Biglittlelois:
Cos I'm tired of giving my all and it doesn't work out.... I'm think of leaning towards things the Nigerian society frown at, for my peace of mind.

Little Lois! We Suppose Don Marry Now o

wunaESQ:
no money . plus good girls de hard to find

Very poor reason

wifeesnatcher:



who are the we

All NLers now!

dating and marriage for any man in this society is basically voluntary slavery,Gyow

IFEOLUWAKRIZ:


God bless you Broke people like us have no say here. Make I go hustle first.

Guy leave matter ooooo. There are broke guys out there who run shows more than the so-called big boiz. I dey tells you... Who no know, no know sha... Smh

IntrovertedK:
Someone asked me this question about two days ago and i have been thinking about it for real.

Like why am i single?

I don't even know obviously.

So let's yarn. The question is for sane minds though.
Thanks

I've been waiting for this question. now this the answer.
As a single lady with SSCE certificate, trying your best to get a job but job is not coming... automatically you are broke,no money in your account and family to assist no boyfriend,no friends.i have a skill but I don't have money to eat talkless of trying to get a shop to render your service in exchange of money.
I live in a lonely place I stay indoor all day after submitting my CV everywhere I could. I don't even have money to go out because if I do I might starve to death.
No guy is willing to date a broke lady. because they believe they have nothing to offer. it's only when guys are broke they loud it they don't have a girlfriend because no money. What should a lady say in that condition as well?
so if I eventually get a job now a guy will come with fake love and you will expect me to love him back?
I'm not sure.
if I can't find a true love now.
forget it when I get rich. you will only understand this if you are in my shoes... stay blessed everyone.

dmcdad:

You can actually run alot of shows without spending much. Maybe just tfare. I'm telling you... You just need to learn the art. Trust me!

Bro I’m using iPhone7 plus once dey see the phone dey will assume I am fucking rich

tohyorsih2:

All NLers now!

noh noh, na private something

tohyorsih2:

All NLers now!

noh noh, na private something

IntrovertedK:
you Nigerians self. Is there anywhere dating doesn't require sacrifice(s) or you one of the few suffering inferiority complex that believes everything is perfect in the west?

in d uk where I did my masters,ladies pay their Bill wen u take dem outing some will even pay for both of u like it means nothing but it can't happen in dis country

kunkelhanspeter:


Bro I’m using iPhone7 plus once dey see the phone dey will assume I am fucking rich

Gbam! You use that one run the show. Before them go know say e no too dey, them don collect wella...

Na packaging bro.

I always claim I am broke ooooo. That's my style. But I work and I pay my bills very well. I also sell phones and Laptops and even at that I complain I don't have. I use Note 8 and iPhone X, but na me go dey cry pass say money no dey. At the end, na just tfare go end matter. Although, I am not in any relationship, but that one no mean say man no dey run shows wella. It's an art bruv... Trust me!

Although admittedly I would love to be in a relationship or have something serious, but the ladies are just nothing to write home about. So, we keep things straight.

CuddleBear:
you mean lesbo

Nope.

IntrovertedK:
when boke is the best time to find love. You'd be sure she believes in you, your dreams and your future. Since you won't be offering her anything except love. So go find true love.

Exactly......

Teetop22:
I've been waiting for this question. now this the answer.
As a single lady with SSCE certificate, trying your best to get a job but job is not coming... automatically you are broke,no money in your account and family to assist no boyfriend,no friends.i have a skill but I don't have money to eat talkless of trying to get a shop to render your service in exchange of money.
I live in a lonely place I stay indoor all day after submitting my CV everywhere I could. I don't even have money to go out because if I do I might starve to death.
No guy is willing to date a broke lady. because they believe they have nothing to offer. it's only when guys are broke they loud it they don't have a girlfriend because no money. What should a lady say in that condition as well?
so if I eventually get a job now a guy will come with fake love and you will expect me to love him back?
I'm not sure.
if I can't find a true love now.
forget it when I get rich. you will only understand this if you are in my shoes... stay blessed everyone.

Ok.

dmcdad:

Gbam! You use that one run the show. Before them go know say e no too dey, them don collect wella...

Na packaging bro.

I always claim I am broke ooooo. That's my style. But I work and I pay my bills very well. I also sell phones and Laptops and even at that I complain I don't have. I use Note 8 and iPhone X, but na me go dey cry pass say money no dey. At the end, na just tfare go end matter. Although, I am not in any relationship, but that one no mean say man no dey run shows wella. It's an art bruv... Trust me!

I will try dat
Do u buy phone I am expecting iPhoneXR month ending I need to sell it add money for XS Max

kunkelhanspeter:


I will try dat
Do u buy phone I am expecting iPhoneXR month ending I need to sell it add money for XS Max

Sure... I buy. How much you wanna sell it?

Biglittlelois:

None of the above, it can't be said here......

Self service?

Remedy1000:
When ever I see a beautiful lady that just finish plaiting her hair...I always admire them so much.

Especially when its the style of hair that I love lolzz..

I have so much respect for women because they are amazing....(would love to share my tot abt dis but let me reserve).

I always believe that women deserve the best in life...

But then, I am not really that bouyant, I dont really have a nice job to provide this things for a woman I will call my own.....No money for now.

So many people do not believe that I am single...maybe my cute face deceive dem lolz ..sometimes cute pple are actually the loneliest because everybody beliv dat de have someone...( hope dat am not sounding proud?)...I love to be sincere, dis is just me.

I am fun to be with....Amazing but I dont want my #Lady to suffer, I want to make her feel like the only woman in the world...

But till then, let me hustle first....Women deserve the best in life, de have suffered enough, der need to feel like a woman for once in life...God bless our women, God bless us all.

are u their father na una dey spoil all dis yeye gurls

Maybe cause I don’t have a job yet and I hardly go out...

ImDStar:

Do u need one?

Yes, I need a responsible one

Lol.

When I am ready, I will just marry my best friend. Relationships can be a mystery this days and I would rather have security.

Now I'm here, i av been waiting for you my dear.

Revolva:
Nigeria girls are not worthy of daring cos they don't know love and can't contribute meaningful to any relationship

u sabi dey are just parasites #team foreign gurls!

tohyorsih2:


All NLers now!

Awe o gbo ONI?

Committed to making money first and being happy alone �

Deepfeel:
To be in a committed relationship with a naija babe this days no easy o , its better to patronize prostitutes once in awhile to release yourself

Overwise dey worry you. Guy, U correct die.

BIXYBABE:
Guys av d mindset that All ladies are d same, even wen u try to prove them wrong, dey will still pull d anger from der previous relationship to u. which is very bad. we can never be d same in life. it apply to both gender. I don't fed up self.

its somehow true naija ladies are more homogeneous dan the guys most good ladies are taken too many yeye ladies out dere

Yay

QueenSekxy:
Some people are actually single but, their private parts are seriously dating.

0ppa:

No, mine is different: I have myriad of marriage customers just waiting for me to finish.
I am still drinking garri without a choice too, so, I can't boast I can keep a relationship. Broke guys need to mend their pieces first. I'll date for marriage not otherwise.

There's a special experience that comes with dating
...so, if you escape it now, you must pass through it in marriage at that time there is no second chance.

I'm not dating because I'm tired of being seen as an ATM.

Most ladies have this mentality of "money for hand, back for ground".

Prostitutes just made their own official, most ladies are olosho. They can't date without dropping all their liabilities on the guy.

aanuoluwami14:
I haven't found a serious man to date

seriously serious ?