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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Bbbwings: 10:43am On May 06, 2019
waywardpikin:


Don't worry bro, I'm praying for you. Someone will send you a DM, insha Allah.

NL girls make una come see ogbonge advert ooo.

Tufia!
grin cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Nobody: 10:44am On May 06, 2019
QueenSekxy:
Some people are actually single but, their private parts are seriously dating. grin
Well Said... Hurtful truth

Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by ritababe(f): 10:44am On May 06, 2019
dmcdad:

Is that how the dating thingy works? You'll just set a time line and boom! You're dating? cheesy


Lmao, time heist according to Scot lang
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by omotolly22(f): 10:44am On May 06, 2019
because am still waiting for the right person
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Kinsalat619(m): 10:49am On May 06, 2019
Maybe because I'm not financially bouyant ATM . I enjoy being maself though
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by BIXYBABE: 10:49am On May 06, 2019
Oluromantic:

How do you prove them wrong?

Is it not same take me out, buy this n that for me, leave ur job n family and give me attention, how much do you have in ur account? Always on d receiving side, no giving and many are even rude despite giving them. Even to sleep with you is d same story so wheres d difference

Nothing exceptional like though I don't have much as u do but I have this token for you.. And I'm not doing it in expectance of any favour in return.. Things that make you valuable.

Honestly I don't see d difference
Hmmmm! U see life now. how will a Lady tell u to take her out when she's not on wheel chair, I guess maybe to buy something for her, tell her to spend her money afterall she's working. A lady will never force u to buy anything for her unless u are willingly to buy it. If she love u she will stay even if u av nothing. My own piece of advice to all singles is dat before u settle down wit any guy/lady ask yourself one question ---- Will I be able to cope wit did person for d rest of my life? Can I tolerate his attribute and everything about him.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by aanuoluwami14(f): 10:50am On May 06, 2019
ariyebaba:




seriously serious ?
Kilode? Wetin
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by safarigirl(f): 10:52am On May 06, 2019
IntrovertedK:
leaning towards lesbianism? stoning? Feminism? Or which of the things that will hurt you later the issue is pushing you toward?
I think she means leaning into fornication, clubbing,dependence on men, living carelessly and all that

I can definitely relate.

@Biglittlelouise, don't lean in, don't be like the rest of them. You have to sift through trash to find treasure sometimes, and Nigeria is particularly filled with trash. Just be who you are, and someone will find you special and love you like that. Never conform and never compromise on your ideals, you may end up in regret. That everyone is doing something doesn't mean it's meant for you.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by BIXYBABE: 10:56am On May 06, 2019
Teetop22:
I've been waiting for this question. now this the answer.
As a single lady with SSCE certificate, trying your best to get a job but job is not coming... automatically you are broke,no money in your account and family to assist no boyfriend,no friends.i have a skill but I don't have money to eat talkless of trying to get a shop to render your service in exchange of money.
I live in a lonely place I stay indoor all day after submitting my CV everywhere I could. I don't even have money to go out because if I do I might starve to death.
No guy is willing to date a broke lady. because they believe they have nothing to offer. it's only when guys are broke they loud it they don't have a girlfriend because no money. What should a lady say in that condition as well?
so if I eventually get a job now a guy will come with fake love and you will expect me to love him back?
I'm not sure.
if I can't find a true love now.
forget it when I get rich. you will only understand this if you are in my shoes... stay blessed everyone.
I really understand u well my dear. that is guy for u. I av been in ur shoe before so I know how it feels. No guy will like to date a jobless girl, immediately u tell them u don't av work they won't call u again, they will be thinking u will be a burden to them. If not for d church going DAT helped me out, I would av commit suicide.

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by shevon: 10:56am On May 06, 2019
IntrovertedK:
Someone asked me this question about two days ago and i have been thinking about it for real.

Like why am i single?

I don't even know obviously.

So let's yarn. The question is for sane minds though.
Thanks
Because I am married wink
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by KubwaBoy: 10:57am On May 06, 2019
Debramaye:
Single life is the best over here grin... Americans don't marry like Nigerians do instead they'll do Bleep buddy till issues come up
But this lady is actually beautiful. Tell me what exactly you want from a guy. Let me see if I have the specs
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Awe4luv(m): 10:57am On May 06, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Cos I'm tired of giving my all and it doesn't work out.... I'm thinking of leaning towards things the Nigerian society frown at, for my peace of mind.
lesbian spotted
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Awe4luv(m): 10:58am On May 06, 2019
Biglittlelois:

None of the above, it can't be said here......
uhm...then I smell masturbation....lotta Love Machine shove up your P***y
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Emytexboy(m): 11:00am On May 06, 2019
lalanice:
Because I just broke up, And I'm tired. If that's not good enough then na d person sabi
are you sure you're not the cause
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Minemrys: 11:00am On May 06, 2019
Scared of it. Commitment and all.
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by XTHRONE(m): 11:00am On May 06, 2019
IntrovertedK:
when boke is the best time to find love. You'd be sure she believes in you, your dreams and your future. Since you won't be offering her anything except love. So go find true love.

