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If it were an unknown person, maybe I can get over it. But my friend? We're done.

the friendship and relationship ends immediately!!!

Pls stop tossing the gal back and forth. If you don't want her, just leave on time so that she can go back to your friend asap. Nonscence, a gal is sincere enough to tell you the mistake she made during the breakup, and just because of that you r thinking of quitting

LilMissFavvy:
Pls stop tossing the gal back and forth. If you don't want her, just leave on time so that she can go back to your friend asap. Nonscence, a gal is sincere enough to tell you the mistake she made during the breakup, and just because of that you r thinking of quitting

She shouldn't have done it with his friend. What if the guy decides to pretend like it's nothing wrong and still bangs her well again and dump her? And letting the acclaimed friend aware of it all. Will that friend take her back again?

She shouldn't have done what? But they were not together. She may not have known that they will settle their issues and come back dating again. If the guy decides to act like der is noting wrong n keeps her fr bang like you say, den he is evil. Den it means d gal did wrong to confess it. Den it means gals shd not always tell d truth.

Budline:
She shouldn't have done it with his friend. What if the guy decides to pretend like it's nothing wrong and still bangs her well again and dump her? And letting the acclaimed friend aware of it all. Will that friend take her back again?

She hit so close to home, either way you see it, it's totally wrong.

A friend??

I cannot forgive nor forget that kind of a thing

I will just waste her time and dump her later

LilMissFavvy:
She shouldn't have done what? But they were not together. She may not have known that they will settle their issues and come back dating again. If the guy decides to act like der is noting wrong n keeps her fr bang like you say, den he is evil. Den it means d gal did wrong to confess it. Den it means gals shd not always tell d truth.

Go and sit down jawe... What kind of a lady are you?

A lady is no longer dating you and she goes to your friend and they start bleeping each other.. How does it sound to a lady that has dignity?

I don't think I can even keep a friend that can do such a thing.. I don't move with silly friends

jackals:
Shut up Idiot. When she see a guy she like, she shoot the shot. she might be dating you, but she has to do the needy If You can't satisfy her urge of course, plus one man cant tap her wine.

this comment make me wanna turn gay fear women

Look at this idiot. You must be a fool at 40 to believe that the gal just went and slept with the guys friend. Are u so daft that you can't fathom that she must have dated the guys friend, and one thing led to another and they had sex. Stop quoting me, the kind of woman that I am shd be none of ur business, after all ppl like u always call every female u meet online olosho, and all oda shits, I got my opinion, u got urself, free me.

tosyne2much:
Go and sit down jawe... What kind of a lady are you?

A lady is no longer dating you and she goes to your friend and they start bleeping each other.. How does it sound to a lady that has dignity?

I don't think I can even keep a friend that can do such a thing.. I don't move with silly friends

LilMissFavvy:
Look at this idiot. You must be a fool at 40 to believe that the gal just went and slept with the guys friend. Are u so daft that you can't fathom that she must have dated the guys friend, and one thing led to another and they had sex. Stop quoting me, the kind of woman that I am shd be none of ur business, after all ppl like u always call every female u meet online olosho, and all oda shits, I got my opinion, u got urself, free me.

No need to insult one another

LilMissFavvy:
Look at this idiot. You must be a fool at 40 to believe that the gal just went and slept with the guys friend. Are u so daft that you can't fathom that she must have dated the guys friend, and one thing led to another and they had sex. Stop quoting me, the kind of woman that I am shd be none of ur business, after all ppl like u always call every female u meet online olosho, and all oda shits, I got my opinion, u got urself, free me.

You're an ass-hole since you want us to insult each other and you're not different from the lady described by the OP

Who am I to tell you to have some shame?.. Madam, you can go ahead opening your legs to every Tom, Dick and Harry.. Who cares?

bukkyemotions:
Nairaland guys, if you dated your babe for 7 years, and you guys broke up for 5 months, and then came back together enjoying the relationship, and one day she confessed to you that she slept with your friend when you guys broke up, but she never cheated when you guys dated. Will you continue the relationship?

Rule 1: Never re-Date an ex

Rule 2: Be willing to swallow whatever she must have done in between the breakup period if you FAIL to adhere to rule 1.

bukkyemotions:
Nairaland guys, if you dated your babe for 7 years, and you guys broke up for 5 months, and then came back together enjoying the relationship, and one day she confessed to you that she slept with your friend when you guys broke up, but she never cheated when you guys dated. Will you continue the relationship?

