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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Topmaike007(m): 3:26pm On Apr 19, 2019
TemmyT002:


Only invest in yourself and your wife alone. Hmm. Spot on.
yeah The guy is right

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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Topmaike007(m): 3:27pm On Apr 19, 2019
izeksblog:
Bro leave her Boko Haram will soon kill her soldier.

But finally sha, you no try at all, you were both her employer and her houseboy. U pay school fees, rent house, take care of her financial medemede and u still wash pant join am. Would have reported you to my father if he was still alive.
lolz
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:29pm On Apr 19, 2019
Tallesty1:
The guy is a fool. He's what my uncle calls onomatopoeia idiot.

Investing emotionally or financially in a woman who isn't officially your wife is foolish but some guys won't listen.


Take me on a ride like this and will track you down and cut your life short.

Most men do not understand women, and what they find attractive. Generally, men let money to do the job of what it takes to be a man. By spending money, some think their duty and quality as a man is accomplished, ignoring the attitude and inherent expression of their masculinity.

Washing her pant, and enslaving himself to her made him a weak man. He is a classical "beta Male". She will only need his resources not him, and get him dumped the moment he outlived his usefulness. Women generally are not hardwired to find such traits attractive. The only thing he probably has is money, something external. Unless she has no option to optimize her hypergamy, she will flee when the opportunity show up. His suffering is based on his ignorance of women and their behaviour. Unfortunately, he wont be the last victim.

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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by imitateMe(m): 3:31pm On Apr 19, 2019
Woman only love and respect guys that don't care about them. Learn bro
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by geedot: 3:31pm On Apr 19, 2019
SageMK:
I don't pity him one bit.

He had his chance for 5years to tie her down but nah!

He had the money to take care of her bills and even sponsor her education so why the heck didn't he put a ring on her asap since he cared so much?!

What a foól.

The fact that she's engaged, it doesn't make her yours
Even if you pay all her bills, it doesn't make her yours.

A flower will always attract other insects!

This is an eye opener to guys out there.
Only invest in yourself and your wife alone.


Wives also divorces! Just saying.

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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:37pm On Apr 19, 2019
SageMK:
I don't pity him one bit.

He had his chance for 5years to tie her down but nah!

He had the money to take care of her bills and even sponsor her education so why the heck didn't he put a ring on her asap since he cared so much?!

What a foól.

The fact that she's engaged, it doesn't make her yours
Even if you pay all her bills, it doesn't make her yours.

A flower will always attract other insects!

This is an eye opener to guys out there.
Only invest in yourself and your wife alone.



Bro, you are under the assumption that marriage will deter her from being unfaithful. She may seek for divorce, cheat, conceive a bastard child etc. She is just the wrong girl, he made a mistake not observing her over 5 years, read the signs and evacuate when necessary.

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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:40pm On Apr 19, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Now she has left him broken for another woman to deal with. This one done turn alpha male straight. Na the next babe to suffer am.

How the next babe go take suffer am? No be alpha men women want again ? As in, men wey get their life together and shine in their masculinity? Unless you mean say the next babe no go fit scam am like the previous, then I see the sense.

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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Donjazzy12(m): 3:41pm On Apr 19, 2019
chinambusay:
A Nigerian man took to Facebook to lament as his girlfriend of 5 years, called off their wedding for a military man after years of paying her bills. 

The Nigerian man who called out his girlfriend who called off their wedding for a relationship with a military man, recounted how the girl's mother entrusted her to his care after her father died. He further disclosed that their wedding was called off after the girl went for her NYSC. 

He wrote; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/19/nigerian-man-laments-as-girlfriend-calls-off-their-wedding-for-military-man/


Big Fool! You do domestic chores for a girl, you are cursed with foolishness!
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 19, 2019
chinambusay:
A Nigerian man took to Facebook to lament as his girlfriend of 5 years, called off their wedding for a military man after years of paying her bills. 

The Nigerian man who called out his girlfriend who called off their wedding for a relationship with a military man, recounted how the girl's mother entrusted her to his care after her father died. He further disclosed that their wedding was called off after the girl went for her NYSC. 

He wrote; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/19/nigerian-man-laments-as-girlfriend-calls-off-their-wedding-for-military-man/




you pay bill to a yahoo girl for 5 years sorry my brother you have been scammed, either you report to EFCC or Oracle for refund solution. Hope you bleep some share, don't tell ours that five years your waiting to bleep on wedding night. at the other hand she may be destine to be window and God save your life, I sense the soldier may soon send to Sambisa and we know next news. they have power on innocent civilians.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by pansophist(m): 3:45pm On Apr 19, 2019
luminouz:
Women need men to be men,not women like them. Women know what they want, contrary to popular opinion..and its never a sissy!!

#Luminouznuggets

You get it.

