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A similar reply i gave to sum1 a week ago.. Una no dy eva learn.

Paying a girl's school fee is
somethin u shud'nt risk. Bro, use
ur money to invest or epp ur
family. As lng as u neva marry her, no be only u get d gal. Just lyk banana, may sense fall on
u.

Her aunty is nt even supportive sef. The gal in kweshon seems disrespectful, tueh.

Guy, u re datin ursef, u ar d only one in dt reltnshp. If nt dat u re sponsorin ha. She 4 leave u tey tey.. Wait 4 her to graduate, u'll c ha true sef

Op

PORNeliusHUBson:
A similar reply i gave to sum1 a week ago.. Una no dy eva learn.

Paying a girl's school fee is
somethin u shud'nt risk. Bro, use
ur money to invest or epp ur
family. As lng as u neva marry her, no be only u get d gal. Just lyk banana, may sense fall on
u.

Her aunty is nt even supportive sef. The gal in kweshon seems disrespectful, tueh.

Guy, u re datin ursef, u ar d only one in dt reltnshp. If nt dat u re sponsorin ha. She 4 leave u tey tey.. Wait 4 her to graduate, u'll c ha true sef

am not sponsoring her, her parents are
Her fees are paid by them and other educational cost are met by them

ifex370:
Op

Your contribution might go a long way

OP YOU ARE YOUR OWN PROBLEM

If love is blind, then marriage is an eye opener.

Divinely67:
am not sponsoring her, her parents are Her fees are paid by them and other educational cost are met by them

issokay... I read rubbish abi? Continue wit ur lyf sha. E no concern me. #QUOTEmeNOT

Lol

ifex370:
Op

am charging it

SUPERPACK:
If love is blind, then marriage is an eye opener.

Love is Blind bt marriage dy see road. Person wey get two eyes wan close en eyes cross express road. Lets c hw it goes.....

my brother run for your life oooo, find one hundred level babe and start afresh period.

Chidonc:
my brother run for your life oooo, find one hundred level babe and start afresh period.

lol

You already know what to do and you’re still here asking for contributions.. lol
Seems, your gf is tired of the relationship than let her be. Never beg anybody to be in your life abeg, as per her project, you don try your best and let her do the remaining cus I don’t understand.
This issue is simple, you’re the one giving yourself unnecessary stress.

Op you seem emotional and considerate
I will advise you to complete the final chapter send it to her then lock up just let her be

I wish I could find sm1 like you. Try giving her a chance and see if she changes. She might be going through emotional problems. Don't be too quick to judge her.

This might sound selfish but bro

Your happiness should be your first priority..... Nobody should make u feel otherwise..... Better leave that girl for good and save yourself all the trouble

hahaha...

o.p listen to me and listen very carefully..

first, you love that babe so much and from your comment, with the call aspect about ignoring each other for a week, i can sense you are the man in the relationship, controlling her and controlling your feelings/ emotions towards her at thesame time..kudos.!

o.p see,that babe has an "i don't care" attitude,if in case you dnt know(i may be wrong though)..and it might drag you down along in future if you are still loyal to her or still with her of which i know you will cause you love her.,dnt be surprise she may not even be reasoning a future with you self

o.p lemme tell you, that babe isn't cheating "Yet",but i can bet my balls that she's going to cheat, 101% sure..why?
*you are to nice and kind for her,
*you are to available for her,
*she knows you love her so much and you can do the undoable for her, thereby using it to toy with your feeling and emotions you have for her,cause even after doing some shitty stuff,she knows you are still going to forgive her,
*you sacrifices way to much for her, with your energy? time? resources?..its way too much man,

i understand your love for her,i understand you want things to be right with her, but man, frankly speaking from other people's experience, i can foresee a bad end..chances are she's just using you as a step stone to her success..
her family knowing about you,your relationship with her and the marriage stuff isn't yet enough for you to sacrifices alot on her..IT ISN'T oooo!

op you know her better than i do,do you think if things is now okay with her, like no more carry over, project Done, graduated, financially stabled,with rich dude coming her way, o.p do you think she will still look your way? or think twice about you and all what you passed through for her when things were rough with her??

op, op ,op!!! i pity you

all what i said above may be wrong though,but i insist you keep it in mind and apply caution to that babe matter with her aunty problem on the other side..

i may edit and add more adv latter

Bro, you are beginning to be too nice and therefore your value is reducing everyday, see what makes petrol to have more monetary value than water even though water is important the answer is SCARCITY, you just too available for her and her challenges leaving yours behind and that's wrong.

