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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Kalashnikov102(m): 2:08pm On Mar 29, 2019
Akin/pawpaw use their small body get fame.. You dey complain sad
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 2:14pm On Mar 29, 2019
I don’t know what happened to being forever young, I look younger than my age but damn I wouldn’t trade that for anything man.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 2:26pm On Mar 29, 2019
Hedonisst:
Kai. People get plenty different kind problems for this life. I don tire.

Make Jesus do come quick make world end so that everybody go rest. Wahala too much.
abi, world wahala too much, u short wahala, u tall wahala, u fat wahala u tin wahala, u ugly wahala u fine wahala.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by philsbaba: 2:51pm On Mar 29, 2019
Emotionss:
Op I can give you a Natural remedies that can make you Add some real flesh and get the respect you deserve.

100% natural
No Fat.
give us here abeg
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by vickertony(m): 2:53pm On Mar 29, 2019
optimusprime2:

Trust me, it works to your advantage.
I wish you live abroad.

I don't look my age as well, I look 10 or 12 yrs younger... omo the awoof train passes, meal tickets, transit beta wey I don collect because I dey like teenager me sef don taya the matter, sometimes I dey tell clerk for train station say "I be adult" she go just shout tok say; "minors to the other line please" tooh, na im me go waka go pikin section carry 75% reduction ticket, Las las e dey ep my pocket.

But Enh, this side wey I dey, if pesin no hold body wella, na paedophile im fit turn even by mistake, because 14yr old pikin wey don big finish, go con dey follow pesin Upandan because im go feel say you be im mate & country people no go tok say "no follow huncu", na so wahala fit gas.
grin grin I'm laughing so hard right now. your story shaa, nice.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Mizwisdom(f): 3:10pm On Mar 29, 2019
grin grin grin And how is this a problem?
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by sorepco(m): 3:12pm On Mar 29, 2019
Stop trying to pleasebpeole..you will constantly be depressed! Do things you are comfortable with and damn what others think.

lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Tomoyayi(m): 3:13pm On Mar 29, 2019
czarina:
Naah...you're wrong.

They may even be eager to help you once you let them in on your struggles. Some can be that matured. I've worked at a gym house so I know. Most are all too eager to play "instructor" the minute they get the chance.

Spot on Elder Czarina

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 3:22pm On Mar 29, 2019
czarina:
I'm assuming that he's of average height. But then, some muscles on him would do a world of good for his confidence even if he's completely small-sized .
yeah
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by eniolufe(m): 3:23pm On Mar 29, 2019
EFULEFU1:
Stature is nothing. Look at Akin and Pawpaw
Please don't be depressed.
Do great things that will bring respect, RESPECT IS EARNED not handed out.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by RTSC: 3:32pm On Mar 29, 2019
Wizkid is so short and smallish, but he has seen more naked women, bigger than him, in his bedroom , than the tallest, largest guy in Nigeria can dream of.

Go and pursue success. Pursue it with all your might, and then respect will come.

Fortunately, success does not go to the biggest or tallest, but the most prepared.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 3:35pm On Mar 29, 2019
torhyb:
see this one

E fit be lie na. U no sabi nairaland o... Make him post him pics make we see nah!
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Lexicon123: 3:36pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:

I went to gym for a while but I stopped due to low self esteem. I had to wait for all the big guys to finish their workout, so that I can unload all the irons to the weight I can carry. but that usually take a lot of time before they finish.
�������. Apologies bro... but this really cracked me up! Just do your thing bro. Self-respect, self-esteem come first...
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by CAPSLOCKED: 3:53pm On Mar 29, 2019
PRESENTATION:
I don’t know what happened to being forever young, I look younger than my age but damn I wouldn’t trade that for anything man.

I WONDER WHAT PEOPLE REALLY MEAN WHENEVER THEY SAY THIS.
IS THERE A PARTICULAR WAY 20YR OLD PEOPLE SHOULD LOOK, AND ANOTHER PARTICULAR WAY ALL 40YR OLD PEOPLE SHOULD LOOK??

I FEEL PEOPLE SHOULD RATHER SAY THEY ARE OLDER THEY APPEAR (MAINLY FOR PEOPLE LIKE SANGSTER THOMAS). IT'S A DIFFERENT THING WHEN YOU SAY THIS.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Ihsan6(m): 3:59pm On Mar 29, 2019
I feel ur pain bro cos am in this same class...am a father of 2 n will be 35 by November but look 22-24, it's natural for some people to disrespect u but u need to look at d advantages, some of my mates now look like grandparents while I still look young n charming. Am sure u will appreciate it more as u grow older.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 4:02pm On Mar 29, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:


I WONDER WHAT PEOPLE REALLY MEAN WHENEVER THEY SAY THIS.
IS THERE A PARTICULAR WAY 20YR OLD PEOPLE SHOULD LOOK, AND ANOTHER PARTICULAR WAY ALL 40YR OLD PEOPLE SHOULD LOOK??

grin grin grin

I FEEL PEOPLE SHOULD RATHER SAY THEY ARE OLDER THEY APPEAR (MAINLY FOR PEOPLE LIKE SANGSTER THOMAS). IT'S A DIFFERENT THING WHEN YOU SAY THIS.

That’s what he’s trying to say, you look at someone like Genevieve she could still pass for early thirties, or RMD they sure older than they look.