Madam you used the word confess , that illustrate that the lady in question is feeling guilty when as at the time it happen they were not together. Well if am the guy i would be very offended because i would not have dated her friend,

Also can u call a guy that knows very well u dated a lady for 7 years and still go on to have sex with her when u are not yet married to another person a friend and that ur so called friend did not tell u . You had to hear it from ur girl friend common that person is not a friend but a competitor

positivevibez:
this comment make me wanna turn gay fear women

So You don't know women have high libido, tho able to suppress it due to society labeling.

Only a dirty lady will fck her boyfriend's friend just because they are no longer together in a period of five month. Coded Oloshos everywhere.

LilMissFavvy:
Pls stop tossing the gal back and forth. If you don't want her, just leave on time so that she can go back to your friend asap. Nonscence, a gal is sincere enough to tell you the mistake she made during the breakup, and just because of that you r thinking of quitting

You mean the same mistake women make when they get pregnant for another man and trick their husbands into raising bastards?



Smh

tosyne2much:
Go and sit down jawe... What kind of a lady are you?

A lady is no longer dating you and she goes to your friend and they start bleeping each other.. How does it sound to a lady that has dignity?

I don't think I can even keep a friend that can do such a thing.. I don't move with silly friends

Don't talk to this ladies about dignity.


The dignity of Nigerian women ended with our mothers.

LilMissFavvy:
Bastard....if I may ask who began the insult? Why did you quote and abuse me? Always learn to mind your business. Did I not tell u earlier dt I don't gv a hoot abt wt u call me, cz am used to seeing losers like u, who hv got no achievement what so ever in life, derive pleasure coming online to call ladies name's. Stupid ass. Let me even ignore dis animal, I lack time trading words with ur kind.

From your tone of talking, it shows you have no dignity at all.. You're so rural and uncultured with your manner of talking..Why not take achievement out of it and let's stick to the purpose of the thread, you dumb head?

How do you even feel comfortable breaking up with a guy and then you go sleeping with his friend for ridiculous reasons? Doesn't that show you have no shame at all for seeing nothing wrong in it?

Ladies avoid or beware of the friends of your boyfriend or ex. It could lead to issues

Any guy that sleeps with his guy’s ex can easily slee with his guy’s wife. I don’t redate my ex, once we break up, that’s the end. We can be fvcking and don’t mind if you have a boyfriend but I can never date you again.

LilMissFavvy:
She shouldn't have done what? But they were not together. She may not have known that they will settle their issues and come back dating again. If the guy decides to act like der is noting wrong n keeps her fr bang like you say, den he is evil. Den it means d gal did wrong to confess it. Den it means gals shd not always tell d truth.

She shouldn't have dated/slept with the guy's friend no matter what, because that could make those guys lose their friendship, u know that right? Please I want an honest answer from u, how will you feel about your friend if she's dating your immediate ex? There are other guys out there!

bukkyemotions:
The main battle here in this debate is "The friend"... If it was another person, milder!!

exactly my thoughts, I hate it with passion wen someone derails from the truth. bunch of hypocrites.

MrBrownJay1:
it will depend on the type of r/ship and breakup we had, but having sex with my buddy is just a no no! so it will be the end of the r/ship AND the end of that friendship too.

***spit on floor***

correct guy,no mind those oloshos that can f**k ur friend,I have no idea why girls reason irrationally.
*spits*

LilMissFavvy:
Pls stop tossing the gal back and forth. If you don't want her, just leave on time so that she can go back to your friend asap. Nonscence, a gal is sincere enough to tell you the mistake she made during the breakup, and just because of that you r thinking of quitting

you call that a mistake? she must not have been in her right senses to make such a mistake.
why then does she want to go back to my friend wen the first time she did it,it was a "mistake"?
mistake my ass.

femmoy:
correct guy,no mind those oloshos that can f**k ur friend,I have no idea why girls reason irrationally.
*spits*

But we have good girls

olsome:
But we have good girls

good girls that would Bleep ur friend or what do u mean?

Good to be with very good people..

LilMissFavvy:
She shouldn't have done what? But they were not together. She may not have known that they will settle their issues and come back dating again. If the guy decides to act like der is noting wrong n keeps her fr bang like you say, den he is evil. Den it means d gal did wrong to confess it. Den it means gals shd not always tell d truth.

despite that,his friend shouldn't even be an option for her....it's disheartening.

jackals:
So You don't know women have high libido, tho able to suppress it due to society labeling.

stop using the word 'women'
speak for yourself