Is not, wife cheat on their broke husbands, u can find true love at any stage in life, just go for character and what u want , one advice... Marry ur class.
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Teetop22(f): 11:03am On May 06, 2019
BIXYBABE:

I really understand u well my dear. that is guy for u. I av been in ur shoe before so I know how it feels. No guy will like to date a jobless girl, immediately u tell them u don't av work they won't call u again, they will be thinking u will be a burden to them. If not for d church going DAT helped me out, I would av commit suicide.
Thank God you know how it feels like. I pray God help me out too.
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Emytexboy(m): 11:03am On May 06, 2019
I've not seen one to date, even though am interesting
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by dmcdad: 11:04am On May 06, 2019
ritababe:


Lmao, time heist according to Scot lang
The thing shock me ooooo.cheesy
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by dmcdad: 11:08am On May 06, 2019
Awesome01:
I'm not dating because I'm tired of being seen as an ATM.

Most ladies have this mentality of "money for hand, back for ground".

Prostitutes just made their own official, most ladies are olosho. They can't date without dropping all their liabilities on the guy.
You no sabi guy... Its actually easy. I dey tellz you.cheesy
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by dmcdad: 11:08am On May 06, 2019
Awesome01:
I'm not dating because I'm tired of being seen as an ATM.

Most ladies have this mentality of "money for hand, back for ground".

Prostitutes just made their own official, most ladies are olosho. They can't date without dropping all their liabilities on the guy.
You no sabi guy... Its actually easy. I dey tellz you... cheesy
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by dmcdad: 11:10am On May 06, 2019
omotolly22:
because am still waiting for the right person
You go wait tire...cheesy

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Bigval5: 11:10am On May 06, 2019
BIXYBABE:

I really understand u well my dear. that is guy for u. I av been in ur shoe before so I know how it feels. No guy will like to date a jobless girl, immediately u tell them u don't av work they won't call u again, they will be thinking u will be a burden to them. If not for d church going DAT helped me out, *I would av commit suicide.*

You are insane!
Why make suicide an option?
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by NNAMDIII(m): 11:11am On May 06, 2019
1: I'm broke


2: I'm shy or should i say I'm an introvert



3: I'm short, 1.69metres embarassed

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by crunchyg: 11:11am On May 06, 2019
Teetop22:
I've been waiting for this question. now this the answer.
As a single lady with SSCE certificate, trying your best to get a job but job is not coming... automatically you are broke,no money in your account and family to assist no boyfriend,no friends.i have a skill but I don't have money to eat talkless of trying to get a shop to render your service in exchange of money.
I live in a lonely place I stay indoor all day after submitting my CV everywhere I could. I don't even have money to go out because if I do I might starve to death.
No guy is willing to date a broke lady. because they believe they have nothing to offer. it's only when guys are broke they loud it they don't have a girlfriend because no money. What should a lady say in that condition as well?
so if I eventually get a job now a guy will come with fake love and you will expect me to love him back?
I'm not sure.
if I can't find a true love now.
forget it when I get rich. you will only understand this if you are in my shoes... stay blessed everyone.
Can we talk on Whatsapp?
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by RiyadhGoddess(f): 11:13am On May 06, 2019
I'm not dating because I don't want any emotional stress. I'm Jesus girlfriend
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by blueivy8: 11:13am On May 06, 2019
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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Awesome01(m): 11:13am On May 06, 2019
dmcdad:

You no sabi guy... Its actually easy. I dey tellz you... cheesy

dmcdad my guy, longest time.

What do you mean? the only other option will be to play smart and that involves lying (and that where they get this idea of "guys are assholes" from).
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by RiyadhGoddess(f): 11:14am On May 06, 2019
NNAMDIII:
1: I'm broke


2: I'm shy or should i say I'm an introvert



3: I'm short, 1.69metres embarassed





Looool only you, all these 3?

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by Nobody: 11:14am On May 06, 2019
wunaESQ:
no money . plus good girls de hard to find

Lol

Them plenty well well but most likely they are not that pretty and outgoing... The more you look the less you see gringrin

Look from within not social media and co...

Goodluck!

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Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by wunaESQ(m): 11:21am On May 06, 2019
Tundexxy:


Lol

Them plenty well well but most likely they are not that pretty and outgoing... The more you look the less you see gringrin

Look from within not social media and co...

Goodluck!
hmmm... u r right though.... tnx
Re: Why Are You Presently Not Dating? by RiyadhGoddess(f): 11:21am On May 06, 2019
BIXYBABE:

I really understand u well my dear. that is guy for u. I av been in ur shoe before so I know how it feels. No guy will like to date a jobless girl, immediately u tell them u don't av work they won't call u again, they will be thinking u will be a burden to them. If not for d church going DAT helped me out, I would av commit suicide.






Suicide bawo? Me wey never date any man for my life till date at this my age nko wetin make I do? Please there are more important issues than dating o. Thank God you got rid of the thought of suicide. If no guy wants a lady because the lady is jobless, then forget the guy. Most of these guys looking for ladies with job are parasites looking for where to eat from...

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