Hehehehehee...
Trust me, NL is the wrong place to ask this kinda question. You need real self esteem lessons and exploit your situation to your advantage.
Chinedu Ikedieze and Osita Iheme are very rich people today.

tolanibae:

Thanks my friend with the silly moniker

I remembered asking my mom, ''why do i look way younger than my age". "Consider it a blessing son". She said.

izzou:
I suspect you're an introvert, or let me say a shy guy. Don't be scared of approaching ladies. They don't bite

An concerning your physique, you don't know what God is doing for you

When you'll turn 55, but look 35, you'll remember this day you complained

Gbam

pictures na

sweetilicious:
Exactly.A GLASS OF WATER MELON JUICE MIXED WITH CARROT AND COCONUT FRUIT is all i have to offer you.I like your person.

Awwww..thank you dear.

guy forget .
your self esteem is your problem . see short kevin hart.
when you make money forget them go dey rush you . babes will rush you , guys will call you sIR .
Your self confidence is your problem, work on it

You welcome

decatalyst:


Awwww..thank you dear.

Me that is 32 but look 25 nko??

Am I complaining??

My friend go and make money and watch how girls will be fooling around just to get your attention.

Me of 32 nko n many ppl don't believe my age

czarina:
Gym. Go to the gym and even you no go believe yourself after just a few months of serious workout with correct diet.

what about height? don't u think too much muscles will make him look down to earth...

lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

Whatever bro really.. Like what sm1 said it’s what ur projecting to people they follow. Look at wizkid does he have beards, does he have a big stature, he’s not tall or fat bt he’s ok. It’s working with what u have and believing and loving urself while growing and developing.

We can’t all be thesame bt we are unique based on our personality and other stuff. Stop looking down on urself for no reason.

izzou:
I suspect you're an introvert, or let me say a shy guy. Don't be scared of approaching ladies. They don't bite

An concerning your physique, you don't know what God is doing for you

When you'll turn 55, but look 35, you'll remember this day you complained

This is the best comment. A day will arrive when you'll wish you were younger

You need to increase your self esteem by approaching ladies. Accept what you are and others will respect.

You'd be shocked that our eyes and body language convey what you feel about yourself. That's how people will judge and interact with you.

I know of a guy whose about 21yearsbut he looks 12. Yet he carries himself well and you'll just have to respect him.

So treat yourself the way you want people to treat you and you'll see improvements

You can start by changing your username from "lil" to mighty. Or own the lil and crown

lilmaydee

optimusprime2:

Trust me, it works to your advantage.
I wish you live abroad.

I don't look my age as well, I look 10 or 12 yrs younger... omo the awoof train passes, meal tickets, transit beta wey I don collect because I dey like teenager me sef don taya the matter, sometimes I dey tell clerk for train station say "I be adult" she go just shout tok say; "minors to the other line please" tooh, na im me go waka go pikin section carry 75% reduction ticket, Las las e dey ep my pocket.

But Enh, this side wey I dey, if pesin no hold body wella, na paedophile im fit turn even by mistake, because 14yr old pikin wey don big finish, go con dey follow pesin Upandan because im go feel say you be im mate & country people no go tok say "no follow huncu", na so wahala fit gas.

Hey bro, are you in Germany?

momove4real25:
Me of 32 nko n many ppl don't believe my age

Hmmnn!!!
So you too are 32?
Ah Don blivit girl, you are probably 36 or more.

But if it's true then you are really beautiful.

stica04:
I believe that must be in Igbo land a land of no
respect, all their certificate did not tell them that every human desire respect in respective of the person size, stature, face appearance, rich or poor

So of all the OP wrote, this is what you can offer as advice?
And you say you don't need help.

dgee1:



Hey bro, are you in Germany?

No. Holland.

lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.

in the voice of buna boi :make u no say everything wey u do de must comentate so everything wey u do make u de do am ur way

how do u wnt us to advise u now, dat we don't know how exactly u look huuhhh

EmpresFIDEL:
what about height? don't u think too much muscles will make him look down to earth...

I'm assuming that he's of average height. But then, some muscles on him would do a world of good for his confidence even if he's completely small-sized .

optimusprime2:

No. Holland.

Can I send you an email? I want to discuss about studying around there with you.

Go drink Hypo...
If u reach dere ask Baba God ? Any questions wey dey ur mind
U need mental therapy

ok

sweetilicious:
You welcome

Like you knew I could go out on a limb for that

dgee1:


Can I send you an email? I want to discuss about studying around there with you.

, how it works here is you contact the school first of all, I'm sure you must have heard about the system.
Find a school you want to go online and speak with them, it would definitely help if you have very good results as schools in Netherlands are particular about strong academic merit.
If you are accepted they will guide you on what to do.
That's all you need to know trust me.

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Chaaaai!!

hanty how is that our business?

This is one of the effects of chronic masturbation. sense wee nor kee me.

lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Grow a beard. a heavy beard

lilmaydee:
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Now I see. One thing you have to do is to accept yourself for who you are. "If there is no enemy within the enemy without can do you nothing".

How many people do you have to explain yourself to each time they look down on you because of your size?

Try and grow some tick skin about nagative remark, You have to be your number one cheerleader. Your perception about you has to be positive.

Work on yourself inside out, exercise it will help you to lighting up, and increase you mood.

Above, don't take anything personal. They're people of little stature who are doing well like the guy in the game of thrones and Aki and pawpaw.

I have made jokes of people because of their sizes, what I never knew was how much my words hurt them. Sorry for your pain.

optimusprime2:

, how it works here is you contact the school first of all, I'm sure you must have heard about the system.
Find a school you want to go online and speak with them, it would definitely help if you have very good results as schools in Netherlands are particular about strong academic merit.
If you are accepted they will guide you on what to do.
That's all you need to know trust me.

What kind of funding do they require, is it block account funding like in Germany? I'm actually seeking for a scholarship. With all sense of humility, I have a good academic record in my first degree but it seems the Nigerian system does not appreciate these things anymore. I want to ship out in a legit way but from a very humble home. Thanks