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Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by adanny01(m): 5:59pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
1Sharon: Are you for real? Are you a Nigerian? You sure dont sound like one. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by WhiteLavender(f): 7:05pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Sorry, I'm urhobo. You look like all these typical Yoruba who think that as long as you're not Hausa or Yoruba then you're Omo Igbo. 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:09pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
Angel246:Yes oh, I have retired now but the house girl can take over my mantle. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
WhiteLavender:You're Igbo jooor |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by WhiteLavender(f): 7:11pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Ignorant lots. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by NwaAmichi: 7:12pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
linasparkle:you sure it's the same email you used to register here that you are using? cos I can actually see your mails and I'm replying but if it's an alternate email you are using then drop it let me send a message |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by Nobody: 7:13pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
WhiteLavender: Thank you Chidinma! |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by 1Sharon(f): 11:05pm On Apr 06, 2019 |
adanny01: Yes I'm Nigerian. I'm glad that is the only part of my post you picked at. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:04am On Apr 07, 2019 |
tempest01:This is really scary. Luckily I have always informed her parents(mum) as her dad no send cos he is remarried and has a new family. I am sending her home. I will. And truthfully I really love her. She knows I do. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:06am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Anijay1212:Amen. Thanks Anijay |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:09am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Donjcco:. At 17? and in ss1? Even her parents would kill me if they hear. No need. She can go and keep them in her parents house. I already told her that when she is 21, I can even allow her bring him home and we can talk about him/them. But at 17? I doubt its a good thing to do. 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:10am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Biggers82:.Noted. Thanks. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:16am On Apr 07, 2019 |
aladinrin:Her mum knows and always caution her and tells me that its because I haven't beaten her and put pepper in her headquarters and all that nonsense. Her dad is remarried and had a new family and doesn't care if they exist or not. As it is now, I just learnt her mum is seriously sick, I pray she gets better. Her mother doesn't approve of it all all as her elder sister got preggy at 17 and had a baby at 18 though lived with the guy for a while and ran away so the mother doesn't approve of it at all. As it now, I just learnt the mother is seriously sick as I couldn't even speak with her on phone but even if its her dad, she would manage with. Its really hard for me to send her back cos she has no where to go really but she has pushed her luck too far. Doubt I can continue. Make shame no be my own. 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:19am On Apr 07, 2019 |
PotatoSalad:. Its well. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:20am On Apr 07, 2019 |
stubbornman:. This one don pass slap matter. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:26am On Apr 07, 2019 |
[quote author=wisdomkid post=77300194]I personally would advise you do these two things. 1. Tell her that if she gets pregnant, she is returning home with immediate effect. Even if it's 1:00AM in the morning, you're taking her to the park. 2. Call her parents or anyone in charge of her in the village and inform them of her altitude. Should incase something like this happens, they'll know you did your part. I sincerely wish her wisdom to do the right thing. But environment matters alot and the company she keeps. Is she going to government school? Is she keeping friends with irresponsible girls or street girls with questionable characters? I have told her that severally. 2. Her parent(mum) is in the know.. 3. Yes she is going to govt sch. 4. She used to keep but not anymore. She has one very good girl I really like, the girl comes to my house freely as she is highly responsible and hubby and I approve of her. The ones I don't approve of, I tell her. Funny enough, she tells me of all the nonsense some girls do and we talk about the consequences of their action. We are that open. 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:28am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Saviola247:. I hear. Thank you. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:30am On Apr 07, 2019 |
maklelemakukula:Thanks . I understand. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:31am On Apr 07, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:. GBAM |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:35am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Timisamd:. No wahala. I hear. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:37am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Intrepid01:. What a pity. Thanks for this true life story. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:41am On Apr 07, 2019 |
angelamina:. Intact this last long holidays, she travelled after Junior waec and didn't come back until September. I told her if she wants to come back, she woud have to ask her mum for tfare or find it anyhow to show that I didn't want her back ie she came on her own accord and that she would abide by the rules. She came back on her own and wrote me a lengthy letter of promises. Then here we are again. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:42am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Mariangeles:Noted! 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:45am On Apr 07, 2019 |
nextstep:I don advise tire. Interestingly she commented on the said Facebook pixs with my phone cos she spoilt her andriod phone. If she doesn't feel like my child, she can't use my phone freely like that. So mesef don try. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:51am On Apr 07, 2019 |
opsynea2j:Okay. I know a few of her friends. They don't come home if I sense they are bad friends, the good ones, visit |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 12:57am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Blacksavage:I will. Thanks |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 1:02am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Saviola247:l really laughed hard at joystick no go school. E hard me wella to send her away but I no get choice at all. She would have to go. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 1:25am On Apr 07, 2019 |
kkins25:I didn't day flogging is the solution. I said I flogged her. You think if I wanted to do something worse, I would be here asking questions? I don't have a problem with keeping male friends. She is in drama unit in church and there are guys there, they go for youth camp and there are guys there, they go for picnics and there are guys there. I have always said to her that there is nothing wrong with being friends with boys but she should know where to draw the line. Dating is what I am against. A 17 year old child having 5kids, does that sound like an achievement to you? Do you wish that for your own child? I can't post the pixs here for privacy reason. Your last paragraph just shows you didn't understand the post at all. May God forgive you. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 1:35am On Apr 07, 2019 |
She is going already. I have such a relationship with her that I expect her to tell me anything and she has told me soooooo much already. Didn't think she would secretly keep one. I hear her receive male calls and I don't bother. I have had salary northern maids before and they all had boyfriends that I knew of and nothing changed. One even visits hers on Sunday, sleeps there and comes back on Monday morning. Never disrespected us for once. I understood they are northerners and early marriage is their lot. Their parents/guardians approved of their boyfriends, so what's my own? This one, her parents disapproves, we disapprove and you are not standing on your feet yet. You should stay humble. If BF is what she wants, let her go and do it in her parents house...so whatever happens, they won't come and blame the innocent couple. Its very difficult to monitor these maids o....we had one, the only time she goes out is when she is sent to the market....and she is given time to return(highest 1hr or less, depending on what she is buying) but despite this tight leash, aunty still found a way to make bf and be going to give him 3points. How did I find out??...one day she brought her phone for me to help her check something on her messages, that's where I saw, "baby I really love you"...."baby, you were so sweet"....I said, "chineke, only market that this girl goes to, market that she is timed, she still found a way to get a BF and also going to give him things and things"...and most of these house helps, if u want to know if they have started doing like that with one uncle inside or outside, their attitude will change....they become bolder, disrespectful and start acting like they now have other options if you don't need them again or you worry them too much. They should better send that girl away....it might surprise you, she is dating an elderly guy in his late 20s or early 30s or even older....cos these days they are the ones that like small girls....plus the small small change he will be giving her.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 1:38am On Apr 07, 2019 |
andyanders:I will. Thanks |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 1:44am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Starz825:we pray in my home. She has a bible. We attend church programs. She is in drama unit in church. I don't know about force but I have tried to discourage enough from keeping bad friends. She doesn't have an android phone anymore, she also misplaced her small phone so for now she is phone less. I have educated her. Her elder sister is a good example. Took in at 17 and dropped out of school. I use that as an example for her everyday. I have over threaten sef. Thanks for you input. I appreciate. |
Re: My 18-Year-Old Maid And Her Boyfriends by lacapine: 1:46am On Apr 07, 2019 |
RealityShot:She will go. That's for sure. Thanks. |
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