Saffi:
This is what they say when they have been defeated and have accepted the truth. Please go and sit down ahbeg you are silly. Chioma Davidos girl is 24. Adesua Etomi and bam bam etc are 30 plus. Please tell me if they look around the same age or not? You are guys are so delusional, please try to have sense. You don’t turn into looking like an ancient grandma the minute you turn 30. Have sense pleaseeeee

Have you met any of them in person or you are judging their looks on the social media.
Photographers can make a 50-year old woman look 25 years.

theoptimist298:


I agree with u but how do u threat a girl like thrash when youre still toasting her? In my opinion u can only pull this after she has fallen for u?

act like she is one of 5 girls you're dealing with. Let her know she's disposable. If only by attitude.

Put yourself first ALWAYS when dealing with her.

Now here is the catch: be really prepared for her to walk out. That's how you play the Game.


Which means: never deal with 1 woman at a time. It weakens your game because it makes you desperate. Which lowers your value.

Saffi:
To any woman reading do not give a man a dime. Not one penny , until he has spent at least 100k+ on you. Then you can just reciprocate with something small on his bday or vday just to be nice. You are not his wife, he is the one chasing you and asking you out, not the other way round,he is begging YOU to get in your pants. You are the prize not him.


I’m out.

Saffi my babe is here again!!U no I follow u every where u go. Girls, listen to this girl and be SINGLE forever!!!

ubunja:

Look around you. In your hood. How many girls have babies?

Babe, I mind my business so I dnt know if I have them even on my street. I don't know their stories so I dnt judge. And I dnt go about asking ladies with babies if they are baby mama's or not. I mind my business.

kikelomojessy:


Babe, I mind my business so I dnt know if I have them even on my street. I don't know their stories so I dnt judge. And I dnt go about asking ladies with babies if they are baby mama's or not. I mind my business.

so close your mouth

Oh please just shut up. They’re women around me who are 30,31 who look 24/25/23. It’s not uncommon. Because relatively it’s still somewhat of the same age group. Women dont start aging noticeably until late 30s or until they start having kids. And even at that it depends on how well the person takes care of themselves. Stop being so dumb please for once.

Polchiz:

Have you met any of them in person or you are judging their looks on the social media.
Photographers can make a 50-year old woman look 25 years.

Saffi:
Oh please just shut up. They’re women around me who are 30,31 who look 24/25/23. It’s not uncommon. Because relatively it’s still somewhat of the same age group. Women dont start aging noticeably until late 30s or until they start having kids. Stop being so dumb please for once.

I am too educated and enlightened to mince words with you.

ubunja:
so close your mouth

Just small talk now you are boiling already, I was on my on with babe wen abi den you carry yourself come quote me.

I bet you can't tell that guy that is treating you bad to shut up.

I wish you all the best.

Lol I will be single till 40 abi? I will be at Shiloh begging for a husband in 2025 abi? I will die lonely and single? . Who hasn’t heard it all before? it doesn’t faze me it’s all manipulation. What is the big deal having a guy spend on you? I’m so sorry but Is that too hard to find? Is that being unrealistic when many guys in Nigeria are guilty of doing this anyways. I’m only telling babes to do what they are ALREADY doin, it’s you men that want to fight against it and have heart attacks. Shior

Omega30:
Saffi my babe is here again!!U no I follow u every where u go. Girls, listen to this girl and be SINGLE forever!!!

You did too stupid and foolish to argue back with meaningful words.

Polchiz:

I am too educated and enlightened to mince words with you.

ubunja:
you don't see how you're playing yourself.

If a girl don't chase you then she never really loved you in the first place. She wanted your attention only.

My babymama chased me. And to this day continues to. If a girl follows you no matter what you do then she is yours. If she doesn't, she was never yours

What the f**k did I just read?
So if you intentionally treat a girl like shit and she still stays then she's a keeper??
I'm so sorry to point this out but you're delusional,you need serious help.

So if a man beats,ignores, neglects,behaves unruly ( and in your case where there is a child - curves his obligations) but she stays,then she's a "keeper"

What ever happened to real men

Saffi:
This is what they say when they have been defeated and have accepted the truth. Please go and sit down ahbeg you are silly. Chioma Davidos girl is 24. Adesua Etomi and bam bam etc are 30 plus. Please tell me if they look around the same age or not? You are guys are so delusional, please try to have sense. You don’t turn into looking like an ancient grandma the minute you turn 30. Have sense pleaseeeee

Sighs. You get upset too easily. And you're have incredibly high opinion of yourself. Using words like silly and have sense. I bet you are really young. It will be a shame if you are over 20 and yet talk this way. Anyway, I may be able to educate you if you are just a little openminded. I already feel bad for derailing this thread, but for some reason I think you need help with rational thinking.