Women seek strength in men. Back then, men like him would have been killed by a saber toothed tiger, or the first to die to war. He exhibited the traits of a weak man, and it's very unattractive. His expression of washing pant and treating her like his little child (which from his narration, seems like he wants to be applauded for) is an attraction killer to women. As a man, I wont even respect men that does such, I'll see him as an idiot. He got served, I feel sorry for him, but I hope he step up his game and not be a whimp.

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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by onadana: 3:49pm On Apr 19, 2019
Tallesty1:
The guy is a fool. He's what my uncle calls onomatopoeia idiot.

Investing emotionally or financially in a woman who isn't officially your wife is foolish but some guys won't listen.


Take me on a ride like this and will track you down and cut your life short.

He couldn't get her pregnant,yet he wants returns on investment.He should stop weaning that she cheated him,she honestly didn't.He took enough juice from in-between those legs,can he return them.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by otokx(m): 3:51pm On Apr 19, 2019
Uyiii:
UGANDA STORYgrin! For those who don't know, a Uganda story is a synonym for a fake/made-up story.

Yeh, true eventualities similar to this story has occurred in time past and even still occurring, but this particular story is fake.

The pioneer of this very interesting story is just seeking for attention garnished with insults and trolls, read between the lines Fellaz, the story is fake.
So I won't fall for the trap to troll him, because if I curse am ehn, make I just restgrin!

God bless you
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Enny2013(f): 3:56pm On Apr 19, 2019
Eeeyah!!! Pele...
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by luminouz(m): 4:11pm On Apr 19, 2019
pansophist:


You get it.

Women seek strength in men. Back then, men like him would have been killed by a saber toothed tiger, or the first to die to war. He exhibited the traits of a weak man, and it's very unattractive. His expression of washing pant and treating her like his little child (which from his narration, seems like he wants to be applauded for) is an attraction killer to women. As a man, I wont even respect men that does such, I'll see him as an idiot. He got served, I feel sorry for him, but I hope he step up his game and not be a whimp.
Now ur the kind of guy OP's gf would fall for.... A real nigga
Very apt!!!
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Rubbiish(m): 4:11pm On Apr 19, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Chai.
I can feel his pains.

Ladies, there is no reason to do this to any man. I believe we all know what we want out of a relationship, except if there is an unexpected occurrence.

So, she most likely knew this guy wasn't who she wanted to settle down with in the long run, but she led him on. That itself is wickedness and if a man did such, the "men are scum" chants will be loud.

Now she has left him broken for another woman to deal with. This one done turn alpha male straight. Na the next babe to suffer am.
The bold is not true
She wanted to settle down with him, but felt she saw something better, this 98% of you women would do.
98% of women will act same way if in her shoes, including u.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Sexyolori(f): 4:16pm On Apr 19, 2019
my brother, sorry for the way things turned out but before you play the role of sponsor to any lady whom you have intention of marrying later, make her a wife first or else you are simply helping the less privileged.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Sexyolori(f): 4:19pm On Apr 19, 2019
my brother, sorry for the way things turned out but before you play the role of sponsor to any lady whom you intend to marry later, make her a wife first or you are simply helping the less privileged.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by fastlane84: 4:23pm On Apr 19, 2019
grin
Lordvaryx:
Bokoharam will avenge for you Bruv.
Lordvaryx:
Bokoharam will avenge for you Bruv.
Lordvaryx:
Bokoharam will avenge for you Bruv.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by GreenArrow2: 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2019
No worry. Dem go kill am for Sambisa.

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Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by poseidon12: 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2019
Mugu, you just dodged a bullet.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Oddsman(m): 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2019
Tallesty1:
The guy is a fool. He's what my uncle calls onomatopoeia idiot.

Investing emotionally or financially in a woman who isn't officially your wife is foolish but some guys won't listen.


Take me on a ride like this and will track you down and cut your life short.

That woman if a wife can still do worse
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by poseidon12: 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2019
MariaLavina:
Let me get this straight, her mom handed her over to you and you didn't deem it right to hand over the girl's dowry to her mom? What are you? A caretaker? You think you own her that way ? Lol make I no talk lipsrsealed



Men don't sponsor a lady through school with the expectation of engaging her later. Marry her first!

Well said.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by mokane28: 4:46pm On Apr 19, 2019
Nairalanders una no go kee me hahahahaha
Lordvaryx:
Bokoharam will avenge for you Bruv.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by powerblaze(m): 4:47pm On Apr 19, 2019
And you can't even complain well, make the man no beat you join
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 19, 2019
wen u involve urself in the training and upkeep of a girl pending wen she graduates for marriage dis is wat u get.if u can sponsor a girl wit d intent of marriage then jus clear matter with her then marry her as u sponsoring her.no need to wait for graduation.anyway i can never involve myself in this type of arrangement.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 19, 2019
MariaLavina:




Men don't sponsor a lady through school with the expectation of engaging her later. Marry her first!
exactly
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Bluemoon2409(f): 5:18pm On Apr 19, 2019
TheFacelessMan:
angry

Sorry man!

