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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SmellingAnus(m): 7:28am On Apr 15, 2019
dollytino4real:
guy
my dear... Another week of hustle... Make Baba God Bless The works of our hands... Make this week no see our end but make we see the end of this week and beyond na my prayer for us...
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by femi4: 8:10am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
Hello fellow nairalanders,
Please I need your help with this matter..


Last two weeks I met him at a party, he wasn't that handsome/good looking, but he really knew how to dress. I kept staring his way, he managed to catch me staring at him and he just smiled. That was when I decided to move away from where he was. I swiftly moved away to a more quieter area. I brought out my ear plugs, plugged them in, switched on my phone and went to wattpad. Two different guys came by and tried to woo me out but I didn't even lift my face up as I was deeply engaged in what I was reading. Time went by and I decided to start going. As I lifted my head up, I was surprised to see the guy I was staring at earlier that day. He brought out his hand and offered me a handshake. I kindly accepted it. He introduced himself as Kelvin. I told him mine. He later told me he would like to know a little more about me. We chatted for a while and then exchanged numbers. I went home that day expecting his call but he didn't call. After a few days he called and we exchanged pleasantries. He then decided we should go out on a date.
We picked a nice restaurant to hang out and ate. He ordered two plates of food and two bottles of smirnoff Ice. That part shocked me cos he didn't even ask what I wanted, I told him I don't take alcohol. He later changed it to maltina. We talked some more but I could tell he seemed nervous. He didn't tell me any intentions of dating me. It seemed as if he just wanted us to be friends. After the date I forgot about him.
I really don't think I like him but one night after vaping cann.abis, I started thinking about him. I thought it was just the herb doing its work but I then noticed even after the high suspended I still thought about him. The next day I called him and told him we should meet up. We met and we talked and then he kissed me. I expected a gentle kiss but he kissed me hard to the point of arousal. He continued kissing and stared sliding his hands towards my hips and then proceeded upwards to my bre.ast. I noticed I was already dripping wet and my nipples were becoming hard. He removed his lips and trailed kisses down my neck while intentionally brushing his hands on my left nipple. When he tongued my ear I shivered with pleasure and then his phone rang. That really seemed to turn me off as I was embarrassed by the wetness in between my legs. I lied to him that I had to go home and didn't even heed his plea to escort me home.
Right now I am confused because he didn't say if he wanted to date me or if he was just looking for sex.
He has called me several times but I haven't been picking his calls. I talked to my closest friend and she said maybe he was releasing his frustration with the kiss but I am thinking otherwise,
I've been single for some time now and I really want a serious relationship.
Should I still go ahead and date him??

P. S mature advice only!!.
cc : Dominique rocktation farano
You dey do cannabis yet you don't drink.

Anyway, he sees your vulnerability and he's trying to taje advantage of that.

Sade Adu call them SMOOTH OPERATOR

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 8:16am On Apr 15, 2019
femi4:
You dey do cannabis yet you don't drink.

Anyway, he sees your vulnerability and he's trying to taje advantage of that.

Sade Adu call them SMOOTH OPERATOR
I don't drink he doesn't know I vape. So what's your point?
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by femi4: 8:19am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
I don't drink he doesn't know I vape. So what's your point?
That you can't do one and not do the other
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 8:24am On Apr 15, 2019
femi4:
That you can't do one and not do the other
you can actually
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by femi4: 8:24am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
you can actually
Its quite strange sha
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 8:31am On Apr 15, 2019
femi4:
Its quite strange sha
Its tempting but if you don't want pot belly you'd do well to avoid it.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by femi4: 8:33am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
Its tempting but if you don't want pot belly you'd do well to avoid it.
It depends of the body type. If you know your body well and it ll affect you, you can run away from it
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 8:37am On Apr 15, 2019
femi4:
It depends of the body type. If you know your body well and it ll affect you, you can run away from it
i know right. Not like I haven't tasted alcohol. Its just not my thing. Same with smoking. I vape instead
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Rockyrascal(m): 9:20am On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
South African nt eastern.
Dual nationality. Nigerian also
your encounter with that gentle man was just lust! Maybe physical attraction or do you believe in love at first sight? tongue

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by lilianofentse(f): 10:08am On Apr 15, 2019
Rockyrascal:
your encounter with that gentle man was just lust! Maybe physical attraction or do you believe in love at first sight? tongue
nope. I've removed him from my mind. I think that's the best thing to do
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by dollytino4real(f): 7:53pm On Apr 15, 2019
SmellingAnus:
my dear... Another week of hustle... Make Baba God Bless The works of our hands... Make this week no see our end but make we see the end of this week and beyond na my prayer for us...
ok thanks
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Fathertony: 8:49pm On Apr 15, 2019
SmellingAnus:
my dear... Another week of hustle... Make Baba God Bless The works of our hands... Make this week no see our end but make we see the end of this week and beyond na my prayer for us...
with this kind of offensive moniker, you praying to God?
Some Nigerian Christians sha
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Mckenzy99(m): 8:54pm On Apr 15, 2019
lilianofentse:
nope. I've removed him from my mind. I think that's the best thing to do

can I have your contact.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by PaulAris: 8:59pm On Apr 15, 2019
SaucyBenks:
I can boldly tell you that guy has a girlfriend... He wants that which is meaty in between those legs... Seem you lack control n if this is true, you should have your meetings in public. Prolly a restaurant or something.
Somethings are just beyond our control brah!
Except through exceptional practice, we learn to master the art of control.
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by joceey(m): 9:26pm On Apr 15, 2019
You want advice but you re using abusive words thats wrong.....Let me be honest with you just ignore the guy for now and take your time to know more about him.Good luck