This will make her feel you cannot do without her, and it's making her lazy, disrespectful, not been responsible cos you are taking over as the general overseer.

Take a chill pill face and plan your own life for the now, I will advice you take a break from the relationship to sort yourself out .

Peace .

I sympathize with you. You are only datng yourself.man has suffered. Naso I write project for someone who later said I no de her class. She is still single.
My guy no kill yourself for anyone,

Bro let me tell u something, that girl is using u as a steping stone, once she is done with her education u re gunner, and u we be walking alone, let me share my story with u, i meet a girl some yrs back and i help her gt admission in my skul, knowing that she ve achieve her aim she told her frnd that i'm pathetic, lol and behold the adm list was faulty and the school cancelled everything she started begging me knowing that she cant sort herself out, after i accepr her back and the schoool ve resolve everything and she was re-admitted, after six months this girl start telling me that she is nt the same mary that i knw before, guy dont sarcrifice for any girl

Just like i said before, everyday on Nairaland new Motherphuckas ask questions previous Motherphuckas v once asked n got a decent reply...

Hector09:
Bro let me tell u something, that girl is using u as a steping stone, once she is done with her education u re gunner, and u we be walking alone, let me share my story with u, i meet a girl some yrs back and i help her gt admission in my skul, knowing that she ve achieve her aim she told her frnd that i'm pathetic, lol and behold the adm list was faulty and the school cancelled everything she started begging me knowing that she cant sort herself out, after i accepr her back and the schoool ve resolve everything and she was re-admitted, after six months this girl start telling me that she is nt the same mary that i knw before, guy dont sarcrifice for any girl

hahahahahahahahahahaha....same thing happen to me

united442:


hahahahahahahahahahaha....same thing happen to me

bro is nt a laughen matter, see luv is for the poor and for the weak when a man ve money he can buy the best girl on earth

Woe unto weak people. A 27 year old man wey suppose focus on how to hammer. The aunties have told u d koko u dey block am from rich suitors lol. Mumu guy

she de allow u use ur hand play urself 10/10

united442:
hahaha...

o.p listen to me and listen very carefully..

first, you love that babe so much and from your comment, with the call aspect about ignoring each other for a week, i can sense you are the man in the relationship, controlling her and controlling your feelings/ emotions towards her at thesame time..kudos.!

o.p see,that babe has an "i don't care" attitude,if in case you dnt know(i may be wrong though)..and it might drag you down along in future if you are still loyal to her or still with her of which i know you will cause you love her.,dnt be surprise she may not even be reasoning a future with you self

o.p lemme tell you, that babe isn't cheating "Yet",but i can bet my balls that she's going to cheat, 101% sure..why?
*you are to nice and kind for her,
*you are to available for her,
*she knows you love her so much and you can do the undoable for her, thereby using it to toy with your feeling and emotions you have for her,cause even after doing some shitty stuff,she knows you are still going to forgive her,
*you sacrifices way to much for her, with your energy? time? resources?..its way too much man,

i understand your love for her,i understand you want things to be right with her, but man, frankly speaking from other people's experience, i can foresee a bad end..chances are she's just using you as a step stone to her success..
her family knowing about you,your relationship with her and the marriage stuff isn't yet enough for you to sacrifices alot on her..IT ISN'T oooo!

op you know her better than i do,do you think if things is now okay with her, like no more carry over, project Done, graduated, financially stabled,with rich dude coming her way, o.p do you think she will still look your way? or think twice about you and all what you passed through for her when things were rough with her??

op, op ,op!!! i pity you

all what i said above may be wrong though,but i insist you keep it in mind and apply caution to that babe matter with her aunty problem on the other side..

i may edit and add more adv latter

most useful to me thanks all for input and contributions

lilianofentse:
I wish I could find sm1 like you. Try giving her a chance and see if she changes. She might be going through emotional problems. Don't be too quick to judge her.

give me a shot will make it count

You dey write project for her, na you send her go school? Instead of you to collect better money from if you have enough time to write the project, you’re there fooling yourself.. Go and start hustling for your future mumu boy, time no dey again o.

CyberWolf:
You dey write project for her, na you send her go school? Instead of you to collect better money from if you have enough time to write the project, you’re there fooling yourself.. Go and start hustling for your future mumu boy, time no dey again o.

thanks for your advise but do you know me, did i tell you am broke? Or that i dont have anything doing?
This is just a piece of my moment not my life
Am not doing bad bro and hustling is part of me just that i was creating time to give my best to her education once more thank you