Your first post I responded to was advising any girl reading, yet in your examples, you picked a few celebrities to drive your point. Terribly scanty evidence to form a basis for providing advice. I am amused that for all your education, you think your tiny and selective evidence qualifies for rational discourse.

Well, we can talk about real evidence. There is no better place to understand men's assessment of female sexual market value than the place where men pay for sex.

1. You can see how in this scientific study, a prostitute's earnings starts reducing after the age of 25. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-murder-and-the-meaning-life/201607/link-between-prostitutes-age-and-her-income%3famp
Or maybe the study is wrong. Saffi knows about men's preferences more than they know themselves.

2. A 29 year old woman has pretty much lost 90% of her eggs. That may not matter to "realist" Saffi, and she may convince herself that it doesn't matter to men. But that is her problem. Men know what matters to them and Saffi does not decide that.

Anyway, as I said before, you can assume whatever makes you happy. But it will serve you better to humble yourself and become openminded

ubunja:
call it what you want.

All I know is that it makes women drop their panties and open those legs.

You killed me here
Lmao

A woman has lost 90% of he eggs at 29 loooool . So in the case where a woman is 28 or 27 or 26 she has lost 80 or 70 percent of her eggs abi? Wouldn’t it be more practical if all men married 20, 19 or 18 year olds where all her eggs are in tact 100 percent, since the chances of a 29 year old getting pregnant is practically zero. What is the average age that women get married again in Nigeria? Do you know how stupid you sound. Please you are too senseless to go back and forth with, go and educate yourself and grab a book. Dumbo

GiantParrot:


Sighs. You get upset too easily. And you're have incredibly high opinion of yourself. Using words like silly and have sense. I bet you are really young. It will be a shame if you are over 20 and yet talk this way. Anyway, I may be able to educate you if you are just a little openminded. I already feel bad for derailing this thread, but for some reason I think you need help with rational thinking.

Your first post I responded to was advising any girl reading, yet in your examples, you picked a few celebrities to drive your point. Terribly scanty evidence to form a basis for providing advice. I am amused that for all your education, you think your tiny and selective evidence qualifies for rational discourse.

Well, we can talk about real evidence. There is no better place to understand men's assessment of female sexual market value than the place where men pay for sex.

1. You can see how in this scientific study, a prostitute's earnings starts reducing after the age of 25. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-murder-and-the-meaning-life/201607/link-between-prostitutes-age-and-her-income%3famp
Or maybe the study is wrong. Saffi knows about men's preferences more than they know themselves.

2. A 29 year old woman has pretty much lost 90% of her eggs. That may not matter to "realist" Saffi, and she may convince herself that it doesn't matter to men. But that is her problem. Men know what matters to them and Saffi does not decide that.

Anyway, as I said before, you can assume whatever makes you happy. But it will serve you better to humble yourself and become openminded

Saffi:
A woman has lost 90% of he eggs at 29 loooool . So in the case where a woman is 28 or 27 or 26 she has lost 80 or 70 percent of her eggs abi? Wouldn’t it be more practical if all men married 20, 19 or 18 year olds where all her eggs are in tact 100 percent, since the chances of a 29 year old getting pregnant is practically zero. What is the average age that women get married again in Nigeria? Do you know how stupid you sound. Please you are too senseless to go back and forth with, go and educate yourself and grab a book. Dumbo

The bolded is your conclusion, not mine. I made no such conclusion. And the conclusion is wrong. And you're right, it sounds stupid. And since it is your conclusion, maybe you can see that you sound stupid. I do not invent the facts. As I have consistently maintained, nature cares not about anyone's delusions.

This will be my last response to you. You're uncouth and will not be dignified with any further response.

Thank you o
Tell them o

Saffi:
Lol I will be single till 40 abi? I will be at Shiloh begging for a husband in 2025 abi? I will die lonely and single? . Who hasn’t heard it all before? it doesn’t faze me it’s all manipulation. What is the big deal having a guy spend on you? I’m so sorry but Is that too hard to find? Is that being unrealistic when many guys in Nigeria are guilty of doing this anyways. I’m only telling babes to do what they are ALREADY doin, it’s you men that want to fight against it and have heart attacks. Shior

Sweet heart, I know many naija niggas are manginas.They die by the pussy.And, truly like u said, they do some of these things. But baby, giving girls this mindset will make naija gals very toxic and useless. They will be a commodity, an item that money can buy, hence can be thrashed and dumped anytime. God made women to be suitable partner and not suitable parasite!!