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by annayawchee: 10:50pm On Apr 15, 2019
Ise owo kanabis niyen.... Aye e ti ta angry

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SmellingAnus(m): 7:08am On Apr 16, 2019
Fathertony:
with this kind of offensive moniker, you praying to God?
Some Nigerian Christians sha
even David wey Fvck another man wife pray to God... Even Peter wey deny Jesus three times still pray to God... I Never Fvck another man wife. .. So why I no go pray to God grin...

Besides everybody has a smelling anus especially after defecation grin
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 8:26am On Apr 16, 2019
united442:


thesame name of the guy who stole ma babegrin...n my ex latter discover he has 3 extra babe and one was pregnant for himgrin

LMAO

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 8:36am On Apr 16, 2019
You're just lusting after the guy. Maybe you should allow d guy to fvck u real good. Daz what you need.

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by UniQue84: 8:52am On Apr 16, 2019
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
You're just lusting after the guy. Maybe you should allow d guy to fvck u real good. Daz what you need.
hehehe in her mind/head she has slept with that guy countless times, and she already made up her mind and there is nothing any of us we say that can change that..

She nu even want rls she just bringing this up so to make us feel she is the good girl type...she also wants to fvck the guy even more.

Fear ladies, they like fvck more than guys but are very good with pretending. She know say I they talk truth, I even they feel say that day the guy kpansh am or at the time of this comment she don go do come already. cheesy grin

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 8:58am On Apr 16, 2019
UniQue84:
hehehe in her mind/head she has slept with that guy countless times, and she already made up her mind and there is nothing any of us we say that can change that..

She nu even want rls she just bringing this up so to make us feel she is the good girl type...she also wants to fvck the guy even more.

Fear ladies, they like fvck more than guys but are very good with pretending. She know say I they talk truth, I even they feel say that day the guy kpansh am or at the time of this comment she don go do come already. cheesy grin

Make she just tell d guy to drill her oil well real hard while vapin cann*bis

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by UniQue84: 9:24am On Apr 16, 2019
OkpaNsukkaisBae:


Make she just tell d guy to drill her oil well real hard while vapin cann*bis
grin cheesy grin cheesy

She nu knw but forming wan finish her ...

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Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 9:26am On Apr 16, 2019
UniQue84:
grin cheesy grin cheesy

She nu knw but forming wan finish her ...

Lol... Good morning
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by dollytino4real(f): 12:33pm On Apr 16, 2019
SmellingAnus:
even David wey Fvck another man wife pray to God... Even Peter wey deny Jesus three times still pray to God... I Never Fvck another man wife. .. So why I no go pray to God grin...

Besides everybody has a smelling anus especially after defecation grin
y people dislike dis ur moniker sef
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SmellingAnus(m): 12:38pm On Apr 16, 2019
dollytino4real:
y people dislike dis ur moniker sef
many persons like the person behind the moniker,. Na that one importanter pass grin am... But na life na... No be everybody go like person or a particular thing
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by dollytino4real(f): 12:43pm On Apr 16, 2019
SmellingAnus:
many persons like the person behind the moniker,. Na that one importanter pass grin am... But na life na... No be everybody go like person or a particular thing
guy, I dey miss u
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SmellingAnus(m): 12:46pm On Apr 16, 2019
dollytino4real:
guy, I dey miss u
hahahahahbno miss me too much... When guy hear say woman miss am... Na fvck dey cum him mind... If you miss me too much na Belle you go carry o... Lol... No mind Sha... How your side, hope say bad boys no dey disturb u
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by dollytino4real(f): 12:55pm On Apr 16, 2019
SmellingAnus:
hahahahahbno miss me too much... When guy hear say woman miss am... Na fvck dey cum him mind... If you miss me too much na Belle you go carry o... Lol... No mind Sha... How your side, hope say bad boys no dey disturb u
no be small tin o, thief dey wori people here
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by Dalexicographer(m): 5:43pm On Apr 16, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Your story is mad erotic. It got me really wet.
And it got me hard too embarassed

Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by SmellingAnus(m): 5:56pm On Apr 16, 2019
dollytino4real:
no be small tin o, thief dey wori people here
hahaha
Re: Help!! I Need To Stop Thinking About Him. by zexy2030(m): 6:11pm On Apr 16, 2019
my love who that guy, snatching u from me..he must be a joker, I guess u were just Hot and he smart enough to notice ur horniness, that's why he came closer

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