This reminds me of a gal who was dating a military officer stationed at the Borno / Yobe border.

While he was busy pumping BokoHaram boys with bullets, i was active pumping Halima with my sperm.

Brigadier Dogonyaro was using a silencer, i was using a condom too on my gun.


One day she invited me over for a steamy session of babymaking.

Just as she was about to climax, i was interrupted mid-stroke by the dog Jackie barking furiously. angry

[img]https://media./images/6e184688a2caafff33837f67d579feae/tenor.gif[/img]

That useless dog just wouldn't let me be! Ever since i intentionally ate a whole chicken 10metres from him and refused to share. angry


I angrily drew the curtains back and BARKED at the dog " what the fvck is it ?"

My question was answered by the stern visage of Brig. Dogonyaro.


His face was cruel with a knife scar traversing the entire length of his face. His complexion could be best described as DARK BLACK shocked

If he told you that he ever skinned a baby alive, it was so easy to believe.


From a distance of 20 meters, our eyes met. He smiled like a shark. All his teeth seemed like CANINES grin


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Everything happened at once : My blood froze and i lost my erection. My heartbeat increased 3-fold.

As i heard his rapidly advancing footsteps, i heard 2 female voices. Halima was screaming at the top of her lungs and the 2nd voice was .......

MINE!!!!! sad sad shocked shocked shocked

" Jesus please save me ..... i will always be good " I was busy making promises to God, anything to save me!

I forgot about being a gentleman and snatched up the bedsheets to cover me. I ran to the window with my shoulders first. It wouldnt budge ! shocked

I tried again and again. As i was trying to break down the window, Dogonyaro was trying to bust in through the door


By the 4th try, i could see Dogonyaro's fingers trying to reach inside .... i came to a terrible realization lipsrsealed undecided

I had to go to him to escape. "Are you crazy?" I am sure you are asking right now.






































I didn't have sufficient momentum in the small room to break down the window! Did you expect me to think fast under those conditions?

I ran towards the door just as the Dogon was half inside, took 3 steps forward and hit the window feet first as he grabbed me from behind! shocked shocked shocked shocked.

He was able to grab a fistful of the bedsheets and pulled.


The sheets came away in his hands and i burst through the window, nakked as the day i was born.


I was soaring in the air like a bird. Very happy! "I had escaped" grin grin grin grin grin.

I looked downwards and i saw the entire field below was covered with ....








































Extremely sharp thorns of a rose bed as far as the eyes could see. cry


To be continued......



Omg
Lmao[color=#006600][/color] grin
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by emkz: 5:25pm On Apr 19, 2019
Bros, I wont criticize you for being called what some commenters have referred to as "beta-males', whatever the hell that means.

Whether you washed her pants (or her pants washed you) or you treated her like a queen; if a girl doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. If you like, screw her over 360 degrees like some folks are saying; if she no like you, she no like you.

If she truly liked you, she (and no decent girl) would let her man wash her pants
.

My best advise, move on. Many of us have been there and we learnt our lessons. We try not to talk about it because it exposes our failings. The respect you get from people is linearly related to the respect you give to yourself. Personal story: I took a girlfriend from someone, and I thought I was champion. I collected my share and someone took her from me and right now, he thinks he's champion. The loop continues...

Bottomline, a woman who is sensible would be content. A woman who is disciplined would not lead any man on just for the benefits, especially when you have made your intentions known. Right now, she thinks the military guy is the best. Give her three months and she'd be looking outside again because she's greedy. In other words, dont make a girl who is good enough as a concubine into what she's not wired for. You don't need a greedy woman as wife.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 5:26pm On Apr 19, 2019
My broda move on. Your destiny is great. Bear no grudge but be rest assured that ALMIGHTY GOD WILL REWARD YOUR GOOD DEEDS.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Nobody: 5:28pm On Apr 19, 2019
Rubbiish:

The bold is not true
She wanted to settle down with him, but felt she saw something better, this 98% of you women would do.
98% of women will act same way if in her shoes, including u.

Including me?
Including your mama nko?
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Cityguy: 5:28pm On Apr 19, 2019
imitateMe:
Woman only love and respect guys that don't care about them. Learn bro
Strangely this appears to be true. The sad part is that they wouldn't let you rest despite the fact they they have no use for you other than as a comforter or 'listening' friend. They behave ambivalently towards you: you would think they are just yet to get to that level of feeling for you not knowing there's not even a spark to it.
Re: "My Fiancée Called Off Our Wedding, Dumped Me For A Military Man She Just Met" by Gofwane(m): 5:29pm On Apr 19, 2019
Lordvaryx:
Bokoharam will avenge for you Bruv.
cheesy cheesy cheesy

Bruv, u wicket gaan oh!

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