Lordknowz:
I really dont understand why men cant just act like men anymore. Women are very tricky being in nature. They believe in trickying men to make that way thru. Thats why a man should never deal with a woman with emotions cos once they see that your falling stupidly one kind, they'll bounce on you. Instead, men should use strategies. You can always win over their trick with your strategy. In olden days, the warriors & strong men own the best women, They didnt fall stupidly for them & as you can see, the women served them well. Dont get too brainwashed about men needing women the most, its a fallacy of life! They needed us more. You can make it in life without any help from any woman. You can build your house, get your nice dream cars, travel to your dream places without any help from any woman. If not for kids & fun, they're just another human parasite. Men should stop begging for love, its useless. Dont beg for sex, its stupidity. Once you can control yourself over the 2 bullshit, then your a man for life. You'll live long and and sick less. You know when you keep prospering without worries. You go dey gallant!

this is 100percent dope nd so for real

oshaosha2014:
Playfully meet other women in your church for friendship. In fact, zero her from your mind and you’ll see that it doesn’t kill if you don’t talk to her. Our emotions as men deceive us a lot, making us think women are worth all the stress in the first place. At the end of the day, you’ll realise you have been doing all that wahala just to release inside someone’s daughter, it becomes boring after some time esp if she’s the type that believes it is her right to always receive and never reciprocate. Wake up! Meet other woman and live a free agent lifestyle.

She's completely frantic. Coupled with the fact since then i changed my wardrobe and all pretty ladies that join the church keep coming to me. Both she and her sisters can't get it anymore. I''m feeling guilty, it's been six months. I think i should stop, i've even lost control of the situation. I don't know how to pick it back up.

GiantParrot:


Sighs. You get upset too easily. And you're have incredibly high opinion of yourself. Using words like silly and have sense. I bet you are really young. It will be a shame if you are over 20 and yet talk this way. Anyway, I may be able to educate you if you are just a little openminded. I already feel bad for derailing this thread, but for some reason I think you need help with rational thinking.

Your first post I responded to was advising any girl reading, yet in your examples, you picked a few celebrities to drive your point. Terribly scanty evidence to form a basis for providing advice. I am amused that for all your education, you think your tiny and selective evidence qualifies for rational discourse.

Well, we can talk about real evidence. There is no better place to understand men's assessment of female sexual market value than the place where men pay for sex.

1. You can see how in this scientific study, a prostitute's earnings starts reducing after the age of 25. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-murder-and-the-meaning-life/201607/link-between-prostitutes-age-and-her-income%3famp
Or maybe the study is wrong. Saffi knows about men's preferences more than they know themselves.

2. A 29 year old woman has pretty much lost 90% of her eggs. That may not matter to "realist" Saffi, and she may convince herself that it doesn't matter to men. But that is her problem. Men know what matters to them and Saffi does not decide that.

Anyway, as I said before, you can assume whatever makes you happy. But it will serve you better to humble yourself and become openminded

Whenever I read her post, I will just laugh my arsenal out. She's saying she knows what men want. She doesn't even know when a woman start clocking 27, 28, attention and admirers start reducing. Back in the days when we were in hundred level. Girls in our department would be boasting that they can't date their level mate because of the attentions and a lot of admirers they got from big boys and 200L students upwards. They were hot cakes. But the moment we get to 300L reality started hitting on them. The attentions and admirers have reduced because guys they were dating have seen another fresh 100L girls. They were now rushing their level mates they once boasted to.
The same thing is applicable to every girl in our society. Girls between
19-25 years of age will be thinking they are hot cakes, and the whole world revolve around them. But they don't know they are becoming cold cakes the moment they start celebrating 26 years birthday.

ubunja:
what do you mean "recapture" the spot?

What you're seeing is magic happening. She is at a weaker point now. You call the shots. Now really get another girl as she watches.

She's completely frantic. Coupled with the fact since then i changed my wardrobe and all pretty ladies that join the church keep coming to me. Both she and her sisters can't get it anymore. I''m feeling guilty, it's been six months. I think i should stop, i've even lost control of the situation. I don't know how to pick it back up.

