of yourself here, dabbling into matters that are too complex for your small brain. What do you know about the physiology of menstruation that you are here talking like a herbalist.You obviously don't know the difference between menstrual bleeding and antepartum hemorrhage. It's idiots like you that go around misinforming the gullible public. You can send me a Dm let me get you properly enlightened. Nonsense!!!

pek:
To really talk like this shows you have a gutter breeding! You have used foul words to express yourself. What does that make you? You don't know me but you insult me and call me a boy. Go through my profile and your little brain may comprehend I might be old as your father.

ikbnice:
the day withdrawal go cast ehn, your eyes go clear. Some girls are highly fertile to the extent that precum or aftercum can get them pregnant

Scientists:
My own don cast