So forever young is just like someone who’s ageless, old but look way younger.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by megareal: 4:02pm On Mar 29, 2019
Can we trade places? undecided
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Admitwithschola: 4:11pm On Mar 29, 2019
fiercehillz:
Blessing in disguise bro.
Was like you some years back but now things don change.
Go out more often, eat well, consider that apatemin people are talking about, continue going to the gym, Google search "what fits small stature men the most", smell nice (lol),
make money, associate more with people of your age group, always look neat, wear sweatshirts when necessary, always put on good shoes and wrist watches, find your vibe, a nice haircut is not bad, make sure your apartment is topnotch, talk to the female folks at will, they won't bite, if you are the churchy type join the choir, or a Catholic join the layreaders, learn new things, read books, steer clear from porn, always have confidence in your every action, stop feeling inferior and make sure you double your hustle.


1. Me at 26
2. Me at 28
3. At 30

Guy, you didn't age much..You look young! If you can convert the extra fat to muscle, you will be like 35 when you're near 50! You're blessed with young genes. You no look like broda 30
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Admitwithschola: 4:13pm On Mar 29, 2019
MakeItBiz:
No one has it all dear. I'll be 25 this year and I look older than my age. Just learn to live with it and you'll be alright.
Being alive is a privilege. Having complete body parts is also a privilege. Be grateful for who you are.


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https://www.makeitglobal.biz/

I fully agree with this. We all need be thankful especially for the points you raised...
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by LecciGucci: 4:13pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

First of all What's ur height ?
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Champagnegold: 4:21pm On Mar 29, 2019
your question should not be here,

pix pls...
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by TheNarnian(m): 4:30pm On Mar 29, 2019
This might be considered fiction, but I think you should look at Tyrion Lannister from Game of thrones. His physical appearance didn't hold him back from being an awesome personality.

Building your self esteem is really important, people feel your vibe and the content of your mind more than physical appearance; of course, physical appearance might be the first encounter.

Read books, gain knowledge - within and outside your field, dress well, smell nice too, and to top it off, make MONEY. You'll be surprised how people (especially ladies) will start commenting on how they wish they had your vampire genes.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by millionboi2: 4:45pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.
u are special
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by millionboi2: 4:47pm On Mar 29, 2019
czarina:
Gym. Go to the gym and even you no go believe yourself after just a few months of serious workout with correct diet.
dat gym stuff,ones u stop,it will drop
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by millionboi2: 4:50pm On Mar 29, 2019
tolanibae:
I know a person who is currently depressed because he thinks he looks older than his age. He wants to look younger.

You are who you are, not what you look like, its easier to say though because appearance is everything especially in a place like Nigeria where people are judged right there on the spot.

People will say you should build your self esteem but its not as easy as that, this is something you have been battling with for a very long time so its not very easy to correct your thinking in a jiffy.

However , there is a trick if you can stay true to it.

Every morning when you wake up, look into the mirror and start telling yourself good things, tell yourself reasons why you are special, why you are loved, say good things about yourself.

This might sound crazy (talking to yourself) but the trick is loving yourself, you currently dont love yourself and it will be very difficult for people to love you,respect you or take you serious.

trust me, looks dont matter as much as we think, what matters is what we project.

If you still feel bad , remember obasanjo, taye taiwo, oshiomole, these people have very gorgeous women in their lives.

Read about Tyrion Lanister in Game of thrones, a dwarf that is highly respected.

Lastly, dont forget to make money.
can we b friends?
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by AnthonyAk(m): 4:58pm On Mar 29, 2019
thank god for your youth , go grow a beard , to toast chick no be for face. Somebody told me during nysc that im a 91' baby i took it as a complement
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by PlusVibez(m): 4:59pm On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:

I went to gym for a while but I stopped due to low self esteem. I had to wait for all the big guys to finish their workout, so that I can unload all the irons to the weight I can carry. but that usually take a lot of time before they finish.

This particular comment got me cracking up big time here. Chai! Na so your own case bad reach? I beg show us your picture make we see.
I look older than my age that i usually get embarrassed when i see a person far older than me greeting me with much respect that can only be accorded to a president or VIPs. Biggest disadvantage i have is that market sellers (women) always inflate price for me due to my big-man looks. In my own case, the advantages always supersedes the disadvantages.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Dailyfavour(m): 5:00pm On Mar 29, 2019
I can feel your pain, but the problems is YOU (yourself), how?
1. Close your mind against any negative (mockery) talk, especially friends or people around you.

2. Improve in your dressing, don't appear cheap at any public scene

3. Make a close friend with your age mate irrespective of their body size(Big/Small).

4. Avoid as much trying anything funny when you're with people of lesser age to you.

Finally, it is not the SIZE OF THE BODY but rate of ACHIEVEMENT.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by millionboi2: 5:01pm On Mar 29, 2019
goingsolo:
Op u don fvck before? If yes, Na small girl or older person? Abi u dey go olosho. We need more info pls.
so if na olosho wetin hapn?
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Tareq1105: 5:04pm On Mar 29, 2019
GolDRoger:
Your real problem is LOW SELF ESTEEm

when u have a low self esteem what will u expect others to do??

They will look down on you ofcourse

Accept yourself the way God created you. Everyone of us were created uniquely and as such God knows why He created you like that.

Go to gym to add just a little but the truth is that that's how God, your creator, designed you and you can't query God.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by mokane28: 5:10pm On Mar 29, 2019
You Look your exact age joor
momove4real25:
Me of 32 nko n many ppl don't believe my age

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by messi042: 5:13pm On Mar 29, 2019
dnt worry my dear, when you reach 69 years, you will look like you are 29 years, then you can start dating any lady of your choice.

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