Science has concluded that we evolved from apes, I’m sorry but does this make the statement 100 percent true? No 29 year old is even close to being infertile, menopause starts at 45 years plus and fertility doesn’t decline until 35 and rapidly around 39. I’m a woman I know my body and I know the women around me. I’m not going to have one dunce street rat tell me the biology of my body, especially when he is using a stupid inconsequential graph to back up his claims. Smarten up you are too old to be this dumb. Bye for now.

GiantParrot:


The bolded is your conclusion, not mine. I made no such conclusion. And the conclusion is wrong. And you're right, it sounds stupid. And since it is your conclusion, maybe you can see that you sound stupid. I do not invent the facts. As I have consistently maintained, nature cares not about anyone's delusions.

This will be my last response to you. You're uncouth and will not be dignified with any further response.

ubunja:
Jojo thats the truth I tell you. They have not grasped the full equation of relationships: being bad gets you women AT THE BEGINNING WHEN THEY ARE FRESH AND SWEET.
Being good gets you women AT THE END WHEN THEY ARE DAMAGED TRASH.

u re too diplomatic on this one... ahh ahh

this is wickedness

You actually made a lot of sence

Imoh555:
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..

But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..

I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..

She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...

Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......

Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense

You did.I will call you

Saffi:
To any woman reading do not give a man a dime. Not one penny , until he has spent at least 100k+ on you. Then you can just reciprocate with something small on his bday or vday just to be nice. You are not his wife, he is the one chasing you and asking you out, not the other way round,he is begging YOU to get in your pants. You are the prize not him.


I’m out.

Don't worry......Shiloh awaits you

Korllami007:


Whenever I read her post, I will just laugh my arsenal out. [b]She's saying she knows what men want. [/b]She doesn't even know when a woman start clocking 27, 28, attention and admirers start reducing. Back in the days when we were in hundred level. Girls in our department would be boasting that they can't date their level mate because of the attentions and a lot of admirers they got from big boys and 200L students upwards. They were hot cakes. But the moment we get to 300L reality started hitting on them. The attentions and admirers have reduced because guys they were dating have seen another fresh 100L girls. They were now rushing their level mates they once boasted to.
The same thing is applicable to every girl in our society. Girls between
19-25 years of age will be thinking they are hot cakes, and the whole world revolve around them. But they don't know they are becoming cold cakes the moment they start celebrating 26 years birthday.

It's actually funny. A vendor may have a very high opinion of her wares, but what does it matter when the buyer has a low opinion of said wares? The vendor may sing praises of her wares from morning till night, that is irrelevant to the buyer. The wares will grow old with the seller until it is sold at a price the buyer approves of.

Imoh555:



I am very blunt and plain with women especially when criticizing them and telling them they look terrible or they ain't shiit and the good thing is that women love it when you actually don't worship or idolize them,....treat her good and she takes you for granted, treat her like a piece of rag and watch her never wants to depart from you... (boys don't get this logic) it doesn't mean you guys should be women beaters... Thanks for your educations ubunja I hope there are some new stuffs to read from you soon.... I'm starved

I don't agree on this one.

I don’t understand what you are picking up oh. She’s just one of many ladies out there now. I see you have not gotten over her and this is going to be your ultimate undoing. If she doesn’t make any move to reconcile please don’t give her any chance. When I say “move” I mean something concrete, not the one she’s doing in the church oh.

prudentsolution:



She's completely frantic. Coupled with the fact since then i changed my wardrobe and all pretty ladies that join the church keep coming to me. Both she and her sisters can't get it anymore. I''m feeling guilty, it's been six months. I think i should stop, i've even lost control of the situation. I don't know how to pick it back up.

oshaosha2014:
I don’t understand what you are picking up oh. She’s just one of many ladies out there now. I see you have not gotten over her and this is going to be your ultimate undoing. If she doesn’t make any move to reconcile please don’t give her any chance. When I say “move” I mean something concrete, not the one she’s doing in the church oh.

I relate perfectly.

catwalq:


Every time I see something like this,it gets me thinking what it is about women that attracts them to people who treat them like shit? Is it low self esteem, fear of the unknown, age or just plain foolishness? And I don't want to hear LOVE biko..

For heaven's sake everyone - male and female - deserves to be celebrated and appreciated. Why is it difficult to leave the asshole who treats you like shit whether male or female?

u seem touched....but it's the blunt truth u know it deep down.....I have never had much luck around women coz am a soft guy who doesn't derive joy from hurting them, but my friend? u need to see how they flock around him, he abuses, curses and shout at them but they seem to love him that way....